TALK TO HER IN PERSON!

 

It's an imperative now!

 

I'll one up you?

 

 

 

I would assume that he can only see her at work, and as he said, she seldomly comes to work.

 

Then meet up with her somewhere else. Didn't you say you got her number?

ICQ number he said.

 

 

 

And his problem is that he can barely communicate with her now as she doesn't appear to be on.

Okay i got a question

 

 

 

My "Girlfriend" and i are pretty much going out, but not really

 

 

 

I see her at work everyday, we kiss hug all the stuff couples do, but shes "not my girlfriend"

 

 

 

We went out before, but due to her Ridiculously hard a school she goes to we kinda keep everythin on the dl...

 

 

 

But she tells me she loves me, and i know i love her too! :D

 

 

 

she comes over alot and hangs with me and my family, shes an amazing girl, she fits me well, shes everythign you look for in a girl, just all in one :D :D

 

 

 

Heres a picture of us

 

 

 

 

 

 

As you can clearly see, we are so happy together :D

 

 

 

What do u think?

 

 

 

normally i wouldn't go to a place liek this with a question liek this...

 

But u TIfers surprised em sometimes :D so i'll see what i get

Dump her now, before things get worse!

 

 

 

What are you asking about because you listed details, but no real question. Do you have any specific questions or are you just posting?

What im asking is would u still call her MY girlfriend?

 

 

 

WE pretty much are tho

Oh, ok I was a bit confused. My suggestion is to bring it up next time you're having a nice conversation with her if you need reassurance. It's not like it's an awkward topic right? And yes you seem like a good couple.

Oh, ok I was a bit confused. My suggestion is to bring it up next time you're having a nice conversation with her if you need reassurance. It's not like it's an awkward topic right? And yes you seem like a good couple.

 

 

 

IS what i though :D

 

 

 

We pretty much are together, just not like officially ya know.

 

 

 

but talking with her is never a problem :D

Well, it seems now that she's blocked me on MSN and seems to be ignoring me at school. I don't know why, but my best bet is that she feels as though I'm intruding on her personal space, seeing as I know WAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much about her personal life and past.

 

 

 

How am I supposed to correct something like this? I can't apologise, I've already tried that.

Well, it seems now that she's blocked me on MSN and seems to be ignoring me at school. I don't know why, but my best bet is that she feels as though I'm intruding on her personal space, seeing as I know WAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much about her personal life and past.

 

 

 

How am I supposed to correct something like this? I can't apologise, I've already tried that.

 

 

 

no offense Da Latios but she probably doesnt like you. If she did then yes, she would talk to you and stuff... Apologize if u want, but it really wont make much of a difference.

Well, it seems now that she's blocked me on MSN and seems to be ignoring me at school. I don't know why, but my best bet is that she feels as though I'm intruding on her personal space, seeing as I know WAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much about her personal life and past.

 

 

 

How am I supposed to correct something like this? I can't apologise, I've already tried that.

 

 

 

no offense Da Latios but she probably doesnt like you.

 

You're a genius! I don't need her to like me. Just not to be mad at me anymore.

Try telling her that you are sorry once more, then if that doesn't work, she isn't worth it.

If only you knew, Ouchy....

If only you knew, Ouchy....

 

Give it some time, then confront her after about a week if she still ignores you.

Well, it seems now that she's blocked me on MSN and seems to be ignoring me at school. I don't know why, but my best bet is that she feels as though I'm intruding on her personal space, seeing as I know WAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much about her personal life and past.

 

 

 

How am I supposed to correct something like this? I can't apologise, I've already tried that.

 

Stalker-san, how goes the stalking?

Oh, ok I was a bit confused. My suggestion is to bring it up next time you're having a nice conversation with her if you need reassurance. It's not like it's an awkward topic right? And yes you seem like a good couple.

 

 

 

IS what i though :D

 

 

 

We pretty much are together, just not like officially ya know.

 

 

 

but talking with her is never a problem :D

 

 

 

Are you really asking for a validation of your relationship? Worse yet - on the internet? Your relationship's title can be whatever you want it to be. It could be label-less forever if you really want. That's up to you. And the girl of course. If what your label is now is working - don't screw with it. Don't fix something that don't need fixin'. If a problem arises between you too (like she finds another guy or whatever) then you can ask her for something more serious. If you really want that. You too sound like you are together. If you don't want to be called such, whatever. Calling a relationship one thing or another doesn't change the bond between the two people.

