You assosicate with those who are similar to you.

 

I bet there's tenacle-monster hentai-blogger Estonian as much as there are pietious Estonian monks.

I wanted to say pretty much that. Some of it will come down to culture, but a lot of it comes from the individual and then who that individual associates with.

Is Tommy Wiseau Estonian? i've been trying to pin his ethnicity for years...

On the topic of tall/short girls, i don't know why but i have always had a strong attraction to taller women. I'm 6' i think, might be 6'1" and i've found myself almost searching for girls that stare me in they eye. Granted most of them were wearing like 6'' heels at the time. I've always been a big leg person. I love a girl with great legs. Tall girls have more leg, haha.

 

On a different note...

The girl i was in the "love triangle" with... well i decided to stop it. The other day she came back from a short trip back home. I saw her that night and we had a conversation that took a bit of a weird turn. Now a while back she told me she could offer me nothing more than her friendshit (no typo, i just believe that a former lover saying she still wants to be friends is utter shit). I accepted because i still liked spending time with her even though it was not in the bed. We have great chemistry and i feel like when i'm with her i can talk for hours. Whenever we spend time together 90% of the time we're laughing and 100% of the time we're having a great time. But things got a bit strange. As we were talking she told me she had to go back home next month for a week or two and she would really like it if i went with her. Now this was an hour or two after she once again told me we could only be friends for now, since she's kind of seeing the other guy and she thinks it might get serious. I was a bit mad when she asked me this. Asking someone to go to their house, live with them for a week, spend time with not only her but her family... that's kind of a big deal no matter how you look at it. I realise there's the "only as a friend" possibility, but i don't really think that applies in this situation. So i actually thought about it for a day and thought it would be fun, but then the other day kind of decided i was sick of this. I've been very quiet with her the entire week and have avoided seeing her. She would often text me and ask me if she could come over but i'd make up an excuse or tell her now wasn't a good time because i'm studying. I don't think she's really getting the hint though, haha. But to be quite honest, i'm not going to tell her straight up either.

I'm not exactly sure what has gotten in to me the past two weeks. I feel that since i have started therapy (man i sound like a loony), my perspective on so many things have changed. We went out tonight and i started a conversation with an extremely pretty girl, just for the heck of it. I saw a ton of guys hitting on her and thought that it would be fun to make fun of her because of it. We shared a few laughs and i left. 15 minutes later her friend comes to me and asks me what my problem is, why didn't i get her friend's number. Kind of occurred to me that i didn't ask for her number. I guess it just slipper my mind or something. I guess it was like fishing and then letting the fish go after catching it. Also, i suppose the fact that i didn't ask for her number gave her the impression that i didnt desire her, which made me all the more desirable. Oh how mind games can be fun.

I still didn't ask for her number though. Told her if she wanted to see me again i'll be back tomorrow night, so we'll see what happens. Also ran into a girl i was seeing for a brief period tonight. We talked for a while and she said that she noticed a change in my tone, and she found it very attractive. Which got me thinking... I guess in a way i have a bit of a "whatever" attitude when it comes to girls right now. I don't mean to sound cliche but i guess if it's meant to be... it will be. So i find myself trying a lot less in term of hooking up with girls. I talked to a girl earlier tonight. Actually she was a friend of a friend and she was kinda cute so i thought i'd talk to her. After about two minutes i found myself not knowing what to say to her and there was that awkward silence. I told her that the awkward silence is a bad sign, so i'm going to sneak away now and let her get back to her friends. Bit of an odd approach i know, but hey i'm not going to stand there feeling uncomfortable with a girl i don't know, don't care about, etc. just to maybe get a number (then work even harder, pretend even more, to eventually find out that she doesn't want a one night stand "but we can still be friends").

I also saw "slutty girl" tonight. Not sure who still remembers her, but basically she's a girl i've been wanting to bed. Tried talking to her once, got shot down so bad. But not gonna give up yet. She stared at me all night. Smiled at me when we made eye contact, but i kept a stone face. Didn't smile. Pretended i didn't notice/know her. She walked passed me on the way to the toilet, said hey and smiled. I just nodded at her. She looked a bit offended, but now i know she's going to be the one chasing me, which is more or less going to be [bleep]ing brilliant. I think out of everything that's going on in my love life right now, that is the only thing i still really want to experience haha.

