November 25, 200718 yr So, I've finally run into the situation of Christmas and a boyfriend, and not knowing what to buy :(. And it gets harder because... his birthday is 15 days after that :P. I have a few ideas, but I was hoping for some actual advice from some people that might know better than me. There are a couple books that he wants, (about Tommy Lee and Motley Crue :P) but they're expensive, so he hasn't bought them yet, and I thought that might be a good oppurtunity to get him something that he actually wants. But then I thought... would it be lame to get him books for Xmas/Bday? He isn't the type to normally read, but he does want them. My only other idea so far was red Chuck Taylor All Star shoes. He used to like those shoes a lot, but now EVERYONE has them and have basically become an emo trait in our school, so he doesn't like them as much. I dont' know if it's such a good idea, because he has expressed disinterest in them. Thats my only other idea though. Anyone else know of any other good ideas? (Maybe this thread might even help out a couple other people :P.) Thanks in advance to anyone who can try to help :). (He also said he might like flowers :o. I think I'll get him some too, but that won't be part of the gift.)
November 25, 200718 yr A few vouchers for his favourite shop? Or vouchers, hand written by you with some wee things on it e.g. Good for 1 hug He might appreciate the more personal touch, but get him something else as a "real" gift. Remember he probably won't expect anything too lavish. Photos!
November 25, 200718 yr All guys like sports cars or cadillacs. Just a hint. Alternatively, make something all by yourself. 8-) Even if you're on a budget, you can make a great looking cake. And if it tastes good, it's leaving a much better impression and permanent positive memory, than a $20 gift card to a clothing store where every decent shirt costs $50.
November 25, 200718 yr I'd probably ditch the shoes idea :P Yeah, would you mind telling us how old he is going to be? This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you.
November 25, 200718 yr To be honest i doubt he will be expecting anything special, but if your that worried about getting him something then do what i do and just ask. Surprises aren't everything. We can breath in space, they just don't want us to escape
November 25, 200718 yr I'm getting books for Christmas from my fiancee, and I'm perfectly happy with that. I'd keep away from gift certificates though. While their a good thought, it just doesn't show deep thought about what they like. ~M
November 25, 200718 yr about Tommy Lee and Motley Crue They're is one about Tommy Lee? You sure you don't mean Nikki Stixx : the heroin diaries Tif 360 MGC Leaderboard
November 25, 200718 yr I would be perfectly happy with books. In fact, there are some books I want for Christmas. But then again, I read a lot... Command the Murderous Chalices! Drink ye harpooners! drink and swear, ye men that man the deathful whaleboat's bow- Death to Moby Dick!BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD! SKULLS FOR THE SKULL THRONE!
November 25, 200718 yr I'm getting books for Christmas from my fiancee, and I'm perfectly happy with that. I'd keep away from gift certificates though. While their a good thought, it just doesn't show deep thought about what they like. I think if he wants the books, Give them to him. Or atleast look for hints on what he likes. As In.. -Jewelry He wears -Clothes Other any other things in this category. My Mother always buys my father clothes, or Jewelry. It's just a suggestion, that I think would personally work. ~Alina ~Tip.It's #1 Party Girl & Events Team Supporter~Next TET Event: A Holy Pilgrimage!Next TET AU Event: Zamorak Strikes Back Part 1!PM me if you need any help with an event.
