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I was about to ask the same question. Time outs don't work, the child doesn't learn from having to do nothing for 5 minutes. Taking away their toys doesn't work, children have amazing imaginations and will occupy themselves in some other manor. What else are you to do with them?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If pysical pain is such an effective detterant, why not use it to deter crime? Punish a thief with lashes to make sure he or she doesn't do it again?

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I was about to ask the same question. Time outs don't work, the child doesn't learn from having to do nothing for 5 minutes. Taking away their toys doesn't work, children have amazing imaginations and will occupy themselves in some other manor. What else are you to do with them?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If pysical pain is such an effective detterant, why not use it to deter crime? Punish a thief with lashes to make sure he or she doesn't do it again?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Perhaps we need to enforce spanking children to prevent crime from happening in the future? :-w :uhh: :P

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I am ashamed of this generation, however corporal punishment and spanking may not be the way forward. Liberals are taking things a little too far i think and turning things against themselves, take racial names for example. In todays society in some places you can't say "Black Coffee" and in nursery schools the childrens rhyme "Baa Baa black sheep have you any wool?" has become "Baa Baa Rainbow/Wooly sheep have you any wool". Just this standout of racial names shows how petit people can be - and the extent these changes hurt society.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'd consider myself a conservative liberal and don't beleive spanking is the way to progress society. Parents should not have the right to use violence, as i see children as people too. You wouldn't like it if someone came and punched you in the face for doing something wrong. If they fall off the tracks, are generally annoying people then when they reach 16 they can do two years basic training in the army. Younger children should be taught better by their parents and i garuntee you the people who are badly behaved have bad parents and so allowing them to hit their children is a bad idea.

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Everyone loves a good spanking :D

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Younger children should be taught better by their parents and i garuntee you the people who are badly behaved have bad parents and so allowing them to hit their children is a bad idea.

 

 

 

Spanking is not the same as hitting a child. A hit is meant to hurt someone. A spank is just meant to sting a bit. Hitting a child is wrong. Spanking a child is ok if the child disobeyed.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I also "guarantee" you that I had great parents and I was horribly behaved when I was little. Anything short of a spanking I would scoff at. I even got an F in conduct in first grade hehe. My mom dutifully kept disciplining me even though I about drove her to exhaustion when I was little but by 3rd grade I was well behaved and self controlled and haven't had a problem since. Spanking definitely works. I am living proof.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

PS. I have great parents and I love them and I don't have emotional scars or anything like some people like to act like kids get if they get spanked. I can also guarantee that most children were never spanked as much as I was. It completely works if done in love to discipline a child.

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Younger children should be taught better by their parents

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Can't argue with that. I believe the standard of parenting these days is on the decline. Both parents working more often, more time in front of the idot box and overall less time spent with kids can all contribute to a lack of guidance and heightened rates of delinquancy.

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Can't argue with that. I believe the standard of parenting these days is on the decline. Both parents working more often, more time in front of the idot box and overall less time spent with kids can all contribute to a lack of guidance and heightened rates of delinquancy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I completely 100% agree.

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Neither of my parents was born in England, and I think Russell Peters accurately described them when saying "If your parents weren't born in this country, you're gonna get your a** whooped." Lol, but that's what my parents grew up with, and I did too. Guess it was a little more then spanking, but nowhere near child abuse. I think it's necessary for children growing up to have some act of physical punishment rather than sent to your room, where all your toys and such are... Everyone I know has been spanked as a child, nothing became of it.

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that law already is here in holland and i do think pshycal punishment is always wrong cause you can take it to far and make the children emotionaly scard for the rest of his live (i dont say it happens from just spanking but parents sometimes just freak out and go to far i heard reports of children being spankd with a stick (not realy spanking but stil) and the parents didint hit right and the child broke its back and got paralyzed)

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This idea is ludacris. Parents should be able to spank their children for disciplinary reasons. I think they are just trying to pass this either to make it look like they are doing something or make it look like they care about the kids.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Spanking is not a crime!

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that law already is here in holland and i do think pshycal punishment is always wrong cause you can take it to far and make the children emotionaly scard for the rest of his live (i dont say it happens from just spanking but parents sometimes just freak out and go to far i heard reports of children being spankd with a stick (not realy spanking but stil) and the parents didint hit right and the child broke its back and got paralyzed)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Do you think they meant to do that?

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It totally depends on the child.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A more mature child won't give a damn about a spanking, but if they can't go out and see their friends, play with their toys, watcch TV or read, then THAT'S real punishment.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A six year old will imagine himself a treasure seeking ninja-pirate. So spanking would work bettter.

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It totally depends on the child.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A more mature child won't give a damn about a spanking, but if they can't go out and see their friends, play with their toys, watcch TV or read, then THAT'S real punishment.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A six year old will imagine himself a treasure seeking ninja-pirate. So spanking would work bettter.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A more mature kid is most likely older. Parents don't hit older kids, it's too "childish" to spank a teen. They are more likely to spank a 6 year old than a teenager. So that really doesn't matter.

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The idea is wrong. Parents don't abuse kids by spanking them, they discipline them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yup, theres a humongous difference. Hitting someone for 2 hours constantly is abuse. Spanking them to get back on track is not abuse.

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Nothing wrong with a bit of spanking every now and then. As long you don't beat your kids up of course. I can't believe that they're actually debating this. Can't do anything anymore.

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*spanks Daan* :D

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Wrong. You won't solve anything with it. :shame:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Won't solve what?

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Problems.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If a kid's a good kid, they'll do a stupid thing. That's what a spanking will solve.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If a kid's a bad kid, through and through, then a spanking won't do anything.

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It totally depends on the child.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A more mature child won't give a damn about a spanking, but if they can't go out and see their friends, play with their toys, watcch TV or read, then THAT'S real punishment.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A six year old will imagine himself a treasure seeking ninja-pirate. So spanking would work bettter.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A more mature kid is most likely older. Parents don't hit older kids, it's too "childish" to spank a teen. They are more likely to spank a 6 year old than a teenager. So that really doesn't matter.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

wel it can also matter that teens are often bigger then their parrents im 10 centimeters taller and only 13 so i think some parents could be afraid of spanking them

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