Im feeling very depressed lately...and i need some help..

[EvilMonkey]

Right now i feeling very depressed and isolated. Im in a position were i think Im being...i think..ignored. When I started high school 3 months ago, I had good friends, even some girls as friends. I usually say hi this this girl every time i see her. yes we are good friends. Then my exfriend( hes likes to hear secrets everytime and says he wont tell but he does, so I kinda stop being frds with him lately cuz he spread a rumor on me in elementary school)comes over in the next 3 weeks. he asks me if i made any gfs lately. I was oging to say well i do like kind of interested in the girl I was talking about before but I didnt want to tell him. Well he kept on begging me to tell him, so then i told him. Then he goes to a b day party, some of my friends are there, after the part on the next day, I began to suspect that my friends are ignoring me. So then i though that my exfriend told everyone at the party that i like this girl and the name of her. So then now Im thinking that my frds before are thinking like" omg y is this nerd(I am kinda one)like this girl, hes not good enough, maybe hes trying to be cool or something lets ignore him what a wierdo."...So now I barely have anyfriends and I acually came down crying one day for no reason...So now Im trying to get things back together. But i dont have the guts to ask my girl friends( not gf, friends that are girls) what they think about me now, and what they think about me. So I need help from you guys here at tip.it.

[rocketman089]

There honestly isn't anyone out there better than an online runescape based community to ask about relationship problems? Anyway, maybe everyone really does hate you, afterall, noone likes an emo kid.

[Dittos]

There honestly isn't anyone out there better than an online runescape based community to ask about relationship problems? Anyway, maybe everyone really does hate you, afterall, noone likes an emo kid.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What's that for a dumb answer, the kid needs help, not more critic.

 

 

 

Idiot :roll: .

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

On topic, i don't know if this is a help, but u could try it.

 

 

 

1. first of all, how do you look, i'm not asking a photo, but think realistic. If ur fat, big glasses etc DO SOMETHING about it. People only call u nerd because or u act like one or u don't dare to say anything against them. So get another attitude, if i hear it right, it can't get any worser, so go to the friend who told you were interested in the girl, and ask : What is ur problem with it? I'm interested in who i like, and if ur not agreed with it fine by me.

 

 

 

2. if they these / ignore you, IGNORE them too, try to talk with other people, who don't have connections with them. Show them they don't hit you, they can't get you down.

 

 

 

3. if all that doesn't work, just go for the short pain. Change school at Christmas, it's hard in the beginning, but it can give u alot of joy if ur used to ur new school.

 

 

 

4. on your new school, act normal, don't say u study whole day or play rs whole day on ur first day, becouse it looks kinda weird.

 

 

 

5. join maybe a sport club, or a music school. U make easy friends there, and mostly they are much friendlier then in school...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I hope this helped a little ...

[goku_nazz]

Whatever you decide, I want you to know that suicide is not the answer

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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save that for the emos 8)

[Bubsa]

Tell them that you don't need 'friends' who do that to eachother, because you really don't. My advice is to ditch them all, the only losers there are them.

 

 

 

I'd rather be alone than have 'friends' who act like that, but I'm sure you'll be able to find new, more deserving friends.

[weezcake]

My advice is the same as Bubsa's. Ditch them. If I knew who my friend liked, I wouldn't go proclaim it to the world, nor would I ignore them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You'll find new friends, don't worry. Try joining a club or two that suit your interests. :)

[ploughman]

no [cabbage].. i got beat up almost honestly every day of my first year and a half of high school.. i'd come home crying then cop it from dad sayin that only sooks cry.. then there was all the medication and help etc.. now im fine.. probably doesnt help much.. but seriously.. once you let people know that your not there for purely their entertainment.. they will piss right off out of it.. the slightest remarks of suicide will always make things worse.. never give in.. things work out in the end.. 2 years time.. you'll be the one with a life.. youll be the respected one.. and theyll be the trash society looks down on.. as for the girl.. things come with time.. i didnt have my first gf til year 10.. and its hard to say anything without sounding very arrogent.. but i think i do alright with the girls now.. p.s. im 17.. things always work out for the better..

