Not quite dinner, but if she gets a turkey leg it's kind of the same thing.

I think she would rather sit at a table for a meal.

Not quite dinner, but if she gets a turkey leg it's kind of the same thing.

I think she would rather sit at a table for a meal.

As do I. Don't start doing the less traditional stuff until you're sure she enjoys it - imagine if she didn't like football.

I don't like dinner dates as first dates. Alas! what can I do.

 

- No on the football game

- Make it an interesting place (tends to be cheaper, too)

- Know something about the venue

- Order food that may be out of your comfort zone just a little (that you think you'll still like)

- Look really good

- Make great conversation; I know you can

The point is, though, she said dinner. I'd seen somewhere, possibly here and possibly some stupid romantic-comedy movie that "lunch" is friend-zone territory but "dinner" is the opposite. Is this a generally accepted thing?

 

No, but the fact that she asked to hang out with you is promising.

 

I think dinner dates are terrible, but if she asked you and you want to do it then go for it. Just don't pay for her. Suggesting something better would be more alpha, just a thought.

 

i asked her to a movie and she said yes, but i didnt say it asthough it was a date, but im not sure if shes more likely to see it as a friends thing or just us on a date

 

from what ive said, IOIs and such, is she likely to see it as a date or not

 

Don't think of the event itself as a huge deal. It's how you interact with her. If you're escalating touching (link in my sig) and flirting with her (post in my blog) while she helps you shop for your grandma's birthday present, it's going to mean more (sexual relationship wise) then going on a dinner date and talking about your boring week.

 

I found an interesting read

 

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/08/14/relationship-game-week-a-readers-journey/

 

About how 'game' can help long term relationships.

 

 

http://roissy.wordpr...eaders-journey/

 

 

 

 

link'd dude's wife was a major [bleep]. And she gained 40 lbs. Divorce would have been more alpha.

She was his wife for 7 years, plus she would have gotten half his stuff. It would be a shame if it ended in divorce. Plus that's just the first story of many.

Not quite dinner, but if she gets a turkey leg it's kind of the same thing.

I think she would rather sit at a table for a meal.

That was a joke, really. And she did want to sit with me at the game, but then I found out I don't get reception in the stadium so we couldn't coordinate (Yes, I could've used someone else's phone but I didn't think of that until later). Oh well, if I don't think of anything today, the ball's tomorrow night and that's kinda the whole point of me asking her to the ball in the first place.

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Simmer? What?

 

If you like her then keep escalating physically (link in my sig), if you kissed and don't do it again soon it's more likely to be something that 'just happened' and doesn't lead anywhere.

 

Food dates are lame imo, pick something fun and original, but pick something and hang with her.

The amount of times you refer to your sig is amazing.

 

Tips on a good movie to watch with the girlfriend?

The amount of times you refer to your sig is amazing.

 

Tips on a good movie to watch with the girlfriend?

 

Girls love kids, pick a movie about kids. Like the ones in my sig.

The amount of times you refer to your sig is amazing.

 

Tips on a good movie to watch with the girlfriend?

 

Girls love kids, pick a movie about kids. Like the ones in my sig.

 

 

Let me rephrase that. What's a good movie which we won't really need to watch, but have there in case one comes home?

Classic comedies that are entertaining, but everyone has seen like 10 times so it's not a big deal if they get distracted.

 

Anger management, super bad, 40 year old virgin etc

Simmer? What?

 

 

My reaction exactly. Never let things "simmer". Attraction loses physical capacity when things "simmer". I say keep it up with the random romantic making out. No names. No numbers. Just...blind attraction.

 

niiiiiice

The ball went pretty well. I had fun,she had fun. Then afterwards we had a group of us and two of my buds plus their dates, we went and changed out of uniform and decided to go somewhere. We get back on campus and we're walking, when she says she's tired and wants to head back. So I walk her back while everyone else heads for a coffee shop, we get to her dorm, she thanks me for taking her, gives me a hug and that was that.

Okay, before you all become big ugly trolls about me not following what you said.. this is advice, doesn't mean I have to follow it I was just asking for a bit of help. Though this time I probably will follow it...

 

What do you buy a girl for Christmas, yes a whole 1 month 18 days away with the instructions of: "i want something that will remind me of you."

Okay, before you all become big ugly trolls about me not following what you said.. this is advice, doesn't mean I have to follow it I was just asking for a bit of help. Though this time I probably will follow it...

 

What do you buy a girl for Christmas, yes a whole 1 month 18 days away with the instructions of: "i want something that will remind me of you."

Get something that might mean and symbolize a lot to her. Buy something not because of how high the price is, but how high the value of it may be to her.

Okay, before you all become big ugly trolls about me not following what you said.. this is advice, doesn't mean I have to follow it I was just asking for a bit of help. Though this time I probably will follow it...

 

What do you buy a girl for Christmas, yes a whole 1 month 18 days away with the instructions of: "i want something that will remind me of you."

Get something that might mean and symbolize a lot to her. Buy something not because of how high the price is, but how high the value of it may be to her.

 

Pretty much.

 

I believe this thread remembers my story of how I "got away" with getting a girl cheese whiz as a gift before. It's meaning that counts, not the material itself.

Make something. So much better.

It's meaning that counts, not the material itself.

 

I agree. If you two share any inside-jokes or memes, that would be a good starting point.

 

My dorkiness has always been the trademark that intrigued my girlfriend, and it's a great basis for a gift idea.

It's meaning that counts, not the material itself.

 

I agree. If you two share any inside-jokes or memes, that would be a good starting point.

 

My dorkiness has always been the trademark that intrigued my girlfriend, and it's a great basis for a gift idea.

 

Will follow this...

 

After I figure out what is wrong/what she is hiding.

So, the lady has a cabin in Lake Tahoe. We've both taken a few days off of work to go up there, roughly three days of being alone, and then another group of friends (a potential couple) is showing up to stay with us for the last two days. So five days total. How do double dates work? That's what Jennifer wants to do with them, even though we're already dating. So yeah, advice por favor.

Make something. So much better.

This guy has a good idea; if you're good at something artisanal or artistic, make her something. You get twenty times the brownie points.

Make something. So much better.

This guy has a good idea; if you're good at something artisanal or artistic, make her something. You get twenty times the brownie points.

 

I can't make anything, really not artistic unfortunately.. Back to getting ideas.

You do know this is the internet, right? Where there are incredibly simple instructions on making everything you can think of? C'mon, laddie, you're better than that!