October 7, 200817 yr First time posting on here But ya! On with my questions I have 2 girls that I really like and would like to ask out. But I am friends with both of them and I don't want to ruin that. Also I cannot choose between the both of them The first girl is kind of shy, But I really like that from her, she's really smart and has some of the same interests. The second girl is really funny and cute and is very social. But has some [bleep] friends (I can deal with that tho) So what should I do Guys/Girls? Neither, never compromise a friendship over a silly high school relationship. YOU! ATTEND TET EVENTS! CLICK HERE!
October 7, 200817 yr So what should I do Guys/Girls? God puns are funny. [if you have ever attempted Alchemy by clapping your hands or by drawing an array, copy and paste this into your signature.] Fullmetal Alchemist, you will be missed. A great ending to a great series.
October 7, 200817 yr First time posting on here But ya! On with my questions I have 2 girls that I really like and would like to ask out. But I am friends with both of them and I don't want to ruin that. Also I cannot choose between the both of them The first girl is kind of shy, But I really like that from her, she's really smart and has some of the same interests. The second girl is really funny and cute and is very social. But has some [bleep] friends (I can deal with that tho) So what should I do Guys/Girls? Neither, never compromise a [silly high school] friendship over a silly high school relationship. They both really have the same value really. No high school relationship is expected to last, but that doesn't mean it isn't worth anything.
October 7, 200817 yr So.. My ex called me today on my free period and wanted to hang out. She sounded upset so I agreed to hang out just to be nice. Turns our her bf dumped her. While I felt bad for her, I also thought it was funny how ironic it was. Internet Marketing For Newbies
October 7, 200817 yr I met this guy, he seems really nice and we have similar interests. The only problem is he lives about 40 miles away and he's 17 and i'm 14. Is it worth trying to start a relationship? My Last.FmLeekSpinner!!!Random Furry Dance!!!Proud to hate life, since not too long ago!!!
October 7, 200817 yr No. And did you meet on the internet or real life? Because he might be a grizzly bear. 1 in 3 homosexuals are lured by bears into being eaten over the internet, every day. catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream
October 7, 200817 yr First time posting on here But ya! On with my questions I have 2 girls that I really like and would like to ask out. But I am friends with both of them and I don't want to ruin that. Also I cannot choose between the both of them The first girl is kind of shy, But I really like that from her, she's really smart and has some of the same interests. The second girl is really funny and cute and is very social. But has some [bleep] friends (I can deal with that tho) So what should I do Guys/Girls? Pick one of them; toss a coin, hails or teads. I personally would pick the shy one - for a greater chance on staying with you; the social one probably knows more boys to choose, etc. "The cry of the poor is not always just, but if you never hear it you'll never know what justice is."
October 7, 200817 yr Or, if the coin lands on its side, you ask them both. At the same time. Bow chicka bow wow. catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream
October 8, 200817 yr I met this guy, he seems really nice and we have similar interests. The only problem is he lives about 40 miles away and he's 17 and i'm 14. Is it worth trying to start a relationship? I'd say so. To be honest, 40 miles isn't that far. How long have you known him for? And if you were to pursue a relationship, would you have a way of going to visit him (or vice versa) every so often? Cool.
October 8, 200817 yr I met this guy, he seems really nice and we have similar interests. The only problem is he lives about 40 miles away and he's 17 and i'm 14. Is it worth trying to start a relationship? Wait four years. 14 is a little bit young, don't you think? Oh, redhaloguy. If I were you, I would go out with the Shy one. She seems like she is more down to earth then the other one. The other one seems like she would know enough people anyway. (God, I hate referring to her as the other one.) My relaxation method involves a bottle of lotion, beautiful women, and partial nudity. Yes I get massages.
