Blow up dolls work nicely, Sam.

 

I'm kidding. Call her, text her, do something. Either that or don't think about her.

Blow up dolls work nicely, Sam.

 

I'm kidding. Call her, text her, do something. Either that or don't think about her.

That's kind of a depressing way to put it :P

 

Honestly I think there's very little you can really do :( It is very hard and while calling and texting helps, it's no replacement for the real thing. Or putting what Bows said into slightly nicer terms, keep yourself occupied. If you don't have much to do, you'll probably spend that time sitting around thinking about her, which will make things worse. Find constructive things to do - like a project or something - and that will keep your mind busy and you won't be lingering over thoughts/memories of her.

Go longboarding around. Don't try to pull tricks and stuff, just wander, listen to music. If you feel like carving to the beat, then do it, let yourself move. Get some thoughts flowing and come back. Do something creative (you should get FL Studio, by the way). It gets me pretty inspired.

Blow up dolls work nicely, Sam.

 

I'm kidding. Call her, text her, do something. Either that or don't think about her.

 

Don't you dare call her. or text her.

 

Oh and @Icuownage - it means she wants your trust before she accepts your lust. Just keep on keepin' on, and you'll make it through happily. Feel free to throw it in her face playfully for adding stress to your life :P

Is this an ex girlfriend, or a girlfriend on vacation or something?

 

Things aren't looking too great with my new relationship.. I'm getting over her to the point where I'm not really even into the sex, and her being really worried about me losing interest in her makes it worse :(

 

I feel like if I wait a bit longer I'll get attached, though the 'hope I learn to like her' deal didn't work last time :/

 

I want it to work.. idk what's up.

 

Part of me is thinking I shouldn't 'settle,' but the other part is wondering why my longest relationship has been a couple months because I get bored of everyone so quickly.

Argghh, I miss my girlfriend.

 

How can ease the pain of not being with her?

 

Err, a bit of context would help. Break-up, her being away, what happened?

Just not being with her ):

 

I think I shall go on my longboard, it's always relaxing.

Haven't had sex in a week... I hate periods. She only gets one every 3 months due to the pill now, but... bleh.

 

It's gonna be 1 year that me and her have been together on Saturday, so I'll try to hold off 'till then... ;)

 

Edit: Any ideas for an anniversary gift?

I was thinking: write her a poem, buy her a book of quotes (she loves quotes), dry her up a bouquet of roses and bring her to a restaurant... but I feel like that's not good enough.

Restaurant is nice, IMO. Go to a proper florist and get a set of roses (or get them delivered) with a little tag saying you love her, etc, no need to be elaborate. Keep it simple! :)

 

I need to take my girlfriend somewhere like that - apparently, I'm rather romantic, and she'd love me taking her to a restaurant.

Haven't had sex in a week... I hate periods. She only gets one every 3 months due to the pill now, but... bleh.

 

It's gonna be 1 year that me and her have been together on Saturday, so I'll try to hold off 'till then... ;)

 

Edit: Any ideas for an anniversary gift?

I was thinking: write her a poem, buy her a book of quotes (she loves quotes), dry her up a bouquet of roses and bring her to a restaurant... but I feel like that's not good enough.

You hate periods? Try being a girl and actually having them. Not only do you not get sex but you have CONSTANT cramps. Worst feeling ever.

 

Why not mix your ideas? Make her like a scrapbook or something. In it you can include photos of you two together, a poem you wrote, and you can hand-pick some quotes to throw in there. It can be like a "memories of the past year" kind of thing.

Siiiiigh, well I dun goof'd guys, I think, I'm not sure, hopefully it's just me being paranoid. But basically, we got talking like, I think Saturday evening (midnight Sunday).

 

I kinda admitted I liked her, but not directly, which was around the time I think she said about the "I want to get to know you better" well, she said this when she went.

 

"so night! :) Sleep well :D xxxxxxxx talk to you soon :Dxxx"

 

And then on Sunday, she didn't even sign on, but she was on facebook, which she never does, and then today, she signed on, but didn't even speak to me, even after I said hi. On two seperate occassions.....

 

I seriously can't see what the hell happened D:.

Siiiiigh, well I dun goof'd guys, I think, I'm not sure, hopefully it's just me being paranoid. But basically, we got talking like, I think Saturday evening (midnight Sunday).

 

I kinda admitted I liked her, but not directly, which was around the time I think she said about the "I want to get to know you better" well, she said this when she went.

