October 6, 201411 yr I wouldnt be sure about that unless shes very religious Her daily management of the relationship should make it clear how she really feels in short order. Which is why I say that she isn't into sex. Marriage is just some far off event she can tell people and feel reasonably assured she wont have to have sex with them. If she was into sex but was holding off on it until a religiously sacred event thats a different story. I literally cant see how you can take a non religous person saying that they want to wait until marriage any other way then "I'm not into sex" Did he say she wasn't religious? There are also practical reasons to wait for sex.... "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti
October 6, 201411 yr There are also practical reasons to wait for sex.... I'd be interested in hearing them. “I had a feeling we weren’t coming back from this fight when it began.”“Do you have any regrets?”“I don’t. It seems surprising, I know, but I wouldn’t change a thing. This is how it was meant to be.”“Huh, you never really notice how lovely the day is until you realize you’ll never see it again.”“Mmmhmm.”
October 6, 201411 yr There are also practical reasons to wait for sex.... I'd be interested in hearing them. -avoid unwanted pregnancies with a perfect (100%) success rare -avoid STIs with a similar success rate -save money on contraceptives (and avoid contraceptives like the pill that can have serious side effects) -minimize hormonal changes that can challenge someone to view the health of a relationship objectively -minimize emotional damage in the event of the relationship's failure "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti
October 7, 201411 yr -be extremely tense-struggle to understand the opposite gender or why people's relationships seem so bizarre Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
October 7, 201411 yr -be extremely tense -struggle to understand the opposite gender or why people's relationships seem so bizarre care to explain further? "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti
October 7, 201411 yr I just wanted to be contradictory, I wasn't totally serious Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
October 8, 201411 yr How would you interpret a girl giving you her number and accepting your friend request on facebook, but taking a really long time to respond to any messages or not responding at all?
October 8, 201411 yr Being friendly and not at all interested in a relationship beyond friendship. Girls give out their numbers and accept friend requests from anyone if you have even the smallest reason.
October 8, 201411 yr How would you interpret a girl giving you her number and accepting your friend request on facebook, but taking a really long time to respond to any messages or not responding at all?Have you asked her out?
October 8, 201411 yr No. I want to ask her out in person, but I haven't had a good opportunity to do so since I asked her for her number (Last Friday) and I don't really want to do it via text or facebook, so right now I'm just waiting until the next time I see her in person and trying to gather second opinions.
October 9, 201411 yr If you're interested in a girl, ask her out before the end of your first conversation then ask her for her number And there's nothing wrong with asking a girl out through text if you asked for her number in person. As long as you didn't get her number from a friend or something, you'll be fine.
October 9, 201411 yr You're probably in the friend zone but regardless if you actually are or not, that's irrelevant. Unless you're 100% certain that you'll bump into her in person (i.e. you have a class with her or something), just shoot her a text and ask her if she wants to go grab drinks or coffee with you. If she says yes, cool. If she says no, cool, you move on to the next woman. But either way, regardless of whether she's into you or not, at that point you will have certainty. And by having certainty, all of your stress and anxiety about this will instantly vanish. Ask me how I know :P
October 9, 201411 yr Ask me how I know :P How do you know?! "The cry of the poor is not always just, but if you never hear it you'll never know what justice is."
October 9, 201411 yr You're probably in the friend zone but regardless if you actually are or not, that's irrelevant. Unless you're 100% certain that you'll bump into her in person (i.e. you have a class with her or something), just shoot her a text and ask her if she wants to go grab drinks or coffee with you. If she says yes, cool. If she says no, cool, you move on to the next woman. But either way, regardless of whether she's into you or not, at that point you will have certainty. And by having certainty, all of your stress and anxiety about this will instantly vanish. Ask me how I know :PGirls don't give out their numbers to random dudes to be friends. Either she's interested in him or he'll be the creepy guy who keeps texting her
October 9, 201411 yr I just texted her this morning asking if she was at school, but she hasn't responded yet (I doubt she will at this point). I don't want to be "the creepy guy who keeps texting her", but I also don't want to wait too long. If I do go with your plan, should I try to start a conversation first, or should I just ask out of the blue?
October 9, 201411 yr Nothing to lose. Ask her out via phone call. Thats why you have her number right? Longer you wait the worse your odds are. Sounds like you at least HAD a shot. Its not too late to try Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
October 9, 201411 yr I just texted her this morning asking if she was at school, but she hasn't responded yet (I doubt she will at this point). I don't want to be "the creepy guy who keeps texting her", but I also don't want to wait too long. If I do go with your plan, should I try to start a conversation first, or should I just ask out of the blue?Well, you'd want to make sure she's around when you ask. It'd be kinda awkward to turn on your phone after an exam and see that someone asked you out. If she doesn't reply this time, then you should move on.
October 9, 201411 yr If you've already texted her, and she hasn't responded, then she's not interested in you. Move on.
October 10, 201411 yr I asked her out today. Well, I asked her if she was doing anything this weekend. If she said no, I would have asked her out, but I think she figured that part out and lied and said she had to pick up her sister (who she previously said only lives 2 hours away, meaning there's no way that would take the whole weekend) and then I said "I guess that means you're busy next week too", to which she replied that she had school. This is the second time I've been rejected. I should have taken your advice and not tried. You were wrong about the stress and anxiety going away, though. I feel terrible.
October 10, 201411 yr You're right. It's so much better to stay at home, look at porn, and never touch a real woman. Squab unleashes Megiddo! Completed all quests and hard diaries. 75+ Skiller. (At one point.) 2000+ total. 99 Magic.[spoiler=The rest of my sig. You know you wanna see it.]my difinition of noob is i dont like u, either u are better then me or u are worst them meBuying spins make you a bad person...don't do it. It's like buying nukes for North Korea.Well if it bothers you that the game is more fun now, then you can go cry in a corner. :shame:your article was the equivalent of a circumcized porcupineThe only thing wrong with it is the lack of a percentage for when you need to stroke it. Poignant Purple to Lokie's Ravishing Red and Alg's Brilliant Blue.
October 10, 201411 yr Mate, just because you've been rejected twice doesn't mean jack shit. You probably are not going to have success the first few times. It took me to ask 9 different women on dates/dances which I was rejected for all of them. I even had to ask my current girlfriend 3 times to just go on a date with me. Rejection makes you stronger and experiencing rejection makes you realize what you need to do differently. It sucks getting rejecting and you'll probably be sad. Having said that, it is soooo much better than the anxiety of not knowing. Three months banishment to 9gag is something i would never wish upon anybody, not even my worst enemy.
October 10, 201411 yr I asked her out today. Well, I asked her if she was doing anything this weekend. If she said no, I would have asked her out, but I think she figured that part out and lied and said she had to pick up her sister (who she previously said only lives 2 hours away, meaning there's no way that would take the whole weekend) and then I said "I guess that means you're busy next week too", to which she replied that she had school. This is the second time I've been rejected. I should have taken your advice and not tried. You were wrong about the stress and anxiety going away, though. I feel terrible. Give it a week or two then. Maybe a month, max. I doubt you'll still feel terrible by then.
October 10, 201411 yr The most successful people in all walks of life are those who've learned to deal with rejection. "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti
October 10, 201411 yr I guess I should take a step back. I'm obviously doing something wrong. How do I get a girlfriend?
October 10, 201411 yr Take another step back and ask yourself why you want a girlfriend in the first place :)
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