Undo, I'm sure deep down you are a normal person, but your insatiable appetite for trolling means that unless you change your attitude, no-one will ever take you seriously. You last remark sort of confirms that.

 

I troll countless Forums for entertainment.

Until recently, I've set back on Tip.it as the Staff seems to have an active upkeep - Which I find admirable.

However, this explains my inactivity here to an extent compared by increased activity on the other Forums.

Ever since my unfair demotion on the RS Forums, I figured there was nowhere left to go but down.

So after numerous warnings to end the spam of which I ignored, I was iped from all my accounts.

A great decision on JaGeX's part, a realization I had been given.

That if there was any lesson to be learned from being a troll, it's to not care what the cyber world thinks of me seeing as they impact me little to none.

I'm not bipolar, but the way people reply to eachother & directly towards myself make my personality split leading you & myself to think I am indeed a mental patient.

 

My real life is amazing. I'm with who I want to be with, I have all I want to have, & I'm doing exactly what I want to do.

I can handle any change of a scenario in my life very well & move on from it more-so quickly than anyone else could.

I am who I am.

& I'm certainly not changing for a few warning signs & a kick in the nuts.

Sorry to go off-topic, but Undo, you're just looking for attention and you have been all along. You know, when you joined, you were a female.

 

Anyways, my point is that trolling is funny. Distinguish between trolling and spam, please.

I wish I liked girls. Or, a girl. Is it so much to ask? For one? I refuse to lower my standards, and being alone is far better than leading a girl on just for the company (not sex).

 

It's just, when a girl starts to like me, I lose interest immediately. It's bad. I want to like them, and I certainly would like to think I nonetheless leave them better than when I met them. I just feel like I should do better.

 

Ah. Well.

When a girl starts to like you, you feel like you could do better than her basically?

I wish I liked girls. Or, a girl. Is it so much to ask? For one? I refuse to lower my standards, and being alone is far better than leading a girl on just for the company (not sex).

 

It's just, when a girl starts to like me, I lose interest immediately. It's bad. I want to like them, and I certainly would like to think I nonetheless leave them better than when I met them. I just feel like I should do better.

 

Ah. Well.

You're just such an amazing guy overall that its hard for you to find girls that intrigue you. You'll find one that you don't lose interest in, she'll probably be a fun challenge type of girl though, that looks like your type.

When a girl starts to like you, you feel like you could do better than her basically?

 

 

I wish I liked girls. Or, a girl. Is it so much to ask? For one? I refuse to lower my standards, and being alone is far better than leading a girl on just for the company (not sex).

 

It's just, when a girl starts to like me, I lose interest immediately. It's bad. I want to like them, and I certainly would like to think I nonetheless leave them better than when I met them. I just feel like I should do better.

 

Ah. Well.

You're just such an amazing guy overall that its hard for you to find girls that intrigue you. You'll find one that you don't lose interest in, she'll probably be a fun challenge type of girl though, that looks like your type.

Adding on to my post, I feel that Zyg is right when it comes to the whole challenge thing, it'll be difficult for you at first, but worth it in the end.

Maybe there's just no girl in that town that even interests him? Or he could just be burnt out. Maybe take a break for a bit?

nah, I see Lent as a chaser. Any girl he ends up with for an extended period of time is going to throw him for a loop. Which is interestingly countered by most guys feelings of "hey I'm just gonna give up because she isn't making this super easy for me". Lent likes the kind of girl that'll shoot him down once or twice. A true predator/prey scenario.

 

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In a sense, maybe you didn't go too far. Being open to experimentation makes things interesting, wouldn't you think?

nah, I see Lent as a chaser. Any girl he ends up with for an extended period of time is going to throw him for a loop. Which is interestingly countered by most guys feelings of "hey I'm just gonna give up because she isn't making this super easy for me". Lent likes the kind of girl that'll shoot him down once or twice. A true predator/prey scenario.

Yea, what I meant.

You guys are right in ways. I like to change up whether I'll be the hunter or hunted on a given day.

 

And the amazing guy part was nice, Zyg.

