I'll put it plain and simple. In my opinion, you should have one partner your whole life; partner, as in your husband or wife. Although divorce is quite often nowadays, I don't think it is right, except in some cases (abuse, etc.).

 

 

 

I won't treat a divorced person any differently than a non-divorced one. Yet, I still find it morally wrong to divorce or have multiple partners.

 

 

 

Polygamy is definitely a no-no.

 

 

 

What do you find to be morally wrong about it? If you're not happy with someone you should be allowed to leave. My dad left when I was pretty young, but I don't think he's immoral for doing so.

 

Yah, I just read what I wrote. I guess moral wasn't a good word to use.

 

 

 

Marriage is a special bond between man and woman, and the two know that when they get married. They should realize that they are promising to spend the rest of their life with that person. I don't find it "good" to break the promise because you got bored... That is why marriage is very complicated. You need to ask yourself if you really think that you will stay in love with the other person forever.

Look, if it's between single consenting adults who are taking precautions, then it is nobody's business.

I couldn't care about multiple partners, one night stands, or anything else really. They all have their risks, mainly STD's, jealousy, and reputation. Do whatever you want, as long as it doesn't affect me or anyone else I care about.

 

 

 

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I love of the idea of marriage, and absolutely hate the process of marriage. Or atleast the fact that it is all about religion these days. I mean, when I get older and want to be married or whatever you want to call, I would rather have as little religion involved as possible. That is pending that my partner doesn't care/agrees with me. I am willing to bear through it if my partner wants it a certain way I don't agree with. It's the thought that counts, after all.

I couldn't care about multiple partners, one night stands, or anything else really. They all have their risks, mainly STD's, jealousy, and reputation. Do whatever you want, as long as it doesn't affect me or anyone else I care about.

 

 

 

Side-note:

 

I absolutely hate the idea of marriage. Or atleast the fact that it is all about religion these days. I mean, when I get older and want to be married or whatever you want to call, I would rather have as little religion involved as possible. That is pending that my partner doesn't care/agrees with me. I am willing to bear through it if my partner wants it a certain way I don't agree with. It's the thought that counts, after all.

 

 

 

Many people who no longer believe in religions now get married at the registry office, that's how it's mostly done in Ireland anyway, no religion involved at all throughout the whole ceremony, the vows are made and the agreement etc, they're pronounced married. That's it pretty much. If your partner does actually love you then she /he should accept your want to not have to adhere to a religion.

keep em coming you guys.btw invite your friends to this thread

I don't see what's wrong with having a number of partners, it's all up to choice. While I'm against cheating on someone you have committed to, I don't see what's wrong with seeing a few women simultaneously as long as it's just casual. It's all normal.

I couldn't care about multiple partners, one night stands, or anything else really. They all have their risks, mainly STD's, jealousy, and reputation. Do whatever you want, as long as it doesn't affect me or anyone else I care about.

 

 

 

Side-note:

 

I absolutely hate the idea of marriage. Or atleast the fact that it is all about religion these days. I mean, when I get older and want to be married or whatever you want to call, I would rather have as little religion involved as possible. That is pending that my partner doesn't care/agrees with me. I am willing to bear through it if my partner wants it a certain way I don't agree with. It's the thought that counts, after all.

 

 

 

Many people who no longer believe in religions now get married at the registry office, that's how it's mostly done in Ireland anyway, no religion involved at all throughout the whole ceremony, the vows are made and the agreement etc, they're pronounced married. That's it pretty much. If your partner does actually love you then she /he should accept your want to not have to adhere to a religion.

 

 

 

Here's my dilema. I'd the whole ceremony thing, big spectacle, but without the religion.

 

 

 

And we all have our own preferences. If the other person has there preferences towards a religious ceremony, I will agree to it, unless they insist we go with non-religion because it's what I prefer. I prefer, not want. I'm agnostic, so it's not like it would offend me to be married religiously, I would just prefer a more neutral ceremony. Or atleast a tone-down on the religion.

 

 

 

And don't pull out the "If he/she loves you then she will do it" line. Love is about always enjoying eachother's company, not about compromise. It's just a bit hard to do one without the other. I'm willing to compromise because I will love the other person, I don't expect them to do the same, but it would be nice if they did.

k do you or did you want just 1 partner for your whole life? Yes. To death do you part, even though it's just a piece of paper. If we get bored maybe we can introduce other people with each others permission ;) but hey we're pretty liberal so long as our marriage is based on honesty and trust.

 

 

what is the big deal about having so many? Well I don't find it a big deal. Other people can do whatever they want but the life I live is with someone with similar morals.

 

 

did you go searching for alot of partners(putting it out there)? I've had plenty of boyfriends in my time. Ranging from badass jerks to guys who could literally be your girlfriend not your boyfriend. Until I finally found someone who was in the middle and made me happy.

