loyal or go with the flow?

[Furah]

So Tip.it, are you a loyal friend who always has your friends back? or are you more likely to stab your friends back to go with the flow of others, or because you want something?

 

 

 

I am more of a loyal person myself, get ripped off because I'm still friends with the 'uncool' people

[dsavi]

Loyal. I once went with the flow, which I am not suited to, and it got me into a huge mess, long story.

 

 

 

Reminds me, on that test (Can't remember the name, something like "Key values") Loyalty and citizenship came up as #1.

[Kenshinjapan]

I wouldn't consider myself either. I would never stab a friend in the back, but I wouldn't stay with them just to look like a good friend. And I don't consider it getting ripped off when I'm friends with the nerds instead of cool people. Someone is only as cool as you make them.

[ThurinEthir]

Both. It's likely that I'll backstab my closest friends one day. It just happens with me. Every really good friend I've had... :|

 

However, with friends I don't know as well (But still qualify as friends), I'm loyal. It's backwards of what you'd probably think...

 

Generally though, I guess I'm loyal. If I was a backstabber/go-with-the-flow-guy I would be hanging out with a bunch of "popular" idiots, rather than my fellow nerds/geeks.

[anonymous1234]

This is a problem I had to deal with all of last year. In 7th grade there I was in a group of friends of about 7 people, and we had the same lunch period and set at the same table. Then they started to be really mean to one of my friends, (we'll call him A) and they constantly bullied him. I had to decide whether to stick with A who was possibly my best friend, or stay with the group of ~6 people. I really didn't want to go either way, but I had to make a choice, so I supported A. Another kid, B, also went with A and now we are a trio of closer friends then the original group :D It worked out for the better I guess but the kids still give A crap half the time, and the other half he is treated like one of them #-o It really is confusing.

[Furah]

This is a problem I had to deal with all of last year. In 7th grade there I was in a group of friends of about 7 people, and we had the same lunch period and set at the same table. Then they started to be really mean to one of my friends, (we'll call him A) and they constantly bullied him. I had to decide whether to stick with A who was possibly my best friend, or stay with the group of ~6 people. I really didn't want to go either way, but I had to make a choice, so I supported A. Another kid, B, also went with A and now we are a trio of closer friends then the original group :D It worked out for the better I guess but the kids still give A crap half the time, and the other half he is treated like one of them #-o It really is confusing.

 

 

 

I hate it when that happens, I usually will stick up for the 1 guy, unless the others are ALL better friends

[Stilev]

both, i have good friends which i dont rip on, but sometimes i got other friends that just like "eh" even if they got mad at me i wouldn't care, usually when i rip on them its not that im going along, its that i agree that they are annonying, or stupid or w\e

[ididnotlol]

I am a loyal friend, even though I get stabbed in the back half the time, I generally try to be loyal, 3 years in the same school and only just stated earning respect.

[dragoonson]

I dunno.All my friends (actually many people I know IRL) are stupid...So they've probably tried to stab me in the back,and failed...Myself...I have bullied them,but not sold them out or anything...

[Lenticular_J]

Loyalty is epic win. My actual friends I will of course remain loyal to.

 

 

 

People from my school I hardly know yet call "friends", well, that's another story. :twss:

[Zierro]

If my friend is being dumb, I'll still unconditionally be their friend but I'll point out the mistakes they are making. When I see one of my friends arguing though, I tend to side with them.

[Nadril]

I've pretty much always had just a few close friends throughout my life so it never crossed my mind to backstab them, so to speak.

[Echofish]

I'm stuck in the middle. There are two lots of people I generally hang around with: the average girl clique and the my fellow geek friends (who are all boys). They don't get along very well and get quite cross when I hang around the other for too long. At lunch, I'm faced with a decision as to who I'm going to sit next to :|

[Lateralus]

Ha, I'd forgotten all about high school politics.

[Nadril]

Ha, I'd forgotten all about high school politics.

 

 

 

Can't say I've missed 'em.

[Skully]

I consider myself loyal, the close friends I make usually I stick with forever, I wouldn't class myself as popular, but im not exactly hated either. I stick with my friends and they stick with me, why stab someone in the back who's always there for you?

[Piscis_Rex]

I'm loyal, due to the fact that the flow doesn't want me

[Giordano]

Wait wait wait...you're actually asking if I would leave my intelligent, reasonable, friendly friends for a group of idiotic, rude people? You're kiddin' me right?

[Faux]

What kind of a person backstabs their friends? Pieces of [cabbage]

[Powman3]

I would say neither.

 

 

 

Honestly, if they do something around me that I just don't agree with, I ain't going to stay loyal or whatever. As far as I'm concerned we wouldn't be friends anymore.

[mrpez]

ill help my friends if they need it or ask. but if we're in a competition (i.e, for a job), ill do my best to win.

[supanova]

i have my close friends, and i'm loyal to them. if they return the loyalty, it's all good, but if they're little scumbags and backstab me like a good friend did a little while back, i don't get very happy.

 

 

 

loyalty is good.

[Rainy_Day]

I'm loyal with exceptions. If fueds break out between friends, then I won't take sides. I will try and help calm the situation down though.

 

 

 

Going with the flow isn't a good idea, as it would cause problems for you.

[doomy]

Loyal, once I went with the flow and it really screwed me up.

[Lenin64]

Depends on the person. My loyalty has to be earned, but once it has, it's undying. People I've known for less time or haven't earned my loyalty I could go either way with, and have.