talk to them when in a group. thats how i met some of my friendgirls.

 

if your doing a lab in science, or anything. mabye if your with a friend who hangs around girls, talk to them. also, being funny in class (saying a comment out loud in general) helps alot. when you do that, they come to you, and you saved alot of work. atleast that worked for me. but if you mess up and say something not funni, then that just makes you less appealing. its a 50/50 chance.

 

also like some people mentioned, tease them in a friendly way, (not sexual/immature teasing). it kinda makes them laugh at themselves (not in a bad way), and it'll loosen you and her up a bit.

/me looks at the thread topic.

 

 

 

No, I am unable to. Where I live boys can't see girls until they are 21 years old.

lmao you have trouble talking to chicks.......tht blows...

 

 

 

it's just so easy to talk to girls...act natural

 

 

 

ps. don't look @ their boobs, unless you know them good enuf & it's a joke

Do something random, like run around with your pants around your ankles, or flail your arms for a few minutes.

 

 

 

Hell, I met my girlfriend that way.

 

 

 

... the second one.

 

Omg.... what a nice role model for boys to follow.... now i know who to blame when i see a drunk underage boy showing us his ugly willy...

 

 

 

Well he does have a point, if he's looking for a girl that LIKES that kinda humor.. That's exactly how I met my girlfriend as well, running around doing random stuff with my friends and getting in trouble like I usually do.. :|

if you know something about the girl you're trying to talk to (ex: something interesting she did not long ago) ask her about it, and what she did and what not. I talked to the girl i liked about her trip to mexico... we ended up talking for the whole morning, neither of us doing our work lol. :lol:

On one side, you have all the people offering their amazing advice on how to talk to a girl. Even though girls are people. What is so hard about talking to the opposite sex? I've never had a problem with this and a lot of my friends are girls. I really can't see the problem with talking to another human being. What's the difference?

 

 

 

Lame.

 

 

 

I've never had a problem with talking to girls as well, but I know better than to think that everyone is comfortable with that. I've met people who are seriously shy with talking to women and just needs some advice on how to get started.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Because girls are so much different. This isn't a thread about talking to women. This is a thread about adolescent boys having problems with talking to their little girlfriends. However, in the instance you speak of, I still don't see how it's much different. It's not as if we all have to get on our knees and bow before them just because they are female. I, for one, am not going to think that because it's a girl, I have to treat her special esteem. They're just like everyone else, why do you have to have special powers to talk to them?

 

 

 

Then there's the girl/s that are giving advice on how to talk to them. Who cares? I'm not gonna' change my entire attitude just so I can be deemed acceptable. Like it or leave it, right?

 

 

 

No. What if you were an * to begin with? Of couse you'll change. What if you were childish to begin with? Of course you'll change.

 

 

 

I'm sorry everyone is imperfect unlike you.

 

By all means, I'm not perfect. I just don't think that talking to girls is that much of a problem. No way would I change for them, just as much as I wouldn't change for my male mates. I wouldn't think, 'oh, she thinks I'm a complete asshat, I'd better change!'.

Try talking online first.

 

 

 

If you say something that they don't like, say that your autotyper did it.

 

 

 

If they don't believe you, wait until the next day, message them, and say you were hacked.

 

 

 

Well, that's all folks.

 

lol :lol: :lol: :lol:

Quite easily, especially if under the influence of alcohol, but lets not go there

 

 

 

2 of my best friends are female and I find it quite easy to talk to girls at my school... I dont know why but whenever I see a girl from a different school it becomes a bit more difficult but I still manage quite well :)

For cryin out loud whats wrong with you boys! Its easy just TAAAALK! exactly the same stuff you say to ur mates goes with us (only if you take out all the sex talk :lol: ) and say some FUNNY jokes, not half-hearted jokes that make BOYS laugh but makes GIRLS disappointed.. lol :shame: :shame:

 

 

 

It's not easy to talk when you have tons of thoughts going through you, trust me, if you were a boy you'd know. You have thoughts like "Damn, she's hot, and When should we kiss, should I ask her out." Too much for me, but I usually don't walk up to someone and just start talking to her. I gradually become good friends with her when the time is right, and then I give her the ol' code 403. (just kidding about that last part \ :-s )

 

 

 

:D.

