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why cant guys ever like some1 for how they act and not look

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all guys i have meet focas on 1 thing how a girl looks . why cant guys see the reall beauty is on the inside.

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well i look at both sides

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I'm a guy, and I have found out my turest and most honest answer to this question. (Well, a similar question)

 

 

 

I have "Criteria" for people that could be my freinds or girls that could have a relationship with. Really, looking good (faces, acne ,whatever) doesn't really matter, but figure wise I dislike fat or "obese" people because I can't imagine how people can call it a disease, IMO it is completley aviodable and controlable (It takes time of course). I view "obese" people as people who can't care for their own body's health(I veiw smokers and drugees the same way)

 

 

 

 

 

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By fat and obese in no way do I mean "chubby" because usually, around my age (14) people who were chubby before get taller and it all equals out.

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If i get to know any girl, i bet i could have a realation ship with them...

 

Almost all girls i meet are preatty in some one, so i dont worry about the physical. Just dont be a [bleep] (thats a sensore for another word) and i will like them mostlikely.

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I usually go for personality first and they have to be smart. Then I go for the looks. You have to be phsyically atractted to be with some one else it just won't work.

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well i have many friends who are very nice and stuff but all the guys at my school look for looks only. this includes me. why can some guys miss wats right in front of them.

I'm a girl, and trust me, there are many guys out there who focus on your personality more than the way you look. Alot of my friends (who are mainly guys) are that way. You must attract the wrong kind of guy.

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no its that its that most of the guys in my grade ad that i no off like every girl who is pretty. they dont look at personalty. i wish i knew more than 5 guys who look at perosnality.

Like cyco said - a guy can be great friends with you, but if he's in no way physically attracted to you, nothing's going to happen. For any relationship there needs to be a physicaly attraction to take it beyond a regular friendship. For now just keep making friends and meeting more people, you're bound to meet someone.

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no no no i am just sayen all my guys friends are like that

You need to meet better people.

 

 

 

He speaks the truth. If the people you are around, dont seee the real you, and only judge you on apperance (which they shouldnt if they are your friends) then you need to find people who will like you for the person you are.

 

 

 

I tried when i was younger to fit in with groupes that i shouldnt of been in, and was usaly laughed at. Now i have awsome friends (most of them girls) cause they like me for who i am.

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Carlo is absolutely right. Find some new people to be around. Some people that you're forced to be around (ei: your classmates), you may not like, but you're just going to have to learn how they are, and learn to ignore the qualities about them that you don't like.

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As you see we here on the infamous Off-Topic board are all caring men, except of course Knives and Katha. I don't know any others :oops:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Rose

You can wear less clothing as well. It makes it easier for them to see the real beauty inside.

If you are a younger kid, don't worry about it. Point is most guys that age couldn't give a damn about what you thought about. Generaly when I see a 'couple' together that is younger anyways they just hold hands and walk, hardly even talk...

 

 

 

 

 

Point is,don't worry about it. Just because they won't look past anything doesn't mean much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

by the way, just to go on the record, but I wouldn't date someone that I found ugly (par-say, on the outside) even if they were a kind of nice person. Hell, I'd still talk to them (and this is probaly just my age talking here, almost positive as an adult my view will change) but I just wouldn't be able to fathom doing anything...else O.O.

 

 

 

You can wear less clothing as well. It makes it easier for them to see the real beauty inside.

 

 

 

brilliant idea by the way. Unless she's you know.. like in middle school or younger

 

:shock: .

You can wear less clothing as well. It makes it easier for them to see the real beauty inside.

 

 

 

 

 

Yeah..Thats horrible advice.

 

 

 

Why don't you just say:

 

 

 

 

 

You can always make sure your thong is showing so they think your a [bleep] and want to do you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Rose

As you see we here on the infamous Off-Topic board are all caring men

 

 

 

I agree. \' Tip.it = best community ever.

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You can wear less clothing as well. It makes it easier for them to see the real beauty inside.

 

 

 

 

 

Yeah..Thats horrible advice.

 

 

 

Why don't you just say:

 

 

 

 

 

You can always make sure your thong is showing so they think your a * and want to do you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Rose

 

 

 

Damn, everyone is comming up with brilliant ideas tonight.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

don't hurt me rose...

If a chick is hot, I'll generally be "hell with that" because 9/10 times they're the stuck up [bleep] type :-k

What I noticed about guys irl is that they look at a girl, and if she looks pretty to them, they're interested to know her personality too, if not, she will get ignored. This becomes obvious when there are groups of people that meet for the first time. I've seen this so often it's like a pattern.

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If a chick is hot, I'll generally be "hell with that" because 9/10 times they're the stuck up wonderful person type :-k

 

 

 

why you gotta try and find the middle ground =P. You know, not ugly enough that you well.... :-X , but at least decent looking so that they might still be smart.

 

 

 

 

 

I realy don't think i've said anything more incrimitating towards a girl since i've been on here.... :oops: .

 

 

 

 

 

/notice's that he is just messing around.

 

 

 

I'll promptly leave this thread now. #-o

aha.. bullying and boy advice.....

 

relationships out of the blue wont work, friends than realtionship.

Looks to me like you made the mistake of going after "bad boys" instead of the nice ones.

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