 

"so night! :) Sleep well :D xxxxxxxx talk to you soon :Dxxx"

 

And then on Sunday, she didn't even sign on, but she was on facebook, which she never does, and then today, she signed on, but didn't even speak to me, even after I said hi. On two seperate occassions.....

 

I seriously can't see what the hell happened D:.

Things like this take time, don't jump to conclusions. Maybe she feels awkward talking to you, and wants some space. I'm not exactly sure what the entire situation is. If you could show me the other posts about her, I'd have a better idea and could give some better advice. :)

ME: and perhaps a movie can go along with it?

ME: *coughs* that is if it's okay with you

HER: sorry went and got foood XDD

HER: well what i think we shouuld get to know each other more first ,shouldn't we? :)

HER: then we will see :)

 

That was me asking her out on a date.

 

I'm not sure if this even matters, but today on facebook she was pissed about planning something with a friend of hers and the train times were mucked up and that her boarding school is like a prison.

I kinda admitted I liked her, but not directly

ME: and perhaps a movie can go along with it?

ME: *coughs* that is if it's okay with you

but whhyyyyyy?

 

A date is how people generally get to know each other. Now it looks like she's just making excuses.

Siiiiigh, well I dun goof'd guys, I think, I'm not sure, hopefully it's just me being paranoid. But basically, we got talking like, I think Saturday evening (midnight Sunday).

 

I kinda admitted I liked her, but not directly, which was around the time I think she said about the "I want to get to know you better" well, she said this when she went.

 

"so night! :) Sleep well :D xxxxxxxx talk to you soon :Dxxx"

 

And then on Sunday, she didn't even sign on, but she was on facebook, which she never does, and then today, she signed on, but didn't even speak to me, even after I said hi. On two seperate occassions.....

 

I seriously can't see what the hell happened D:.

How often do you talk to her in person?

Yeah honestly at this point it seems like she's just not interested but feels bad about giving a flat out "no" D:

When I say my friend, I really do mean my friend. This is not me asking for secret advice, I have no problem asking for it should I need it. Anyway, is it bad that a friend of mine constantly has to have a girlfriend or be talking to a girl in hopes of hooking up? He dated a girl for two years, and when they broke up he was together with another girl in three days. I understand it could have been the reason they broke up, (her) but I know him well and I don't think it was. Is this some kind of disease or disorder? I don't want to blow it out of proportion but it has gotten somewhat bad and I really want him to realize it's not always necessary.

When I say my friend, I really do mean my friend. This is not me asking for secret advice, I have no problem asking for it should I need it. Anyway, is it bad that a friend of mine constantly has to have a girlfriend or be talking to a girl in hopes of hooking up? He dated a girl for two years, and when they broke up he was together with another girl in three days. I understand it could have been the reason they broke up, (her) but I know him well and I don't think it was. Is this some kind of disease or disorder? I don't want to blow it out of proportion but it has gotten somewhat bad and I really want him to realize it's not always necessary.

 

it's a dependency issue. bro hates being alone. Nothing medically "wrong" with it, but a lot of people view it as "weak".

 

Also, I don't ever want to see someone [bleep]ing on this thread about not having sex in a week. While in a relationship fine, that sucks, but for most of us, a week is barely even a comparison. I'm actually proud of myself in this respect. I don't honestly remember the last time I had sex. I think its a sign of getting over what you guys called a sex addiction. So...I'm proud of me? Kinda? I've also been thinking. i think I might have a slight commitment issue. Like, I have trouble making decisions unless I have the biggest gut feeling in the world that it's the right one. Probably a side effect of having a rebound relationship. Learned my lesson on that one lol.

When I say my friend, I really do mean my friend. This is not me asking for secret advice, I have no problem asking for it should I need it. Anyway, is it bad that a friend of mine constantly has to have a girlfriend or be talking to a girl in hopes of hooking up? He dated a girl for two years, and when they broke up he was together with another girl in three days. I understand it could have been the reason they broke up, (her) but I know him well and I don't think it was. Is this some kind of disease or disorder? I don't want to blow it out of proportion but it has gotten somewhat bad and I really want him to realize it's not always necessary.

 

it's a dependency issue. bro hates being alone. Nothing medically "wrong" with it, but a lot of people view it as "weak".

