Killerate Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I always try yet I can't. I make myself sound like a complete and utter moron. I made 3 points that I can't handle when talking with a girl. 1. What to talk about 2. How to say it fluently, without making an idiot out of myself 3. Trying to avoid my brain shutting down Help pls? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonFirenze Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 Sounds like you're trying to hard. Dont talk to a girl with that one thing on your mind, try to be friends with her. Relax. You dont need to be on the ball to talk to her, its just like talking to your mates. Lvl 80 construction. Dragon Drops: 11 (4 Chains, 2 Axes, 1 Med, 2 Skirts, 1 Legs, 1 2h) God Wars Drops: 4 Zamorakian Spears, 1 Godsword Shard 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Random Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 bash a brick over your head, then your brain would shut down before you talk to a girl. AHA! ingenious! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bauke Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 Think you'll have to get comfortable with it. Just relax, and be yourself. Although I can imagine that it's not easy to just do. But eventually you'll get used to it. Might be your age too. When I was like 15, I had trouble with it too. Twitter ||| Google+ ||| Facebook ||| LinkedIn ||| My very interesting weblog about science Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sebbeberg Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 HAH! Erm, how to be serious about this post.. I tought the thing about be scared of talking to girls was jsut a MAJOR joke! :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reddawn509 Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 welll uhh dont be nervous jsut talk..its actually pretty easy once you get going.. and as for subjects to talk about, jsut random stuff is always good.Oh and random..you are a genious :lol: :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coolgirl15 Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 For cryin out loud whats wrong with you boys! Its easy just TAAAALK! exactly the same stuff you say to ur mates goes with us (only if you take out all the sex talk :lol: ) and say some FUNNY jokes, not half-hearted jokes that make BOYS laugh but makes GIRLS disappointed.. lol :shame: :shame: Join the sodb now!Thanks to misterxman for the great avatar! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zonorhc Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 Do something random, like run around with your pants around your ankles, or flail your arms for a few minutes. Hell, I met my girlfriend that way. ... the second one. Varrock Library: Shattered Sky | Silent Thunder | The Emperor's FinestAstri @ MythWeavers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 Yes, I can talk to girls normally. It's not like they bite :( For cryin out loud whats wrong with you boys! Its easy just TAAAALK! exactly the same stuff you say to ur mates goes with us (only if you take out all the sex talk :lol: ) and say some FUNNY jokes, not half-hearted jokes that make BOYS laugh but makes GIRLS disappointed.. lol :shame: :shame: Actually, sex talk is an interesting subject. And true with the funny jokes part, though I make jokes with everyone. Do something random, like run around with your pants around your ankles, or flail your arms for a few minutes. Hell, I met my girlfriend that way. ... the second one. Bad advice, that's just childish and annoying :| :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
d-von Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 well when im talking to a girl and im not talking fluently im like blaming the beer for it #-o and if u know nothing to talk about just say... "hey wanna go get a beer??" not everybody wants to hear the bubblegum pop garbage.im gonna burn in hell and drink all of satans beer.trashmetal/deathmetal/hardrock/folkmetal die hard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coolgirl15 Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 Do something random, like run around with your pants around your ankles, or flail your arms for a few minutes. Hell, I met my girlfriend that way. ... the second one. Omg.... what a nice role model for boys to follow.... now i know who to blame when i see a drunk underage boy showing us his ugly willy... Join the sodb now!Thanks to misterxman for the great avatar! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katha610 Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 i would say it depends on the girl on what to talk about but the best advice is to just be yourself around her. if that doesnt work then there wouldnt have been anything anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GonAndGary Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I mess around with them and joke and annoy them (playfully) then u get to become friends :D Thanks To: Everyone for the siggies, especially Kal for the Pixel.Currently Playing: FIFA 07, NFS: Carbon, Morrowind and Dungeon Siege II. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ragen Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I used to freeze a little bit around girls that I liked, don't worry you get over it. Try doing a bit of observational humour, that usually works wonders. Be playful as well, not all serious and up-tight. Thanks Venomai for this super sig and Kwimbob for the awesome avatar! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
How2PK Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I don't really know what I talk about. Most of the time a bit random babble, just what comes to mind, what's happening around us. Joking around a bit. Oh btw, it's a conversation, not a monologue. Signature by Maurice SendakWhen the stars make you drool just like a pasta fazool, that's amore! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-mbball- Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I've never had really any trouble with talking to girls, but that's just me and I was raised to be social and kind. That's all it is, just be social and kind. Oh, and btw your age might make a big difference. I'm 13 and I have no problem talking with girls. But, next year you never know what will happen. Also, remember to flirt but not make it like obvious. ^Thank you Despaxes for the sig Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coolgirl15 Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I've never had really any trouble with talking to girls, but that's just me and I was raised to be social and kind. That's all it is, just be social and kind. Oh, and btw your age might make a big difference. I'm 13 and I have no problem talking with girls. But, next year you never know what will happen. Also, remember to flirt but not make it like obvious. At last , someone who has a brain =D> \ Join the sodb now!Thanks to misterxman for the great avatar! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Killerate Posted July 7, 2006 Author Share Posted July 7, 2006 I'm 16 and still have trouble talking to them :wall: But thankyou for the feedback everybody, much appreciated! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pandaman115 Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I don't really have trouble talking to them.... Of course, there was only one girl I liked at my school, but she dumped me. -.- All the other girls at my school treat me like crap....Oh well, there all annoying. :| [Admin Edit: No naming names in a negative light] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deathtodarigan Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I don't really have trouble talking to them.... Of course, there was only one girl I liked at my school, but she dumped me. -.- All the other girls at my school treat me like crap....Oh well, there all annoying. :| Thats exactly what happened with me tho, it might hav summit to do with the fact that i@m the most sarcastic person in my school lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dusqi Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 You're just making a big deal out of nothing. There's nothing you need to "remember". Just talk if you have something to say, if there's something you want to know, or if you just enjoy doing it. It might not be your fault if you have problems and are being mature about it. The girls themselves might just be making it difficult by being immature. Don't pressure yourself. They're just girls. You don't need to put on a good show or something. It's a conversation - and if it has a purpose, then it'll be fine. For it is the greyness of dusk that reigns.The time when the living and the dead exist as one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sonicsonaike Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 Well, i don hve any problem in talking to girls at all because overall i dont go thinking about the fact that its a girl, although it wouldnt really do anything if i was but its just me. a girl is a person ! ! ! ! New RSN - Dirty_S0uth5 (Ranger Mage) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katha610 Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 a girl is a person ! ! ! ! NO WAY!!!! :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lionheart_0 Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I dont see the big problem... Maybe at grade 6-7 i had troubles, but 8 and on, ive been fine. Just talk to them as if they were your friend, and show some respect. Dont show off and be a compleat idiot, and ive learned compliments can go along way! Sig by IkuraiYour Guide to Posting! Behave or I will send my Moose mounted Beaver launchers at you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megakiller32 Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 bash a brick over your head, then your brain would shut down before you talk to a girl. AHA! ingenious! gotta try that sometime \ Quit Runescape 30th May 2006.Thanks to Hawkxs for my signature :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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