Hitting on girls who consider you their "good friend" has it's advantages and disadvantages, but overall- it's more than possible, it's even easy most of the time.

 

Definitely not unless you're young, I've tried. All I have to do is suggest a girl get with a good friend and I get a pretty consistent "ew he's friend" plus I've heard a lot of rants from girls about movies where the dorky friend zoned guy gets the hot girl in the end.

 

I'm guessing you're fairly young?

Hitting on girls who consider you their "good friend" has it's advantages and disadvantages, but overall- it's more than possible, it's even easy most of the time.

 

Definitely not unless you're young, I've tried. All I have to do is suggest a girl get with a good friend and I get a pretty consistent "ew he's friend" plus I've heard a lot of rants from girls about movies where the dorky friend zoned guy gets the hot girl in the end.

 

I'm guessing you're fairly young?

 

I know how hard it is to believe something after "knowing" the opposite for so long, but trust me on this- all it takes is a change of approach.

 

You trying that once or twice (or even 100 times if done wrong) is not enough for that, sorry.

 

I had created and "launched" plans for specific cases for guys (from age 14 to 26) on how to get out of the "friend zone" of a certain girl. It worked every time.

 

 

 

As for your question, I'm 18.

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^gftog

 

What about 100 times all differently?

 

What were these plans? I did a hell of a lot of experimenting and found my current ideas worked the best, but still not very consistent.

What were these plans? I did a hell of a lot of experimenting and found my current ideas worked the best, but still not very consistent.

 

It's extremely hard to elaborate here.

 

If you read my posts on this thread lately, you probably know of that method I developed along with my brother.

 

Basically, since that method is mostly designed to help those in need, we focussed on the "friend zone" part quite a bit. The plans are a form of our method with specific adjustments.

romy, we're gonna keep perstering you for proof, until you give it to us. Just as a heads up.

 

zeekyhbomb:

there, there pal. This is the proper place, it is relationship advice in general. Usually we get the begining of stories, but occasionally we get an end of one, too. breaking up [bleep]ing sucks. But if it wasn't meant to be, don't try to make it be, because you'll only end up being disapointed and wasting time. There's 3 billion girls out there. You spent 2.5 (i'm assuming good) years with this one girl. There is an entire WORLD withit's own culture you've yet to discover. And all it takes is a little socialization. Mourn your loss for a day or two, and furiously masterbate. THEN I want you to get off your sorry behind, and jump right back into the game of socialization. Go to a club. a mall. a concert. Whatever. Make nwe friends. Learn their lives. Meet new girls. You'll be back on your feet in no time flat.

 

If you need any more help, you know where to find us :)

furiously masterbate.

 

Finest advice ever given.

Keep it classy

 

 

*makes clicking noises with tongue*

What, you thought I was being sarcastic ?!

At this pooint I can't tell anymore, but my advice stands as serious. It helps. Chemically, emotionally. All that other mumbo-jumbo.

romy, we're gonna keep perstering you for proof, until you give it to us. Just as a heads up.

 

You're just going to have to take my word for it.

 

 

 

The "friend zone"'s definition is a myth (being something you can't get out of. You can, and it's not even hard).

Rocco uses Charm!

Rocco uses Ask_Dance!

Girl uses Lame Excuse!

Critical hit!

Rocco uses Wait!

Rocco uses Ask_Dance!

Girl uses Shy_Away!

Rocco attempts to flee!

Rocco is unable to flee from Girl's Friends!

Girl's Friends use Plead!

Rocco uses Comply!

Rocco uses Ask_Dance!

It's super effective!

 

Apparently she was just shy about dancing with me.

 

That's hilarious :D.

Rocco uses Charm!

Rocco uses Ask_Dance!

Girl uses Lame Excuse!

Critical hit!

Rocco uses Wait!

Rocco uses Ask_Dance!

Girl uses Shy_Away!

Rocco attempts to flee!

Rocco is unable to flee from Girl's Friends!

Girl's Friends use Plead!

Rocco uses Comply!

Rocco uses Ask_Dance!

It's super effective!

 

Apparently she was just shy about dancing with me.

 

That was pretty good. I laughed. =D>

Clicked pretty good with a girl yesterday. One of my best friends' girlfriend's best friend. Haha, usually those things don't work out well. We went flying kites and then just hung out for a while.

 

Then, hanging out with my brother and his friend's tonight. My brother showed up out of nowhere this morning, just like "sup". I was really confused. But it should be a fun night!

 

As to the whole friend zone thing ... It depends on the definition of friend zone, really. I'm guessing Romy isn't thinking the extreme closeness and one-sidedness most guys are in the friend zone.

 

When you've become friends, you shouldn't really plan on breaking that anyway. Because you'll never be friends again - even if you become lovers, at least one of you will wonder why they settled for what they were just comfortable with.

Alright, I made a new account for personal reasons. This is sort of a weird situation, and I would appreciate some advice. Thanks in advance! :)

 

I'm currently in 10th grade (sophomore year). At the beginning of this year, my best friend and I started a study group for our AP (advanced placement) classes. The study group included my best friend, me, best friend's ex (they're still really good friends), and few other friends. Anyway, every week we would study for awhile and then we would go out for a movie or dinner or something fun. Our group got pretty close and it was a lot of fun.

