a girl is a person ! ! ! !

 

 

 

NO WAY!!!! :shock:

 

 

 

holy #*&@!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

Anyways, yes I have extreme problems with talking to a female, I am utterly unable to do it.

 

 

 

Or not. :/. yes I can talk to girls.

Keep your head up. That might help a bit. They're called breasts, and everyone has them :wink: .

 

 

 

Just loosen up about it, and everything will come together.

hah i remember when i had the issue.. o well its past.

 

what u do is to fine some common ground with them, like something you have in common and then talk about it. ex. sports subjects anything like that.

 

I find that when i talk about drumming to a girl that also plays drums then she seems more interessted to me than if i talk about something random :-w

I'm not a huge fan of talking about about myself in real life (that's what a forums for) so I just ask alot of questions. People love to talk about themselves even if it's about the most boring things.

first thing first, go to the bathroom before you talk to her so you dont accidentaly wet your pants that would be a :( day indeed

 

 

 

or just ask her to go to a dance with you just make friends before anyone can take her

Keep your head up. That might help a bit. They're called breasts, and everyone has them :wink: .

 

 

 

Just loosen up about it, and everything will come together.

 

 

 

So that's been my problem :wall:

 

 

 

haha joke :P

Keep your head up. That might help a bit. They're called breasts, and everyone has them :wink: .

 

 

 

Rofl.. Also keep your eyes up, they tend to have a mind of their own...

 

 

 

 

 

I don't have problems talking to girls. I hang out with my neighbor quite a bit and she's a girl (We tend to like a lot of the same things so we get along just fine). Just remember that girls tend to like a lot of the same things as guy so finding something to talk about isn't too hard...

Talk to them online first, Then the next day you can talk about lastnight, just say hi now and then and talk about upcoming events. That's really how i do it.

 

 

 

Girls are easy to talk to you just need to level up a little :-s

I hope this isnt related to what ive mention in a thread here... :(

 

 

 

EDIT: Woo! 2700 posts!

Talk to them online first, Then the next day you can talk about lastnight, just say hi now and then and talk about upcoming events.

 

 

 

I find talking to someone online to be very impersonal. I'd much rather talk to someone face to face than over the internet. Also I think it shows more confidence to talk to the in person before talking to them online.

 

 

 

 

 

@Jak: Gratz on 2700 posts \

Am I the only one that finds this topic hilariously funny?

 

 

 

On one side, you have all the people offering their amazing advice on how to talk to a girl. Even though girls are people. What is so hard about talking to the opposite sex? I've never had a problem with this and a lot of my friends are girls. I really can't see the problem with talking to another human being. What's the difference?

 

 

 

Then there's the girl/s that are giving advice on how to talk to them. Who cares? I'm not gonna' change my entire attitude just so I can be deemed acceptable. Like it or leave it, right?

 

 

 

Finally, there's Zonorhc. I love you, man.

Am I the only one that finds this topic hilariously funny?

 

 

 

On one side, you have all the people offering their amazing advice on how to talk to a girl. Even though girls are people. What is so hard about talking to the opposite sex? I've never had a problem with this and a lot of my friends are girls. I really can't see the problem with talking to another human being. What's the difference?

 

 

 

Then there's the girl/s that are giving advice on how to talk to them. Who cares? I'm not gonna' change my entire attitude just so I can be deemed acceptable. Like it or leave it, right?

 

 

 

Finally, there's Zonorhc. I love you, man.

 

 

 

 

 

You do relise the people who ask advice like this are generally younger and just becoming interested in the opposite sex, right? Then those of us who have who have had some experience offer help. Then again, popular people like you must have no problems at all, huh? Also if you're not willing to make changes for the one you 'love', then you must not love them at all. The whole 'like it or leave it' attitude will leave you single and lonely. Believe me, that's how I was but now I'm willing to change for a girl. (Not a whole life-style, but change the little things that annoy her or whatever)

 

You do relise the people who ask advice like this are generally younger and just becoming interested in the opposite sex, right?

 

 

 

Meh, he is older than you, he said he was 16 on the 2nd page. Not that it really matters but.

 

 

 

Anyways, as stated before treat girls as people. Aside from some biological differences there isn't that much seperating the genders. Talk to them as you would a guy (okay avoid certain, obvious "guy" topics at least until you know them better).

 

 

 

If your really nervous just make small talk and ask them simple questions in the halls/classes. Say hello, and ask them how they are. Then give your own response to the question. If you get stuck talk about things that happened during the classes you have :/

 

 

 

Meh, I suck at advice. Be honest and yourself. Don't be "fake or someone your not" as you won't be able to keep many friends of either gender for a long time.

yes i can...

 

yes i can...

 

yes i can...

 

 

 

YES I CAN!

Am I the only one that finds this topic hilariously funny?

 

 

 

On one side, you have all the people offering their amazing advice on how to talk to a girl. Even though girls are people. What is so hard about talking to the opposite sex? I've never had a problem with this and a lot of my friends are girls. I really can't see the problem with talking to another human being. What's the difference?

 

 

 

Then there's the girl/s that are giving advice on how to talk to them. Who cares? I'm not gonna' change my entire attitude just so I can be deemed acceptable. Like it or leave it, right?

 

 

 

Finally, there's Zonorhc. I love you, man.

