yeah...she just told me never to talk to her again. I didn't even do anything. This sucks.

 

I'm not done with her, but for now? I...don't know. I'll leave her alone for a while. She'll come back eventually. Probably. I hope.

 

God I'm pathetic.

I'm not sure on morale standards for you, but my option would be to get drunk one night with your closest friends and forget EEEEEVERYTHING.

 

Without turning into an alcoholic, It helped me (though I only got to tipsy because I have far too large of a alcohol resistance...)

Guess who has two thumbs, made himself look like a pathetic idiot, and got cheated on again?

 

THIS GUY (points at self)

 

[bleep].

You should really come out to Aus sometime, I'll make you feel better, and everything is cheaper for you.

Guess who has two thumbs, made himself look like a pathetic idiot, and got cheated on again?

 

THIS GUY (points at self)

 

[bleep].

You should really come out to Aus sometime, I'll make you feel better, and everything is cheaper for you.

 

Lets slap him in the face for a good 20 minutes, shave his head and make him run laps, and then take him out to meet girls that aren't [bleep]s.

yeah...she just told me never to talk to her again. I didn't even do anything. This sucks.

 

I'm not done with her, but for now? I...don't know. I'll leave her alone for a while. She'll come back eventually. Probably. I hope.

 

God I'm pathetic.

 

Are you masochistic? Stop it right now if the answer is 'no'.

Guess who has two thumbs, made himself look like a pathetic idiot, and got cheated on again?

 

THIS GUY (points at self)

 

[bleep].

You should really come out to Aus sometime, I'll make you feel better, and everything is cheaper for you.

 

Lets slap him in the face for a good 20 minutes, shave his head and make him run laps, and then take him out to meet girls that aren't [bleep]s.

I've still got to visit you first. I'm serious about that too, wanting to spend a while in Brisbane.

Guess who has two thumbs, made himself look like a pathetic idiot, and got cheated on again?

 

THIS GUY (points at self)

 

[bleep].

You should really come out to Aus sometime, I'll make you feel better, and everything is cheaper for you.

 

Lets slap him in the face for a good 20 minutes, shave his head and make him run laps, and then take him out to meet girls that aren't [bleep]s.

I've still got to visit you first. I'm serious about that too, wanting to spend a while in Brisbane.

 

Shotgun coming too. I'm coming to Aussie 1st-11th October THIS YEAR [bleep]! I'm going to Brisbane and the Gold Coast.

yeah...she just told me never to talk to her again. I didn't even do anything. This sucks.

 

I'm not done with her, but for now? I...don't know. I'll leave her alone for a while. She'll come back eventually. Probably. I hope.

 

God I'm pathetic.

Like I said, she did that because you're pathetic. She knows she can come back to you whenever she wants and get whatever she wants from you, then leave you when it's not amusing anymore and because she knows you'll basically do whatever she wants.

yeah...she just told me never to talk to her again. I didn't even do anything. This sucks.

 

I'm not done with her, but for now? I...don't know. I'll leave her alone for a while. She'll come back eventually. Probably. I hope.

 

God I'm pathetic.

Like I said, she did that because you're pathetic. She knows she can come back to you whenever she wants and get whatever she wants from you, then leave you when it's not amusing anymore and because she knows you'll basically do whatever she wants.

 

Yeah, and I recall you (RpgGamer) want to be a psychologist. You should be able to understand the basic psychology behind all that...

yeah...she just told me never to talk to her again. I didn't even do anything. This sucks.

 

I'm not done with her, but for now? I...don't know. I'll leave her alone for a while. She'll come back eventually. Probably. I hope.

 

God I'm pathetic.

Like I said, she did that because you're pathetic. She knows she can come back to you whenever she wants and get whatever she wants from you, then leave you when it's not amusing anymore and because she knows you'll basically do whatever she wants.

 

Yeah, and I recall you (RpgGamer) want to be a psychologist. You should be able to understand the basic psychology behind all that...

This. The longer you stay with her, the more it will hurt in the long run.