November 25, 200718 yr The best gift you could give him doesn't cost anything :wink: :wink: A Hug? Not exactly! :D I'd suggest some t-shirts, video games, pants, chocolates, and a night out. :)
November 25, 200718 yr I'm getting books for Christmas from my fiancee, and I'm perfectly happy with that. I'd keep away from gift certificates though. While their a good thought, it just doesn't show deep thought about what they like. I think if he wants the books, Give them to him. Or atleast look for hints on what he likes. As In.. -Jewelry He wears -Clothes Other any other things in this category. My Mother always buys my father clothes, or Jewelry. It's just a suggestion, that I think would personally work. ~Alina Depending on the guy's age and character/personality, I'd dare to doubt most guys would want jewelry as a gift. Unless we're talking about snake, viking or pirate rings of course. A subtle silver/gold necklace is a stylish gift though. 8-) Not like "MTV-rapper" big, but not "baby's baptizing necklace" small either. Something he wouldn't be embarrassed to wear in public or with friends. The best gift you could give him doesn't cost anything :wink: :wink: A Hug? Not exactly! :D Yeah, he obviously meant self-bottled spring water. What could be more refreshing on a christmas eve. And what's up with the naughty people invading tip.it. :lol:
November 25, 200718 yr Lol! "MTV Rapper" Big? :lol: Anyway, That's the type of thing I was talking about. My "Close Personal Friend" bought me a Golden necklace last year with a cross on it. I think that would be good. ~Alina ~Tip.It's #1 Party Girl & Events Team Supporter~Next TET Event: A Holy Pilgrimage!Next TET AU Event: Zamorak Strikes Back Part 1!PM me if you need any help with an event.
November 25, 200718 yr Last year, my GF at the time (way to make me sound easy #-o) got me a frame with a picture of the two of us hugging in it. I loved it. I honestly couldn't have thought of anything more loving or thoughtful TBH. That's me though. I'm just soppy. :P If he likes those books, go for it. There seems to be such a stigma about getting people books for their presents. I never got why... | Favourite Game Music | Last.fm | HYT Friend Chat Rules |
November 25, 200718 yr If he likes those books, go for it. There seems to be such a stigma about getting people books for their presents. I never got why... Probably because of the disdain so many people have for books, or reading in general. Tsk tsk tsk :shame: Something I never understood, either. Command the Murderous Chalices! Drink ye harpooners! drink and swear, ye men that man the deathful whaleboat's bow- Death to Moby Dick!BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD! SKULLS FOR THE SKULL THRONE!
November 26, 200718 yr If he likes those books, go for it. There seems to be such a stigma about getting people books for their presents. I never got why... Probably because of the disdain so many people have for books, or reading in general. Tsk tsk tsk :shame: Something I never understood, either. The only thing 'special' about a book is how it can double up as a lethal weapon to attack the person who gave it to you. This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you.
November 26, 200718 yr Let me put it this way. Last year my girlfriend bought me family guy seasons, chocolate fingers, and all sorts of small gifts - what's the best thing she gave me that year? The card, because she told me how happy she is to be spending christmas with me and hopes every year of her life is going to be as good as this one was. Simply put, if you really, really want to give him a great christmas present, find a way to tell him through a gift. and buy him a little something material like that book too to keep him occupied whilst you're doing all your girly things on boxing day :mrgreen: Im sure you can think of something you two have mentioned, i've no doubt he's dropping hints all over the place. Surprise him!
November 26, 200718 yr Author about Tommy Lee and Motley Crue They're is one about Tommy Lee? You sure you don't mean Nikki Stixx : the heroin diaries Yes that is the one :). He's turning 17, for people who still wanna know :P. He doesn't wear jewelry, so that ideas out :P. However I'm pretty sure I'll get him at least one, if not both of those books, depending on the cost, cause I do have a bit of a budget :(. Gift cards... no :P. Not personal at all. I'm trying to put as much thought into these as I can xD. But thanks to everyone who's responded, and I wouldn't mind more :o.
November 26, 200718 yr Hand-make him a card, tell him you love him inside it. Honestly, that's all I'd really need for Christmas to make me perfectly happy. Anything that you put even an ounce of thought and personal touch into is bound to make him feel loved, cared-for, appreciated. Any or all of the three would be nice. Yeah, call me sappy or effeminate but honestly, even the 'manliest' of men would love something like that, I guarantee it. I really wouldn't call it an era. It was more of a definitive time period during which dinstinctive characteristics were expressed in similar ways.
November 26, 200718 yr The best gift you could give him doesn't cost anything :wink: :wink: :-s I like the cake Idea....especially if it tastes good. CHOCOLATE! :P Listen to the mighty words of Bloodredsword. Tip it MGC Xbox live leader board!
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