You guys are right in ways. I like to change up whether I'll be the hunter or hunted on a given day.

 

And the amazing guy part was nice, Zyg.

Well Lent, you wouldn't be having the problem with girls being too easy and not being "good" enough for you if you weren't completely awesome right?

Hey TIF, i'm in need of some advice. Here's a bit of backstory: last year, I started going out with this guy. We got on reasonably well as a couple, but, I dunno, I guess he isn't that much of a romantic and certainly isn't as confident as I am with other guys, with me being his first boyfriend. Anyway, all went alright, even though we didn't spend too much time together or do much together, up until about July, which is when my troubles began. Around July, he stopped speaking to me for about 2 months. I'm not sure whether he meant to or not. At this point, as far as I knew, we were still together. After a lot of messing around, he finally starts speaking to me again and tells me he doesn't want to be with me anymore, but he might at some point in the future as he'd had a lot on his mind lately.

 

Slowly but surely from then on, we started talking more and then started to see eachother again. It's more or less the same story as before, though, he doesn't want to be with me, even though he really likes me. Then it comes to about 2 weeks ago. I'm starting sixth form and he's starting college. We'd been seeing eachother a bit and we had started getting on better than ever before. Everything was looking up. Up until he got Halo: reach. I went with him to the launch so he could get the game and it was a fun night, he said he'd start talking to me more than before and we had a cute little 'moment' when we parted ways. That was about 2 weeks ago and since, i've only really spoken to him once or twice and i've only seen him for a split second. Hopefully i'm going to see him tommorow and get to talk to him properly about all this. I really think that we belong together and I want him to see that as well.

 

Would you say that Reach has replaced me in his life? What do you suggest I do? I just want him back. :cry:

 

Thanks in advance

Hey TIF, i'm in need of some advice. Here's a bit of backstory: last year, I started going out with this guy. We got on reasonably well as a couple, but, I dunno, I guess he isn't that much of a romantic and certainly isn't as confident as I am with other guys, with me being his first boyfriend. Anyway, all went alright, even though we didn't spend too much time together or do much together, up until about July, which is when my troubles began. Around July, he stopped speaking to me for about 2 months. I'm not sure whether he meant to or not. At this point, as far as I knew, we were still together. After a lot of messing around, he finally starts speaking to me again and tells me he doesn't want to be with me anymore, but he might at some point in the future as he'd had a lot on his mind lately.

 

Slowly but surely from then on, we started talking more and then started to see eachother again. It's more or less the same story as before, though, he doesn't want to be with me, even though he really likes me. Then it comes to about 2 weeks ago. I'm starting sixth form and he's starting college. We'd been seeing eachother a bit and we had started getting on better than ever before. Everything was looking up. Up until he got Halo: reach. I went with him to the launch so he could get the game and it was a fun night, he said he'd start talking to me more than before and we had a cute little 'moment' when we parted ways. That was about 2 weeks ago and since, i've only really spoken to him once or twice and i've only seen him for a split second. Hopefully i'm going to see him tommorow and get to talk to him properly about all this. I really think that we belong together and I want him to see that as well.

 

Would you say that Reach has replaced me in his life? What do you suggest I do? I just want him back. :cry:

 

Thanks in advance

 

oooo cool, I like the change of pace of this post. Most of the time it's "why won't ____ girl like me?" Ummm...advice, right,

 

Halo Reach hasn't replaced you, although I'm sure it has taken over a lot of your boyfriend's attention. This is only temporary palthough, Reach is pretty cool, so it might take awhile to regain his interest. But as a fellow gamer, I'm sure you understand that a bit. You could go the route of "IF YOU DONT PAY ATTENTION TO ME IM LEAVING FOR SOMEONE WHO DOES"...but that's not gonna make him like you anymore. It;s a make or break move. He could drop the gme for you...or you could look like an idiot for a little while, move on and find a different guy. but you seem pretty affectionate of him, so I ay just give him some space.

Talk to him and give him some time to get his priorities straight. If that doesn't solve anything, there really is a problem; he'll take a video game over you. I'd go look somewhere else.