 

Grow some balls and dump her, for good.

yeah...she just told me never to talk to her again. I didn't even do anything. This sucks.

 

I'm not done with her, but for now? I...don't know. I'll leave her alone for a while. She'll come back eventually. Probably. I hope.

 

God I'm pathetic.

Like I said, she did that because you're pathetic. She knows she can come back to you whenever she wants and get whatever she wants from you, then leave you when it's not amusing anymore and because she knows you'll basically do whatever she wants.

 

This is likely to be a very true statement. And yes romy, I do realize that because I want to be a psychologist [god I love you guys for remembering this crap]. Logically, I know the best thing for me to do is forget about her, and get on with my life. Emotionally, I'm just not ready to do that. I don't know. I'd love to go down to Brisbane with ya'll. That'd be a hell of a good time. All I know is I still have very strong feelings for her. Feelings called "I'm madly in love with this girl". My running joke has been 'emphasis on the mad'. Ironic humor. Oh lord. I'm alright at the moment though. She talked to me today. Said she was sorry for flipping out. Didn't apologize for cheating exactly...but it's a start. Today I'm gonna chill with one of my other ex's and have her yell at me until I change my mind.

 

I love you guys. I really do.

yeah...she just told me never to talk to her again. I didn't even do anything. This sucks.

 

I'm not done with her, but for now? I...don't know. I'll leave her alone for a while. She'll come back eventually. Probably. I hope.

 

God I'm pathetic.

Like I said, she did that because you're pathetic. She knows she can come back to you whenever she wants and get whatever she wants from you, then leave you when it's not amusing anymore and because she knows you'll basically do whatever she wants.

 

This is likely to be a very true statement. And yes romy, I do realize that because I want to be a psychologist [god I love you guys for remembering this crap]. Logically, I know the best thing for me to do is forget about her, and get on with my life. Emotionally, I'm just not ready to do that. I don't know. I'd love to go down to Brisbane with ya'll. That'd be a hell of a good time. All I know is I still have very strong feelings for her. Feelings called "I'm madly in love with this girl". My running joke has been 'emphasis on the mad'. Ironic humor. Oh lord. I'm alright at the moment though. She talked to me today. Said she was sorry for flipping out. Didn't apologize for cheating exactly...but it's a start. Today I'm gonna chill with one of my other ex's and have her yell at me until I change my mind.

 

I love you guys. I really do.

 

That's not a start, stop telling yourself it's a start. She's not in it for the same reasons you are, and probably will never be.

 

 

When you grow up (mentally) you'll realize love is not enough to hold relationships (sometimes, even if both sides love each other), not even the slightest.

 

 

 

As much as you love the idea of a healthy relationship with that girl- get real. That's not going to happen. I can't stress this enough- GET OUT OF THERE!

Pretty sure you just want to stick your [bleep] in her some more. . . Elaboration.

 

The way I see it, you're perfectly capable of getting any girl you want to. But you're afraid. You're afraid that if you put yourself out there for everyone to see, you'll get hurt - a common problem with teenagers and young people in general.

 

So you stick to what you feel is safe - aka this girl. Your body agrees because it gets sex.

 

Another way to look at it is how girls often look at guys like Iamdan or me - a lot of girls feel they can change the bad boy or whatever that doesn't want commitment and is just looking for fun. Neither side is trying to hurt or use the other on purpose really, but it happens.

I just want you to know that I just had a session with my friend where I talked and gave the best advice the kid's probably heard in his life.

 

I kinda feel like a guru/bad [wagon]. I love you guys.

Giving advice is an addiction. It's mostly a collection of our nostalgia, which can be good and bad or great and ugly. All depends on how the person uses our past experiences to help them with their future.

 

Also, I got some great advice from a girl I hooked up with and my brother. These are almost exact quotes. And, yes, I'm also pretty much stroking my own [rooster] - I mean, ego. I still feel it's relatively valuable.

