October 15, 201015 yr As for that last girl, nothing really took off, so I'm just gonna keep on rolling for now.That's the kind of attitude everybody should be taking when it comes to finding a girl/guy for themselves. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. Don't beat yourself up over it, just brush it off and keep looking, you'll find that one person eventually. ;)
October 15, 201015 yr You've got to be confident. Accept that sometimes you will be rejected, you just gotta hope for the best. 2257AD.TUMBLR.COM
October 16, 201015 yr You've got to be confident. Accept that sometimes you will be rejected, you just gotta hope for the best. Just something to add (and not ask, for once): we're all gamers here (or at least we used to, at one point), and whenever I hear talk about this, I remember this great analogy... You want to level up your babe-getting skills, right? Social level, whatever. How do you get advance levels in mostly all skill-based video games? Experience. Sure, that may mean clicking a tree 250 times every hour, but how would you define 'experience' in real life? Basically, real life experience is anything - win or lose, and you learn from it. You're still gaining levels... in fact, that's what I did most of my life... you grow up actually when you make mistakes... that's a key... if you're successful all the time, you're not growing.
October 16, 201015 yr Homecoming: The Final Frontier It's not even mine, it's my friends, that he got me into. But she's gonna be there. So if all goes well, I'll keep trying. if not...I give up women. Simple as that. Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
October 16, 201015 yr But she's gonna be there. She, the one for you, could be in a relationship so don't give up on them if you don't find anyone. And going into there thinking "she is here" is both good and bad. Bad in the sense that you may end up forcing yourself to like somebody..
October 16, 201015 yr Homecoming: The Final Frontier It's not even mine, it's my friends, that he got me into. But she's gonna be there. So if all goes well, I'll keep trying. if not...I give up women. Simple as that. Seems like you should learn how to be fully-independent before pursuing a partner...
October 16, 201015 yr Homecoming: The Final Frontier It's not even mine, it's my friends, that he got me into. But she's gonna be there. So if all goes well, I'll keep trying. if not...I give up women. Simple as that. Seems like you should learn how to be fully-independent before pursuing a partner... +1 And in other news I have done something ranking high on the stupidy scale..
October 16, 201015 yr I have a bit of a problem. I've been flirting with a girl and stuff, but whenever I see her it's in the hallways for a couple of minutes, if not a handful of seconds. I can never get any time with her, whenever I do someone seems to butt in, she's busy almost all the time... Our lunchtimes don't seem to be at the same time (she's in the grade above), and we finish school at different times (and when we don't, she doesn't take the bus). I'm having a hard time jumping the gap between just texting her and actually getting somewhere. Matt: You want that eh? You want everything good for you. You want everything that's--falls off garbage can Camera guy: Whoa, haha, are you okay dude? Matt: You want anything funny that happens, don't you? Camera guy: still laughing Matt: You want the funny shit that happens here and there, you think it comes out of your [bleep]ing [wagon] pushes garbage can down, don't you? You think it's funny? It comes out of here! running towards Camera guy Camera guy: runs away still laughing Matt: You think the funny comes out of your mother[bleep]ing creativity? Comes out of Satan, mother[bleep]er! nn--ngh! pushes Camera guy down Camera guy: Hoooholy [bleep]! Matt: FUNNY ISN'T REAL! FUNNY ISN'T REAL!
October 16, 201015 yr I have a bit of a problem. I've been flirting with a girl and stuff, but whenever I see her it's in the hallways for a couple of minutes, if not a handful of seconds. I can never get any time with her, whenever I do someone seems to butt in, she's busy almost all the time... Our lunchtimes don't seem to be at the same time (she's in the grade above), and we finish school at different times (and when we don't, she doesn't take the bus). I'm having a hard time jumping the gap between just texting her and actually getting somewhere. Do you have any friends in common? because if you do that is probably the easiest way to meet up with her. I know you probably want to see her on her own but that comes with time..