 

Also, I don't ever want to see someone [bleep]ing on this thread about not having sex in a week. While in a relationship fine, that sucks, but for most of us, a week is barely even a comparison. I'm actually proud of myself in this respect. I don't honestly remember the last time I had sex. I think its a sign of getting over what you guys called a sex addiction. So...I'm proud of me? Kinda? I've also been thinking. i think I might have a slight commitment issue. Like, I have trouble making decisions unless I have the biggest gut feeling in the world that it's the right one. Probably a side effect of having a rebound relationship. Learned my lesson on that one lol.

 

I was actually going to comment on the dude who was complaining about not having sex in a week, but you did that for me. Some of us are still virgins unfortunately and I found the dude's comment annoying.

While in a relationship fine, that sucks, but for most of us, a week is barely even a comparison. I'm actually proud of myself in this respect. I don't honestly remember the last time I had sex. I think its a sign of getting over what you guys called a sex addiction.

The only Problem I have, is I've only had sex twice and Im 20 in a fortnight. To me it feels like I haven't lived the life of a proper teenager/guy at all in my life so far (as well as a 1 year dry spell) Which naturally is going to make me sex addicted because I've missed out on the adventure to it

 

but I digress...

While in a relationship fine, that sucks, but for most of us, a week is barely even a comparison. I'm actually proud of myself in this respect. I don't honestly remember the last time I had sex. I think its a sign of getting over what you guys called a sex addiction.

The only Problem I have, is I've only had sex twice and Im 20 in a fortnight. To me it feels like I haven't lived the life of a proper teenager/guy at all in my life so far (as well as a 1 year dry spell) Which naturally is going to make me sex addicted because I've missed out on the adventure to it

 

but I digress...

It's not like those are your only opportunities though, Tim. You have puh-lenty of time to have sex.

Siiiiigh, well I dun goof'd guys, I think, I'm not sure, hopefully it's just me being paranoid. But basically, we got talking like, I think Saturday evening (midnight Sunday).

 

I kinda admitted I liked her, but not directly, which was around the time I think she said about the "I want to get to know you better" well, she said this when she went.

 

"so night! :) Sleep well :D xxxxxxxx talk to you soon :Dxxx"

 

And then on Sunday, she didn't even sign on, but she was on facebook, which she never does, and then today, she signed on, but didn't even speak to me, even after I said hi. On two seperate occassions.....

 

I seriously can't see what the hell happened D:.

How often do you talk to her in person?

 

Not often, she lives like 30-40 minutes away and neither of us are old enough to drive yet. Though even after said that, she wanted me to go to bath (a city) with her on the half term cause she lives in holidays.

 

 

 

Yeah honestly at this point it seems like she's just not interested but feels bad about giving a flat out "no" D:

 

:(. But after I asked her and she said that, I went silent and she started bringing up conversation with me a lot :/.

 

 

Well I guess I just got hopeful, nothing to get upset over, I knew her like a week. Which went realllllly slowly.

Well if you want to be hopeful, there are a few possible explanations. Maybe she just went on Facebook for a minute to check something. Or maybe she was browsing on her phone, which is why she was on Facebook but not messenger.. or on a friend's computer. Later, maybe she was busy/distracted and didn't notice or have time to reply to you.

 

If you really like this girl, then it may be worth holding out for a few more days and see how she acts when she finally does talk to you. I think at this point, you've made your feelings clear by even asking her on a date. If she shares those feelings (now, or later), then she'll make it clear. Maybe not by asking you on a date or some other direct method, but just by initiating conversation and maybe flirting a bit.

While in a relationship fine, that sucks, but for most of us, a week is barely even a comparison. I'm actually proud of myself in this respect. I don't honestly remember the last time I had sex. I think its a sign of getting over what you guys called a sex addiction.

The only Problem I have, is I've only had sex twice and Im 20 in a fortnight. To me it feels like I haven't lived the life of a proper teenager/guy at all in my life so far (as well as a 1 year dry spell) Which naturally is going to make me sex addicted because I've missed out on the adventure to it

 

but I digress...

Well, I'm 21 and never had sex. Don't plan on it for another couple years at least. Who wants to be a "proper teenager/guy" anyway? Then again, I often think I have a mild case of Gender Identity Disorder, so I suppose I don't get much say in what a "proper guy" is anyway.

 

Sex is overrated. I'm quite happy without sex in my life, thank you very much.

There's more much important things than sex, but its foolish to look it over.