Pandaman115 Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 I noticed something on the trip I took. I hate too many people. I just have that natural urge of, "You annoy me, go away idiot." or "I really don't like you." I don't know why, I just get this a lot. Anyway to help me get away some of this anger? [Admin Edit: No naming names in a negative light] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No_OnE Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 I noticed something on the trip I took. I hate too many people. I just have that natural urge of, "You annoy me, go away idiot." or "I really don't like you." I don't know why, I just get this a lot. Anyway to help me get away some of this anger? You are exactly like me only I had it worse. I wasted a gameboy advanced sp cause I got so mad I smashed it against a chair. Anyway, once my computer broke, I had to go an entire summer without a comp. I ended up reading a lot. I read the sixth Harry Potter book and re-read all of the other HP books. After that I read like 13 more books. Once I went back to school, my friends and I all noticed that I didn't have my anger management problems anymore. I'm not sure if it's the reading that helped or what but I'm a whole lot more calm now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stan18 Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 do something to vent it? something with limits, however. left weights, i find doing push-ups when im pissed helps. afterwards, when im sweaty and tired (and calm), i get time to reflect and think. i used to pick out everybody's flaws and start hating them for it, then, i realized, everyone has so many little foibles its stupid to get worked up over it. find your own flaws, and you might understand what i mean. your tendency to judge and to let your feelings manifest could be one :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxiemumu Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 I tend to A) Run/climb. Something physical B) Box with a bag. C) Write. All work for me, and all let you think and be angry without hurting anyone. Writing about what happened allows you to think what both parties did wrong and if you were wrong. Only 27.. RIP Kurt Cobain, Jim Morrison, Jimi Hendrix, and Janice Joplin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pandaman115 Posted July 31, 2006 Author Share Posted July 31, 2006 Thanks everyone. At the moment, since I don't really have any of that, I just may go play Dance Dance Revolution. It seems to help some. I can just move and think at the same time, so I'm not on this dang computer all day getting fat. [Admin Edit: No naming names in a negative light] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knives669 Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 Oh! DDR should help! ^_^ Try doing a really hard song or something. When I'm angry, I close my eyes, take deep breaths and slowly count to ten. You should try to find some music that can help you vent. With people, just try to keep an open mind. Remember that people are... people. We all have flaws, we can all be annoying. Just try to look for the good in people instead of the bad. Just be careful when the bad overshadows the good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lionheart_0 Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 DDR is probably the best physical game ever created. Umm ya reading might be good in the l ong run, as it can help you see from others points of view, and not get angry. Also... yes im a nerd but ummm Play FF. They have tought me much, and ive learned that hating and anger only screw you over. Sig by IkuraiYour Guide to Posting! Behave or I will send my Moose mounted Beaver launchers at you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WutangFlu Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 Sing some nirvana.... :thumbsup: i hate most everyone as you do... their ignorance tests my patience.... and guess what! i no longer have patience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oy_the_Great Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 Sing some nirvana.... :thumbsup: i hate most everyone as you do... their ignorance tests my patience.... and guess what! i no longer have patience. What is he up to? :shock: *shivers with fear* :ohnoes: I'm a relatively calm person, I don't mind idiots, I try to accept everyone the way they are, although the few people that really work on my nerves can piss me off if they keep up their stupidity. Actually, there are only 2 things I hate about some people; being stupid and still thinking you're the man or pestering others. Bill Hicks[/url]":dhj2kan9]Since the one thing we can say about fundamental matter is, that it is vibrating. And since all vibrations are theoretically sound, then it is not unreasonable to suggest that the universe is music and should be perceived as such. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sp4de Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 DDR would work if I could fail Legend of Max. ÃÆââ¬Å¡Ãâï(ÃÆââ¬Å¡Ãâú_o)/ÃÆââ¬Å¡Ãâï Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andyrules89 Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 Im not the literature type but I take out my anger on paper with a pen...or go on a nice bike ride to a secluded spot and stare away at nothingness and pretty much zone out for a while dude i got pked and lost my full zezima Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BenBru Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 Im more of the type of person who takes peoples crap (not literally :D )until I just explode. It's not too great of a choice but it lets me explode on some-one I really really hate when I'm mad at them. In other words, I get mad at them for no reason, exept that they make me mad some-times. For me, it would be better than just being sort of angry all the time. Hope that made some sense, it was really conf00zing typing that. I am an Atheist, and I take pride in it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 My patience differs a lot. It depends on what my mood is, how tired I am and who the person is. :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrankyBrown Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 When I'm angry I go for a walk out the back of our property and take my ipod with me :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xvillexvalox Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 Music + Billiards. Probably how I got so good. \ (It helps if you have a pool table at your house) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zonorhc Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 Well, when it comes to anger problems, you can't beat advice from our good friend, Bash.org... Sever the main neck tendons before cutting through the spinal cord. That will allow you more opportunity to separate the vertebrae prior to removing the head. Varrock Library: Shattered Sky | Silent Thunder | The Emperor's FinestAstri @ MythWeavers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michael_Allen Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 i play rugby i love hurting people! Engl1sh of RSAllianceGoals Att 80 - Str 80 - Def 80 - Slayer 85 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trip Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 I can't remember the last time I was angry :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
opu Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 Maybe you should try to get to know them a little better? Then you might think that oh your not that idiot what i thought :) RSN - Ur Enemy, lvl 120 - Back in action!:)Oldest rsn: Obu86 lvl 100 :P ~Retired~ RS Since 2001 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
opu Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 i play rugby i love hurting people! Lmao somehow i laughed for this message :lol: RSN - Ur Enemy, lvl 120 - Back in action!:)Oldest rsn: Obu86 lvl 100 :P ~Retired~ RS Since 2001 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
How2PK Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 I always punch in my pillow really hard, or punch at the wall. I don't have many of those attacks, but when I have them I can be pretty dangerous. :P Signature by Maurice SendakWhen the stars make you drool just like a pasta fazool, that's amore! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____ Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 Im more of the type of person who takes peoples crap (not literally :D )until I just explode. It's not too great of a choice but it lets me explode on some-one I really really hate when I'm mad at them.Much like me, however I'll generally have a go at someone who puts me over the edge (and that's only really happened once). I put the guy in hospital for 5 days and somehow I got off with nothing. When you do that, it's no suprise that you're scared of yourself more than anything else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caligula101 Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 If you hate someone and they don't know it, you're only hurting yourself. Now that is the smartest thing anyone has said in this topic so far. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katha610 Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 i agree with oy, that would have been my answer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ragen Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 When you do that, it's no suprise that you're scared of yourself more than anything else. I know exectly how you feel. Last time someone really pissed me off, I Put them through a glass door. I haven't had a real fight since then (well one but he did something unforgivable) because I know that I couldn't control how much damage I did. So although people really get to me sometimes, I just ignore them. If that doesn't work just stare them out. That will give them a clear message. Thanks Venomai for this super sig and Kwimbob for the awesome avatar! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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