Well, it seems now that she's blocked me on MSN and seems to be ignoring me at school. I don't know why, but my best bet is that she feels as though I'm intruding on her personal space, seeing as I know WAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much about her personal life and past.

 

 

 

How am I supposed to correct something like this? I can't apologise, I've already tried that.

 

Stalker-san, how goes the stalking?

 

Wouldn't say stalking. More along these lines:

 

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1) I literally just used that comic three pages ago. Don't diminish it's power by misrepresenting it.

 

2) No.

 

3) If he was pulling a friend thing, she wouldn't be creeped out that he knew so much about her. I mean, friends are kind of suppoesd to know that personal stuff.

 

4) Conclusion, he's stalking.

 

5) It isn't much of a stretch. It's a gaming forum after all, and it's this guy.

 

6) There's bound to be a stalker xkcd. Redeem yourself.

 

 

 

7) STOP STALKING AND GET THE HELL OUT OF SKETCHTOWN.

 

8) You want to know where sketchtown is? Right now, about twenty blocks of it are in the five meter bubble surrounding that girl.

 

9) To stay out of sketchtown, stay out of that five meter bubble.

 

10) Want to know why that five meters around her are in sketchtown? Because you're creepy and sketchy around her, and you always will be until you learn to BACK OFF and MOVE ON.

 

 

 

 

 

If she doesn't want to be your friend/girl, for the last time, F her. If she won't take an apology or hang out with you, go find other people. That doesn't mean don't learn from this experience -you really shouldn't stalk, for example- , but don't dawdle on your mistakes. Learn from them, get over them, and used what you've learnt. That's how you improve yourself

 

 

 

Oi.

I r not stalking. Her family asked me to help them out with a situation and during that time they disclosed with me A LOT of information, which I did not ask for.

Uh huh. Did you tell her that her parents told you all of this? And, for that matter, how were the parents so comfortable with you that they'd disclose enough information about their daughter to you that you'd freak her out?

Her parents? No, it was her brother.

 

 

 

And here's the thing. We've been friends for sooo long it shouldn't be a problem sharing stuff like this. I don't know. Women are confusing. :wall:

1) I literally just used that comic three pages ago. Don't diminish it's power by misrepresenting it.

 

2) No.

 

3) If he was pulling a friend thing, she wouldn't be creeped out that he knew so much about her. I mean, friends are kind of suppoesd to know that personal stuff.

 

4) Conclusion, he's stalking.

 

5) It isn't much of a stretch. It's a gaming forum after all, and it's this guy.

 

6) There's bound to be a stalker xkcd. Redeem yourself.

 

Crap. I've been shamed. Also, judging from how he speaks of her, I find it as much more represented by the comic. Didn't know you used it so recently, though. Muh buhd.

 

 

 

Anyways, Latios. That's probably the exact problem. If all you say is that you've been friends for so long, do you think she says anything else?

So I've been dating a girl (Danielle) from my school for three months. She used to talk about this one guy in her English class (who I knew) who was oh so hilarious and stuff, but when we three had a class together, he was realllyy flirty. I got over that, he doesn't do it much (at least around me). Danielle told me to say when she's acting flirty because she 'honestly doesn't notice it'. Okay, so I'll do that.

 

 

 

Anyways. Now there's a guy who I've known for three years (he went to Danielle's Elementary school for several years, but not the middle school, where I met him) who are partners in Drama. Before, a couple weeks before that, we were just talking about who we thought was attractive, and she says this dude's name. I thought it was wierd because she always talks about how gay he acts but she was saying that he was cute. She begins telling him about how great he is in Drama compared to other people in another class, so I just mention to it her later and she's like "oh nooo, i wasn't flirting, I was just saying how great he is!". So whatever.

 

 

 

Then a day or so later I learn that they have to work together at his house, and he's making her go to his church (she's an atheist) if she wishes to be his partner (which she does, because apparently everyone else sucks). It really made me feel uncomfortable, so we talked about it and she thinks she'll be able to get out of going to Church. She also started saying how they have to do a skit where she "strips, straddles him and they make out". Of course, she was joking, and I was saying how upset I'd be if she actually did that, and she said how she just wouldn't tell me, "jokingly". This somehow led to a fight about how I flipped my lid for no reason. She knows how jealous and uncomfortable I get when she starts talking about other guys.