October 17, 201015 yr Homecoming: The Final Frontier It's not even mine, it's my friends, that he got me into. But she's gonna be there. So if all goes well, I'll keep trying. if not...I give up women. Simple as that. Seems like you should learn how to be fully-independent before pursuing a partner... +1 And in other news I have done something ranking high on the stupidy scale.. 1) I'm too pissed off to defend my independence or apparent lack there of, so whatever 2) what did you do that highly ranks on the stupid scale? Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
October 17, 201015 yr In all honesty, I definitely think that the only time you're going to find a girl that you're going to hit it off with is when you aren't looking for her. Why? Because you're acting yourself at that time, you aren't thinking "Hey, I need to impress this girl", you're focussing on something else and you're just being you. Everything's natural. Of my last three relationships, during two of them I think I'd say I was genuinely happy. I met one of the girls on a school ski trip, the other at a school leadership camp (Getting involved in anything helps your chances too). The third girlfriend? She was a hookup from a party almost a year before we started dating. That one lasted about three weeks, and I lost all interest after about a week. The goal of that relationship really wasn't even a relationship, just sex, and that didn't even happen. So my tips? Give up on finding THE perfect girl for you, or even just any girl. Focus on being happy, and having fun, because why does it matter what you're doing, if you're happy? This is at least my life philosophy at the moment. This really isn't directed at anyone, just something I've been really thinking about since I was hanging out and catching up with one of those exgirlfriends tonight. Turned out to be a really good night, she (Ilana, dated her from the beginning of the year to mid march) is probably one of the few people I'd say I completely enjoy just talking to, and in general being with. The other exgirlfriend (Water polo player) is another one. There's no such thing as regret. A regret means you are unhappy with the person you are now,and if you're unhappy with the person you are, you change yourself. Thatregret will no longer be a regret, because it will help to form the new,better you. So really, a regret isn't a regret. It's experience.
October 17, 201015 yr Had fun tonight at a party with my brother and some of his friends. Forgot that parties with older people tended to be, you know, enjoyable. Oh! And, that thing won't work out. But I have a wager. My brother and best friend bet that I will lose my virginity no later than the summer of 2012. I disagree, and will remain a good little guy. I'm even going to make a literal "V-card." Funny part? A 20-something-year-old girl tonight told me that $75 (three people are in at 25 a pop) was a fair price to corrupt me. Then, sexual tension. Then, I left because I promised my mom I'd be home at 12-something. My life should be in books. catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream
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October 17, 201015 yr @ aquariusman My philosophy is a little different. It's always been to learn how to attract women, because then you know what the hell you're doing when the perfect one comes along. It makes her so much more special imo, because she stands out ahead of all the other girls. Which means a lot more than her standing out because she was 'the girl I met who would have sex with me.'
October 17, 201015 yr Had fun tonight at a party with my brother and some of his friends. Forgot that parties with older people tended to be, you know, enjoyable. Oh! And, that thing won't work out. But I have a wager. My brother and best friend bet that I will lose my virginity no later than the summer of 2012. I disagree, and will remain a good little guy. I'm even going to make a literal "V-card." Funny part? A 20-something-year-old girl tonight told me that $75 (three people are in at 25 a pop) was a fair price to corrupt me. Then, sexual tension. Then, I left because I promised my mom I'd be home at 12-something. My life should be in books. o_O Is this lack of wanting to lose your virginity due to religious views or something or just personal moral values? @ aquariusman I agree completely.
October 17, 201015 yr Are pheromones real? Because I always think about my muse and how she is doing. I stopped being nervous around pretty girls when I was 12, but I am still giddy when she is around. ANYWAY, if pheromones were real, because mine are so strong for her, I figured hers would have to at least take some notice to me. Or am I just dreaming/fantasizing?
