Sister's best friend? Personally I would stay away from her. You'll probably break up, and likely your sister will lose her best friend.

 

But I'm pretty sure you hate your sister anyways, so just go for the cool older brother thing. Odds are she thinks you're cute right now anyways.

 

Actually, Mage seems to get on pretty well with his sister.

 

Anyway, as I told you, go for it. If I'm remembering right, she's shown some interest in you, correct? And if it bothers you, ask what your sister thinks first.

If you don't hate your sibling a little you aren't siblings.

Anyone wanna give me some advice on what to do?

 

So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, we started hanging out and talking everyday, and we even have a couple classes together. We hang out everyday and we talk every night, and I really like her but I really don't know for sure if she likes me. She drops hints a lot that she likes me but she always hangs out with other guys and flirts with them when we're hanging out. Last night we were talking and she told me about "some guy" that she really likes, she wants to tell him that she likes him but she doesn't want to ruin their friendship. I ask some questions and I could fit the description but again I'm not so sure if it is me that she's talking about. Her birthday is coming up this weekend and I want to tell her how I feel but I don't know if I should.

 

Any advice on how to handle this?

She digs you, I bet. You gotta jump on the opportunity.

 

You have to realize that sometimes the coolest and most fun people flirt with everyone. I certainly do, and lately I've decided to start escalating it even more because I've noticed some hilarious results at school. I don't really enjoy dating girls I go to school with, but that's a whole other story. It's just fun. You should try it sometime.

 

And never, even "tell a girl how you feel" unless you've been dating for a while. And even then, don't pour your heart out all sappily. Life isn't a Meg Ryan movie. If anything, try to make it a Clint Eastwood. Simple things to make her feel good are great, like a simple, cool "You really are a cool girl" or something along those lines to let her know you dig her but you aren't obsessed with her.

 

I know two girls that I'm pretty much positive are into me, but I really just don't want to. One of them is pretty cool, and she's hot as hell, but I'm known her for a while and she gets on my nerves sometimes :/ Then the other girl's really cool, not much to look at, but really fun to be around, I'm just not really attracted to her.

 

Oh well. I should probably try to actually have a "girlfriend" sometime.

 

 

 

 

.... Naaaah.

Anyone wanna give me some advice on what to do?

 

So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, we started hanging out and talking everyday, and we even have a couple classes together. We hang out everyday and we talk every night, and I really like her but I really don't know for sure if she likes me. She drops hints a lot that she likes me but she always hangs out with other guys and flirts with them when we're hanging out. Last night we were talking and she told me about "some guy" that she really likes, she wants to tell him that she likes him but she doesn't want to ruin their friendship. I ask some questions and I could fit the description but again I'm not so sure if it is me that she's talking about. Her birthday is coming up this weekend and I want to tell her how I feel but I don't know if I should.

 

Any advice on how to handle this?

If you want to be her friend, do what you're doing.

 

If you want to be her boyfriend, ask her out on a date.

 

The maths of society are complex.

Lent has a point about flirting. Sometimes I hate myself for flirting too much though, since I do it without even meaning to, apparently, and sometimes it hurts people if I'm not really that interested in them. Oh well.

She might be talking about you with the liking someone. I used to do that occasionally when I was talking to someone I like, but most guys don't take hints too well, so I stopped doing that once I realized that it just confused them.

Reb has a point too, unless she asks you out, which isn't too likely, you'll end up just being friends.

Anyone wanna give me some advice on what to do?

 

So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, we started hanging out and talking everyday, and we even have a couple classes together. We hang out everyday and we talk every night, and I really like her but I really don't know for sure if she likes me. She drops hints a lot that she likes me but she always hangs out with other guys and flirts with them when we're hanging out. Last night we were talking and she told me about "some guy" that she really likes, she wants to tell him that she likes him but she doesn't want to ruin their friendship. I ask some questions and I could fit the description but again I'm not so sure if it is me that she's talking about. Her birthday is coming up this weekend and I want to tell her how I feel but I don't know if I should.

 

Any advice on how to handle this?

If you want to be her friend, do what you're doing.

 

If you want to be her boyfriend, ask her out on a date.

 

The maths of society are complex.

Or you could do something that was mentioned a few pages back.

