August 3, 200916 yr Told a girl I liked her. She liked me back. First time it's worked like that. Nice. :D Whooooaaaa. I wish situations like that for me were that simple. Jeez... :lol:
August 3, 200916 yr Told a girl I liked her. She liked me back. First time it's worked like that. Nice. :D Whooooaaaa. I wish situations like that for me were that simple. Jeez... :lol: My girlfriend asked me if I liked her and I said yes. We then started dating ^Lol French Servers...
August 4, 200916 yr I've explained my situation, about how me and my girlfriend got together, broke up, then got together again. First time, we didn't have to tell eachother we liked eachother, it was jsut obvious. We hung out about as much as we could (Which meant like 1-2 hours a day :| ), and it just became obvious. I asked at her one point "So you'd say we're dating?" Her response was "You haven't asked me out yet". Second time around, we pretty much just asked each other why the hell we weren't dating. Best answer was that she didn't have enough time. I'm pretty sure that technically, she asked me out. I'm glad it worked out that way, I decided a year or so ago that I wasn't going to ask anyone simply to 'be my girlfriend'. Telling someone that you like them probably is a good thing to do. How else will they know? There's no such thing as regret. A regret means you are unhappy with the person you are now,and if you're unhappy with the person you are, you change yourself. Thatregret will no longer be a regret, because it will help to form the new,better you. So really, a regret isn't a regret. It's experience.
August 4, 200916 yr It's kinda depressing when a 12 year old expects you to think they have a girlfriend but dont believe you (15) have a girlfriend... :( WHAT THE [bleep] You have a girlfriend? Yeah right! :lol: 17 ;) Oh he does. After some questioning of him, I have found out she is just simply an idiot. I mean really, would anyone else go out with Ray? I'd tap that. :lol: Popoto.~<3
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August 4, 200916 yr Here's my take. As usual, it's just my blunt opinion based on what I know about natural selection, psychology etc and from experience. Do what you want with it. [hide=]Hey, Just thought I'd give an update on my situation. 3 weeks have passed since I posted that so here's a run-down of each: Week 1: Surprisingly, almost the perfect opportunity arose. We had our breaks together, and most of the other people 'breaking' were down the other end of the room talking, leaving me and her virtually alone. I was so shocked that this opportunity had arose, that I almost chickened out, but thankfully I didn't. Our conversation was quite brief, as her answers were very short, and while I have realised that she is indeed very shy, I'm also hoping that that was a sign she likes me; she feels awkward that the person she likes is talking to her. She also did smile quite a few times and even laughed slightly at something I said, which wasn't particularly funny. (Which apparently are also good signs of attraction.) Expect to do most of the talking at first even if she isn't shy, if she is shy then you will need to talk much more than usual. A quiet person usually only fits with a loud person. Her laughing at an unfunny joke sounds like either attraction or awkwardness, if she is shy she just might laugh to add something to the conversation. But since assuming everything is an IOI is a good way to go, it's attraction. Week 2: A bit of a flop. An opportunity never arose. Week 3: A reasonable opportunity occured right at the beginning which again surprised me. However, I took too long psyching myself up, that the opportunity had passed, and someone else had started talking to her. I was able to salvage something though, as I managed to listen in on the conversation, and learned a bit of personal information about her. Sadly, no other opportunities arose after that.If a guy is talking to her, then go talk to them both rather than 'listen in.' If you listen in, you are demonstrating lower value, if you talk to them both then you demonstrate higher value. Never try to psyche yourself out, it will do more harm than good. Just go talk to her before your brain has a chance to object. Say the first thing that comes to mind, don't stress about 'saying something cool.' What you say is really not important compared to how you say it. You communicate more with your body language, voice tone and speed etc than you do with what you actually say. So in Summary: Week 1 I feel I made progress, and strengthed my suspicions that she likes me. Week 2 didn't have any opportunities. Week 3 I feel a bit annoyed with myself that I missed a chance, but I still learned a few things about her. Also, I'm glad that she did actually turn up each week. I had fears that she might not even be there, as she has missed some weeks in the past. So in future weeks, I plan to keep trying to talk to her as much as possible, which I'm hoping will relieve some of the awkwardness. However, there is 1 big problem looming, in the fact that there is only 7/8 weeks left in the badminton season, before we have a break for 4 months of so. The one thing I want to achieve before then is to get some personal contact detail from her (i.e phone, email), so I can keep in touch with her. For all I know, she might not come back next year. So my main question from this post is: What is the best way to try and acquire this information? (A contact detail of sorts.) - Are there subtle things I should be asking her that may get her to reveal things to me? - Should I somehow offer mine first, and hope she gives back? - Should I be upfront and tell her how I feel? See where this leads? As you can see, I'm a bit unsure on this step. I don't want to rush things, so I do plan to have a few more normal conversations, but I am bound a bit by this looming break. I did originally think that if I talked to her enough, she might make a move, but as I've learnt now how shy she is, I don't think this will happen. I posted the best way to get a number and to 'ask her out' a while back. I'm not typing it out again, but you're welcome to pick through my posts in off topic via search.php?st=0&sk=t&sd=d&author=Iamdan&fid[]=10 to find it. Oh and don't 'tell her how you feel.' It will work occasionally, but generally it does more harm than good because everyone seems to do it waaayy too early. Thanks for reading if you did read all that, and I appreciate any advice given.[/hide]
August 4, 200916 yr It's kinda depressing when a 12 year old expects you to think they have a girlfriend but dont believe you (15) have a girlfriend... :( WHAT THE [bleep] You have a girlfriend? Yeah right! :lol: 17 ;) Oh he does. After some questioning of him, I have found out she is just simply an idiot. I mean really, would anyone else go out with Ray? I'd tap that. :lol: :lol: :| :cry: I'm actually bareable IRL. I dont need a siggy no moar.
