I just want to point out that SHE WANTS YOU.

 

 

 

Ya rly. Go for it!

 

 

 

 

 

But once again I have el problamo.

 

 

 

Geed is currently in a decently happy long-distance relationship for the past 5-ish months. I like this girl. But, a girl I'v liked from before being in this long distance relationship finally admitted she likes me. She lives in my town, we both do track, and have been good friends for quite some time.

 

 

 

I feel caught in the middle. I like em both about equally. One lives close, one lives far. I hate to sound almost heartless (because im quite the opposite, I just dont know what to do in this situation), but whats your opinions on this?

 

 

 

*sigh* Once again,

 

~Geed

 

 

 

help?

We can't tell you who you like...

Flip a coin?

 

 

 

Now that gives me an idea...

Well, since one lives far, and one lives close, if they don't know eachother, you can date them both, and see which one you end up liking more.

Well, since one lives far, and one lives close, if they don't know eachother, you can date them both, and see which one you end up liking more.

 

 

 

Yeah, because two timing is always a good idea -.-

 

 

 

Grow up.

Well, since one lives far, and one lives close, if they don't know eachother, you can date them both, and see which one you end up liking more.

 

 

 

Yeah, because two timing is always a good idea -.-

 

 

 

Grow up.

 

Well it's probably the best advice he's going to get... We can't pick for him, best he can do is talk to both until one wins.

Well, since one lives far, and one lives close, if they don't know eachother, you can date them both, and see which one you end up liking more.

 

 

 

Yeah, because two timing is always a good idea -.-

 

 

 

Grow up.

 

I was joking. lol.

Well, since one lives far, and one lives close, if they don't know eachother, you can date them both, and see which one you end up liking more.

 

 

 

Yeah, because two timing is always a good idea -.-

 

 

 

Grow up.

 

I was joking. lol.

 

 

 

It was a crap joke.

Well, since one lives far, and one lives close, if they don't know eachother, you can date them both, and see which one you end up liking more.

 

 

 

Yeah, because two timing is always a good idea -.-

 

 

 

Grow up.

 

I was joking. lol.

 

 

 

It was a crap joke.

 

your mom is a crap joke.

Well, since one lives far, and one lives close, if they don't know eachother, you can date them both, and see which one you end up liking more.

 

 

 

Yeah, because two timing is always a good idea -.-

 

 

 

Grow up.

 

Haha, maybe you should? Dating more than one person isn't some sort of TURRIBLE TURRIBLE SIN that requires holy water and an exorcism. As long as he isn't all dodgy about it or anything, and if there's sex involved it's safe, it's a totally accepted thing (off of internet forums, I guess).

 

 

 

I wouldn't recommend it for a student, though, because nobody involved will be mature enough to sustain it. But, seriously, it isn't two-timing. It's not like the second you ask a girl to get some coffee, you should rush and change your facebook status to "I LOVE HER SO MUCH".

 

 

 

Just choose one, Boris. Who gives a [cabbage]. I personally flip a dime. Much more difficult to catch if you throw it high, and if you drop it you have to throw it again. Can lead to hours of enjoyment if you have bad hand-eye coordination. Or, you'll shoot your eye out.

Sworddude, get off your period.

 

Deathdrow, be funny.

 

Settled?

 

 

 

On an ON-T note, I don't consider grabbing coffee dating.

Something small like coffee or ice cream and something active like just running around a park are my favorite first dates. Now, lately I haven't gotten PAST a first date, but hey, cross that bridge when I come to it...

 

 

 

Something like that is nice for me though, because I swore to myself that I wouldn't be an AFC and try to buy women's love, but a two dollar cup of coffee is fine, really. I have to change my rules since I'm in high school. In Lubbock. Both crappy situations.

 

 

 

Whenever I hang out with my brother and his friends, I dress pretty nice. Me and my brother went out to the mall and some other places this weekend, and we both dressed pretty good. Got a lot better reactions than the guys in jeans and a t-shirt, because people expect it there. Here, if you wear more than jeans and a t-shirt you're actually outcasted. Really [developmentally delayed]ed.

 

 

 

But what are your dating strategies?

I make no claim that I would know how a girl thinks however. I, like almost all guys, wish I knew. If Goddess still frequented the forum, I'd tell you to talk to her.

 

 

 

I'm more likely to reply to private messages than threads these days ;)

 

And here I thought you disappeared all together.

 

 

 

Edit:

 

 

 

After catching up to what I've missed from being up at my cottage for the long weekend, a few comments:

 

First, a little message for anyone looking to get a girlfriend or even just friends..

 

YOU ARE A MAN

 

or a woman

 

LET THEM KNOW THAT, PROVE IT TO THEM, AND YOU WILL HAVE THEM.

 

Also known as confidence. Have it and show it.

 

 

 

What is a good p lace to take a girl on their first date

 

Use your imagination. Find something that both of you like to do. Involve it. If you can, I'd say something where both of you have chances to show off to eachother. Just as long as it's fun. But remember to be creative.

 

 

 

doc_roe, all I can say is go with the person you can see. I'd explain why, but I don't have the time right now.

It's not like the second you ask a girl to get some coffee, you should rush and change your facebook status to "I LOVE HER SO MUCH".

 

 

 

maybe thats where im going wrong.

But what are your dating strategies?

 

It's not about strategies, I just mean I can hang out with a girl and go grab a coffee and not call it a date, because it's not going to be something really aimed at a relationship. For a date I'd probably go somewhere a bit more special like the Canal in the winter, it's frozen so you can go skating, there's maple taffy stands where they take boiled up maple syrup, pour it on ice and instantly get candy (but I've never been able to do it. :(), get a Beavertail (not a real one, it's long, flat fried bread dough with toppings like Nutella or cinnamon and sugar,) ice sculpture expositions and other fun winter stuff.

