Why don't you just say your waiting for someone else?

Just say you've got someone special in mind, or you're already going with someone else. Either one of those two will work.

I have a little situation on my hands.

 

 

 

My mates are trying to get me together with this girl that I don't know. She has been out with a few of my mates, and her last relationship lasted for about 12 Hours (Rang my mate in the evening, broke up with him in the morning). Were having a huge get together tomorrow, and she is going to be there. My mate keeps urging me on to go out with her, but I just say I don't know her, so I can't say yes or no.

 

 

 

So far, I'm thinking about just seeing how things go along, and see what happens, or wait until next time so I know her better.

 

What should I do?

I have a little situation on my hands.

 

 

 

My mates are trying to get me together with this girl that I don't know. She has been out with a few of my mates, and her last relationship lasted for about 12 Hours (Rang my mate in the evening, broke up with him in the morning). Were having a huge get together tomorrow, and she is going to be there. My mate keeps urging me on to go out with her, but I just say I don't know her, so I can't say yes or no.

 

 

 

So far, I'm thinking about just seeing how things go along, and see what happens, or wait until next time so I know her better.

 

What should I do?

 

Wait 'til next time or grab her number and ring her up.

long story so i dunno if someone willl actually help a bro out

 

 

 

[hide=]My hot advisor found out I like her :(

 

 

 

Okay so at my school we have faculty advisers that are assigned to students according to their last names. The faculty advisers help students with scheduling conflicts, general questions, help with internships/employment, etc. My adviser is named Jess Depew and as you can see she's pretty hot.

 

 

 

 

 

 

The picture doesn't really do her justice but they're all I've got at the moment. She's like 25 and she's only been at the school a few years. Anyway, I have been looking into getting an internship at a TV station or something over the summer, and the school helps coordinate these things with an internship database that's maintained by the advisers. You log on with your school ID and password and you can browse internships and stuff. I was having trouble logging on to mine so I went to go see Ms. Depew. That's where all the trouble started.

 

 

 

Firstly, I walked into office like 15 minutes early like an idiot and she's in the middle of lunch. So I awkwardly make stupid stall talk until she's finished.

 

 

 

"Oh, hey, what are you eating?"

 

"Salmon. I love it. I eat it practically everyday."

 

"Just salmon? That's pretty weird." Why the hell did I say this?

 

"Oh, well, I don't know. I try to eat healthy, natural foods...you know, like wild berries and honey and stuff."

 

"Yeah, I like food too." *facepalm*

 

 

 

Man, I was so nervous. Anyway, we finally begin squaring my stuff away. She looks up what I registered with in the beginning of the year. This is when the crap really hit the fan. This is how the conversation went:

 

 

 

"Okay, you're account name is [my name] and your password is ...'depewissexy'..."

 

 

 

Oh damn. I completely forgot that I put that as my password in the beginning of the year. What the hell was I thinking? It was probably the longest 20 seconds of my life before I finally got my balls together to stand up and leave. Just as I walk out the door she says,

 

 

 

"In the future, you might want to bear in mind what kind of things you want keep to yourself."

 

 

 

I was so freaking embarrassed I wanted to kill myself right then and there. I wanted to run the hell out of there and never, ever see her again. But something about what she just said kept me standing in her doorway. I decided to man up and apologize. I turned to her, looked her straight in the eyes, and swallowed my pride. And then, it hit me like a train full of bricks.

 

 

 

She was eating Salmon.

 

 

 

She tries to eat all healthy, natural foods, like wild berries and honey.

 

 

 

She told me that I might want to bear in mind what kind of things I want to keep to myself.

 

 

 

Ms. Depew was a bear disguised as a human.

 

 

 

Immediately, the bear saw that I had seen through its charade. It roared loudly and took a menacing swipe at me. I deftly avoided its claw and sprinted out of the office. The bear was soon in chase, crashing through the walls of the office as if they were made of paper. I jumped over the receptionist desk and ran out the back entrance. The bear followed, tossing the secretary aside like a rag doll. The bear began to pursue me through the street traffic. While I fought my way through the maze of vehicles, the bear simply careened its massive force through anything standing in its way. Cars veered off the road to escape the onslaught of grizzly force that was barreling down the road. The bear was gaining fast. I had no other option but to make my way into the nearest building: a preschool. I burst through the door, startling the children from their naps. Immediately, the bear slammed through the wall, crushing a child beneath his massive paws and burying several other children in sheet rock and debris. I maneuvered my way through the chaos towards the back exit. The pre-schoolers were little more than a screaming annoyance for the bear. Its massive paws cut swaths through the sea of toddlers with each swipe. I used the precious time these children had afforded for me to make my escape into the playground. I scrambled up a ladder to a fort-like structure. My goal was to walk across the monkey bars then jump to a tree which I could climb to the roof of the preschool and perhaps flag down a passing helicopter.