If she seems to be hinting at you ask her if shes asking you out on a date, but act really friendly.

If she says no, it's not as bad as you getting rejected straight up and if she says yes you win.

Just to go slightly off topic, I thought women liked young guys? After being so desperate I looked at one of those online dating sites, 80% of women at the age of 18-19 all wanted guys over the age of 22. Sheesh, I thought it was hard enough getting a girl back then but this? no wonder some of us are stuck single until were 30 and missing a lifetime of stuff.

 

to unspam: @Craiglowery, I say go for it. you'll never know.

Women around 18-19 usually like dating guys their age or a little bit older, occasionally a lot older. They generally like a little older at all ages.

 

Girls don't date younger guys a lot, though. Until this societal obsession with cougars came along, that is. Maybe you should set your sights higher, eh?

Ergh. It feels weird dating someone who would be over 21, especially when i'm an unemployed college student. :|

Anyone wanna give me some advice on what to do?

 

So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, we started hanging out and talking everyday, and we even have a couple classes together. We hang out everyday and we talk every night, and I really like her but I really don't know for sure if she likes me. She drops hints a lot that she likes me but she always hangs out with other guys and flirts with them when we're hanging out. Last night we were talking and she told me about "some guy" that she really likes, she wants to tell him that she likes him but she doesn't want to ruin their friendship. I ask some questions and I could fit the description but again I'm not so sure if it is me that she's talking about. Her birthday is coming up this weekend and I want to tell her how I feel but I don't know if I should.

 

Any advice on how to handle this?

If you want to be her friend, do what you're doing.

 

If you want to be her boyfriend, ask her out on a date.

 

The maths of society are complex.

Or you could do something that was mentioned a few pages back.

If she seems to be hinting at you ask her if shes asking you out on a date, but act really friendly.

If she says no, it's not as bad as you getting rejected straight up and if she says yes you win.

 

That's quite a cowardly approach, though, and if I were that girl, I'd probably say no just to be contrary and to punish the guy for being a coward.

 

Then again, not every woman is as difficult as I am, so it might work.

Thats quite a cowardly approach, though, and if I were that girl, I'd probably say no just to be contrary and to punish the guy for being a coward.

 

Then again, not every woman is as difficult as I am, so it might work.

We should go out some time. You going to be in New York anytime soon?

I had the worst test thrown at me last night at a pub. I was flirting with a bartender, when another female barkeep comes up and tells me I look too young to be in a bar. I could handle that, and replied with something like 'yeah I'm 13, gotta love my fake id.' That would have worked most of the time, but she wasn't finished and came back with 'you look 5.' Boom. I had nothing. Came up with I will look 20 when I'm 80 while she will look like a catchers mitt about 10 seconds later. You always think of the best things to say when it's too late :(

 

Girls that get hit on a lot (bartenders for example) will tend to test more often, and more aggressively. They aren't [bleep]es, they just have a '[bleep] shield' to fend off all the low value guys who can't handle it. Once you start passing them they are usually really nice people.

this is a bit off-topic but Rebdragon What is this! You've basically left Rs but your posting on TIF Off Topic?! GET ON SODB NAOW!

 

 

and Sumpta, I wouldn't always say thats the case. I've played it like that before and when he asked that I said something like.... I don't know, maybe you should ask sometime in person :)

 

But anyway, women play it how we want it, we control you all! :D

You always think of the best things to say when it's too late :(

Esprit d'escalier. ;)

But anyway, women play it how we want it, we control you all! :D

And we love/hate you because of it.

Me again. :rolleyes:

Anyways I was thinking I wouldn't ask anyone to homecoming, but a friend of mine told me that I should go with this girl to homecoming. I really like her, she seems a bit out of my league tbh, but I guess aim high :P He said he was talking with her about going with me.

 

We hang out quite a lot just as friends, but lately she's been laughing at a lot of stuff I've said and had started flirting with me during class.

 

What should I do. And how should one 'ask somebody out' to homecoming :P

What should I do. And how should one 'ask somebody out' to homecoming :P

 

"You should come to homecoming with me."

What should I do. And how should one 'ask somebody out' to homecoming :P

 

"You should come to homecoming with me."

:wall: I R ST00P1D

What should I do. And how should one 'ask somebody out' to homecoming :P

 

"You should come to homecoming with me."