But what are your dating strategies?

 

It's not about strategies, I just mean I can hang out with a girl and go grab a coffee and not call it a date, because it's not going to be something really aimed at a relationship. For a date I'd probably go somewhere a bit more special like the Canal in the winter, it's frozen so you can go skating, there's maple taffy stands where they take boiled up maple syrup, pour it on ice and instantly get candy (but I've never been able to do it. :(), get a Beavertail (not a real one, it's long, flat fried bread dough with toppings like Nutella or cinnamon and sugar,) ice sculpture expositions and other fun winter stuff.

 

I love beaver tails. and that canal in the winter, it's awesome, even though I can't skate.

 

That'd be an awesome place to go on a date.

 

Mainly because it's really purdy, and beaver tails are delicious.

It's not like the second you ask a girl to get some coffee, you should rush and change your facebook status to "I LOVE HER SO MUCH".

 

 

 

maybe thats where im going wrong.

 

HOLY CRAP. I think you need advice badly. I'm going to read way too much into that little snippet of sentence, but I wouldn't be surprised if a good deal was right.

 

 

 

So, whenever you ask a girl out, you start considering her your one and only girlfriend, eh? Have to change all your stupid facebook and myspace or whatevers? Don't. You just asked her out. It isn't a big deal. It's a tiny deal. It's just two people who think they might have a good time together. Now, high school of course will try to throw a twist on it, but try not to succumb.

 

 

 

Just take it chillaxed. You guys date for a while and decide you really like each other, decide together that you'll start broadcasting you're a couple. Is that how you do it? I can't help with long-term, sorry.

 

 

 

It's not about strategies, I just mean I can hang out with a girl and go grab a coffee and not call it a date, because it's not going to be something really aimed at a relationship. For a date I'd probably go somewhere a bit more special like the Canal in the winter, it's frozen so you can go skating, there's maple taffy stands where they take boiled up maple syrup, pour it on ice and instantly get candy (but I've never been able to do it. :(), get a Beavertail (not a real one, it's long, flat fried bread dough with toppings like Nutella or cinnamon and sugar,) ice sculpture expositions and other fun winter stuff.

 

Oh, that's what you meant. Well, yeah, calling it a date just throws too much pressure on it. I'd just call it hanging out, but you should aim it at a relationship. Now, you have great ideas for dates, and you could really sweep a girl off her feet with some of them - but if you can't follow up, you'll fall apart quick.

 

 

 

Ah, you're lucky you live in a big lively city. Even once I can drive, the most romantic thing to do is drive out to some fields late at night. It's a lot more boring than you'd imagine, honestly.

Ah, you're lucky you live in a big lively city. Even once I can drive, the most romantic thing to do is drive out to some fields late at night. It's a lot more boring than you'd imagine, honestly.

 

It's not that big, about 1 million people. Winterlude, which is what I was talking about, is the only "dateish" thing I can think of right now, along with Gatineau park.

 

"Great" dates in Ottawa: http://www.ottawakiosk.com/dating_great_dates.html

 

 

 

I don't think I have it as bad as you do, but at least you have girls to pick from right? :lol:

I lol'd so hard at lent calling ottawa lively. Ottawa is one of the most boring cities I can possibly think of. I mean it's got some nice places, but it's boring as hell for the most part.

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That's, like, a [bleep]ing castle.[/hide]

 

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Yeah.[/hide]

 

Pshaw.

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That's, like, a [bleep] castle.[/hide]

 

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Yeah.[/hide]

 

Pshaw.

 

 

 

I'd assume if you live in Lubbock you have plenty of things to do, any college town should be plenty exciting. Especially this time of year, Lubbock should be rockin'.

After catching up to what I've missed from being up at my cottage for the long weekend, a few comments:

 

First, a little message for anyone looking to get a girlfriend or even just friends..

 

YOU ARE A MAN

 

or a woman

 

LET THEM KNOW THAT, PROVE IT TO THEM, AND YOU WILL HAVE THEM.

 

Also known as confidence. Have it and show it.

 

 

 

Yes, take it from Aquarius. Whenever he sees a girl he likes, he just walks up and whips out his manparts, to show the girl in question that he is, in fact, a man.

 

 

 

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That's, like, a [bleep] castle.[/hide]

 

[hide=First Google Image result for "Lubbock"]

 

Yeah.[/hide]

 

Pshaw.

 

Toronto is much better :thumbup:

 

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Also, in that pic of the parliament buildings, it looks like they're flying the French flag at the top haha.

:wall:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I have to pay Ottawa a visit some time during the Winter and skate the Canal. Oh and Lent, that "castle" is our parliament building ;)

 

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The friend zone. D:

Ok I finally got around to posting this.

 

 

 

So there's this really cute girl in my math class I've uhh been... "noticing". Anyways on Friday my math teacher put us into groups that we'll be with for the rest of the unit and she's in my group. So I wasn't really prepared for this, and when we sat down with our groups I think I seemed a little nervous cause I didn't want to [bleep] this first impression thing up, but anyways, she seemed a little nervous and our eyes met a couple times and we both looked away quickly. So then at the end of class when I was about to go and hand my paper in, she offered do to it for me 8-). Now that was something really small but that's a good sign right? She isn't in any of my other classes put I did walk by her a few times in the hallway and she looked at me, butmy idiot self thought it would be a had idea to hold eye contact, so I acted like I didn't notice her :wall:.

 

 

 

She seems reallllllllly nice and she's smart (at least in math), and like super cute (like practically a 10)...

 

 

 

So what should I do tommorow, I have math first period everyday FYI.

 

 

 

Oh and lots of responses please I only have 9 hours and 20 minutes till I gotta leave for school.