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One of my friends hate me for the dumbest reason...

 

I wouldnt mine him some ess on Runescape, Now he's deciding to be a major butthole about it, and school is coming up next week... What should I do?

Talk to him about it.

 

 

 

:|

Talk to him about it.

 

 

 

:|

 

 

 

I have...

Ignore him? I don't see the problem here. :|

Mine some ess, tell him you're sorry, tell him if he goes to the bank you'll sell...go to the bank..then say 'Selling

 

 

 

Nah, that'd be mean. Just ignore it.

Tell him you broke your pickaxe.

I cant just ignore it... For one, I know him IRL.. Wait nvm I could ignore him there too..

He 'hates' you for such a stupid reason, is he really your friend? Tell him that you don't have to follow his commands, stick up for yourself. Your not his slave, and he can't act like you are one.

 

 

 

If he can't respect that, well he isn't much of a friend.

Well the situation leads me to one of two conclusions:

 

 

 

a) The strength of your friendship is in great question if a game - and that too a horribly petty aspect of that game (it's not like you stole his party hat) - can draw you apart :-k

 

 

 

or

 

 

 

B) Your friend is acting a little immature and if he's not going to get over this, then he's probably not much of a friend at all.

 

 

 

As for a solution:

 

Have you talked to him personally? Or just over RS/internet/phone? Once school starts you'll probably have to confront him face to face, and it's going to be a lot harder for him to ignore what you have to say.

 

 

 

Plan out some well-reasoned arguments and think about how to deliver them effectively. What he wants to hear from you is some kind of concession - that you SHOULD have mined him essence.

 

 

 

Assuming that you weren't rude in saying no, I would suggest telling him that you are more than willing to help him out in other parts of the game, like quests he hasn't finished that you have, and things of that nature. However, you should delicately point out that mining essence is a tedious task that you don't gain a whole lot from. Make it clear (but again, delicately) that it's slightly unfair of him to ask you to do it for him, since it takes away from your playing time and enjoyment. And really, essence? You've got be joking. Anyone with a pickaxe could do that...

 

 

 

He'll be slightly enraged by this argument, and he'll be rallying himself to a retort and a further complication of the situation.

 

 

 

Before he can do that, mollify him by telling him that he's a really good friend and you'd hate to ruin things over this small scuffle. Bringing up some sort of inside joke or catchphrase you/your group of friends uses, if you can work it in, might help also.

 

 

 

Good luck :). Dealing with people is the probably the single largest challenge in most people's lives (the malnourished and the diseased aside :(), so even if you don't manage to repair your friendship, you'll be wiser for it.

^ Thanks For The advice all of you, especially the one above. Now, I am going to tell him how it is =)

I'd go 2-3 days without talking so he can cool down after it, then if it comes up again approach him like it was a stupid little thing that happened in the past and just laugh about it and move on.

One of my friends hate me for the dumbest reason...

 

 

And you made a thread for the same dumbest reason.

I cant just ignore it... For one, I know him IRL.. Wait nvm I could ignore him there too..

 

 

 

put him on ur ignore list IRL

 

 

 

Seriously though, if your bigger than him violence works : :D MAybe not, just tell him to get off his lazy butt and do it himself

When I saw the title name, and the author of the topic, I knew this was going to be dumb

Tell him he is acting like a total noob

Thats... well, really stupid. How old are you guys for him to get mad over such a childish thing?

When I saw the title name, and the author of the topic, I knew this was going to be dumb

 

We're getting so many dumb threads like these lately. I'd really love to see a general advice subforum made just because these advice needing threads are so stupid and there are so many of them.

Well the situation leads me to one of two conclusions:

 

 

 

a) The strength of your friendship is in great question if a game - and that too a horribly petty aspect of that game (it's not like you stole his party hat) - can draw you apart :-k

 

 

 

or

 

 

 

B) Your friend is acting a little immature and if he's not going to get over this, then he's probably not much of a friend at all.

 

 

 

As for a solution:

 

Have you talked to him personally? Or just over RS/internet/phone? Once school starts you'll probably have to confront him face to face, and it's going to be a lot harder for him to ignore what you have to say.

 

 

 

Plan out some well-reasoned arguments and think about how to deliver them effectively. What he wants to hear from you is some kind of concession - that you SHOULD have mined him essence.

 

 

 

Assuming that you weren't rude in saying no, I would suggest telling him that you are more than willing to help him out in other parts of the game, like quests he hasn't finished that you have, and things of that nature. However, you should delicately point out that mining essence is a tedious task that you don't gain a whole lot from. Make it clear (but again, delicately) that it's slightly unfair of him to ask you to do it for him, since it takes away from your playing time and enjoyment. And really, essence? You've got be joking. Anyone with a pickaxe could do that...

 

 

 

He'll be slightly enraged by this argument, and he'll be rallying himself to a retort and a further complication of the situation.

 

 

 

Before he can do that, mollify him by telling him that he's a really good friend and you'd hate to ruin things over this small scuffle. Bringing up some sort of inside joke or catchphrase you/your group of friends uses, if you can work it in, might help also.

 

 

 

Good luck :). Dealing with people is the probably the single largest challenge in most people's lives (the malnourished and the diseased aside :(), so even if you don't manage to repair your friendship, you'll be wiser for it.

 

 

 

OR!

 

 

 

You could just kick him in the balls.

OR!

 

 

 

You could just kick him in the balls.

 

haha great reply, that gave me a good laugh. :lol:

 

 

 

 

 

One of my friends hate me for the dumbest reason...

 

He doesn't sound like a very good friend. :idea:

I'm sure it will all blow over and you will look back on it and go 'Hey remember when we had a fight over Runescape?' Then you both will say 'lol' in real life :P

Complain to Customer Support on Jagex.com. I here they love sorting out little kiddies problems.

 

 

 

If not the Kids Help Line is open 24 hours a day.

I'm sure I've said this here before, but to quote Bash once more...

 

 

 

Sever the main neck tendons before cutting through the spinal cord. That will allow you more opportunity to separate the vertebrae prior to removing the head.

If he's like that, you'd probably be better off without him.

lol?

 

 

 

better talk him out of being mad..... getting mad over a game it stupid.

When you see him at school, say "STFU Newb!" Say it exactly like that. lol

 

 

 

I'm just playing. That is a really, really stupid reason for him to get mad at you, seriously it is. Just ignore it and if your friend is a true friend, he'll calm down about it.

 

 

 

It seems like everyone has given you the same advice though. :|

 

 

 

Well maybe he won't "pwn" you in real life. lol =)