 

 

 

But for some help, just do what I do ^^^, wait until she is in the mood to talk to you, it always works. Maybe you should get that first (asking someone out) one off your chest, helped me.

Myself, I'm pretty social and enjoy talking with girls since forever. Talking with girls is fun, interesting and you can have awesome times with them. If you have problems talking with girls you have serious trouble, go get a friendgirl (no intentions of anything) and talk with her and train your skills, lol actually like shoo your shyness away. Just be who you are, if you're pretending to be someone else, everything will be bad. Be confident and enjoy man :)

xD I've never had any issues talking to girls.

 

 

 

If I did, I'd be afraid of talking to myself! And that would be an issue.

 

 

 

Relax; if you make a fool of yourself, most of us would just find it flattering that you're willing to embarrass yourself in front of us.:wink:

Myself, I'm pretty social and enjoy talking with girls since forever. Talking with girls is fun, interesting and you can have awesome times with them. If you have problems talking with girls you have serious trouble, go get a friendgirl (no intentions of anything) and talk with her and train your skills, lol actually like shoo your shyness away. Just be who you are, if you're pretending to be someone else, everything will be bad. Be confident and enjoy man :)

 

 

 

:shame: , someone been naughty lately???

 

 

 

As for you avvy, I started cracking up because once we were on this boat learning about how to Lobster Fish (Of course, because I live in New England), and a guy on board (he was 12-14 years old) had a shirt that said that. I couldn't help but laugh when I looked at him but I tried to hold it in.

make friends with guys who have friends who are girls, then learn from them?

 

 

 

also try going to dances and stuff, make friends with them, dont make it seem like "I have to talk to them because im not manly if i dont" it'll come.

 

 

 

just my $0.02. but im just a charmer anyways :)

 

 

 

EDIT: oh, also, try to look them in the eye, you look STOOPID otherwise, and if you look at the wrong place, u get slapped.

 

 

 

also, dont think "omg, she hates me, why am I talking to her" that makes you act like a buffoon

my advice is to first, view women as individuals, not women. They are human beings just like you and are mostly just as hard for words as you as. Devoting respect to them makes it alot easier for communication to commence

Am I the only one that finds this topic hilariously funny?

 

 

 

On one side, you have all the people offering their amazing advice on how to talk to a girl. Even though girls are people. What is so hard about talking to the opposite sex? I've never had a problem with this and a lot of my friends are girls. I really can't see the problem with talking to another human being. What's the difference?

 

 

 

Then there's the girl/s that are giving advice on how to talk to them. Who cares? I'm not gonna' change my entire attitude just so I can be deemed acceptable. Like it or leave it, right?

 

 

 

Finally, there's Zonorhc. I love you, man.

 

 

 

They arent teling them to change their complete attitudes, just the way they start (ex:small talk, flailing... arms?). It's little advise. I dont see people telling others to change their complete attitudes. I think you are embelishing whats really happening, sorry.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hell, if you want to pick a part my post and patronise me, then I'll bloody well do the same to you.

 

 

 

I've made changes for the one I 'love', thanks all the same. But then again, being the mindreader you are, you already knew that, huh? I'm prepared to make changes, I'm just not going to completely change who I am. I won't talk or act differently just because I'm with her. She has no problems with that. I'm not single and lonely and I haven't been for the past year or so, so I guess my theory must work, eh?

 

 

 

Also, who cares if they're younger? Honestly, they're still people. It's like, 'OMG LIEK A GRRRL LOLOLOLOLOL SHE MUST BE SPESHUL LOL!'. Get over it.

 

 

 

So you will make small changes not big ones. Advise given: small changes not big ones!