October 17, 201015 yr Had fun tonight at a party with my brother and some of his friends. Forgot that parties with older people tended to be, you know, enjoyable. Oh! And, that thing won't work out. But I have a wager. My brother and best friend bet that I will lose my virginity no later than the summer of 2012. I disagree, and will remain a good little guy. I'm even going to make a literal "V-card." Funny part? A 20-something-year-old girl tonight told me that $75 (three people are in at 25 a pop) was a fair price to corrupt me. Then, sexual tension. Then, I left because I promised my mom I'd be home at 12-something. My life should be in books. o_O Is this lack of wanting to lose your virginity due to religious views or something or just personal moral values? @ aquariusman I agree completely.Because it is funny. And, now I have money placed upon it. catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream
October 17, 201015 yr [hide=warning: it's big]Had fun tonight at a party with my brother and some of his friends. Forgot that parties with older people tended to be, you know, enjoyable. Oh! And, that thing won't work out. But I have a wager. My brother and best friend bet that I will lose my virginity no later than the summer of 2012. I disagree, and will remain a good little guy. I'm even going to make a literal "V-card." Funny part? A 20-something-year-old girl tonight told me that $75 (three people are in at 25 a pop) was a fair price to corrupt me. Then, sexual tension. Then, I left because I promised my mom I'd be home at 12-something. My life should be in books. o_O Is this lack of wanting to lose your virginity due to religious views or something or just personal moral values? @ aquariusman I agree completely.Because it is funny. And, now I have money placed upon it.[/hide] If you can do that then kudos to you Sir.
October 17, 201015 yr @ aquariusman My philosophy is a little different. It's always been to learn how to attract women, because then you know what the hell you're doing when the perfect one comes along. It makes her so much more special imo, because she stands out ahead of all the other girls. Which means a lot more than her standing out because she was 'the girl I met who would have sex with me.'That's the thing though, I'm not looking for the "perfect one", I'm just hoping to find those people that will come to mean something to me, and I know that I'm not going to find them doing the same things I've always; I gotta change things up, meet new people. I personally think people focus too much on that "one" person they think will make the difference in their life, that will make them instantly happy. In my eyes, there are several people in your life that you can be happy with, and I'm not just talking about girlfriends and boyfriends, I'm talking about people in general. Part of looking for happiness for me is also finding out what I'm happy doing. Right now there's a few things I know. Rugby makes me happy, and is the one thing that I always love doing. Doesn't matter how I felt like that day, or what else I was doing, rugby is my release, rugby is something I plan on playing until injuries stop me from being able to play. On top of rugby is just sports in general. Then there's a few certain people that I can almost always just sit and talk with for hours. Two of them are ex girlfriends, another is a girl I just met, but I'm still deciding what to do about it, because she is I think about two and a half years younger than me. Another person is my cousin, even more are a handful of people at a camp I hope to be working at this summer. And in all honesty, one of the things that probably makes me happiest is discovering what makes me happy. New things, new places, new faces. I love it. I plan on moving away from home for university, going out to British Columbia (More than halfway across the country), and in all honesty, I don't really want to come home except for maybe Christmas. I want to try and see what I can make for myself, on my own. This is one hell of a tangent, but I think it still comes back to my original point: when I'm interacting with people, I just look for happiness. Sometimes that does come from pursuing a girl, but most often it just comes from getting to know people, and talking to them, without any intentions other than curiosity. There's no such thing as regret. A regret means you are unhappy with the person you are now,and if you're unhappy with the person you are, you change yourself. Thatregret will no longer be a regret, because it will help to form the new,better you. So really, a regret isn't a regret. It's experience.
October 17, 201015 yr Are pheromones real? Because I always think about my muse and how she is doing. I stopped being nervous around pretty girls when I was 12, but I am still giddy when she is around. ANYWAY, if pheromones were real, because mine are so strong for her, I figured hers would have to at least take some notice to me. Or am I just dreaming/fantasizing? pheromones are very real. that's why perfume/cologne sells so well. scent and arousal are creepily close in relation. Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
October 17, 201015 yr Yes, pheromones are real. Not quite sure what you're asking though... Well I wasn't really asking a question. I just always think to myself, "Okay because mine go crazy on her, then hers have to sense mine". I was wondering if this thought was practical or not.
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