 

 

You could do that.... or try something clever and fun!

 

like a rose and a note on the locker asking her to homecoming

 

In most cases though, you never know. If you don't try you won't succeed :)

I'm sort of scared in relationships because i was talking to this one girl in seventh grade and she told my mom we were moving too fast, even though I only talked to her a couple times about homework and stuff :blink:

 

Now i'm scared of getting rejected. I guess just go for it.

I had the worst test thrown at me last night at a pub. I was flirting with a bartender, when another female barkeep comes up and tells me I look too young to be in a bar. I could handle that, and replied with something like 'yeah I'm 13, gotta love my fake id.' That would have worked most of the time, but she wasn't finished and came back with 'you look 5.' Boom. I had nothing. Came up with I will look 20 when I'm 80 while she will look like a catchers mitt about 10 seconds later. You always think of the best things to say when it's too late :(

 

Girls that get hit on a lot (bartenders for example) will tend to test more often, and more aggressively. They aren't [bleep]es, they just have a '[bleep] shield' to fend off all the low value guys who can't handle it. Once you start passing them they are usually really nice people.

Off Topic: That "The Game" book that Ryan gave me from you, so far is a load of bollocks. it barely teaches anything that supposed to help a guy who's extremely shy. >:(

I had the worst test thrown at me last night at a pub. I was flirting with a bartender, when another female barkeep comes up and tells me I look too young to be in a bar. I could handle that, and replied with something like 'yeah I'm 13, gotta love my fake id.' That would have worked most of the time, but she wasn't finished and came back with 'you look 5.' Boom. I had nothing. Came up with I will look 20 when I'm 80 while she will look like a catchers mitt about 10 seconds later. You always think of the best things to say when it's too late :(

 

Girls that get hit on a lot (bartenders for example) will tend to test more often, and more aggressively. They aren't [bleep]es, they just have a '[bleep] shield' to fend off all the low value guys who can't handle it. Once you start passing them they are usually really nice people.

Off Topic: That "The Game" book that Ryan gave me from you, so far is a load of bollocks. it barely teaches anything that supposed to help a guy who's extremely shy. >:(

 

I was the one who was saying don't read the game for advice. I've always recommended the mystery method. The venusian arts handbook is apparently a later version of the mystery method by the same author but I haven't read it.

I had the worst test thrown at me last night at a pub. I was flirting with a bartender, when another female barkeep comes up and tells me I look too young to be in a bar. I could handle that, and replied with something like 'yeah I'm 13, gotta love my fake id.' That would have worked most of the time, but she wasn't finished and came back with 'you look 5.' Boom. I had nothing. Came up with I will look 20 when I'm 80 while she will look like a catchers mitt about 10 seconds later. You always think of the best things to say when it's too late :(

 

Girls that get hit on a lot (bartenders for example) will tend to test more often, and more aggressively. They aren't [bleep]es, they just have a '[bleep] shield' to fend off all the low value guys who can't handle it. Once you start passing them they are usually really nice people.

Off Topic: That "The Game" book that Ryan gave me from you, so far is a load of bollocks. it barely teaches anything that supposed to help a guy who's extremely shy. >:(

It was Lent that recommended it.

I had the worst test thrown at me last night at a pub. I was flirting with a bartender, when another female barkeep comes up and tells me I look too young to be in a bar. I could handle that, and replied with something like 'yeah I'm 13, gotta love my fake id.' That would have worked most of the time, but she wasn't finished and came back with 'you look 5.' Boom. I had nothing. Came up with I will look 20 when I'm 80 while she will look like a catchers mitt about 10 seconds later. You always think of the best things to say when it's too late :(

 

Girls that get hit on a lot (bartenders for example) will tend to test more often, and more aggressively. They aren't [bleep]es, they just have a '[bleep] shield' to fend off all the low value guys who can't handle it. Once you start passing them they are usually really nice people.

Off Topic: That "The Game" book that Ryan gave me from you, so far is a load of bollocks. it barely teaches anything that supposed to help a guy who's extremely shy. >:(

It was Lent that recommended it.

I blame Lent then. BLAMEEEEE!

Oh teh noes you guys oh teh noes.

 

High school is a [bleep]ing joke lol.