 

 

 

I began my trek across the monkey bars just as the bear charged outside, its teeth and claws still fresh with the blood of the innocent. It let out a monstrous roar and began its assault on the cheap, wooden playset. I let go of all caution and ran to end the end of the monkey bars. I leaped for the tree branch just as the bear's enormous girth came plowing through the entire structure. I grasped the branch tightly as the bear collided with the tree, sending it into a daze. I saw this as my one opportunity not for escape, but for victory. I leapt off the tree onto the ground and grabbed a stray bar that had been shorn from the playset. The bear was slowly coming to so I had to act fast. I ran to the beast and thrust the jagged end of the pole into its jaw and through it's skull.

 

 

 

The bear had been defeated. I shambled home in pain but victorious.There will be more blogs and more bears in the months to come.

 

 

 

But today, I returned home a champion.[/hide]

 

 

 

QUOTING EPIC POST!!!!!!!

Ok, I've got a bit of a problem.

 

 

 

[hide=eep]There's this girl at my school, she is obviously in love with me (constantly checking me out in classes and when I walk past in hallways), but too shy to ask me out or something. However, I don't know whether I'm interested, and I'm 100% sure she's gonna ask me for a dance or something at the prom I have this friday, how should I tell her I'm not (sure if i'm) interested?[/hide]

 

 

 

I'm sorry if I look like a total fool but I'm new to this kinda thing ;)

Ok, I've got a bit of a problem.

 

 

 

[hide=eep]There's this girl at my school, she is obviously in love with me (constantly checking me out in classes and when I walk past in hallways), but too shy to ask me out or something. However, I don't know whether I'm interested, and I'm 100% sure she's gonna ask me for a dance or something at the prom I have this friday, how should I tell her I'm not (sure if i'm) interested?[/hide]

 

 

 

I'm sorry if I look like a total fool but I'm new to this kinda thing ;)

 

 

 

Do something with her. An activity, meal, entertainment, anything. If it doesn't hit off, then both you and her will get the idea that maybe it wasn't meant to be. If only you get that idea, then start drifting away.

Yea but the problem is we're both very shy so it would be very uncomfortable. and she also lives 20 km away from me :wall: , so it would be a big leap if you know what I mean.

wait till she asks you

Hey guys, me again :D well, im not sure if this post belongs here, but who gives a poopyface.

 

 

 

I want to get my girlfriend something for Christmas, and i dont know what. I asked her, she said nothing, then i asked her again, she said "as nice as that is, i really dont want anything"

 

 

 

She has to want something, y'know? Like, what should i get her? Eh, ill describe her for ya!

 

She likes guys, not too clingy, but romantic. so im trying to think of something that says "I love you so [cabbage] much you dont even understand", while still not seeming too attached.

 

 

 

^^ thats HARD to think of. Help! Pls. :D

A Build-A-Bear with a real bear heart inside to symbolize the fierceness of your love or the wildness of your spirit. Either way I'd avoid using the word poopyface. In some cultures, it's deemed immature.

Hey guys, me again :D well, im not sure if this post belongs here, but who gives a poopyface.

 

 

 

I want to get my girlfriend something for Christmas, and i dont know what. I asked her, she said nothing, then i asked her again, she said "as nice as that is, i really dont want anything"

 

 

 

She has to want something, y'know? Like, what should i get her? Eh, ill describe her for ya!

 

She likes guys, not too clingy, but romantic. so im trying to think of something that says "I love you so [cabbage] much you dont even understand", while still not seeming too attached.

 

 

 

^^ thats HARD to think of. Help! Pls. :D

 

Show me a picture and I'll suggest some fashionable clothing. I'm not gay, but I do have a good sense of fashion. :P

Hey guys, me again :D well, im not sure if this post belongs here, but who gives a poopyface.

 

 

 

I want to get my girlfriend something for Christmas, and i dont know what. I asked her, she said nothing, then i asked her again, she said "as nice as that is, i really dont want anything"

 

 

 

She has to want something, y'know? Like, what should i get her? Eh, ill describe her for ya!

 

She likes guys, not too clingy, but romantic. so im trying to think of something that says "I love you so [cabbage] much you dont even understand", while still not seeming too attached.