 

=D> =D> =D> =D>

couple of people said try to go to dances with them...lol.....what if you cant dance for &%#$ .... lol thats my problem if i go to a dance...and the girls i hang out wit.....they love to dance...and always ask me to come wit them...and i always gota make some dum $@# excuse...lol .... help ? and aye as for you....as everyone else said...just be your self...thats basically all you need..

couple of people said try to go to dances with them...lol.....what if you cant dance for &%#$ .... lol thats my problem if i go to a dance...and the girls i hang out wit.....they love to dance...and always ask me to come wit them...and i always gota make some dum $@# excuse...lol .... help ? and aye as for you....as everyone else said...just be your self...thats basically all you need..

 

 

 

I can't dance either, and I've never bothered to go to a dance. But if a girl wants me to go, I'll go. Don't be afraid to look like an idiot.. I do it all the time :-s :-w

Don't be afraid to look like an idiot.. I do it all the time :-s :-w

 

 

 

Yeah, girls like idiots :D

Try talking online first.

 

 

 

If you say something that they don't like, say that your autotyper did it.

 

 

 

If they don't believe you, wait until the next day, message them, and say you were hacked.

 

 

 

Well, that's all folks.

 

Wow, that's deep.

 

 

 

Thank you. :P

Because girls are so much different. This isn't a thread about talking to women. This is a thread about adolescent boys having problems with talking to their little girlfriends. However, in the instance you speak of, I still don't see how it's much different. It's not as if we all have to get on our knees and bow before them just because they are female. I, for one, am not going to think that because it's a girl, I have to treat her special esteem. They're just like everyone else, why do you have to have special powers to talk to them?

 

 

 

Say what?

 

 

 

By all means, I'm not perfect. I just don't think that talking to girls is that much of a problem. No way would I change for them, just as much as I wouldn't change for my male mates. I wouldn't think, 'oh, she thinks I'm a complete *, I'd better change!'.

 

 

 

YOU won't change. YOU wouldn't think. Do you get it? Not everyone thinks like YOU. Stop acting so arrogant. I'm sorry to say that not everything is about you.

I'm 12, in intermediate school. I'm a nerdy sort of guy but also cool. It's like being smart but cool and I think that's very hard. Only a handful of people in my school are.

 

 

 

The vast majority of people like me, cough cough, and the girls are included. Nerdy and cool ones, including the cool-smart ones. I have no problem talking to girls at all, women included.

 

 

 

Just act like yourself. Don't try to think or you head swims. Bring up a casual topic like a teacher's attitude or something. Don't say umm etc.

 

 

 

I could give you more in depth details if you gave me deeper points.

There's cool 12 yr old kids now? :lol: I don't think an elementary kid should be giving advices on how to act around women though :| There is a difference.

couple of people said try to go to dances with them...lol.....what if you cant dance for &%#$ .... lol thats my problem if i go to a dance...and the girls i hang out wit.....they love to dance...and always ask me to come wit them...and i always gota make some dum $@# excuse...lol .... help ? and aye as for you....as everyone else said...just be your self...thats basically all you need..

 

You wont dance?

 

 

 

There is nothing wrong with it, i always go to the school dances, and it is extreamly fun and good times with friends. I even dance when its the fast dance, and its mostly the ladies out there on the floor 8-) Trust me, if you look confident, then you are viewed as confident, and they like that \

couple of people said try to go to dances with them...lol.....what if you cant dance for &%#$ .... lol thats my problem if i go to a dance...and the girls i hang out wit.....they love to dance...and always ask me to come wit them...and i always gota make some dum $@# excuse...lol .... help ? and aye as for you....as everyone else said...just be your self...thats basically all you need..

 

 

 

I can't dance either, and I've never bothered to go to a dance. But if a girl wants me to go, I'll go. Don't be afraid to look like an idiot.. I do it all the time :-s :-w

 

xD

 

I'm a girl and I dance like a drunk squirrel with a broken leg having a seizure.

Well, seeing as how I'm a girl I might can give you a few pointers.

 

We like compliments and the little things. Hold a door open for a girl sometime and you'll see what I mean by little things.

 

As for talking try to just be friends first. that's how my boyfriend and I started out.

 

Most girls I know hate pickup lines so you really don't want to use them.

 

Don't talk about their body parts, talk about their clothes, the weather, or maybe a teacher.