"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice

[Iamdan]

Time to ask the Love Masters of the RuneScape Off-Topic for some advice.

 

 

 

It's not about a particular girl, but rather the personality. I'm not a very social guy, but don't use that to think I'm a quiet geek loser ( :geek: ). I can talk and will talk if there is something to talk about but my trouble is finding something to talk in the first place.

 

 

 

I work/help/forced to help in my school store where they sell drinks, candy, and such and I get a lot of customers, a lot of them cute girls. I don't want to just say "$1.50. Thanks." over and over again. But I don't know what to say!

 

 

 

Is there some sort of general rule/advice/something you guys do before talking with strangers? I need a few steps after saying "Sup." too, so don't say "just talk lulz".

 

 

 

Force yourself to say something. Anything. Ask them what they did that day or what they are doing later on. If you see something about them comment on it. If they have a x band shirt ask them if they went to their last concert. If they look unhappy ask them about it. If it's a cold day comment on it, if you saw something interesting in the news tell them about it

 

 

 

If you get into a habit of not talking, it's hard to keep a conversation going. Force yourself to talk and you will get used to thinking on the spot, and it will become easier over time.

[Ax600]

Im asking this on behalf of other people, but is there a way to read this "The Game" online?

[Orpheus]

Im asking this on behalf of other people, but is there a way to read this "The Game" online?

 

 

 

Every one of you made me lose, dammit.

[Lenticular_J]

Im asking this on behalf of other people, but is there a way to read this "The Game" online?

 

I don't think there's an e-book of it. And if you don't pay for it, you aren't able to take on the responsibility of becoming a man. Unless it gets passed down to you, which is definitely an acceptable method.

[Kiriyama]

Im asking this on behalf of other people, but is there a way to read this "The Game" online?

 

I don't think there's an e-book of it. And if you don't pay for it, you aren't able to take on the responsibility of becoming a man. Unless it gets passed down to you, which is definitely an acceptable method.

 

 

 

What about stealing a copy from a bigger man?

 

 

 

Using a plastic spoon.

[Da_Latios]

Im asking this on behalf of other people, but is there a way to read this "The Game" online?

 

I have an e-book. I can't give it to you because it'd be illegal to share that kind of stuff, right?

[noble_aloof]

"the game" can actually be gotten for free on the app store! i reccomend checking it out

 

http://app-store.appspot.com/?url=viewSoftware%3Fid%3D289570542%26mt%3D8

[Da_Latios]

"the game" can actually be gotten for free on the app store! i reccomend checking it out

 

http://app-store.appspot.com/?url=viewSoftware%3Fid%3D289570542%26mt%3D8

 

[bleep] off.

[Kiriyama]

"the game" can actually be gotten for free on the app store! i reccomend checking it out

 

http://app-store.appspot.com/?url=viewSoftware%3Fid%3D289570542%26mt%3D8

 

 

 

It was funny the first time someone made the connection.

 

 

 

But now its just [bleep]ing pathetic.

[Furah]

Peacocking has a better effect than I thought. -.-

 

On the bus from my sister's school home most people have light brown-blonde hair, are being loud and obnoxious. I am there with my black hair, quiet, and keeping confident. After most people got off the bus this girl who was 13-14 asked me my name, and was seemingly taking an interest, I asked her why she wanted to know and her sister said the girl liked me, and the girl tried to subtly get her sister to shut up. I eventually told her as this younger boy kept asking me too. I just turned my music right up after that, I'm 18 next year, it would be pedophilia then. I thought these things were for women, not younger school girls.

[Kiriyama]

Peacocking has a better effect than I thought. -.-

 

On the bus from my sister's school home most people have light brown-blonde hair, are being loud and obnoxious. I am there with my black hair, quiet, and keeping confident. After most people got off the bus this girl who was 13-14 asked me my name, and was seemingly taking an interest, I asked her why she wanted to know and her sister said the girl liked me, and the girl tried to subtly get her sister to shut up. I eventually told her as this younger boy kept asking me too. I just turned my music right up after that, I'm 18 next year, it would be pedophilia then. I thought these things were for women, not younger school girls.

 

 

 

Bet it'd be a different story if she was Asian, eh?

 

 

 

Dude, its not really pedophilia. Though it is sex with a minor if you try to do her. Don't worry about it, as long as you're not like some of the guys I know.

