To each their own. I don't mind a good root once in a while but unlike a lot of guys here (in my area) it's not something I desperately crave once a week.

I think it's an area culture thing though. Philly has tons of gay couples. I can only assume grinder and all that are just as used and available (my one gay friend went on a grinder binge when he first came out and got laid like 10 times a week for a couple months)

10 times a week a couple months?

How in the heck did he have the time?

 

I'm lucky to find 3 evening-night combos to do something with a girl...

I don't know about you guys, but I'm starting to get sick of hookups. Call it what you like, but I miss that emotional connection I've held in my previous relationships. 

BobRoss and Chill is pretty legit.

Started using tinder again. Three girls were interested in hanging out this week, but I couldn't get logistics to work because I was supposed to fly out of state for an interview. Missed my flight, tried hitting the girls up again, ignored. whelp~

One small rejection on tinder might as well be 1000

Bloody freaking hell.

I am forced to pick between girls now.

And it is one HELL of a choice.

And I am on a crash course to hurting somebody really badly if I don't.

It's probably not that big of a deal lol

I've talked to him about it before and asked if he just wanted to break up. And ya, I get it. Dudes are generally hoes. Even before the surgery, I knew guys are more sexual than girls. I kinda feel bad for him since I am like this and I just want him to be happy.

Just ask him to get his balls removed, then you'll be in the same boat

I'm sure you've already talked about what you want sexually in the relationship. And I'm sure that you guys differ and made some compromises already. So if you feel there's a problem bring that that topic up again.

Basically this. Don't just break up with him out of no where. Only if it's an actual problem is it worth even possibly breaking up over. Why you consider your boyfriend to be a hoe is a different issue

 

I've talked to him about it before and asked if he just wanted to break up. And ya, I get it. Dudes are generally hoes. Even before the surgery, I knew guys are more sexual than girls. I kinda feel bad for him since I am like this and I just want him to be happy.

Just ask him to get his balls removed, then you'll be in the same boat

 

 

LOL

http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/220/testosterone?act=2#play

 

Interesting short listen. About a lesbian who takes a ton of testosterone to become a man and the effects it has on her brain/sex drive. Women just don't understand how important their looks are to men, as well as how important sex is to men

I see where you're coming from muggi, but that seems like a generalized viewpoint

What do you mean?

What do you mean?

Nvm, actually listened to the clip, think I know what you're saying now

Oh ffs attacking a gender as a whole is as pointless as racism. Not ALL women do that thing you hate. Not ALL men think that way. People are individuals beyond their genitals. Some people have traces of both genitals! What then? Projecting your fear of rejection by scarecrowing the other gender is such an oblivious way of handling your issue.

 

That aside, the media often sexualizes female nudity and humorizes male. Nothing new. Just a biproduct of stupid audience polls (stupid audience, not stupid polls) showing that's how people like it

Oh ffs attacking a gender as a whole is as pointless as racism. Not ALL women do that thing you hate. Not ALL men think that way. People are individuals beyond their genitals. Some people have traces of both genitals! What then? Projecting your fear of rejection by scarecrowing the other gender is such an oblivious way of handling your issue.

 

That aside, the media often sexualizes female nudity and humorizes male. Nothing new. Just a biproduct of stupid audience polls (stupid audience, not stupid polls) showing that's how people like it

No, it's because society can get away with making fun of men in a way it can't with women

That too

Just ignore I even exist.

I don't doubt for a second that those people are women and the ranks are as such. I just personally wouldn't be able to get so riled up over youtube comments, let alone respond in quite the way you have.

 

To each their own I guess.

If the greatest thing about you is who you're dating, you don't even qualify as your own person. But you're not a sellout for calling someone your equal and dating them.

 

I'm a feminist, because I do believe the pursuit of equality is plausible and altruistic. I don't agree with a lot of people who claim they are feminist by bisecting the sexes even further because that's not even feminism, that's just tossing the scale the other way.

off topic but I just realised there's a lobster in your avatar, nice lol

....Did Off Topic become general RS Discussion 2.0?

 

I can't leave you guys alone for more then a few days.

God darn, I am in a pickle.

 

I might have made a young innocent girl fall for me. Really badly.