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I wouldn't consider myself either. I would never stab a friend in the back, but I wouldn't stay with them just to look like a good friend. And I don't consider it getting ripped off when I'm friends with the nerds instead of cool people. Someone is only as cool as you make them.

 

 

 

same as me. there are a few nerds im friends with but im friends with a lot of "cool people" too. i think the 'cool people' think im a nerd and the 'nerds' think im a 'cool person' in a friendly way. the 'cool people' always joke with me about me being a nerd. if there's some big math problem or something its "whats the answer to that you nerd?", there only joking around though.

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Neither, really. I just kinda drift around the groups, hanging out with some people one day, then another one the next. I've only got one friend I'll stick with if he's in trouble, through whatever at this school, the rest... meh, depends on the situation.

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The only time im not loyal, is when one of my friends is doing something wrong, for example, one of my freinds were having a stressfull week, and hit someone for no reason, I wasnt loyal then, because, if someones wrong, I try and make it right instead.

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I probably should have clarified. When I said I wasn't extremely loyal, I didn't really mean that I conform, and hang out with "cool" people for the sake of being cool. I meant that I have backstabbed friends, for various reasons. For example, one of my friends thought it would be cool and funny to constantly swear, be perverted and racist all the time. To put it simply, we're not best buddies anymore.

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I wouldn't consider myself either. I would never stab a friend in the back, but I wouldn't stay with them just to look like a good friend. And I don't consider it getting ripped off when I'm friends with the nerds instead of cool people. Someone is only as cool as you make them.

 

 

 

same as me. there are a few nerds im friends with but im friends with a lot of "cool people" too. i think the 'cool people' think im a nerd and the 'nerds' think im a 'cool person' in a friendly way. the 'cool people' always joke with me about me being a nerd. if there's some big math problem or something its "whats the answer to that you nerd?", there only joking around though.

 

 

 

lol same

 

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Loyal. It's one of the only good qualities I have.

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I never betray my friends or family or snitch them out for any purpose. Even if you committed murder and were my friend/family; not a chance. I'd never do it. One of the most disgusting traits of a human being is being a cowardly sell-out.

 

 

 

If you value a friend and love your family, you stay with them until the end. There's no turning back or stabbing in the back, or you're a scumbag yourself.

 

 

 

But of course if the very improbable happened, and you found out your friend was a pedophile/child abuser, of course I'd turn them in and make a 360' turn with the friendship. I'd actually be angry for not realizing it before.

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I never betray my friends or family or snitch them out for any purpose. Even if you committed murder and were my friend/family; not a chance. I'd never do it. One of the most disgusting traits of a human being is being a cowardly sell-out.

 

 

 

It depends on the situation, for example, if a relative or friend commited a completely random murder, for others safety in my best interests, i would snitch, but under other circumstances, such as them murdering someone to safe themself, in defence, or if they are blackmailed ect. I would stick with them and help them.

 

 

 

It depends on whether they are safe to be free.

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Wouldn't stab a good friend in the back. Maybe someone I just 'know' and chat with, if something gets better from it. I'm loyal to my good friends, to a certain hight of course.

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I went to a new hs and could not make friends till 2nd semester. I hung out with an unpopular kid but we had lots of talk about. Then I met this new popular group and I was "indicted" into it immediately. I asked my friend to come along but he was paranoid about his accent and thought ppl would tease him. I tried many times to introduce my old friend to the group but...it didnt work out. In the end I betrayed him and never spoke to him until the last semester of high school.

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Ha, I'd forgotten all about high school politics.

 

 

 

Can't say I've missed 'em.

 

 

 

Amen.

 

 

 

I'm rather blunt myself. I'm a very loyal friend, but I *will* cut you radically from my life and ignore you for a very long time if you don't treat me the same and piss me off.

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Meh, most of my friends are replaceable. I have some really close friends that I would never stab in the back though.

 

That's how you see your friends?

 

 

 

It'll probably take some work, but once I feel comfortable with someone, I'll show them my loyalty and my entire personality. I don't stab people in the back, but I think it's hard for me to get comfortable with people. That might be why I only have a few close friends.

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I have a few close friends who I'd pretty much die for, then lots of friendships/acquintances that i'd be loyal to but not without good cause. It's just the way I am, I tend to have a few very close friends rather than a large friend circle, which makes it easier to be loyal I guess. I'd never "follow the crowd" to betray a friend though, since i'm naturally suspicious of that kind of thing.

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If by loyal, you mean would I ask "How far?" when they say "Jump!", then no, I'm not loyal. Even the love I have with my family is conditional. That's not to imply the relationship I have with my family isn't strong, it's just I don't believe in 'blind following'. To date, they've only done good by me and I hope I've not mistreat them.

 

 

 

I won't backstab my friends, but if one of them mistreats me, I have absolutely no gripes about severing the relationship between me and that person there and then. I've done it in the past, and I'm pretty damn good at it.

 

 

 

I'd never leave a friend simply to follow the crowd though. I'm quite happy not being part of the crowd, to be honest.

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Meh, most of my friends are replaceable. I have some really close friends that I would never stab in the back though.

 

That's how you see your friends?

 

 

 

Yeah, that's how I see most of them. I've been hurt by a lot of them so I don't bother getting close to most of them. Hell, one of them is facing a felony charge for dealing and I'm just like "Meh, that sucks".

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Well so long as I consider you my friend I will stick with you. The flow... I assume you mean what others think? I don't really care what others think seeing as they are not counted amongst my friends. Now if the flow was an angry mob, and my friend was guilty of some terrible crime that I could not abide by, then I believe we would split. Otherwise that mob would have one hell of a fight on their hands.

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I DONT OPEN LOCKS!!!

 

picking is differt than opening

 

the only way to "open" locks is with the key or a skeleton key

 

my brain is hardwired with locks

 

on topic: i beleive friends are only temporary

 

im goint to middle school next year and im starting all new with friends

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go with the flow. unlike most fat pathetic internet nerds in these places, I actually have a large group of friends so I don't treat one like the most holy thing in my world.

 

A close group of friends trumps a large group of acquaintances by far.

 

 

 

deloria, I still think that's a bad attitude.

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go with the flow. unlike most fat pathetic internet nerds in these places, I actually have a large group of friends so I don't treat one like the most holy thing in my world.

 

A close group of friends trumps a large group of acquaintances by far.

 

 

 

deloria, I still think that's a bad attitude.

 

 

 

Yeah, I think it's something you learn over time. I can't think of anything more important than the few close friends I have.

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deloria, I still think that's a bad attitude.

 

 

 

It might be a bad attitude to most, but I have a few friends I'd kill or die for and they're the only irreplacable ones. I'd rather have a few close friends who'd do the same for me than a ton of just normal friends who probably wouldn't always be there for me.

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