My comment is unrelated to any of the previous, but I thought it was funny, so I'll share:

 

 

 

Today me and my ex (don't ask) went to the mall today. We met up with this 28 year old that's been hitting on her for the past few months (she's 17). I asked him if he was there to meet underage women and to "please have a seat over there". Basically i real life Chris Hansen'd him. Funny [cabbage] \ .

 

 

 

But the things this guy's been saying really would be enough to get him arrested and black listed. He's lucky all we did was tell him off :twisted:

 

To be honest, if she's 17, in most states, shes legal for anyone. Even 95 year olds. As creepy as that may be, I don't think he was doing anything illegal.

Well, here's what happened today =] It went better than I would've thought possible. Well, it started out as she got out of her house to go see a "friend". After we left there we ran to the paintball grounds, the only secluded place around. Well, she wraps her arms around me and hides her face in my chest for a minute. Then she looks up, smiles, and I take the indication. I lean in. We kiss. (started kissing would be better terminology) It went all perfectly. Thanks guys =]

 

Niiiiice. :thumbup:

 

 

 

Just moved into college. Trying to meet girls is difficult for me since I never really went around trying to go after them. Plus, haven't had to go after a girl in over a year since I dated one for a year and the girl right after her just kinda fell into place. Although I met a couple girls who are really cool. And really attractive. We'll see what happens! Gotta just be confident now, hahaha... ack.

My comment is unrelated to any of the previous, but I thought it was funny, so I'll share:

 

 

 

Today me and my ex (don't ask) went to the mall today. We met up with this 28 year old that's been hitting on her for the past few months (she's 17). I asked him if he was there to meet underage women and to "please have a seat over there". Basically i real life Chris Hansen'd him. Funny [cabbage] \ .

 

 

 

But the things this guy's been saying really would be enough to get him arrested and black listed. He's lucky all we did was tell him off :twisted:

 

To be honest, if she's 17, in most states, shes legal for anyone. Even 95 year olds. As creepy as that may be, I don't think he was doing anything illegal.

 

 

 

Round these parts if you're 17 you're limited to the under 18 crowd. 16 is limited to the 17 under. 18 can only date higher.

 

 

 

It's weird how that law changes state to state.

My comment is unrelated to any of the previous, but I thought it was funny, so I'll share:

 

 

 

Today me and my ex (don't ask) went to the mall today. We met up with this 28 year old that's been hitting on her for the past few months (she's 17). I asked him if he was there to meet underage women and to "please have a seat over there". Basically i real life Chris Hansen'd him. Funny [cabbage] \ .

 

 

 

But the things this guy's been saying really would be enough to get him arrested and black listed. He's lucky all we did was tell him off :twisted:

 

To be honest, if she's 17, in most states, shes legal for anyone. Even 95 year olds. As creepy as that may be, I don't think he was doing anything illegal.

 

 

 

Round these parts if you're 17 you're limited to the under 18 crowd. 16 is limited to the 17 under. 18 can only date higher.

 

 

 

It's weird how that law changes state to state.

 

Ah, where I'm at it's 15 is limited to 15-18, then 16 is just 15+

My comment is unrelated to any of the previous, but I thought it was funny, so I'll share:

 

 

 

Today me and my ex (don't ask) went to the mall today. We met up with this 28 year old that's been hitting on her for the past few months (she's 17). I asked him if he was there to meet underage women and to "please have a seat over there". Basically i real life Chris Hansen'd him. Funny [cabbage] \ .

 

 

 

But the things this guy's been saying really would be enough to get him arrested and black listed. He's lucky all we did was tell him off :twisted:

 

To be honest, if she's 17, in most states, shes legal for anyone. Even 95 year olds. As creepy as that may be, I don't think he was doing anything illegal.

 

As long as they don't have sex they could both be any age, dating ages is not governed by law.

Update on my winism/luckism...

 

 

 

Okay. So we both are love each other... And we have a lot of physical chemistry. \

 

 

 

Anyway... Her parents and her friends hate my soul...