August 4, 200916 yr It's kinda depressing when a 12 year old expects you to think they have a girlfriend but dont believe you (15) have a girlfriend... :( WHAT THE [bleep] You have a girlfriend? Yeah right! :lol: 17 ;) Oh he does. After some questioning of him, I have found out she is just simply an idiot. I mean really, would anyone else go out with Ray? I'd tap that. :lol: Wait.... Ray, the idiot or the not-girlfriend? Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming!
August 4, 200916 yr ray, i assure you, he did not. I'm gonna be walking down an alley in varrock, and walka is going to walk up to me in a trench coat and say "psst.. hey man, wanna buy some sara brew"walka92- retired with 99 in attack, strength, defence, health, magic, ranged, prayer and herblore and 137 combat. some day i may return to claim 138 combat, but alas, that time has not yet come
August 4, 200916 yr ray, i assure you, he did not. Matthew <3 Ray. :) im taken though. I dont need a siggy no moar.
August 4, 200916 yr ray, i assure you, he did not. Matthew <3 Ray. :) im taken though. Doesn't stop you attempting to get me. Denizen of Darkness| PSN= sworddude198
August 4, 200916 yr ray, i assure you, he did not. Matthew <3 Ray. :) im taken though. Doesn't stop you attempting to get me. I try but Firefox lags me out and makes everything quit responding for a minute every time i talk to you. I dont need a siggy no moar.
August 4, 200916 yr Sure, that's what stops you :roll:. You're just mad that I keep rejecting you. Denizen of Darkness| PSN= sworddude198
August 4, 200916 yr Matt meant me. I would tap you too. *Goes to sink, rips out the tap and proceeds to bash Ray's head in.* You're just mad that I keep rejecting you. Yeah Ray, keep away, Sword is mine. Sword, less Tip.it and more making sandwiches. Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming!
August 4, 200916 yr Matt meant me. I would tap you too. *Goes to sink, rips out the tap and proceeds to bash Ray's head in.* You're just mad that I keep rejecting you. Yeah Ray, keep away, Sword is mine. Sword, less Tip.it and more making sandwiches. Sorry Mage, you lack a few requirements too. Also, I wouldn't date an Aussie after knowing you and Ray. Also, I do not make the sandwiches, that's your job. Denizen of Darkness| PSN= sworddude198
August 4, 200916 yr It's best not to ask psvstef. :P Back to the moody relationship Issues!! Popoto.~<3
August 4, 200916 yr wtf :? +1. I'm confused. So don't let anyone tell you you're not worth the earth, These streets are your streets, this turf is your turf, Don't let anyone tell you that you've got to give in, Cos you can make a difference, you can change everything, Just let your dreams be your pilot, your imagination your fuel, Tear up the book and write your own damn rules, Use all that heart, hope and soul that you've got, And the love and the rage that you feel in your gut, And realise that the other world that you're always looking for, Lies right here in front of us, just outside this door, And it's up to you to go out there and paint the canvas, After all, you were put on the earth to do this, So shine your light so bright that all can see, Take pride in being whoever the [bleep] you want to be.
August 4, 200916 yr Matt meant me. I would tap you too. *Goes to sink, rips out the tap and proceeds to bash Ray's head in.* You're just mad that I keep rejecting you. Yeah Ray, keep away, Sword is mine. Sword, less Tip.it and more making sandwiches. No no you love me And yeah guys dont ask, I only have an 80% idea of whats going on, Sword just makes some random [cabbage] up and I go along with it for lols. I dont need a siggy no moar.
August 4, 200916 yr Matt meant me. I would tap you too. *Goes to sink, rips out the tap and proceeds to bash Ray's head in.* You're just mad that I keep rejecting you. Yeah Ray, keep away, Sword is mine. Sword, less Tip.it and more making sandwiches. Sorry Mage, you lack a few requirements too. Also, I wouldn't date an Aussie after knowing you and Ray. Also, I do not make the sandwiches, that's your job. You know that you're mine. Aussies cannot compare to my superior Brittish accent. That's why you're on the TZDF blackdawn. Even your balls can tear zombies to shreds.
August 4, 200916 yr You know that you're mine. Aussies cannot compare to my superior Brittish accent. Oh no you didn't! British accents are too high pitch and annoying, I haven't heard 1 British accent that I think sounds cool or sexy. Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming!
August 4, 200916 yr You know that you're mine. Aussies cannot compare to my superior Brittish accent. Oh no you didn't! British accents are too high pitch and annoying, I haven't heard 1 British accent that I think sounds cool or sexy. There is no [bleep]in' British accent. However, when it comes to accents, I prefer the English one. And I thought I told you two, the Scottish accent gets all the girls. Denizen of Darkness| PSN= sworddude198
August 4, 200916 yr You know that you're mine. Aussies cannot compare to my superior Brittish accent. Oh no you didn't! British accents are too high pitch and annoying, I haven't heard 1 British accent that I think sounds cool or sexy. There is no [bleep]' British accent. However, when it comes to accents, I prefer the English one. And I thought I told you two, the Scottish accent gets all the girls. I have been told time and time again I have an English accent, I just realised I typed British, so I fail on that post. But it is actually English accents that get the girls. That's why you're on the TZDF blackdawn. Even your balls can tear zombies to shreds.
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