 

You guys are right in ways. I like to change up whether I'll be the hunter or hunted on a given day. And the amazing guy part was nice, Zyg.

Well Lent, you wouldn't be having the problem with girls being too easy and not being "good" enough for you if you weren't completely awesome right?

You guys are right in ways. I like to change up whether I'll be the hunter or hunted on a given day. And the amazing guy part was nice, Zyg.

Well Lent, you wouldn't be having the problem with girls being too easy and not being "good" enough for you if you weren't completely awesome right?

Well, the image name is "notimpressed.jpg"... So I guess you're not impressed?

You guys are right in ways. I like to change up whether I'll be the hunter or hunted on a given day. And the amazing guy part was nice, Zyg.

Well Lent, you wouldn't be having the problem with girls being too easy and not being "good" enough for you if you weren't completely awesome right?

Well, the image name is "notimpressed.jpg"... So I guess you're not impressed?

 

I think it was more of a passive aggressive way of calling you a kiss ass. But it's not anything to make a scene about.

You guys are right in ways. I like to change up whether I'll be the hunter or hunted on a given day. And the amazing guy part was nice, Zyg.

Well Lent, you wouldn't be having the problem with girls being too easy and not being "good" enough for you if you weren't completely awesome right?

Well, the image name is "notimpressed.jpg"... So I guess you're not impressed?

 

I think it was more of a passive aggressive way of calling you a kiss ass. But it's not anything to make a scene about.

Oh. Well I wasn't being too serious in saying what I said, but it wasn't a complete joke either.

 

Anyways, about that girl I have a "crush" on. Things are progressing, I'm getting to know her a little more and becoming more "flirty" with her. Soon enough I will reach a point where either I get over her because of what I learn about her or begin to like her even more because of it. This shall be interesting (hopefully).

[...] Soon enough I will reach a point where either I get over her because of what I learn about her [...]This shall be interesting (hopefully).

 

we call that the "Ohhhh" moment. Like "i used to be a dude" >> "Ohhhhh"

 

relationship breaking. But often hilarious to others.

Homecoming.

 

Best night of my life.

 

I love all you guys. Let me take this moment in my emotionally-high state to let you know that.

 

Everything that has changed me from the worst case scenario to now is all due to you.

 

The skills, the mentality, the confidence.

 

Funny how all of that stemmed from my love of Runescape... who would of thought a RS help site would of had one of the biggest impacts on my life.

 

Srs, straight, up, bsns yo.

 

Thanks guys.

Homecoming.

 

Best night of my life.

 

I love all you guys. Let me take this moment in my emotionally-high state to let you know that.

 

Everything that has changed me from the worst case scenario to now is all due to you.

 

The skills, the mentality, the confidence.

 

Funny how all of that stemmed from my love of Runescape... who would of thought a RS help site would of had one of the biggest impacts on my life.

 

Srs, straight, up, bsns yo.

 

Thanks guys.

 

You're welcome bro. That's the best part about this thread. I love it just the same, and i think you now have a full appreciation for its purpose. Thank you, godly member of TIF who originally created this blessing of a thread, and thank thee almighty internet, for bringing those who post on it.

Yeah, I wish I knew of this thread a long time ago so I'd at least know what the hell I was doing back in high school. It's coming around to actually bite me in the ass now. And it sucks too. Not much you can really do to be honest when it seems like everything proactively works against you for whatever reason. I'd need an entire page to detail my list of failures in terms of relationships.

I'm pretty sure most people who suddenly get the hang of it are older than you, Niflheim. All hope is not lost (in fact, most of it remains)!

@helpmeownlife: Glad everything's working out for you!

Well the good thing is you have your entire life to built relationships, not just in high school.

Thanks for the advice RPG and Omar, i think i'll try to give him some space like you say. Hopefully things will work out, i'll keep you updated. (if i remember to) :thumbsup:

The same girl whom I am not interested in/do not find attractive came up to me today, gave me her number AGAIN, and said, "Call me tonight at 6:30".

 

I'm trapped between calling her and not calling her.

 

What should I do?