 

So I've been real philosophical and psychological lately, trying to figure out all the [cabbage] that goes down when you're a teenager - a lot, even though it's mainly pointless. So I asked this girl I hooked up with before (that still digs me) why she likes me. She said it's the fact that I'm not quite predictable - I have no set friends or enemies, my opinions change daily, but in general I just seem laid-back with it all on top of that. I'm a layered person, I guess. She also said that I've built up a bit of a reputation for being untamable, and some girls take that as a challenge. Respect.

 

My brother also talked to me, because I was wondering why I get along so well with him and his friends, as well as having far more college friends than your typical high school sophomore. He told me it's because, unlike a typical teenager that tends to keep their head down and stick with what's safe, I try and get noticed, easily standing out in a crowd. That's an actor for ya. Apparently I've developed a sort of charisma, as well as a general energy around me of life. The girl also said that she'd noticed that no matter where I was or who I was with, there would be a flurry of sound and motion.

 

And I've done it by drawing from countless sources of inspiration. I soak [cabbage] up like a sponge. Apparently I can spit it back out, too. Woohoo.

Pretty sure you just want to stick your [bleep] in her some more. . . Elaboration.

 

The way I see it, you're perfectly capable of getting any girl you want to. But you're afraid. You're afraid that if you put yourself out there for everyone to see, you'll get hurt - a common problem with teenagers and young people in general.

 

So you stick to what you feel is safe - aka this girl. Your body agrees because it gets sex.

 

Another way to look at it is how girls often look at guys like Iamdan or me - a lot of girls feel they can change the bad boy or whatever that doesn't want commitment and is just looking for fun. Neither side is trying to hurt or use the other on purpose really, but it happens.

 

I don't think I've ever read a truer post.

 

Okay, so today was interesting. We [me and m'lady o' interest] agreed that getting back together was not only pointless but stupid. However, we do still feel ery strong towards each other, and despite our clear lack of compatibility...we're still gonna...hmm how do I put this...

 

We're not together. But we're going to resume most normal activities? I think the clearest way to explain it would be emotionally attatched friends with benefits. Which when said that way, obviously makes an easy situation for me to get hurt again. I realize that. And it'll likely happen in all honesty. BUT, I'll have loads of fun in the meantime...so I'll just suck it up. Maybe when I go off to college I can get a fresh start with some new ladies. But I like my safety choice. A lot. Even if it ends in me getting hurt every now and then.

 

and that's where I'm at right now. Unclear. Vaguely confused and feeling very "take it as it comes"

rpg I suggest you remove yourself from her before you end up as [bleep]ed up as me

 

Guess who has two thumbs, made himself look like a pathetic idiot, and got cheated on again?

 

THIS GUY (points at self)

 

[bleep].

You should really come out to Aus sometime, I'll make you feel better, and everything is cheaper for you.

 

Lets slap him in the face for a good 20 minutes, shave his head and make him run laps, and then take him out to meet girls that aren't [bleep]s.

I've still got to visit you first. I'm serious about that too, wanting to spend a while in Brisbane.

 

Shotgun coming too. I'm coming to Aussie 1st-11th October THIS YEAR [bleep]! I'm going to Brisbane and the Gold Coast.

 

:thumbup:

Shotgun coming too. I'm coming to Aussie 1st-11th October THIS YEAR [bleep]! I'm going to Brisbane and the Gold Coast.

I hate living in NSW now.

Shotgun coming too. I'm coming to Aussie 1st-11th October THIS YEAR [bleep]! I'm going to Brisbane and the Gold Coast.

I hate living in NSW now.

 

From what I've gather it's only like 700kms from Newcastle to the Gold Coast, which is only a few hours longer than it takes me to go home.

Pretty sure you just want to stick your [bleep] in her some more. . . Elaboration.

 

The way I see it, you're perfectly capable of getting any girl you want to. But you're afraid. You're afraid that if you put yourself out there for everyone to see, you'll get hurt - a common problem with teenagers and young people in general.

 

So you stick to what you feel is safe - aka this girl. Your body agrees because it gets sex.