 

Flash forward to the end of January. I started hanging out with my friend's ex more and more and I started to really like her (oh btw, the problem is about my best friend or anything, they're over each other haha). The girl and I became best friends (z0mg friend zoned!) and we really enjoyed hanging out. For about half a month, I kept it to myself. But then people started talking and thinking we were going out when we weren't. One day in the middle of February, I was hanging out with my best friend and the girl (let's call her Jane, for a lack of a better generic name lol). They started talking about some situation and Jane didn't know what to do. I didn't really get what they were talking about, and they wouldn't tell me. A few hours later, I sort of figured it out. They were talking about what Jane should do since they figured out I liked her. The next week or so, it was a little awkward but we got through it. One day, she randomly brought her library to school and gave it to me to read. Basically, she said that she really liked me...as a friend who she could trust and always makes her smile. She wondered if she would regret not making a move with me or whatever. It made me happy and sad at the same time...I knew I lost my chance to ask her out by then so I never did. We continued being really close friends.

 

Now, flash forward to around 3 weeks ago. Spring break. Jane went on a mission trip and for the first few days, she constantly texted me and whatnot even though her mission trip people don't allow texting. That really made me happy that she wanted to talk to me haha. Towards the end of the week, she texted less and less and I understood because she was doing volunteer work. After she came back, she wanted to hang out with our study group people again...but this time she brought one of her friends from the mission trip. The friend was a guy, a senior, and went to a different school (but nearby). They go to the same church. I sort of got a feeling that she really liked him. For the next week or so, she didn't talk to me as much and I started confirming my suspicions. The Sunday after spring break, one of our mutual friends confirmed to me that Jane told her that she liked the senior. I was really hurt. I started to ignore Jane for a few days and she got really upset that we weren't talking to each other. Finally, a few days ago, we worked everything out and she gave me a hug and we were both glad that we started being good friends again.

 

However, everytime I talk to her, I feel hurt and as much as I hate to say it, jealous. Just a few days ago, the senior asked her to prom and she said yes. I was devastated...but I tried to keep my composure. Now, we don't talk as much as we used to and honestly, I don't know what to do anymore. I still have feelings for her. A few of my close friends tell me the obvious advice - to move on. It's easier said than done. I have never felt this...jealous(?) before. A girl that I liked last year was asked out by some other guy, and I didn't really care much and moved on. This time is different, however, Jane and I were really close friends. We still kind of are. We still hang out, etc. But we're not as close as we were. Basically what I'm asking for here is what I should do. I know I should probably move on but anything else?

 

Thanks again for taking the time to read this. ^.^

Kill the guy and his family, and take your girl back.

 

 

... What? Were you expecting something else? The only thing to do is move on. I don't really know how you can even consider it moving on. I liked my best friend, yeah, last year. I had for a while. I was in a similar boat, even though she'd been dating the same guy for more than a year (still dating him, he's still a deadbeat pothead). Now she's a complete [wagon] and exactly like her sister. Not to mention no longer attractive to me whatsoever.

 

So just go find some other girls. Which is exactly what you should have done a long time ago. Use her as a wingman. Just because you're gonna be a little girl and all sad that she's moved on with her life doesn't justify you depriving her of a good friend. If anything, it may drive her to do something stupid to get male attention.

GFTOG. Really not much else you can do. She just wants to be friends, and you'll just have to respect that. Get over her. Go out, meet other girls, get a friend to set you up with someone, go to the mall or an amusement park or a skating rink or a park with a friend... Just don't sit at home moping in your room staring at her facebook page.

Just don't sit at home moping in your room staring at her facebook page.

 

 

yeah...rock bottom hurts.

 

I'm on the side of GFTOG. Get out there, and meet some new ladies. bring her along to a group event and throw it in Jane's face. when proper revenge has been taken. become friends with Jane again, while dating whoever else. I also go friendzoned recently with my girlfriends bestfriend. It was pretty funny that she felt the need to make it that explicit. I'm pretty sure the girlfriends BFF is off limits anyway :lol:

As to the whole friend zone thing ... It depends on the definition of friend zone, really. I'm guessing Romy isn't thinking the extreme closeness and one-sidedness most guys are in the friend zone.

 

But I am...

 

 

The "Friend zone" is a 100% breakable. It's even fragile.

Kill the guy and his family, and take your girl back.

Kill the family first, let that sink in. THEN kill the guy.

 

The worst thing you can do to yourself right now is sit at home moping about it. Just go out with some friends, or do whatever is fun to you to take your mind off it and realize you don't need her to be happy.

Guess who has two thumbs, made himself look like a pathetic idiot, and got cheated on again?

 

THIS GUY (points at self)

 

[bleep].

I really don't understand why you keep fooling yourself. Sure, you and your gf have great chemistry and you enjoy being around her. Either accept that she is going to cheat on you and stop caring and just enjoy the good, or go with something else. Oh, and have you watched Nick & Norah's Infinite Playlist? Not that you're as pathetic as that guy, but come on. Realize she's using you for excitement. It's no fun for her if she doesn't cheat, but she has to have someone to cheat on in order for it to be fun. And guess who that someone is? You.

Guess who has two thumbs, made himself look like a pathetic idiot, and got cheated on again?

 

THIS GUY (points at self)

 

[bleep].

You're gonna drive yourself insane. Just stop. There are other girls out there that you'll have the same chemistry with that won't cheat on you every other week.

You're Ted in How I Met Your Mother. She's Ted's college girlfriend.

 

Wtf.

Kill the guy and his family, and take your girl back.

Kill the family first, let that sink in. THEN kill the guy.

 

tbh just kill the girl and keep the body. All yours :D