 

 

 

 

 

You do relise the people who ask advice like this are generally younger and just becoming interested in the opposite sex, right? Then those of us who have who have had some experience offer help. Then again, popular people like you must have no problems at all, huh? Also if you're not willing to make changes for the one you 'love', then you must not love them at all. The whole 'like it or leave it' attitude will leave you single and lonely. Believe me, that's how I was but now I'm willing to change for a girl. (Not a whole life-style, but change the little things that annoy her or whatever)

 

 

 

Hell, if you want to pick a part my post and patronise me, then I'll bloody well do the same to you.

 

 

 

I've made changes for the one I 'love', thanks all the same. But then again, being the mindreader you are, you already knew that, huh? I'm prepared to make changes, I'm just not going to completely change who I am. I won't talk or act differently just because I'm with her. She has no problems with that. I'm not single and lonely and I haven't been for the past year or so, so I guess my theory must work, eh?

 

 

 

Also, who cares if they're younger? Honestly, they're still people. It's like, 'OMG LIEK A GRRRL LOLOLOLOLOL SHE MUST BE SPESHUL LOL!'. Get over it.

Just talk to her like you would a friend. ^_^ Keep in mind that you can't be "guyish" around her. You know, you can't playfully punch her or something, or talk about all the girls you think are hot.

 

 

 

Generally, you should avoid the sex talk (yes, Carlo, I know it's interesting. :P) until later. If you start talking about that too soon, then she'll think you're a perv.

 

 

 

Just loosen up a bit and be yourself. It's no big deal, really.

 

 

 

Good luck!

I have no trouble talking to girls, here is some advice that has helped me

 

 

 

DO NOT fool around or try to impress them( unless the girl has mental damage or something like that)

 

 

 

DO be yourself(unless yourself is really dumb and idiotic)

 

 

 

DO NOT say something too risky (girls are easily insulted)

 

 

 

DO follow this advice (it helped me and it can help you)

 

 

 

DO NOT babble like a buffoon (it drives them away and it drives you'r rep in the dumpster)

 

 

 

Even though i can i generaly refrain from talking to girls as they can be more annoying than us males.

 

 

 

Just kidding I don't refrain from talking to girls

On one side, you have all the people offering their amazing advice on how to talk to a girl. Even though girls are people. What is so hard about talking to the opposite sex? I've never had a problem with this and a lot of my friends are girls. I really can't see the problem with talking to another human being. What's the difference?

 

 

 

Lame.

 

 

 

I've never had a problem with talking to girls as well, but I know better than to think that everyone is comfortable with that. I've met people who are seriously shy with talking to women and just needs some advice on how to get started.

 

 

 

Then there's the girl/s that are giving advice on how to talk to them. Who cares? I'm not gonna' change my entire attitude just so I can be deemed acceptable. Like it or leave it, right?

 

 

 

No. What if you were an [wagon] to begin with? Of couse you'll change. What if you were childish to begin with? Of course you'll change.

 

 

 

I'm sorry everyone is imperfect unlike you.

Try talking online first.

 

 

 

If you say something that they don't like, say that your autotyper did it.

 

 

 

If they don't believe you, wait until the next day, message them, and say you were hacked.

 

 

 

Well, that's all folks.

I don't really have trouble talking to them....

 

 

 

Of course, there was only one girl I liked at my school, but she dumped me. -.-

 

 

 

All the other girls at my school treat me like crap....Oh well, there all annoying. :|

 

 

 

Thats exactly what happened with me tho, it might hav summit to do with the fact that i@m the most sarcastic person in my school lol

 

 

 

Yeah, I can get pretty sarcastic, and mean, if I want to.

 

 

 

And I usually do :mrgreen:

If you're finding trouble talking to girls, that's probably because you aren't giving them any respect. I have lots of girls that are very good friends of mine and I just treat them like I would treat any other person.

 

 

 

Notice, i didn't say I treat them like boys :)

I'm actually pretty good with girls except those I like. So you ave to be natural :wall:

Talk to them online first, Then the next day you can talk about lastnight, just say hi now and then and talk about upcoming events.

 

 

 

I find talking to someone online to be very impersonal. I'd much rather talk to someone face to face than over the internet. Also I think it shows more confidence to talk to the in person before talking to them online.

 

 

 

 

 

@Jak: Gratz on 2700 posts \

 

 

 

I use online as more of an icebreaker, ya know? find out what she likes and what not

Try talking online first.

 

 

 

If you say something that they don't like, say that your autotyper did it.

 

 

 

If they don't believe you, wait until the next day, message them, and say you were hacked.

 

 

 

Well, that's all folks.

 

 

 

for a guy with 7 posts, thats pretty funny.

 

 

 

I have no trouble talking with girls,for a long time (6th,7th,and 8th grade) my 3 closest freinds used to be girls :oops: before 8th grade graduation (now they seem like they forgot about me).

 

 

 

My problem is I can't talk with a girl that I like, when ever I have something imoprtant to say to her this happens: :-# #-o

 

 

 

hopefully tommorow that will change at the movies :wink: .

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

EDIT: I have learned that my "girl" freinds talk about sex much more and in more detail than guys.

Ha. Well seems like you're putting them on a high pedistill.

 

They're chicks, no godesses. They're like everyone else with their pros and cons. Talk about something that interests you first. See their reaction, and try to find their interests. Of course don't waste your time on shallow chicks, conceited chicks, narcisstic chicks, or selfish chicks.. Conversations with them will only piss you off in the end. But yeah, make friends first at least. Make them notice you. And don't forget to flirt. If you don't flirt with them, they end up not seeing you as more than a friend. And you get stuck in a "friend-friend" relationship. And that can be entirely demoralizing if you honestly like the chick.