 

Funny the only reason i wanted to post was to give my opinion on tall/short girls. Not sure where the rest came from......

RPG, no.

The guy who uploaded the vid is.

And Langzor, ewww.

 

And well, we have SOME weirdos, BUT generally the society is NOT that open. There is truth in the jokes about Estonians.

Nothing loony about having a therapist, Noxx. Just means you can afford someone to help sort your life out. (and yes, I remember the "slutty girl" from your posts. Have fun!)

My friend's foreign-exchange-student-roommate was explaining his rationale for slut-shaming...

 

Him: If you have a key that fits into a lot of locks, that's an awesome key. But if you have a lock that's opened by many keys, that's a shitty lock.

Me: Yeah dude if a girl has a hard time hooking up with lots of girls, she's a pretty shitty key.

Him: I don't think you understand...

 

:twss:

#-o

Great comeback to the lock and key metaphor I ran across once:

 

A sharpener that sharpens a ton of pencils is a good sharpener.

A pencil that you have to always sharpen is a crappy pencil.

A better comeback is that people are neither keys nor locks and that's a dumb comparison and then you ride off into the sunset doing sick skateboard jumps while making fingerguns at the sad nerd you totally owned.

 

pow pow pow

^Yeah but last time I tried a sick skateboard jump I broke my ankle and cried for three hours straight. It completely ruined my street cred.

A better comeback is that people are neither keys nor locks and that's a dumb comparison and then you ride off into the sunset doing sick skateboard jumps while making fingerguns at the sad nerd you totally owned.

 

pow pow pow

 

BLEGH SICK BRO YA POW POW POW

 

 

EDIT:

 

new online dating tactic: be boring as shit to unattractive girls you don't want to message you back. "What up" works as just a good of a conversation killer as "k" does when texting.

ON A DIFFERENT NOTE: Estonians have been ranked the least touchy-feely nation on Earth according to some kind of medical scientific research. Just mentioned by a sexuologist on TV.

I don't get touchy-feely when it's freezing cold either, to be honest.

ON A DIFFERENT NOTE: Estonians have been ranked the least touchy-feely nation on Earth according to some kind of medical scientific research. Just mentioned by a sexuologist on TV.

 

Gratz bro! Want a hug?

Meeting up with a girl I met online on Monday. Will update post-haste.

 

Also been talking to a girl on the West Coast, and the time delay is killing me. She's kind of the bees knees and makes me excited to look at my messages. Alas, West Coast. The best are always states away aren't they?

Aww... sorry, what's a state? My country is only 603 miles long, I don't understand. :P

I am literally dying because of this thread.

There goes my day's likes limit.

I am literally dying because of this thread.

There goes my day's likes limit.

 

Shouldn't you be heading to the hospital then?

I am literally dying because of this thread.

There goes my day's likes limit.

 

Shouldn't you be heading to the hospital then?

 

I applaud your ability to use clever pictures in forum posts. Truly remarkable.

aww, they're cute when they're new

See, this is why we don't get new people in OT :lol:

 

It was...intimidating joining this place back in '06 (didn't help that I would slap me if my 16 year old self showed up here; I was totally insuferable. Commence searching my post history!), and it can be intimidating now. Something about smaller groups and their inside humor and social conventions.

 

And do try to keep the posts to a bit more substance than just a picture where possible (just because this looks like it could continue).

 

 

@RPG, the distance really can be a killer. I've run across a couple guys in my time in the clan world I wouldn't have minded living a bit closer too. Not even as boyfriend material, but as people I might actually like to meet. For the best though, I don't think I would ever let myself actually meet someone that way, and it would be a huge tease.

Yeah I don't do distance, not after seeing my friends crash and burn with it so many times. Just a little annoying when I get real connections to people half way across the country (or in this case, the opposite coast).

 

I was intimidated by OT at first, too. Back in the day, there was a lot of hate on the "less mature" posters, but we all kinda scraped by. Some of us even gained maturity by tolerating the...'criticism'.