[Furah]

Peacocking has a better effect than I thought. -.-

 

On the bus from my sister's school home most people have light brown-blonde hair, are being loud and obnoxious. I am there with my black hair, quiet, and keeping confident. After most people got off the bus this girl who was 13-14 asked me my name, and was seemingly taking an interest, I asked her why she wanted to know and her sister said the girl liked me, and the girl tried to subtly get her sister to shut up. I eventually told her as this younger boy kept asking me too. I just turned my music right up after that, I'm 18 next year, it would be pedophilia then. I thought these things were for women, not younger school girls.

 

 

 

Bet it'd be a different story if she was Asian, eh?

 

 

 

Dude, its not really pedophilia. Though it is sex with a minor if you try to do her. Don't worry about it, as long as you're not like some of the guys I know.

 

She's all yours ;) I'll just have Sara....

[Kiriyama]

As long as you don't come near Leza mate.

[Wisp]

Peacocking has a better effect than I thought. -.-

 

On the bus from my sister's school home most people have light brown-blonde hair, are being loud and obnoxious. I am there with my black hair, quiet, and keeping confident. After most people got off the bus this girl who was 13-14 asked me my name, and was seemingly taking an interest, I asked her why she wanted to know and her sister said the girl liked me, and the girl tried to subtly get her sister to shut up. I eventually told her as this younger boy kept asking me too. I just turned my music right up after that, I'm 18 next year, it would be pedophilia then. I thought these things were for women, not younger school girls.

 

 

 

Bet it'd be a different story if she was Asian, eh?

 

 

 

Dude, its not really pedophilia. Though it is sex with a minor if you try to do her. Don't worry about it, as long as you're not like some of the guys I know.

 

and if she's 14, and next year your 18 and she's 15, it's legal, least where I'm at.

[Kiriyama]

Peacocking has a better effect than I thought. -.-

 

On the bus from my sister's school home most people have light brown-blonde hair, are being loud and obnoxious. I am there with my black hair, quiet, and keeping confident. After most people got off the bus this girl who was 13-14 asked me my name, and was seemingly taking an interest, I asked her why she wanted to know and her sister said the girl liked me, and the girl tried to subtly get her sister to shut up. I eventually told her as this younger boy kept asking me too. I just turned my music right up after that, I'm 18 next year, it would be pedophilia then. I thought these things were for women, not younger school girls.

 

 

 

Bet it'd be a different story if she was Asian, eh?

 

 

 

Dude, its not really pedophilia. Though it is sex with a minor if you try to do her. Don't worry about it, as long as you're not like some of the guys I know.

 

and if she's 14, and next year your 18 and she's 15, it's legal, least where I'm at.

 

 

 

Where are you? I'll swim and kidnap if I have to.

[noble_aloof]

Peacocking has a better effect than I thought. -.-

 

On the bus from my sister's school home most people have light brown-blonde hair, are being loud and obnoxious. I am there with my black hair, quiet, and keeping confident. After most people got off the bus this girl who was 13-14 asked me my name, and was seemingly taking an interest, I asked her why she wanted to know and her sister said the girl liked me, and the girl tried to subtly get her sister to shut up. I eventually told her as this younger boy kept asking me too. I just turned my music right up after that, I'm 18 next year, it would be pedophilia then. I thought these things were for women, not younger school girls.

 

 

 

Bet it'd be a different story if she was Asian, eh?

 

 

 

Dude, its not really pedophilia. Though it is sex with a minor if you try to do her. Don't worry about it, as long as you're not like some of the guys I know.

 

and if she's 14, and next year your 18 and she's 15, it's legal, least where I'm at.

 

 

 

Where are you? I'll swim and kidnap if I have to.

 

 

 

 

 

here in pa they make a huge deal about these kinds of relationships. basically, if the girl comes to 'hate' the 18+ guy she presses charges for something and he becomes a registered sex offender.

 

 

 

example: at my school alot of n00dz go around (yippie)

 

they actually had a lady come and talk to us, and try to scare us out of sending them and posting "[bleep]ty" and "drunk" pictures on myspace and facebook.

 

she told us a story of a 15 year old girl who was dating a 18 year old guy. she sent him pics.. after 5 months they broke up.

 

she decided to say that he somehow "obtained" these pictures and she charged him with possession and distribution of child pornography.