[Triplets_KGB]

Ditch them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Screw everyone else. You shouldn't have to put up with all this, so confront these so called "friends" of yours and ask them what their problem is.

[Turbobart]

You're still young. I even forgot all the names of my friends in the first grade of high school. (figure of speaking, of course)

 

 

 

So Bubsa is right, you still have a long way to go, and you'll make new friends eventually. No reason crying about it.

[mad4u689]

First things first: *big tight hug!!*

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Now, I know how that feels - just randomly crying all the time. Friend problems can often get you down, especially when you're young like us and rely on friendship for a lot of your fun, self-esteem, and support. Don't feel bad if you're a bit of a nerd - we're on tip.it forums, we all are, and you can be a nerd and still have a happy life, and even a hot girlfriend. (I'm a girl, perhaps not a hot one, and I totally go for nerdy guys! Well, one in particular right now, but yknow)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I actually agree with the advice other people gave - are there any clubs at your school that you've never gotten involved in, that you might like to? It's awkward at first when you don't know anyone, but it's really a great way to meet people with similar interests and have fun doing something you enjoy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It also sounds to me like you might be imaging some of the things going on with these friends of yours. Are you sure this friend told people about the girl you like? And are you sure that they think that's pathetic? And that they are ignoring you because of it? You dont' know any of that, and it doesn't seem that likely to me. But if they are ignoring you, that's a really immature and middle school thing to do, so don't let that get to you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Finally: *another big tight hug!*

[Bubsa]

Mad's hugs make everything better! :D

[Rhys]

Nerd over here. With a girlfriend, I might add.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Seriously, like everyone else said, those 'friends' aren't really friends. Who cares what they think? Be yourself, ignore them. Get better friends; friends that don't care what, or who, you like. I think it's kinda' crazy how you can get so worked up about people that do that. They're called "backstabbers", not friends. :wink:

[y0ur_m0ther]

First things first: *big tight hug!!*

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Now, I know how that feels - just randomly crying all the time. Friend problems can often get you down, especially when you're young like us and rely on friendship for a lot of your fun, self-esteem, and support. Don't feel bad if you're a bit of a nerd - we're on tip.it forums, we all are, and you can be a nerd and still have a happy life, and even a hot girlfriend. (I'm a girl, perhaps not a hot one, and I totally go for nerdy guys! Well, one in particular right now, but yknow)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I actually agree with the advice other people gave - are there any clubs at your school that you've never gotten involved in, that you might like to? It's awkward at first when you don't know anyone, but it's really a great way to meet people with similar interests and have fun doing something you enjoy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It also sounds to me like you might be imaging some of the things going on with these friends of yours. Are you sure this friend told people about the girl you like? And are you sure that they think that's pathetic? And that they are ignoring you because of it? You dont' know any of that, and it doesn't seem that likely to me. But if they are ignoring you, that's a really immature and middle school thing to do, so don't let that get to you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Finally: *another big tight hug!*

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i need a hug too :oops:

[mad4u689]

*gives Your Mother a big super squeezy hug :D*

[DragonFirenze]

There honestly isn't anyone out there better than an online runescape based community to ask about relationship problems? Anyway, maybe everyone really does hate you, afterall, noone likes an emo kid.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Its people like you who drag this forum down into the ground. You should be ashamed.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I think you should confront that guy and tell him what his actions have caused. Then ask your friends why they believe some random at a party before they believe you, they dont sound much like friends to me.

[Tomato]

Do the responsible and mature thing - Punch the guy in the face.

[vmser]

I was gonna go with a 'learn to love yourself'.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But I want you to know I do not mean physically ;)

[Faux]

Do the responsible and mature thing - Punch the guy in the face.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

^ What he said.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your friend was acting homo to you and the only way to deal with that is to hurt him. Don't let people overrun you like that :?