 

 

 

^^ thats HARD to think of. Help! Pls. :D

 

Show me a picture and I'll suggest some fashionable clothing. I'm not gay, but I do have a good sense of fashion. :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Shes beautiful aint she? :D I'm in 7th grade shes in 8th. [hide=][/hide]

I'm sorry. Was that an accident or was she born with half of her face missing?

 

 

 

I'm obviously kidding, but we really can't see anything from that pic

Hey guys, me again :D well, im not sure if this post belongs here, but who gives a poopyface.

 

 

 

I want to get my girlfriend something for Christmas, and i dont know what. I asked her, she said nothing, then i asked her again, she said "as nice as that is, i really dont want anything"

 

 

 

She has to want something, y'know? Like, what should i get her? Eh, ill describe her for ya!

 

She likes guys, not too clingy, but romantic. so im trying to think of something that says "I love you so [cabbage] much you dont even understand", while still not seeming too attached.

 

 

 

^^ thats HARD to think of. Help! Pls. :D

 

Show me a picture and I'll suggest some fashionable clothing. I'm not gay, but I do have a good sense of fashion. :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Shes beautiful aint she? :D I'm in 7th grade shes in 8th. [hide=][/hide]

 

I'm sorry. Was that an accident or was she born with half of her face missing?

 

 

 

I'm obviously kidding, but we really can't see anything from that pic

 

From what I can tell though, bright colours won't really suit her. Black, red or green(not too bright!) would go nicely. I'd suggest a thin-layered jacket in gray, black or crimson. If you're looking for jeans, go with a stretchy set of dark blue or khaki three-quarters'. For jewelery, do not get her any shiny diamond-like jewelery. Instead, go with hoop earrings or relatively large silver bangles. Gold will blend in with the skin too much. If you want to get her a summer scarf, this is the only piece of clothing I'd recommend using bright colours. Get her a light blue or silver-gray translucent, light scarf.

 

I can't really suggest anything more specific until you show us a complete picture. It's really hard to do with half a face and body missing.

I have a little situation on my hands.

 

 

 

My mates are trying to get me together with this girl that I don't know. She has been out with a few of my mates, and her last relationship lasted for about 12 Hours (Rang my mate in the evening, broke up with him in the morning). Were having a huge get together tomorrow, and she is going to be there. My mate keeps urging me on to go out with her, but I just say I don't know her, so I can't say yes or no.

 

 

 

So far, I'm thinking about just seeing how things go along, and see what happens, or wait until next time so I know her better.

 

What should I do?

 

 

 

If she's cute, come up and small talk! with her. Read her body language and if she seems interested in you, gradually! move up to personal topics. Just be cool, confident and fun.

I have a little situation on my hands.

 

 

 

My mates are trying to get me together with this girl that I don't know. She has been out with a few of my mates, and her last relationship lasted for about 12 Hours (Rang my mate in the evening, broke up with him in the morning). Were having a huge get together tomorrow, and she is going to be there. My mate keeps urging me on to go out with her, but I just say I don't know her, so I can't say yes or no.

 

 

 

So far, I'm thinking about just seeing how things go along, and see what happens, or wait until next time so I know her better.

 

What should I do?

 

 

 

If she's cute, come up and small talk! with her. Read her body language and if she seems interested in you, gradually! move up to personal topics. Just be cool, confident and fun.

 

 

 

Yesterday was lame.

 

 

 

The girl that was supposed to turn up didn't, as my mate scared her be saying that I thought she was hot because I saw her photo on Bebo, just so that she would get her to go with the bus stop with her. So, that was depressing. I still have the whole summer to meet her though.

I have a little situation on my hands.

 

 

 

My mates are trying to get me together with this girl that I don't know. She has been out with a few of my mates, and her last relationship lasted for about 12 Hours (Rang my mate in the evening, broke up with him in the morning). Were having a huge get together tomorrow, and she is going to be there. My mate keeps urging me on to go out with her, but I just say I don't know her, so I can't say yes or no.

 

 

 

So far, I'm thinking about just seeing how things go along, and see what happens, or wait until next time so I know her better.

 

What should I do?

 

 

 

If she's cute, come up and small talk! with her. Read her body language and if she seems interested in you, gradually! move up to personal topics. Just be cool, confident and fun.

 

 

 

Yesterday was lame.

 

 

 

The girl that was supposed to turn up didn't, as my mate scared her be saying that I thought she was hot because I saw her photo on Bebo, just so that she would get her to go with the bus stop with her. So, that was depressing. I still have the whole summer to meet her though.

 

 

 

summer? oh right new zealand... where duckies go moo... lucky!

I have a little situation on my hands.