October 8, 200817 yr I met this guy, he seems really nice and we have similar interests. The only problem is he lives about 40 miles away and he's 17 and i'm 14. Is it worth trying to start a relationship? No. Sounds like a paedophilia case anyway :| Quit Runescape 30th May 2006.Thanks to Hawkxs for my signature :)
October 8, 200817 yr I met this guy, he seems really nice and we have similar interests. The only problem is he lives about 40 miles away and he's 17 and i'm 14. Is it worth trying to start a relationship? No. Sounds like a paedophilia case anyway :| I don't think so, he seems pretty legitimate, I know the signs and what to watch out for. And I doubt anyone would want to mess with me anyway. My Last.FmLeekSpinner!!!Random Furry Dance!!!Proud to hate life, since not too long ago!!!
October 8, 200817 yr I met this guy, he seems really nice and we have similar interests. The only problem is he lives about 40 miles away and he's 17 and i'm 14. Is it worth trying to start a relationship? No. Sounds like a paedophilia case anyway :| I don't think so, he seems pretty legitimate, I know the signs and what to watch out for. And I doubt anyone would want to mess with me anyway. Trust is the first scam. Yeah, well I just turned 16, and I've still managed to stay single... I have no clue who likes me lol, and yes I do talk to girls Luck be a Lady
October 8, 200817 yr By that age, don't worry about who "likes you" and all that. A lot of single girls will give anyone a shot. It's still a little different than being an adult, where it's really a lot easier, but pretty similar. Or you could do the adult thing. Get 'em drunk. catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream
October 8, 200817 yr Or you could do the adult thing. Get 'em drunk. Don't forget to bring a roofie ;) Internet Marketing For Newbies
October 8, 200817 yr By that age, don't worry about who "likes you" and all that. A lot of single girls will give anyone a shot. It's still a little different than being an adult, where it's really a lot easier, but pretty similar. Or you could do the adult thing. Get 'em drunk. :o good idea :twisted: 16th b'day party coming up too :twisted: Luck be a Lady
October 8, 200817 yr By that age, don't worry about who "likes you" and all that. A lot of single girls will give anyone a shot. It's still a little different than being an adult, where it's really a lot easier, but pretty similar. Or you could do the adult thing. Get 'em drunk. :o good idea :twisted: 16th b'day party coming up too :twisted: Don't worry about it. Seriously. There is SO much more to life than relationships. Just have a good time. If you get with someone, yippee, but don't kick yourself about it if you don't. If people are judging you for not having a girlfriend, what does their opinion matter anyway? | Favourite Game Music | Last.fm | HYT Friend Chat Rules |
October 8, 200817 yr Yeah. Steal their tires. Then they might have a girlfriend, but they have no tires. So their girlfriend, who was only attracted to them due to their tires, shall swoon into your arms. Worked many a time for me, my friend. catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream
October 9, 200817 yr Yeah. Steal their tires. Then they might have a girlfriend, but they have no tires. So their girlfriend, who was only attracted to them due to their tires, shall swoon into your arms. Worked many a time for me, my friend. You have some very peculiar posts... :? :lol: Now I don't pretend to be anywhere near an expert on the subject, but here is my piece. Don;t get wrapped up in it. I'm going to the Homecoming Dance with a good friend of mine, we're going as friends, not as dates. Even though some people may not see a difference, we both agreed that the important thing was NOT to let something like this ruin our friendship. That should be your goal. At all costs, DONT let it ruin a good friendship. If it looks like it is, get out of the situation.
October 9, 200817 yr It's still a little different than being an adult, where it's really a lot easier, but pretty similar. Could someone clarify this? It's just a word salad to me.