[mad4u689]

Tomato -.-

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

No, seriously, people who are telling you to find new friends don't mean it. They wouldn't find new friends. They'd work it out in SOME manner (or at least push what happened under the table) instead of trying to find a new social circle. Punching and violence? Not cool, and sure as hell not going to solve anything. Clearly that would just make tensions worse.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And hey... try going after the girl. If you ask her out and she says yes, that shows them... :P

[Japanesesmileyfacelol]

Right now i feeling very depressed and isolated. Im in a position were i think Im being...i think..ignored. When I started high school 3 months ago, I had good friends, even some girls as friends. I usually say hi this this girl every time i see her. yes we are good friends. Then my exfriend( hes likes to hear secrets everytime and says he wont tell but he does, so I kinda stop being frds with him lately cuz he spread a rumor on me in elementary school)comes over in the next 3 weeks. he asks me if i made any gfs lately. I was oging to say well i do like kind of interested in the girl I was talking about before but I didnt want to tell him. Well he kept on begging me to tell him, so then i told him. Then he goes to a b day party, some of my friends are there, after the part on the next day, I began to suspect that my friends are ignoring me. So then i though that my exfriend told everyone at the party that i like this girl and the name of her. So then now Im thinking that my frds before are thinking like" omg y is this nerd(I am kinda one)like this girl, hes not good enough, maybe hes trying to be cool or something lets ignore him what a wierdo."...So now I barely have anyfriends and I acually came down crying one day for no reason...So now Im trying to get things back together. But i dont have the guts to ask my girl friends( not gf, friends that are girls) what they think about me now, and what they think about me. So I need help from you guys here at tip.it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don't worry about high school much, it's not where you are going to be for the rest of your life (Unless you're a teacher or a really horrible student). If you have friends like this then you should just get rid of them. I had a similar situation happen like this, and that's what I had to end up doing.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And ignore all of those who are calling you emo. They just find it funny to use that word when someone's having a stressful problem.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And whatever you do, don't commit sucuide. It's a permeant solution to a temporary problem.[/b]

[nik]

 

There honestly isn't anyone out there better than an online runescape based community to ask about relationship problems? Anyway, maybe everyone really does hate you, afterall, noone likes an emo kid.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What's that for a dumb answer, the kid needs help, not more critic.

 

 

 

Idiot :roll: .

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What he reallyt needs is to talk to people in person that will show they care about him more than just another person in this large world, or course alot of us will have mercy, but frankly, I think he needs a real person.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Otherwise, I was depressed my freshman year for alot of reasons, some relate, all I can say is you will get through it and it will be a good learning experiance, I was VERY sad then, now im extremly happy and I love life, I hope all goes well for you.

[goku_nazz]

Well dude, I suggest you:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. Ditch your aquaintances (them ****ers aren't friends)

 

 

 

2. Have a more optimistic outlook on life. Eg, your name is EvilMonkey. Make it like.. HappyAngel? Or something like that :lol:

[____]

@EvilMonkey: Usually I'd offer some kind of half decent sentence of support but since you don't really have much left to lose its kind of hard to pretend that it's ok (sorry - just the impression I got).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Moving on to the point though, ask your lady friend out. And you probably should ditch those "friends".

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

As for what goku_nazz said about having a more optimistic outlook, I would personally advise against it. Nothing wrong with the advice, but don't be another peson who is smiling on the outside while crying on the inside.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That isn't going to help you much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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[Aus_Fighter]

There honestly isn't anyone out there better than an online runescape based community to ask about relationship problems? Anyway, maybe everyone really does hate you, afterall, noone likes an emo kid.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

^^ I have to agree... But if they have been saying all this stuff about you, you cant call them friends anymore because i would not do anything to hurt my mates :? O well my 2c

[Cloaked_Shadow]

Do the responsible and mature thing - Punch the guy in the face.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Exactly what I did, before. Was being slapped around by this huge fat arse bully, didnt want to smack him because it would probably land me a detention. < used to be new, and i helped him out. He got in with the wrong crowd... So: i led him around to the back of the school (like a guy in RS leading a newbie into the wildy for a kill), straightened my palm, and thrust it into his stomach. I made him go into the center courtyard and yell that he got beaten up my someone several years younger than him...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

At school, i live by my sig. People fear you and leave you alone: try to generate an aura that says "Dont mess with me." People will leave alone.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And no, im not a bully. I bully bullies. This will help make friends too, i would like to think people like a person who is helpful to the community. Oh well, thats my advice. It worked for me.