Ouch. What'd you do to piss Fate off that much? Unfortunatly there isn't a good solution to this no matter how you look at it. You're going to get hurt. The question is, how should you take it. You could try to maintain an international relationship, but lets face it...a lot can happen in a month. It could be years before you actually see her. If you care about her, the best approach would be for you to maintain a friendship. She'll be one of the closest friends you'll ever have. Even if she's across the earth. You could also try to forget about her and gradually let her go. Personally I wouldn't though, as it could be either very painful or very painless, and frankly its not worth the risk. Bottom line, I suggest you spend as much time with her as possible, and have the time of your life. When it comes time for her to move, promise her that if things don't work out in the long distance thing, just be friends. It'll be tough at first yes, but the distance will actually make the transition easier. Sorry bout the situation. Pretty much its going to suck your going to try to work it out and your going to realize that it isnt going to work and you'll have to move on. OR you could be apart of the elite few who maintain a international relationship. Either way, I wish the best of luck