 

 

 

Like seriously, I went to her house, and her dad said leave and went for his shotgun. :x

 

 

 

So I ask why...

 

 

 

1st her friends didn't like me because the girl lets call Jane... Jane didn't spend as much time with her friends as she did with me, I'm her first boyfriend her friends don't know how to deal with it. They tell her parents they hate me, so her parents hate me. Her friends finally get some guyfriends, and see I'm not evil... So we're on good terms. Then her parents tell her friends that Jane's been sending me pornography and I should be arrested... (she sent me a picture of her in a bathing suit, two days before we went to the beach together...) and that I use foul language (it's allowed in my house on a limited basis so it's from force of habit... and I'm a teenager get off my back...) and that I verbally abuse her... (i don't have anything for this one)

 

 

 

So I'm like....

 

 

 

 

 

 

Now I need to stop them from hating me, or take a note from Bill Shakespeare and just love the forbidden. ;)

 

 

 

Her parents hate you - that's sorted by having dinner with them. Ask her to arrange it.

 

 

 

Her friends hate you - so what? My exs friends hated me because of the same thing she chose me over them. I just didn't give a [cabbage] what they thought I'd be nice to them anyway.

My comment is unrelated to any of the previous, but I thought it was funny, so I'll share:

 

 

 

Today me and my ex (don't ask) went to the mall today. We met up with this 28 year old that's been hitting on her for the past few months (she's 17). I asked him if he was there to meet underage women and to "please have a seat over there". Basically i real life Chris Hansen'd him. Funny [cabbage] \ .

 

 

 

But the things this guy's been saying really would be enough to get him arrested and black listed. He's lucky all we did was tell him off :twisted:

 

To be honest, if she's 17, in most states, shes legal for anyone. Even 95 year olds. As creepy as that may be, I don't think he was doing anything illegal.

 

As long as they don't have sex they could both be any age, dating ages is not governed by law.

 

 

 

Thank god one of my ex's don't know that. She'd go phyco on me. :shock:

To be honest, if she's 17, in most states, shes legal for anyone. Even 95 year olds. As creepy as that may be, I don't think he was doing anything illegal.

 

 

 

Depends on how he was hitting on her. Even if she was 18, he could be charged with sexual assault if what he says was bad enough.

To be honest, if she's 17, in most states, shes legal for anyone. Even 95 year olds. As creepy as that may be, I don't think he was doing anything illegal.

 

 

 

Depends on how he was hitting on her. Even if she was 18, he could be charged with sexual assault if what he says was bad enough.

 

Yeah, sure, if the fashion police was on jury duty.

My comment is unrelated to any of the previous, but I thought it was funny, so I'll share:

 

 

 

Today me and my ex (don't ask) went to the mall today. We met up with this 28 year old that's been hitting on her for the past few months (she's 17). I asked him if he was there to meet underage women and to "please have a seat over there". Basically i real life Chris Hansen'd him. Funny [cabbage] \ .

 

 

 

But the things this guy's been saying really would be enough to get him arrested and black listed. He's lucky all we did was tell him off :twisted:

 

To be honest, if she's 17, in most states, shes legal for anyone. Even 95 year olds. As creepy as that may be, I don't think he was doing anything illegal.

 

As long as they don't have sex they could both be any age, dating ages is not governed by law.

 

 

 

Legal consent for sex is 16 in my state so they could do anything they wanted, and most girls here date older men. Hell I'm about to be 19 and my girlfriend is 15..

Background from last week:

 

 

 

[hide=]Alright, it's been quite some time since I've been here, but it doesn't really matter because all of those past issues are more or less resolved.

 

 

 

Alright, this summer I started with marching band (drum line). After a couple weeks into the practices, I started liking my section leader (Amy). However, I just ignored it at first because I didn't want to make anything awkward in the drumline and I didn't really have full-blown one-itis, as well as the fact that she is a senior and I am a sophomore.

