Kashi Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 What are your opinions? Do you think it's wrong, immoral, not a big deal? Disappointing, even? The motivation to make this thread comes from this one, but since pre-marital sex wasn't the original point of that thread, and since everyone clearly found it to be such an interesting topic, I thought it deserved a thread of its own. How do you think having sex before marriage affects the individuals involved? Or the relationship between the two (three? :) ) persons actually doing it*? Do you think that anyone who has sex before marriage is doomed to an eternity amongst the fire eating demons in Hell? If so, please tell us, all opinions are valid here. *Probably a poor choice of words, but ... My greatest ambition is to kill every member of the human race.However I am a realist and therefore know that I probably wont be able to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doomy Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 I was born before my parents married...I went to their wedding :-$ I spose its fine... Doomy edit: I like sheep Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ss_J9_Goten Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 I don't see why it matters as long as both partners are willing. I foresee a smorgasboard of funny replies to come. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kiriyama Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 As long as both parties agree to it, then theres really nothing anyone can say to change their minds. Denizen of Darkness| PSN= sworddude198 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_death_bombs55 Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Quick question, did you get this idea from family guy? My response to pre-marital sex is its ok if you are over 17 and you use a protective item, but thats just my opinion. :-w When you mentioned the Dragon Plates I had a sudden vision of a load of gangsters running around in fancy dress yealling "Grim Reaper in da hood!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baron8000 Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 As long as both parties agree to it, then theres really nothing anyone can say to change their minds. How about "You're under arrest"? :lol: seriously though, provided you're over-age, use protection and both parties are willing then I don't see an issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Well I'm probably going to save myself for marriage but thats just my personal choice. Especially if that's what my partner wants. Though I don't have a problem with either way, though I don't like the fact that there's so many loose chicks out there rooting any male with hormones. And that males think its cool getting with a loose chick for a night. Then they realise that they've contracted that disease they don't want. But if there's a guy and a girl who love each other and have talked it through and use protection then I generally don't see a problem with it, though I still believe its generally better to wait. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matok Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Sex is good for your health. God (or evolution,choose what suits you) created this body for us to enjoy so i'd say its immoral of us not to do it. + i am sure that you dont want any bad surprises in your wedding night :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr_Cheese Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 There was a sitcom on the other night that looked at this issue. they said if you had pre-marital sex what is there to look forward to on the wedding night? Thanks SkyFleet for the awsome siggy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abyssalwhip Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Quick question, did you get this idea from family guy? My response to pre-marital sex is its ok if you are over 17 and you use a protective item, but thats just my opinion. :-w Fly_Death A little ironic I'm watching it right now. Your name is "bet you fail", and you're starting a business with your mom? I'm not even going to touch that..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrOwez Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Girls are from the Devil :shame: Um.. Yeas sex as long as it's safe and both parties agree to it, do what you want... :uhh: A friend to all is a friend to none. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Achilleus Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Sex is fun itshould be seen as a sport Who Cares about marriage, Sex :- Nothing wrong with it atoll its fun and dosent hurt anyone SEX FTW Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginger_Warrior Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Technically speaking I am a bastard (in its literal sense), and my parents never got married, so it would kinda hypocritical for me to make an issue out of it. I don't get what's wrong with it. | Favourite Game Music | Last.fm | HYT Friend Chat Rules | Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biabf Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Before, after, it's all good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forsaken Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 There was a sitcom on the other night that looked at this issue. they said if you had pre-marital sex what is there to look forward to on the wedding night? I was unaware that inexperienced fumbling and feelings of ineptitude from both sides - that are more than likely to eventuate - is viewed as something to 'look forward' to. --- In regards to pre-marital sex, I think it's perfectly fine, and socially I think this is reflected with the rise of de facto relationships. I contend that we are both atheists. I just believe in one fewer god than you do. When you understand why you dismiss all the other possible gods, you will understand why I dismiss yours." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Striker6 Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 We don't live in the 19th century anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Achilleus Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 We don't live in the 19th century anymore. \ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
assassin_696 Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 It's a private act between two consenting people, only religion could make that a problem. "Da mihi castitatem et continentam, sed noli modo" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Striker6 Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 It's a private act between two consenting people, only religion could make that a problem. You're saying your parents, friends or the government dont interfere with people's sex lives? Only Religion? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
assassin_696 Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 It's a private act between two consenting people, only religion could make that a problem. You're saying your parents, friends or the government dont interfere with people's sex lives? Only Religion? Pretty much, the legal age of consent is only really designed so you don't get loads of unwanted pregnancies, but contraception has kind of negated that. "Da mihi castitatem et continentam, sed noli modo" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 It's a private act between two consenting people, only religion could make that a problem. You're saying your parents, friends or the government dont interfere with people's sex lives? Only Religion? If there's a problem in society (or a perceived one) its always religions fault if you're asking for Assassin's opinion. :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fat_Slug Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 i get myself pregnant before i got married(was due to get married in july, found out my daughter was due in the july so we brought the wedding forward to the february. the pill let me down ) i see nothing wrong with it, it doesn't seem right to condemn another persons choice and willingness to have sex with another imo. it was my choice to sleep with my partner before marriage, how do i have the right to say its wrong, when i have done it myself? as long as it is two people who are both willing and able, who are we to judge upon them? live and let live i say Runescape nick : Fat_SlugOwner of Ears, Scythe and a 10 year veteran cape :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
insane Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 It's a private act between two consenting people, only religion could make that a problem. You're saying your parents, friends or the government dont interfere with people's sex lives? Only Religion? If there's a problem in society (or a perceived one) its always religions fault if you're asking for Assassin's opinion. :roll: It's also gravity's fault the planes in 9/11 crashed into the WTCs. But seriously, you can't assign fault to anything that doesn't have some sort of perceived free will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 i get myself pregnant before i got married(was due to get married in july, found out my daughter was due in the july so we brought the wedding forward to the february. the pill let me down ) i see nothing wrong with it, it doesn't seem right to condemn another persons choice and willingness to have sex with another imo. it was my choice to sleep with my partner before marriage, how do i have the right to say its wrong, when i have done it myself? as long as it is two people who are both willing and able, who are we to judge upon them? live and let live i say Just wondering how the pill lets you down? Or did you not use it correctly? Because I thought the pill was a safe alternative to stopping conception? Or is there always a chance of still getting pregnant while using it? Anyway congratulations on your expected child! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forsaken Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 i get myself pregnant before i got married(was due to get married in july, found out my daughter was due in the july so we brought the wedding forward to the february. the pill let me down ) i see nothing wrong with it, it doesn't seem right to condemn another persons choice and willingness to have sex with another imo. it was my choice to sleep with my partner before marriage, how do i have the right to say its wrong, when i have done it myself? as long as it is two people who are both willing and able, who are we to judge upon them? live and let live i say Just wondering how the pill lets you down? Or did you not use it correctly? Because I thought the pill was a safe alternative to stopping conception? Or is there always a chance of still getting pregnant while using it? Anyway congratulations on your expected child! :) It is safe - just like a condom. But condoms are 98% effective, and pills are probably 99% or whatever. Point of fact remains; no system is infallible or perfect. I contend that we are both atheists. I just believe in one fewer god than you do. When you understand why you dismiss all the other possible gods, you will understand why I dismiss yours." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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