Ok with all the yelling and everything its hard to understand but I'll give you the simple stuff. Well you said that now if someone dies it requires you to end a trip? Why? All you have to do is bless the gravestone, making one person use up about 55 prayer points. That makes it easier than it was, you would used to have had to pick up all the stuff, using up your inventory space. Also, you said that you used up 13 prayer points and thats all you could do. This was most likely because you did not have enough prayer points at the time, when you bless a gravestone it always leaves you with at least 10 prayer points to be safe, so just drink a few prayer pots and you have it, simple as that. And this now makes it easier than it was because before gravestones you had to go and pick up all of the stuff wasting your time and getting owned while you do it. Now you just drink a prayer pot, click bless and kill the boss while you wait for your friend to get back. And also, once you friend gets back, he can start killing it again because he will have gotten all of his pots back. The only thing that would stop him from killing it is losing barrows items which would degrade when dropped. Well, hope you got your answer with that.