 

 

 

My mates are trying to get me together with this girl that I don't know. She has been out with a few of my mates, and her last relationship lasted for about 12 Hours (Rang my mate in the evening, broke up with him in the morning). Were having a huge get together tomorrow, and she is going to be there. My mate keeps urging me on to go out with her, but I just say I don't know her, so I can't say yes or no.

 

 

 

So far, I'm thinking about just seeing how things go along, and see what happens, or wait until next time so I know her better.

 

What should I do?

 

 

 

If she's cute, come up and small talk! with her. Read her body language and if she seems interested in you, gradually! move up to personal topics. Just be cool, confident and fun.

 

 

 

Yesterday was lame.

 

 

 

The girl that was supposed to turn up didn't, as my mate scared her be saying that I thought she was hot because I saw her photo on Bebo, just so that she would get her to go with the bus stop with her. So, that was depressing. I still have the whole summer to meet her though.

 

 

 

It sounds like you let your mates walk all over you. If you like her, meet up wit her. If you don't - don't. Who your mates want you to go out with means nothing if you the person they want you to go out with means nothing to you.

ok, i have another relationship blues thing going on. more serious than a crush this time -.-

 

 

 

[hide=]I've never talked about this before, but I really need the boards advice on what could be a crucial decision. Ive suspected for some time now that my gf has been cheating on me.

 

 

 

The usual signs Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.

 

My gf has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, Just some friends from work, you dont know them.

 

 

 

I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasnt in a taxi?

 

 

 

I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

 

 

 

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my gf I think deep down I just didnt want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.

 

 

 

I decided I was going to park my motorcycle next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my bike , that I noticed that the valve covers on my engine seemed to be leaking a little oil.

 

 

 

Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?[/hide]

ok, i have another relationship blues thing going on. more serious than a crush this time -.-

 

 

 

[hide=]I've never talked about this before, but I really need the boards advice on what could be a crucial decision. Ive suspected for some time now that my gf has been cheating on me.

 

 

 

The usual signs Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.

 

My gf has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, Just some friends from work, you dont know them.

 

 

 

I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasnt in a taxi?

 

 

 

I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

 

 

 

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my gf I think deep down I just didnt want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.

 

 

 

I decided I was going to park my motorcycle next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my bike , that I noticed that the valve covers on my engine seemed to be leaking a little oil.

 

 

 

Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?[/hide]

 

:lol:

 

 

So... this this really a serious problem or not? I can't pick out double-bluffs over the Interwebs. ;)

 

 

 

It sounds like you let your mates walk all over you. If you like her, meet up wit her. If you don't - don't. Who your mates want you to go out with means nothing if you the person they want you to go out with means nothing to you.

 

 

 

Thanks for the reality check, because your right. If I liked her, then I should have got her number, but if I didn't, then why go out with her?

ok, i have another relationship blues thing going on. more serious than a crush this time -.-

 

 

 

[hide=]I've never talked about this before, but I really need the boards advice on what could be a crucial decision. Ive suspected for some time now that my gf has been cheating on me.

 

 

 

The usual signs Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.

 

My gf has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, Just some friends from work, you dont know them.

 

 

 

I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasnt in a taxi?

 

 

 

I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

 

 

 

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my gf I think deep down I just didnt want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.

 

 

 

I decided I was going to park my motorcycle next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my bike , that I noticed that the valve covers on my engine seemed to be leaking a little oil.

 

 

 

Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?[/hide]

 

 

 

You could fix the situation yourself or just buy a new one from Russia.

Well my logic is to find out for sure if she's cheating on u. So u have 2 options:

 

 

 

1) talk to her about everything. She will either say yes or no because at this point she cannot lie to u or make up an excuse. Yes, their might be tears and maybe u wont be together ever again... but thats wat happens if she cheats on u. And ... if she wasnt cheating on u she will not be happy with u that u dont trust her in the relationship and blah blah blah like that :roll:

 

 

 

2) make a plan and follow her to wherever she is going/doing/cell phone. u get the business. Ask u best mate or do it urself... This way u can find out for sure if she is cheating on u. then u can confront her. Again this must be perfectly planned or else like above she will be unsatisfied with u because u dont trust her :roll:

 

 

 

the choice is up to u...

 

I got this one, guys.

 

 

 

...What.

 

 

 

Ouchy...I dunno. Your situation is strange to me. Crazy New Zealandians, with your amazingly awesome accents and popular folk bands that grow amazing facial hair.

 

Edit.

 

 

....popular folk bands that grow amazing facial hair.

 

Business hours are over! Baby!

 

ITS BUSINESS, ITS BUSINESS TIIIIIIIIME

 

 

 

You know, Har. If you want me to, I could hang 'round with you. - If I only knew - that's what you're into.