 

 

 

Now, this guy is really religious, doesn't believe in premarital sex, etc, but just the fact that they're talking so much (he's teaching her guitar right now over the phone ..), and that she's going to his house whenever just makes me nervous. Especially how she was apparently lying to my former best friend (when those two were dating) about how her and another dude (Craig) were spending the night, and she said that Craig was gay so that they could sleep together. But somehow, she said he raped her or something, which she's really sensative about and doesn't like talking about it.

 

 

 

So really, her saying how gay he is just makes me comfortable because I remember how much it hurt my best friend, and .. I don't know.

 

 

 

I don't know really, I just wanted to rant. It pisses me off and saddens me because she knows how much it affects me, yet she claims it's nothing. *sigh*

Just saying, she sounds a little messed up. She slept in a bed with a dude, and says she had sex with him? I dunno, I guess you could at least figure out what the hell's up with her. I'd just kinda leave her, though. Sounds like she really is interested in fluttering about. I know a lotta the girls in theater. They flutter like butterflies.

 

 

 

I like the word flutter.

Just saying, she sounds a little messed up. She slept in a bed with a dude, and says she had sex with him? I dunno, I guess you could at least figure out what the hell's up with her. I'd just kinda leave her, though. Sounds like she really is interested in fluttering about. I know a lotta the girls in theater. They flutter like butterflies.

 

 

 

Agreed. Was with a girl like this, didn't end well.

So I've been dating a girl (Danielle) from my school for three months. She used to talk about this one guy in her English class (who I knew) who was oh so hilarious and stuff, but when we three had a class together, he was realllyy flirty. I got over that, he doesn't do it much (at least around me). Danielle told me to say when she's acting flirty because she 'honestly doesn't notice it'. Okay, so I'll do that.

 

 

 

Anyways. Now there's a guy who I've known for three years (he went to Danielle's Elementary school for several years, but not the middle school, where I met him) who are partners in Drama. Before, a couple weeks before that, we were just talking about who we thought was attractive, and she says this dude's name. I thought it was wierd because she always talks about how gay he acts but she was saying that he was cute. She begins telling him about how great he is in Drama compared to other people in another class, so I just mention to it her later and she's like "oh nooo, i wasn't flirting, I was just saying how great he is!". So whatever.

 

 

 

Then a day or so later I learn that they have to work together at his house, and he's making her go to his church (she's an atheist) if she wishes to be his partner (which she does, because apparently everyone else sucks). It really made me feel uncomfortable, so we talked about it and she thinks she'll be able to get out of going to Church. She also started saying how they have to do a skit where she "strips, straddles him and they make out". Of course, she was joking, and I was saying how upset I'd be if she actually did that, and she said how she just wouldn't tell me, "jokingly". This somehow led to a fight about how I flipped my lid for no reason. She knows how jealous and uncomfortable I get when she starts talking about other guys.

 

 

 

Now, this guy is really religious, doesn't believe in premarital sex, etc, but just the fact that they're talking so much (he's teaching her guitar right now over the phone ..), and that she's going to his house whenever just makes me nervous. Especially how she was apparently lying to my former best friend (when those two were dating) about how her and another dude (Craig) were spending the night, and she said that Craig was gay so that they could sleep together. But somehow, she said he raped her or something, which she's really sensative about and doesn't like talking about it.

 

 

 

So really, her saying how gay he is just makes me comfortable because I remember how much it hurt my best friend, and .. I don't know.

 

 

 

I don't know really, I just wanted to rant. It pisses me off and saddens me because she knows how much it affects me, yet she claims it's nothing. *sigh*

 

 

 

I was right there with you. Our situations were almost perfectly in sync. Until I read the last hand full of lines. That threw your situation over the top. 3 moths unto dating my flirty girl and I dealt with this kinda crap too. I still do occasionally. Fact of the matter is - this isn't the only time this is going to happen. You might as well just let it go. I completely understand how angry you are but if you want to keep her, you're just gonna have to suck it up and except this as one of her flaws. Believe it or not, your girlfriend has flaws. Just like everyone else. You're going to begin to see that from here on out. I wish you the best.