"Hey where you from"

"(Town), where are you from?"

"Hell I could be from (town), who cares - youre hot!"

 

Actual conversation of a dude successfully picking up a server I work with. There was more but it wasn't quite as funny

There is so much potential in this town.

 

Yet I only have like one evening a week free.

And I can't invite girls randomly to cafe's or pubs, since people I know work in nearly every one...

There is so much potential in this town.

 

Yet I only have like one evening a week free.

And I can't invite girls randomly to cafe's or pubs, since people I know work in nearly every one...

Why is that an issue? Are you trying to hide the fact that you're dating?

Yes, I want to hide the number of different girls I am dating with.

I don't like anybody knowing anything specific about me, this forum or thread knows more about me than a single soul alive.

I think ythat you think people care more than they do about what your are doing with your life

aaaaaaaand friendzoned. mnleh

What do you think you did wrong?

Licked her hair, perhaps?

How do you even get friendzoned

 

Did you ask her out?

 

Found the context post. You gotta make it clear that you're into her. Otherwise it's just going to be awkward for everyone

To muggi, no I haven't stop messing with this girl.

 

And FFS, I have a cold, which stops me doing anything right now for at least a week.

Oh well, keeping an ice bag on one's knee for hours a day had an impact...

Yeah, I mean I did, we were hanging out a lot and I flirted wit her/touched her so I thought I was being clear, and we were having a pretty deep conversation about relationships and such and I just felt like if it was going to happen that night would have to be the night because of how long it was starting to get stretched out for so I asked and yeah. She's just not over her ex whatsoever, which was understandable I guess as it was her first relationship and lasted 2.5 years. Just I felt like if I waited any longer I would just guarantee nothing would happen and I was just sick of being a maybe. Also I had knownher for a long time, even if we hadn't hung out all that much before the break-up. I sitll think it was more due to her emotional unavailability than me doing anything super wrong though.

 

Not really that big of a deal though lol, it was actually my first straight-up rejection in about a year and a half rather than a girl just going radio silent and it really wasn't bad at all. I saw her the next day too and nothing was really awkward. I'm also kinda realizing that it would've been a massive case of shitting where you eat as I was in a student org with her and that I was quickly losing attraction to her anyways. I think I was more attracted to the idea of having a recently single friend to go after than I actually was to her herself. Like I feel strangely more confident after all of this now that I'm over a lot of my other self-esteem issues I've been having and remember how not-that-bad rejection is. We'll see where the rest of the year goes though I guess haha.

 

I guess I probably do still need to work on making my intentions more clear? Everyone always says that without saying how to do it so I have no idea what else to do short of trying to be touchier as I meet them. Like the only way to be more direct that I can think of is to just straight up tell them that you like them at some point? But that never works lmao and I can't really see a way to fit that smoothly into conversation I guess so I don't really know what I'm missing here.

Yeah, I mean I did, we were hanging out a lot and I flirted wit her/touched her so I thought I was being clear, and we were having a pretty deep conversation about relationships and such and I just felt like if it was going to happen that night would have to be the night because of how long it was starting to get stretched out for so I asked and yeah.

Where were you when this happened?

 

Yeah, I mean I did, we were hanging out a lot and I flirted wit her/touched her so I thought I was being clear, and we were having a pretty deep conversation about relationships and such and I just felt like if it was going to happen that night would have to be the night because of how long it was starting to get stretched out for so I asked and yeah.

Where were you when this happened?

 

 

Her apartment

 

 

Yeah, I mean I did, we were hanging out a lot and I flirted wit her/touched her so I thought I was being clear, and we were having a pretty deep conversation about relationships and such and I just felt like if it was going to happen that night would have to be the night because of how long it was starting to get stretched out for so I asked and yeah.

Where were you when this happened?

 

 

Her apartment

 

 

Did you try to kiss her while you were touching her?

Nah, never really progressed to that point. like I'd be able to touch her arm/back/etc during conversation but she'd always sit on a chair in a way that I couldn't really sit next to her to put my arm around her / anything that would make trying to kiss her seem natural. So I kinda knew where everything was going, asked more for closure than anything by the end of it.

Yeah it sounds like she wasn't really into you. Hopefully the next girl works out

Girl gets out of ltr.

girl seeks male accompaniment.

 

Only natural. Doesn't always imply a blossoming secual relationship. But it often does. Better luck next time Kalph

Depending on what her LTR was like when it ended, sometimes they're super horny :D

yeah thsts wat u was hoping fr but i uguesss nwt ay lmaoooo

I have tried to get rid of the drunk posting/texting habit, good to see someone still keeping it up!

The torch always manages to get passed at some point

I still don't understand you guys. I can type and text just fine even when I'm plastered.

It's not that I'm worse at typing when I'm drunk, it's just that I don't care about fixing my mistakes

 

If my mom texts me when I'm drunk, I'll spend like an hour crafting a coherent reply

It's not that I'm worse at typing when I'm drunk, it's just that I don't care about fixing my mistakes

 

If my mom texts me when I'm drunk, I'll spend like an hour crafting a coherent reply

 

That's me 100%

And me. Except my mom never texts me.

But yeah, I just don't care about fixing text when drunk.

 

Can you tell that I've had 7 beers tonight?