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nickeley102

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  1. I have owned an 89 diesel corona for the last 2 years. Its economical, reliable and has a good heater which is all I ask for from a car to keep me content. I have never understood the attraction of people (boys particularly) to fancy cars, I wouldn't want to use a car to help me define my personality and I find the penis extension analogy too apt. I would certainly not want to score a girl whose attraction was partly due to my car, it just seems fickle.
  2. chatter rings pro-yo britney (twice) space hoppers pogs old school tmnt and baskeball trading cards
  3. I dont know and I dont care
  4. I dont under why people think jagex will create a sailing skill where you can access new lands. Sailing isn't an issue, imagine if you worked at jagex and you wanted to add a sailing update, "right, so we'll just sail here, done" "oh, wait we have to create a whole new themed area of land with new and exciting monsters with excellent new drops". look at how often jagex releases new areas of the map at the moment, imagine that for a whole new skill It mite as well be the 'far off lands' skill
  5. I always thought a science was a subject with definite answers, whereas an art, or humanity, is open to interpretation (no answer is wrong so long as you explain the relevance). That makes maths a science and psychology an art. Acyually, come to think of it, if you graduate from my university with a maths degree you recieve a BSc (bachelor of science) and psychology is a BA (bachelor of arts)
  6. [hide=IGoddessI's Yarn]Today I had a pretty bad fight with my fiance'. I've been a stay at home mum now since my son was born and it's really emotionally draining to look at 4 walls all day and house work can also be one of the most depressing things known to man. You do the dishes, then look over and they're back again. You do the washing then you turn around and there's another load to be done. Guys, if you ever live with a woman never tell her that being a stay at home mum isn't hard work. I assure you that studying a full time degree and working 50 hours that week is nothing compared to being a stay at home mum. It's also emotionally draining on the basis that I feel like I am "stuck" because I'm so used to being a workaholic. I do try to tell myself that I'm doing the right thing by spending the first 6 months of my sons life raising him at home but then when my fiance' has 6 days off and just wants to sit down and relax it makes me mad. I can see that he works long shifts and obviously deserves a bit of a rest but I'm not here to clean up after him 24/7 and look at 4 walls every day. It would be nice if he took me out to nice places and leave my son with our parents for a lousy hour to get out of the house. He does eventually give in and take me out but the problem is I shouldn't have to ask. I feel like because I have his kid and big rock on my finger that says I'm committed to him that he no longer has to make an effort with me. He says he is concerned about our finances but to be honest we probably have more than most couples in their early 20's. And he always says the same thing... several thousand later he still needs to save and tells me to wait, then when we reach that target and I finally feel like we can go out or get something that we want, he says it's still not enough. So I wait, several thousand later... and it continues. He is so concerned about money that he no longer wants to have any fun in life and lately I have been pretty depressed because I am trapped in this house. It's so easy to have your own account and do whatever you want with your money but it's another thing when you have joint finances and have to ask permission. I'm getting pretty angry about it. I don't feel like I should have to ask for credit for my phone considering we don't have a house phone, to go out and have a bit of a life some weekends or transfer some money across so I can get some food for lunch/dinner. He is so obsessed with our money that everything is in our savings account and he will only transfer the exact amount that he requires at one time. Not only that I don't have access to our account unless I ask him what our toggle code is because he is the only one who has it. So yet again every time I need to use some of our money I need to ask. God this really pisses me off. I have tried talking to him about it for months but he is being so stubborn about it and insisting we need limits. It really is taking a toll on me and I don't know what else to do. I am sick of fighting about money and I sick of being with a stingy partner who doesn't want to have any fun in life. Don't worry I'm not planning on getting married until all this crap is worked out lol But yeah I needed to get this off my chest because it is quite upsetting and I don't get to go out much so I can't talk to my friends and family about it. It is really affecting a lot of things, it is making me feel depressed, it is making me feel less satisfaction in life, it is making me feel less inclined to talk to him, our intellectual conversations have stopped, our connection is slipping, I don't like to be around him as often, I lose my temper quickly and I have been questioning whether or not I am engaged to the right person. As a result of this, I sleep in most days because a large part of sleeping too much is not knowing what to do with your life. And this is making me put on weight. Oh and if you didn't know once you've had a baby weight grows on you like leaves grow on trees. I have diabetes so this is pretty bad. I was going to pay off a cross trainer so I can go in to the shed and work out but he won't let me get one. I can't go for walks because of the heat, if you're a fellow QLDer you will know what I mean and I can't risk my son out in that kind of heat. Life is going down hill pretty quickly because of this. I could always go back to work, no problem but he is still in control of our finances so that won't fix the problem. He really is not interested in discussing this or budging and it is only pushing me away more and more. We have always fought about money since we have been together because I'm pretty lenient but know my limits and he is uncle scrooge so likes money sitting in the account letting his life waste by in the process. I should have thought about this problem a long time ago to be completely honest with myself but I had the power of my own account and do anything I felt like and didn't have a baby at the time. So I didn't really think about it as much. I guess you could say I turned a blind eye to it which is my fault. I'm an extremely independent person and to put it bluntly it really [cabbage] me to tears that what makes me, me has been taken away from me.