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whether or not I personally help ppl depends on what i'm doing, if it's a friend, i usually will, if not i try my best to explain it to them through messages, but if it gets to complicated for them :roll: i'll have to give up -.-

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"Give a man a fish and he eats for a day. Teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime."

 

 

 

It's better to freely give out advice than to give items.

 

 

 

 

Exactly what I was going to say.

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I have a problem...when I see someone begging or asking for help i find it difficult if not impossible to refuse.Is this bad or is it a good thing?Should I start refusing to help people?It is doing a big number on my levels seeing as I spend so much time explaining thing to people or bringing them places....Just want your opinions. ::'

 

OMG u have problems :boohoo: .... okay seriously

 

 

 

It all depends what kind of time you have, if you help people because your a nice guy then help them, if you really dont WANT to help them dont. Its really up to you, and btw, refusing to help soemone doesnt make u a bad person :twisted:

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Around 90% (and i'm really not making this up) of the time any questions i'm asked can easily be answered via the knowlage base or world map. So in those cases I often politly ask the player to check either of those places. If it is a question that cannot be answered those ways than generally it is an intelligent question and I am more than happy to take some time and help the player out.

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I'm desperately in need of held. I've misplaced all my law runes, can you give me some of yours?

 

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Come world 99 edgeville and i'll give you 100 if you really need.

i've misplaced 27 of my total levels may i borrow some of yours.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

usually i try to tell people what to do get GP or raise skills.. I met this low level guy who didn't want items he just wanted advice on how he can make money so he could buy items. which i thought was awesome so i kept him on my list for a while... couple days after i showed him flax fields he told me he made his 1st mill under 30 cbt.. He kept thanking me for showing him that...

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well, a few day ago,

 

 

 

someone here on tip ask to wear my cav and being as nice as i usually am i let him wear my black cav lol

 

 

 

well, he said he let a m8 try it on i said eh no big deal, i trusted him,

 

 

 

he logs with it instead lol

 

 

 

only a mil but its the trust thing i am starting to deteriorate with most of the pl on rs

 

 

 

exept teh hawt toadyman! <3:<3:

 

 

 

but on topic again!

 

 

 

i am too nice to ppl, but it a curse i am like that irl as well lol

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Meh, i just mind my own business and have public chat on friends. Much more peaceful that way. I play this game to relax, not be hassled by beggars on every step. Basically ignoring everyone due to public chat being off. :P

 

 

 

There is no point in even responding to the people that beg.

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It is a bad thing, these people are scum and deserve to be driven into the dirt, not encouraged by you.

 

 

 

I couldn't have said it better myself. I don't help anybody in anyway. Even if all I have to say is-"Mine Copper and Tin and smelt it." It's not my problem they can't read any of the skill guides...Or go on Tip.It. :P Back on a serious note, never help beggars, they beg off you, then they beg off other people, other people are influenced by that person and then everyone starts begging.

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If a player needs to go somewhere, I tell them how to get there. If they beg for items, I walk away. If a level 10 is standing in Varrock, and asks where is Varrock, I tell them that they are standing there. I do help other players, but I don't go too far out of my way to help.

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:lol: I haven't been on tip.it for a while and I just got on and checked this forum and saw these posts O_O pretty interesting :) Nowadays I tend to help people that I can immediately and since the trade limit I can never give much money so I normally just give them a free axe or pick-axe since those are for fairly good money making skills.And if they need runes I just give them any number under 100 (if they're close) since I do a lot of runcrafting in the ZMI anyway XD I tend to not go out of my way to help people unless I know them :) But I'd still like to hear anyone's opinions on this :D So keep 'em coming?

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that helps with my problem about how i get my levels up....but i have a problem keeping over 1 mill in my bank without giving some to people begging on the streets(in banks)

 

 

 

Remember, runescape beggars are NOT people in need! It are people too lazy too work for items and want it the easy way. Think about that.

 

 

 

Ok i don't like beggars either but i don't see how you got the idea that people are "too lazy" to work for items. Have you ever considered that you are playing a computer game, and that training slayer or runecrafting or whatever does not count as "hard work"? Maybe the people that beg are too busy in real life to earn items, because they aren't so lazy that they play computer games all day. Of course i don't like begging. But stop acting like you have more money than other people because you "worked" harder, its ridiculous.

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If I can help someone over PM and I'm not doing something requiring lots of attention, or the use of the chat box (enter X things for example) then I'll help. If not, I don't respond and hope they get the message (if they don't I ignore them).

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For me, it all depends on the situation. And as someone said above, if someone demands for myself to help, I will tell them no. If they're nice, I'll be happy to help them with what they need. Be it directions to an area, a tele-other or food/anti-poison. I am never busy, so it's the least I can do. And mostly in world 99, and I'm always happy to help a w99'er. ;)

 

 

 

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I will have to keep what you say in mind...it just makes me feel guilty when i have to refuse :wall: thx much to you two guys maybe i will stop being so nice *sigh*

 

i hope someone comes on here who has had a similar problem as me :pray:

 

i give out money whenever i can but thats only because i can afford it, however it really annoys me when people keep begging for my items like my bandos godsword or dragon ax when im using them.