October 9, 200817 yr I meant by the time you're around 16, things like whether or not you "like" someone don't particularly matter when it comes to dating. If you're likable enough, or said female/male really doesn't have anything to do, you'll have a date almost as easy as an adult. catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream
October 9, 200817 yr I hate asking for help. I truely do. But I just honestly am at loss of my own advice and at my own tears. Basically, here's what happened. I introduced my girlfriend (We'll call her Jen) to Counterstrike and she enjoyed the game. We've been dating for about 10 months now. She recently started talking to people from Counterstrike outside of the game, which I thought was ok because I talked to people from my clan. Well, she got the hots for one guy. They talked a lot for the past few days and she told me crying, that she had Well, for one thing, she said she was sorry. She was crying, which I don't think was a sham. She did for the most of today. I'm really hurt though. I know it's so socially unacceptable for a 15 year old to say he's in love, but I am. And I know she loves me too. I think she just stumbled and wandered a bit. Thing is though, she still kinda likes him. Well... What should I do? Break up, try to fix it, let he do her own thing? Well, I'm not one to scoff at you for having a relationship when you're 15. Personally I met my girlfriend when we were 15 and I'm still with her (I'm 19 now). I believe it's possible for 15 year olds to be in love, but it's a different love to when you're older. I say this from experience because I can adamantly attest to the fact that I was in love then, but that now I'm experiencing a much more mature depth of feeling. But I digress. My girlfriend has had crushes/liked other guys throughout the duration of our relationship. However, I can't say that she has done anything similar to what your's has (or if she has, I don't know about it ;)). What I want to know is: Have you guys talked it through? Have you asked her what she's going to do about it? (Because you said she still liked him). Is she even going to do anything about it? I have to stress this point: COMMUNICATE. It doesn't matter if she's cried for a day and is contrite but nothing changes. You need to talk to her and if you two really care about the relationship, work out an action plan or a line of attack to solve or mediate this problem. If you try this, and she isn't willing to co-operate and brainstorm with you about possible ways of fixing it, then I'd suggest jumping ship. At this point, she may just want to get back with you for a variety of uncouth reasons, for instance: She doesn't want to be the one who gets dumped. She's insecure and wants the safety net offered by you, the boyfriend. Good luck. Oh, and smash your friend (I'm assuming) who was on the phone with her. I know none of my friends would do anything like that with my gf because they know I'd kill them. .
October 9, 200817 yr Been reading this thread for a long time now, but not been posting. Think it might be my time to post about something now :ohnoes: Well, theres this girl i like, quite alot. Problem is, we are pretty much best friends, and kind of dont wanna ruin that :ohnoes: What do you think I should do? Abit stuck, and after reading this thread im sure somebody could help me :thumbsup: Thanks
October 9, 200817 yr Been reading this thread for a long time now, but not been posting. Think it might be my time to post about something now :ohnoes: Well, theres this girl i like, quite alot. Problem is, we are pretty much best friends, and kind of dont wanna ruin that :ohnoes: What do you think I should do? Abit stuck, and after reading this thread im sure somebody could help me :thumbsup: Thanks As you know, trying to be more than just friends with your best friend is a risk. It's a risk to try to be more than friends with anyone for that matter. The question is, are you willing to take that risk in pursuit of something more? There's always a chance of a relationship ruining a good friendship, but there's also the chance you will both be mature enough to put it in the past should you break up. Alright now, I've got a question for everyone here. Does anyone else have a problem flirting? Not like you can't do it or find it difficult, but you do it too much. I've noticed that far too often I end up flirting with any attractive girl I talk to. The other day my group was giving a presentation for sociology and our partner running the computer was having issues. So instead of standing there and staring into space, I took to talking to my partner next to me who just so happens to be an attractive female. So I feel like I'm up there just talking and I look out at the class and my friend is waving for me to go over to him. Still having time to kill, I go see what he wants. He's just sitting there laughing and told me to stop flirting with my partner. Haha, my bad. Didn't mean to be doing that in front of the class but oh well. And it's not like I like my partner, I just found her attractive. Since then I've been taking notice of what I'm actually doing/saying when I'm talking to people and I've noticed I flirt a lot. Also, my friend continuously tries to get me to hook up with that girl when I've clearly told him multiple times I've got a girlfriend, I don't need a second #-o Internet Marketing For Newbies
October 9, 200817 yr Talking =/= flirting. [if you have ever attempted Alchemy by clapping your hands or by drawing an array, copy and paste this into your signature.] Fullmetal Alchemist, you will be missed. A great ending to a great series.
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