[/hide] On top of what has been suggested, heres my 2 cents He sounds like he may be a more logical person (not unlike me) you could try giving him the opportunity to fit your ideas into his plans in a logical way i.e. a night a week (with a money cap) where you organise somebody to baby-sit and go on a date or try something new together. You could even make it a game to see who can plan the best date within your 50 dollar limit, or whatever. Im sure deep down he doesnt plan on the situation staying like this forever and knows how he treats your account access is wrong. In my (in)experience its a new step (joint accounts etc) for both of you and everybody goes through this
  7. I enjoy theoretical physics in my spare time. To be honest, physics seems the the only science which has a forefront, biology and chemistry seem to just be increased classification and measurement. I don't understand how anyone can not be interested in where theoretical physics and philosophy meet (see Einstein-Bohr debates). At a professional level I have been training as a secondary teacher for 3 years and can say that mathematics is the most fulfilling to teach, the following is true for all sciences but most pronounced in maths, once somebody understands a concept they can apply it to any scenario repeatedly with just a pencil and paper. The learning is immediate, other subjects you come to school the next day and have to re-explain everything. Once you can differentiate you can differentiate, and kids smile and love to complete the rest of the exercise
  8. cmon, the song was hilarious, lighten up. credit where credits due
  9. I was actually looking for this one particular page which updated itself in accordance with the GE, cheers anyway. This page updated itself with the GE. Im probably just being picky
  10. I just started Manage Thy Kingdom (even though i did the quests when they were released). I remember seeing a link on these forums to a site which told you the best items to invest in for money making, a link would be sweet. Any other advice would be helpful, like how long i should wait etc. cheers
  11. No because when Jesus was around there was no microwaves :wall: :wall: :wall: Don't get hypothetical and real mixed up again, the question was could he, if the situation existed
  12. Have you tried RC on world 66 or with runners? its still painfully slow to train. No skill is purchasable in the sense that you pay some money and a 99 appears on your screen. Stupid though it may seem, this seems to be a common misconception.
  13. Homer The burrito switches realities and creates an alternate universe the moment it becomes too hot. Read up on a schroedinger. Harry Seldon never had a burnt mouth, extra points for the reference and the contextual association
  14. 64fZMN2Qu0w Im quite gutted right now, someone had the oppurtunity to make the best movie in the world and they ruined it, A CAUCASIAN GOKU!! thats sacrilege That 2 minute trailer destroyed my childhood. This role was made for me
  15. that is probably the best thing i have ever heard of
  16. Im getting pretty sick of my halberd at the moment. What should i do to train range, broad bolts? stats are in sig cheers
  17. Quit that negative attitude. If you'd like, I can ship you to Africa. You won't feel so sorry for yourself then. I live in Zimbabwe. the reason i dont have any friends is because my dad is a missionary. i am the only white boy in an unwelcome village.
  18. The guy who doesn't have any friends and doesn't have much going for him
  19. Here's a tip: Choose to use good grammar. As you can see, by many responses on this very thread, people will often judge you by your grammar and spelling. You don't need to rush, so grammar mistakes are not allowed, in my book. This is more formal than some forums, especially the RSOF (Runescape Official Forums)(and don't call me a PWUATHTET, I'm just explaining it for future reference, as mmmorgan is apparently new to these forums). In here, you'll find intelligent (in comparison, yet it can stand alone) converse going on, and most of the time, people bother to have correct punctuation, grammar, spelling, etc. There's no need to abbreviate, as this isn't a race. It's fine if you choose to use bad grammar, but people will choose to lessen their respect towards you. oh man, just shut up!
  20. 6 hours of homewrek is your first lie. play sport
  21. lvl 13: What's ET short for? me: Extra Terrestrial? lvl 13: No, because he has really little legs The title of this thread is frighteningly accurate, that was very clever and witty.
  22. I agree with this, we are wrapping kids up in bubble wrap and i think this has spawned the jackass culture But its wrong to blame your principal, s/he is under a lot of pressure from people (women mostly (who clean the house and have a lot of time on their hands)). who call the school all the time to complain, and threaten to take their child of the roll if things dont change, aka 'violent' sports, playgrounds with woodchips and high monkeybars etc. It wont be long before gym teachers have to fill out RAMS forms for a game of sport. Im serious too. The same applies to government, the principal has to make customers (parents) happy just like the government has to make the people happy (in a democratic society. NOTHING (governmental policy or stupid school rules) is put in place without a group of people whining about it repeatedly. Imagine what would have happened in the US didnt start a war on terror after 9/11, they would have had millions of stay at home moms whining, sucks when someone is whining at you for ages.
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