Private is always on friends, because it's a hell of a lot better than adding names to my ignore list. Arrogant? It's a game, it's my private chat, I'll talk to my current friends only, because I added them for a reason. I like talking to them, not the countless other people who just wanna borrow things I don't have (Why does everyone assume at 137 combat you MUST have a godsword?) <_<