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Depends what I'm doing and how they ask. I will always give verbal help but showing them something especially if it's far away is a different story. It all depends on the situation tbh :)

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I once helped teach a player, that was picking flax to farm took me 30minutes.

 

And another time I helped a kid gear up for avainsies, taking about 10mins to explain what a pendant of armadyl was. <--- Died at gwds idy

 

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ever since the trade limit, whenever i have been asked to give money i always have give the full amount of trade limit, i dont mind it but some people think we are too easy to fool and once you give them stuff they just keep on asking and asking. For example, yesterday i was on my way to GE to buy something and this guy asked for me and i gave him the trade limit amount, then he asked me if i can lend him my dfs, i did then he freaking made a list of items he wants me to lend him one after another. This is the thing that annoys me

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It's nice to be nice you know?

 

 

 

I'll usually give advice when I can (though when I'm woodcutting yews I'm usually too busy reading a book to bother that much) and I try to help people. I don't dish out money though.

 

 

 

I remember I was woodcutting for no adequately explored reason and this guy was using a rune hatchet, saying he was cutting yews so he could get a dragon hatchet and I think some other people were laughing at him. So I lent him my dragon hatchet and gave him good luck for his goal. We were all at 'lower' points in the game sometime, I know I would have liked someone to lend be their dragon hatchet when I was cutting away for my own...

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It's nice to be nice you know?

 

 

 

I'll usually give advice when I can (though when I'm woodcutting yews I'm usually too busy reading a book to bother that much) and I try to help people. I don't dish out money though.

 

 

 

I remember I was woodcutting for no adequately explored reason and this guy was using a rune hatchet, saying he was cutting yews so he could get a dragon hatchet and I think some other people were laughing at him. So I lent him my dragon hatchet and gave him good luck for his goal. We were all at 'lower' points in the game sometime, I know I would have liked someone to lend be their dragon hatchet when I was cutting away for my own...

 

i know and i totaly agree with your point, but there is a limit to be dependent on others, its fine and you should b gratefull that people lend you stuff and gave you money but dont go freaking crazy asking for everything you need, like in my story sure i helped him, i gave him my dfs for 24 hours (still 3 hours left) and i dont mind it, infact i added him to my friends list because i told him i cant lend everything he said but surely ill be willing to lend him other stuff in a month or so but i told him that its good to be getting help from other but you need to be more independent

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It's nice to be nice you know?

 

 

 

I'll usually give advice when I can (though when I'm woodcutting yews I'm usually too busy reading a book to bother that much) and I try to help people. I don't dish out money though.

 

 

 

I remember I was woodcutting for no adequately explored reason and this guy was using a rune hatchet, saying he was cutting yews so he could get a dragon hatchet and I think some other people were laughing at him. So I lent him my dragon hatchet and gave him good luck for his goal. We were all at 'lower' points in the game sometime, I know I would have liked someone to lend be their dragon hatchet when I was cutting away for my own...

 

i know and i totaly agree with your point, but there is a limit to be dependent on others, its fine and you should b gratefull that people lend you stuff and gave you money but dont go freaking crazy asking for everything you need, like in my story sure i helped him, i gave him my dfs for 24 hours (still 3 hours left) and i dont mind it, infact i added him to my friends list because i told him i cant lend everything he said but surely ill be willing to lend him other stuff in a month or so but i told him that its good to be getting help from other but you need to be more independent

 

 

 

since when can you lend dragon fire shield Oo

 

aaannnnyyyyy way, i personally don't help people if it inconveniences me, i tell them to go to tipit if i can't help them with their problem.

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I usually just go to F2P worlds and ask someone to take me to Varrok for example if I'm at Falador just to see if they will. If they are nice enough to help me out then I give them some cash. I used to this more often back before the trade limit, but I do it now too. I asked this guy to take me to Fally and when he did he said he couldn't sell his R2H so I just bought it and sold it in GE for minimum. :lol:

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I usually just go to F2P worlds and ask someone to take me to Varrock for example if I'm at Falador just to see if they will. If they are nice enough to help me out then I give them some cash. I used to this more often back before the trade limit, but I do it now too. I asked this guy to take me to Fally and when he did he said he couldn't sell his R2H so I just bought it and sold it in GE for minimum. :lol:

 

 

 

That is an awesome idea. I'll do that after I'm finished with mobilizing armies.

 

 

 

If someone is asking for my stuff, I won't give it but instead will tell them to go kill men, then sell their bones on the ge. If someone is asking for directions, I'll give them but won't show them the way. If someone is asking me if they can borrow (insert item here) I'll lend it to them if I'm not planning to use it. Oh, and I'll give those "buying knife/rope/mortar and pestle/chisel/law 1-10k ea" people the item for free.

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I, personally will not go WAY out of my way to help people. if im in the middle of a slayer task and get asked to take someone somewhere, i just verbally explain.

 

 

 

If im near the end, ill give then a tele to the area, meet them there, and help them out.

 

 

 

Helping people verbally is allright, as you can do other things as you type (click)

 

 

 

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"wheres varrock can you take me to varrock"

 

 

 

NO!

 

 

 

Go west, if you don't know what directions west, good luck in life.

 

 

 

I give mostly verbal help, Im not going to stop training to help someone who doesnt seem to know the meaning of world map.

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