 

 

 

In earlier August I started talking to her on the facebook IM, mainly about drumline stuff and music and other things, and I burned her a cd, which she responded to me the next day by texting me and saying it was amazing and that it "helped heal a broken heart," which she expanded upon eventually by saying that her boyfriend was leaving for college. This made me think that my chances with her would end up being rather small, seeing as she had a boyfriend and I figured I was friend-zoned after she told me something like that.

 

 

 

We started texting more, and eventually home band camp started, meaning marching band practice from 9 am - 4 pm every week day this week and thus I was with her all week basically. However, we didn't really talk that much because there wasn't much downtime at camp. However, I started texting her still about various things, where on monday we began texting about texting. I mentioned that I didn't have unlimited, and jokingly added that it didn't matter because I don't have many friends. She then replied, "that's hard to believe that a great guy like you doesn't have friends." I clarified that I was joking and my friends just didn't have texting, but for the benefit of any advice givers I am generally shy and slow with getting to know people, but the fact that she said that seemed a bit strange.

 

 

 

Then, err, yesterday happened. I was getting my band uniform fitted, and she randomly came into the room and asked me if I liked Swedish fish. On the way back home, I texted her and asked what that was all about and why she was at the school (people who were in the band before got uniforms and hour earlier). she said that she was there because of drama.i mentioned that I had been interested in that for a while, but I don't have enough classes to take it. She told me that she was close with the drama teacher and could get me into the play without being in the class and told me that I should do lighting. I asked what that consisted of, and she replied, "Lol heights lighting and me lol." I was rather surprised and replied that lighting might be more fun, to which she replied, "Lol I'd like that." Aside from this, I learned that she had dumped her boyfriend that day.

 

 

 

By this point I was rather surprised, not really knowing what to expect at band camp today. We still didn't really talk, due partially to the fact that there really wasn't that much time in between playing and learning the show. However, as usual, I texted her afterwards, and she mentioned that she had just finished playing tennis. I mentioned that I had never really played it before (I'm bad at sports and don't really like them, thus I tend to avoid them; only one I have ever enjoyed was fencing). She mentioned that i didn't seem like a ports person and that's what she liked about me.

 

 

 

Which brings me here. I like her a lot more now (though not one-itis level), and I'm thinking that I might have a chance with her. the main problems I can see are that it might things in drumline awkward (especially because the band is going to away band camp sunday morning), her being two years older than me, and my lack of, err, experience (never been in a similar situation or dated before).

 

 

 

So, I guess the main questions are: does it seem like she likes me, and what do I do?[/hide]

 

 

 

 

 

Alright, after posting this, most people here said i should make a move within a week or so. Seeing as a week has passed, I figured I should give an update.

 

 

 

Basically, I didn't really make any more advances, and I really don't think I'm going to. I went to band camp thinking about how I should attempt to advance things there. There was a lot of free time and most of the drum line hung out together, so I spent more time with her in person rather than texting. After getting to know her more, I decided that I honestly would rather have her as a friend than try to make something more out of it and that I didn't really want to date her or anything anymore.

 

 

 

However, wednesday was the day of the dance at camp. It was a lot of fun, despite the fact that I haven't the slightest clue how to dance. However, something sort of significant happened, otherwise I wouldn't be mentioning it. At one point I left my friends for a minute and was standing there, and she just came up to me and asked me if i danced. I was caught off guard and responded that I didn't know how, which she responded with an "oh" and walked away to rejoin some of her friends. After that I realized how stupid that probably was on my part and proceeded to mentally facepalm for the rest of the night. After the last song she hugged me, but I realize that that probably doesn't mean much to you people.

 

 

 

Nothing else of that sort really happened on thursday or today aside from her basically convincing me more to join lighting in drama. I've basically decided not to pursue anything anymore because after spending more time with her I am fairly positive that she is not attracted to me and that any sort of relationship like that would just be utterly awkward. I guess things might change again, but I'm content with how things are now.

How can you explain the difference between love love and friendship love to a person who has never been in a relationship?

dance

 

I just want to point out that you're not expected to dance really well, just do a loose two-step and look like you're having fun.