 

 

 

he is now a registered sex offender until he is 42. *pearljam's life wasted plays*

 

 

 

however, what they (probably) didn't tell us:

 

-the 18 year old was probably offered less severe punishment but didn't take it

 

-PA and florida are attempting to become the strictest states about this issue

 

-she didn't get any charges pressed against her.... although she distributed it first :wall: :wall:

[Wisp]

With my state, it works like this.

 

If you're 14, it's illegal. Even if the other person's 15.

 

If you're 15, it's anyone aged 15-18 (so no 19 year olds).

 

if you're 16, it's anyone.

 

A lot of states have "romeo and juliet" laws/clauses, which basically means that you have to be within a certain number of years (ie: 5 year difference) until both are over 16.

 

So a 13 with a 13 year old is legal, but a 12 year old with a 18 year old isn't.

[noble_aloof]

With my state, it works like this.

 

If you're 14, it's illegal. Even if the other person's 15.

 

If you're 15, it's anyone aged 15-18 (so no 19 year olds).

 

if you're 16, it's anyone.

 

A lot of states have "romeo and juliet" laws/clauses, which basically means that you have to be within a certain number of years (ie: 5 year difference) until both are over 16.

 

So a 13 with a 13 year old is legal, but a 12 year old with a 18 year old isn't.

 

where in the eastern united states is this, exactly? (if you don't mind me asking)

[Riku3220]

With my state, it works like this.

 

If you're 14, it's illegal. Even if the other person's 15.

 

If you're 15, it's anyone aged 15-18 (so no 19 year olds).

 

if you're 16, it's anyone.

 

A lot of states have "romeo and juliet" laws/clauses, which basically means that you have to be within a certain number of years (ie: 5 year difference) until both are over 16.

 

So a 13 with a 13 year old is legal, but a 12 year old with a 18 year old isn't.

 

where in the eastern united states is this, exactly? (if you don't mind me asking)

 

Doom lives in New York I think.

[brunokiller]

Just a question, what do you think about guys having to pay when they take a girl out to a date?

[Kiriyama]

With my state, it works like this.

 

If you're 14, it's illegal. Even if the other person's 15.

 

If you're 15, it's anyone aged 15-18 (so no 19 year olds).

 

if you're 16, it's anyone.

 

A lot of states have "romeo and juliet" laws/clauses, which basically means that you have to be within a certain number of years (ie: 5 year difference) until both are over 16.

 

So a 13 with a 13 year old is legal, but a 12 year old with a 18 year old isn't.

 

where in the eastern united states is this, exactly? (if you don't mind me asking)

 

Doom lives in New York I think.

 

 

 

Okay, so I now need to swim to Austrailia, stalk Mage_Man (ugg, I hate typing that out all the time), kidnap him and the girl and dump them in New York.

 

 

 

How long of a swim is that? Or shall I just get a mate to help me row a boat, towing another boat of supplies.

 

 

 

Bruno, its a good thing when the guy pays, but honestly, I believe the girl should pay half. Or even offer to pay for half.

[Iamdan]

Just a question, what do you think about guys having to pay when they take a girl out to a date?

 

 

 

"Hey, I'm too insecure to think you might like me for my personality, so I'm going to try and buy your love. I actually don't buy my other friends stuff, so technically I'm trying to manipulate you."

 

 

 

That's what it will project most of the time. Don't be a cheapskate but don't pay for everything either. After you are in a relationship, do whichever you want.

 

 

 

Personally I like a balance. I shout sometimes, they shout sometimes - it all evens out.

 

 

 

Example: I went out with a girl a couple nights ago. We split the cost of dinner, she bought a bottle of scotch after, I bought the coke and ice, plus I drove. We didn't plan it or talk about it, I just had the frame of not paying for everything.

[Amaranth_GTO]

Just a question, what do you think about guys having to pay when they take a girl out to a date?

 

To me it doesn't really matter. The best way is to split the bill, unless it's a special occasion.

[Nowayout59]

Alright so I have a problem.

 

 

 

My best female now has a boyfriend... of 5 days. I can already tell he is "using" her for bragging rights, make-out sessions and doesn't really give a 2 cent about her. but she is so caught up in him, she can not stop to listen to me. How could I go about splitting them up without her knowing I did it, for she would be hugely pissed for "ruining" a perfect relationship. Anything will help at this moment.

[Kiriyama]

You grow the [bleep] up and learn to stay out of her business.

 

 

 

Yeah, its good you're concerned, but when she doesn't listen, thats when you stay the [bleep] away from the topic and don't say "I warned you" when she realises it.