 

 

or did you go from relationship to relationship getting laid? I had fun but most of the time I was in relationships.

 

 

 

would you take your virginity back? Nope - My partner loves an animal in bed and experience has to come from somewhere ;)

 

 

if stds didn't exist how many partners would u have? As many as I've already had.

 

 

 

 

 

And to be frank here - If anyone is highly religious and believes in sex only after marriage as well as families - Great I don't go there and harass you so keep your morals to yourself. Anything you write is going to be taken with a roll of the eyes and a grain of salt, so save your breath.

No more than 1 GF at a time, and never more than one wife.

 

 

 

Anyone who justs hits & quits needs to be beaten and flogged.

 

Or they themselves hit and quit- flogged and have their broken and bloody body left in the forest.

 

 

 

That said, I really don't care. If some people want to have multiple people in their relationship, who am I to tell them that's wrong? I see no reason it should be. All it does is deviate from societal norm. But everyone in it has to agree, be treated equally, etc etc cte.

You only have one partner because women said so.

ok do you or did you want just 1 partner for your whole life?

 

 

 

Now I just want one.

 

what is the big deal about having so many?

 

 

 

It gets like bowling. Just knocking them down. It ruins it.

 

did you go searching for alot of partners(putting it out there)?

 

Like 3 or 4 years ago I used to. It cheapens it. Its like opening a christmas present early.

 

or did you go from relationship to relationship getting laid?

 

 

 

Not really.

 

would you take your virginity back?

 

 

 

Yes.

 

who would you give it too?

 

 

 

My wife when I get married.

 

if stds didn't exist how many partners would u have?

 

Considering 1 in 4 girls has herpes who knows.

You only have one partner because women said so.

 

 

 

Oh please :roll: There is actually a new trend in society where a man has two women, makes a good read: "polygamy"

^^ Why a man would want a wife is a mystery. Why a man would want more then one is a bigamystery. Maybe its because Mormons are Morman than your average dude.

Oh please :roll: There is actually a new trend in society where a man has two women, makes a good read: "polygamy"

 

I'll make sure to include my sarcasm tags next time.

Probably a good idea if you don't want to sound like a twit :D

At one time or in your life?

 

 

 

In one's life time, well, whatever floats your boat...there is no set amount.

 

 

 

At a time? Depends on your partner. Some like and even welcome open relationships...

 

 

 

I say the "ok" number is relative on the people in the relationship.

One,unless your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't mind,which is better for you,because you get double the hawtness...

 

 

 

Oh unless you have STDs...Don't mate,really.I wouldn't cough into your food so don't send STD's into a potential girlfriend.

 

 

 

Dragoonson can easily get 10 without them finding out,but he's too nice to his current girlfriend.

 

 

 

Dragoonson can easily get 10 without them finding out,but he's too nice to his current girlfriend.

 

 

 

His current girlfriend being a blow-up doll.

 

 

 

One in all cases. Every time. No exceptions. And that Mormon thing on the front page....I know a mormon. He is just very competitive. And rides a bicycle all the time. :lol: 8-)

Ignore this double post...

 

 

 

:oops:

 

 

 

Dragoonson can easily get 10 without them finding out,but he's too nice to his current girlfriend.

 

 

 

Your current girlfriend being a blow-up doll.

 

 

 

Depends on what she blows up,my friend :lol:

 

 

 

Dragoonson can easily get 10 without them finding out,but he's too nice to his current girlfriend.

 

 

 

Your current girlfriend being a blow-up doll.

 

 

 

Depends on what she blows up,my friend :lol:

 

 

 

This is so signature-fied

Hey,you made it innuendo-prone!(Its not siggy-fied yet lol)

 

 

 

Yay I've been quoted in 3 sigs now.Though one has been removed...

Serial monogamy is the thing right now. You have one partner at a time, but several throughout your life. All fine by me, although I find it hard to keep investing and getting emotionally scarred after every break-up. I hope not to have too many partners throughout life.

 

 

 

Seeing as I can hardly handle one man and vice versa, I'm not too fond of the idea of juggling several ones at the same time either.

 

 

 

One night stands... Dunno, seems kinda icky to me, but I can see the attraction of a dark handsome stranger for a hot night. They just never seem to walk into my life.

 

 

 

Would I take back my virginity to "give" it to -say- my future husband? No, no, no, no and no. Not that the first time(s) weren't cute and loving and special and all, but they did kind of suck on the purely physical/pleasure level. Nor is it a 'gift' I would want to receive from my boyfriend. I prefer them to know what they're doing and I see no charm in teaching someone else.

what age did everyone lose their virginity?

Not yet.Still underage.At frikking 17