How can you explain the difference between love love and friendship love to a person who has never been in a relationship?

 

You can't. A person who's never been in a relationship, especially, will consider someone who's been their "girlfriend/boyfriend" for a week (I've only called two girls my girlfriends, and both were after about two weeks of dating. I still felt wierd about it.) true love. And it will be totally lame.

 

 

 

But, nothing you can do about it.

I have really bad problems with being, jealous, I think.

 

I always get really upset, and like, pissed off almost, but moreso upset, whenever my girlfriend goes to the house of one of my guy friends, like, really upset, or pissed, over absolutely nothing. I mean there're factors from the fact of who's house it is, and like, jokes he makes, cuase he's a [bleep]ing douche bag. and yeah.

 

I have no idea where I was going with this, anything I can do to get me to not be so, jealous, I think. also just kind of ranting/venting.

lol nearly 200 pages...so many people on tipit with so many problems, lol

lol nearly 200 pages...so many people on tipit with so many problems, lol

 

What? You don't have problems or something?

lol nearly 200 pages...so many people on tipit with so many problems, lol

 

 

 

You got a problem with that?

 

 

 

loooool

 

 

 

You can't. A person who's never been in a relationship, especially, will consider someone who's been their "girlfriend/boyfriend" for a week (I've only called two girls my girlfriends, and both were after about two weeks of dating. I still felt wierd about it.) true love. And it will be totally lame.

 

 

 

But, nothing you can do about it.

 

 

 

I agree. Love is just something you have to experience on your own, as love is going to be a different thing for everybody anyway. Two people might say they love each other, and mean it in a more-than-friends way, but that doesn't mean they feel exactly the same way about each other.

 

 

 

In other words, love is undefinable on a universal level.

lol nearly 200 pages...so many people on tipit with so many problems, lol

 

It's more of 180 pages of responses or statements.

lol nearly 200 pages...so many people on tipit with so many problems, lol

 

 

 

Actually, it's closer to 300.

 

 

 

A good number of pages had been deleted before. (About 90, I think)

 

 

 

Besides, everyone has problems, you got a problem with that?

women suck.

 

period.

 

 

 

My story is that simple. I'm so sick of their confusing bull crap and the fact that they never know what they're doing until they regret something.

 

 

 

[/rant]

women suck.

 

period.

 

 

 

Lol, thanks for reminding me how immature I still am. :lol: I've been feeling like an old fart lately.

I have really bad problems with being, jealous, I think.

 

I always get really upset, and like, pissed off almost, but moreso upset, whenever my girlfriend goes to the house of one of my guy friends, like, really upset, or pissed, over absolutely nothing. I mean there're factors from the fact of who's house it is, and like, jokes he makes, cuase he's a [bleep] douche bag. and yeah.

 

I have no idea where I was going with this, anything I can do to get me to not be so, jealous, I think. also just kind of ranting/venting.

 

 

 

you just have to learn to trust her, no matter how hard it is. If she's a cheating scum then she's not worth it. But because you care about her you have to give her space and trust.

I have really bad problems with being, jealous, I think.

 

I always get really upset, and like, pissed off almost, but moreso upset, whenever my girlfriend goes to the house of one of my guy friends, like, really upset, or pissed, over absolutely nothing. I mean there're factors from the fact of who's house it is, and like, jokes he makes, cuase he's a [bleep] douche bag. and yeah.

 

I have no idea where I was going with this, anything I can do to get me to not be so, jealous, I think. also just kind of ranting/venting.

 

 

 

you just have to learn to trust her, no matter how hard it is. If she's a cheating scum then she's not worth it. But because you care about her you have to give her space and trust.

 

I've been working on that, and I realized that last night. thanks for that anyways, makes me feel better.

women suck.

 

period.

 

 

 

My story is that simple. I'm so sick of their confusing bull crap and the fact that they never know what they're doing until they regret something.

 

 

 

[/rant]

 

Most men are the same way, they just don't realize it.