 

Another way to look at it is how girls often look at guys like Iamdan or me - a lot of girls feel they can change the bad boy or whatever that doesn't want commitment and is just looking for fun. Neither side is trying to hurt or use the other on purpose really, but it happens.

 

I don't think I've ever read a truer post.

 

Okay, so today was interesting. We [me and m'lady o' interest] agreed that getting back together was not only pointless but stupid. However, we do still feel ery strong towards each other, and despite our clear lack of compatibility...we're still gonna...hmm how do I put this...

 

We're not together. But we're going to resume most normal activities? I think the clearest way to explain it would be emotionally attatched friends with benefits. Which when said that way, obviously makes an easy situation for me to get hurt again. I realize that. And it'll likely happen in all honesty. BUT, I'll have loads of fun in the meantime...so I'll just suck it up. Maybe when I go off to college I can get a fresh start with some new ladies. But I like my safety choice. A lot. Even if it ends in me getting hurt every now and then.

 

and that's where I'm at right now. Unclear. Vaguely confused and feeling very "take it as it comes"

 

 

OH MY GOD! What is wrong with you?! Why do you keep convincing yourself there's a reason to stay? That "have fun in the meantime" is complete BS, especially because she's a girl like any other girl for the "fun" part.

 

 

 

You're obssesed with her. The best thing to do when you're obssesed with something, is ignore your brain and body's wishes, and get as far as possible from that obssesion.

 

 

 

I can also gurantee she'll twitch if you told her you think you want to explore some new areas, maybe tro "score" with other girls, so you're off for a while. I can tell you she'll be shocked (not necessarily immediately), and at some point try to get back to you- at first she'll just call you or something, or try to be nice, and later she could even be obssesed with you. The longer you keep telling her "no", the more obssesed she'll become.

 

 

It's a win-win situation. You won't get hurt again (from her that is), she'll start chasing you, and you could have relations with other girls for a while. Best case scenario- you'll find another girl you'll love. Worst case scenario- after 2-3 months, your girl will be completely confused, which is where you could start over with her, preferably as a real couple (if that happens, I must advise you to give her a short rope. The first time you see her doing something wrong- you walk away. She'll chase you back and never do that again, I promise.)

yeah, that sounds like a good plan. my issue is that she aparently doesn't...ah nevermind, I know you're right. I'm not trying to get her back into a relationship right now, and seriously when I start college next semester, I'm going to do my best to meet some new women. And yeah, what you asy is very true. She'll get very confused and practically go nuts. She certainly did last time. Obviously I didn't leave her for long enough though. I dunno. We'll see what happens.

But I like my safety choice. A lot. Even if it ends in me getting hurt every now and then.

That makes NO sense. WHAT. SO. EVER. It's not a safety zone if you get hurt. Just leave her and find someone else. Seriously. There must be SOME other girl you like right?

But I like my safety choice. A lot. Even if it ends in me getting hurt every now and then.

That makes NO sense. WHAT. SO. EVER. It's not a safety zone if you get hurt. Just leave her and find someone else. Seriously. There must be SOME other girl you like right?

Or just cruise single for a while. I've been single just over a year now, surprised I haven't gone insane like I did in the past.

 

@Mage_Man, Agreed. NSW is turning into a hole. (if it isn't already...)

@Jeffwilson99, It's not a fact of just distance. There's travel costs, accommodation costs, spending costs, protection costs (Which is a whimsical $10) etc

Dallas is about as far, and I was able to get there and back with just a hundred bucks. Just gotta cash in on friendships. Literally.

Hay everybody, i got a question. Ok, its a long story, but me and this one girl have been hanging out for a while. We've gone on a few dates, i've taken her to the beach and whatnot. So far we've been clicking. However, i recently asked her to prom, but she said she wasn't decisive on whether she truly wanted to go. She says shes not saying no, she just isn't truly decisive on whether she wanted to go with me or not. I dont know what to take that as, I'm just playing it safe and taking it as a no :mellow:

What do yall think? should i just get another date or wait on her decision?