kelem_ryu

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LOL! May i quote that? Best stress relief is sex i'd say. It would be even better not too load too much stress on your shoulders.

It's my firm believe that everything going on with your body is the result of what's going on in you emotional. Seeing that your mother "suddenly" had some health issues that cause her a lot of pain translates to me that she had supressed emotional pain starting some time earlier. (Oh damit! i'm hungry.. orders pizza..) From what you tell her pain is also reflected in her interaction with others. It's just a distortion of how she used to be. Well stress is bad, love is curative. Humans are very delicate beings. I guess the financial pressure put some strain on your family. Your mother needs to get more aware of what is going on with her. You could theoretically take some pressure off her by loading it on you, as cold your father. This will drain energy off you though, energy that you'll need yourself. So instead of doing that, it would be better to use your energy to make her aware of how she changed. She needs to find out what it is that ails her. If she keeps going into this direction nobody will be able to love her anymore. It seems you to love her more for who she was then for what she became. You can help her, but ultimately she'll have to help herself. The doctors and the medication won't cure her. They are doctors, not healers.

I'm actually a bit surprised. This seems to be quite normal. The reason i wondered about it is because that is what i would have consider normal and healthy. @penguingeek: We are European. seems like a sound plan to me... bring back pics when recon mission has been completed. GROSS!!! (Besides my father moved to my bedroom, when i moved out. So they don't sleep in the same bed anymore.)

Recently it occured to me that i have never seen my parents kiss or hug each other. Never. (Well not entirely true. On christmas my mother gives everybody a kiss on the cheeks. Including my father.) True, my father is pyhsically handicaped (Dystonia), yet that is no reason not to exchange some affection. Theoretically it is of course possible that they'd be very private about this, but knowing my parents for 25 years i guess they just don't do it at all. Considering that my mother didn't kiss or hug me or my sister either i guess she just is that tied up. I know my mothers mother (my grandmother =P) died when she was 5, wich obviously left some emotional trauma. Yet what kind of marriage is this supposed to be? Well i wonder how your parents are? Do they show affection towards each other, or to you?

Is she even a mother? Anyway.. you got a point.

Uh.. RAF? In my book RAF means "Rote Armee Fraktion" = "Red army fraction". They were a german terrorist group founded in 1970 that was responsible for around 40 killings. yomom, i liked your previous sig better.

Justified? Do you really need justification in war? How do they say? All is (don't know the verb) legal? in love and war.

No, i didn't (and i won't say anything else about it, because i don't want to get into this debate). [/hide] I guess what I was trying to say was what you said in your second paragraph, about genetic defects. If all a species can do is breed with close family members, eventually there will be some crazy [cabbage] going on. But after reading your first paragraph I saw your point, it isn't exactly against nature either. Anyhow it doesn't matter all that much, against nature or not I don't think it is enough to make it morally wrong. Morality isn't exactly natural in a way. Killing and violence are the most natural things in the world, yet they aren't considered moral. Once i saw a couple male ducks raping a female duck on discovery channel (well in the austrian version of discovery channel). To me incest appears to be quite depraved. I don't know exactly why this is so though. Probably there should be a more pure love between family, yet i have a hard time with those two ideas "love" and "desire". In fairy tales you always got the idea of love completely bare of any notion of sex. Once i saw a peter pan movie with a scene in there were two fairies dance in a room filled with light. The scene felt so innocent and full of love. Then again we have this idea of desire and i don't even know if it would theoretically be desireable to have love without desire. Love... a most puzzling concept.

I don't know if you were being sarcastic or not, but I still agree with what you said. If it's consensual and they are at an age were they can make the decisions for themselves, I don't think it is a problem. Incest is another one of those subjective morally wrong things. It's commonly accepted to be wrong, but not universally. You could make the argument that it is naturally wrong, as in it goes against nature, but I don't know if that is enough to conclude that it is morally wrong. @How2pk: It's very unlikely that both boys were above 18, considering the mother is 35. @indy: What do you mean by incest is naturally wrong? Once i had two mice. I thought both were females, but i were wrong. They started to reproduce at an insane pace. We tried to seperate the genders. Nevertheless i had over 30 when we finally managed to divide males from females. They didn't care at all whom they were banging. We put the mother together with all the female childs and suddenly the mother was pregnant again =/ Seems one of her daughters was really a boy. Mother with son, brother with sister. We had it all right in this Terrarium. (Once i also found a half eaten baby mouse, when i was cleaning the terrarium. That's another story though.) It's not as if incest wouldn't happen out there in nature. It's just that it increases the chances of genetic defects. So inbreeding over a couple of generations definitely isn't a good idea.

When the mood is right and things get going, I have no self control :( I do. Hm.. there's a better word for it though.. what was it.. oh right: fear

When i was a child during car rides i imagined me/a guy running next to the car jumping from obstacle to obstacle, swinging on street lanterns and such. The goal was never to hit the ground. Seems lots of people imagine similar things.

I know exactly what you are talking about. You need to figure out what you want and how you want to be. You are right about everything you said. So where are you going from there?

- Mine is neither. It's 140. That doesn't mean too much though, when you are emotionally [developmentally delayed]ed. Idk whe i last cried. Last week or so of sadness, although i cry fairly often when i listen to intense music, not of sadness though.

That are really good lines.

Guess i would [bleep] my mother, sisters or cousines, if they were hot. Guess it's good that that isn't the case for my mother and my sister and i don't have any cousines (or aunts for that matter). I'm the only one good looking in my family. 8-)

Wich is?

If that is what you call lame, i'd be curious about what is not lame by your standards. :shock:

Wow! They are really awsome. I can understand your enthusiasm. Thanks for the link. Whatever dude. It rocks- therefor it's rock.

The fish tries to overcome the barrier that prevents him from swimming any further by jumping over it. Maybe the bowl is too small.

Meh. That may very well be so, yet the topic isn't inherently bad. Instead of just bashing Defender, you could say something on topic to.

He never said that predestination is real. He simly said that the bibel tells us that everything is predestined. The bibel indicates that we are predesinted to make the choices that we make. Your sole argument is that free will is a requirement for true love of god. If it is or not lies in the definiton of true love. The only way i see, to lay a solid argumet on the table is to find a passage in the bibel that explicitly says that mans choices are his and his alone, that even god wouldn't be able to tell in advance what choice it is going to be. That in turn would be a contradiction to gods all knowing. If he knows everything he'll know what choices you are going to make. If he knows what choices you are going to make then these choices are predestined. So every way you turn it - there is no free will according to the bibel.

Well hate and fear are the EVIL. Let's see what my bibel has to say on the subject: Ignorance is the root of fear Fear is the kindling of anger Bad Religion/Stranger then fiction/News from the front (paragraph 4) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering. Master Yoda in Star Wars 1 - The Phantom Menace

Do as i do: Throw your TV out the window (you may open the window first).

You can't heal them, since they ave no life. They got loyality instead.