I'm going mo-hawk in less than a month

nooooooooooooooooooooo

 

Please try to straighten your hair first?

Wtf. Me and a girl are a thing now, I think. And the weirdest part is, I think I might enjoy that fact. Wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf. Kinda happened tonight. Girl I haven't seen in a while, a friend's best friend, we were having a little party shindig thing, and it just kind of rolled out. We're certainly a thing in everyone else's eyes.

 

Huh. I don't think it's a relationship, though. I oughtta talk to her in the morning. I'm [bleep]ing done with school, [bleep] yes, so I need sleep so hard.

I'm going mo-hawk in less than a month

nooooooooooooooooooooo

 

Please try to straighten your hair first?

 

 

I will a few times, but it takes so much work, and it doesn't always look right. If you want to see my hair straightened, just look at my profile picture [click my avatar]. It looks mad nice, but I can almost never get it right. a Mohawk on the other hand is rather hard to screw up

Wtf. Me and a girl are a thing now, I think. And the weirdest part is, I think I might enjoy that fact. Wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf. Kinda happened tonight. Girl I haven't seen in a while, a friend's best friend, we were having a little party shindig thing, and it just kind of rolled out. We're certainly a thing in everyone else's eyes.

 

Huh. I don't think it's a relationship, though. I oughtta talk to her in the morning. I'm [bleep]ing done with school, [bleep] yes, so I need sleep so hard.

 

You should stick it out and try to build a relationship, at least just to see if that's the kind of thing you want to do. For the experience.

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On a positive note, I think I may have found someone who I would actually consider for a relationship. Plus it's harder to emotionally detach myself like I usually do, making escalating with a thought out game plan harder, making it more of a challenge, and making me more into her.

 

I'm getting the all too familiar "omgtellherhowyoufeelandinviteheroverandthrowheronthebed" feelings from years ago. Kinda makes it more fun actually.

 

I think I may have gotten ljbf :(

 

She's naturally flirty, but then throws out IODs

 

She wanted to have sex one night, but we were both drunk and I was hoping for a relationship so I didn't do it. No idea if that's what screwed it up, or that I mistook her flirting as something more serious.

 

Or maybe she's attracted, but still pissed at me from the other night... Except I can't ask her because it would be needy.....

 

It's the perfect situation to caveman but I'm good friends with her so I can't.

 

fml :wall:

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I think I know how I screwed up now. Her wanting to hook up was a bait when she was semi interested. If I went through with it, it would have just been a 1 night thing which wasn't what I wanted. I said I would (which is where I lost) even though I decided not to.

 

Ah well, learned a lesson. gftog before it turns into oneitis.

Surely where you guys live can´t be as bad you make it out to be?

You have no idea...

Rpg, try a faux-hawk.

 

(wold post a picture, but the site uses an inappropriate hotlink blocking image)

 

Look at the 3rd guy on the page, just insted of using gel, with matte fibre or clay.

 

http://coolmenshairstyles.com/cool-mens-hairstyles-faux-hawk.html

 

EDIT: Got bored, and decided to go out so thought I'd post a picture :P

 

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Not that good a faux hawk, but it's put over to one side, so when I turn my head it looks better (the hair that is).

Well I sat down next to a girl I didn't know and we started talking, and she was saying how she's ugly, etc. By the end of the coversation I told her she was pretty and asked if she wanted to join me at the movies. She accepted.

 

The I woke up.. :wall:

 

Atleast I see that attraction before comfort is important.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WH4NWbPABw&feature=player_embedded

Haha that video is classic.

 

"Oh Kay, how bout helping with refreshments?" aka get in the Kitchen

 

 

"Would Kay enjoy a bike trip, or a weinie roast?" Well I'd enjoy going to the weinie roast very much" haha I cracked up at that, I'm so immature 8-)

I'm going mo-hawk in less than a month

nooooooooooooooooooooo

 

Please try to straighten your hair first?

 

 

I will a few times, but it takes so much work, and it doesn't always look right. If you want to see my hair straightened, just look at my profile picture [click my avatar]. It looks mad nice, but I can almost never get it right. a Mohawk on the other hand is rather hard to screw up

 

Takes practice. Go to a hairdresser and ask him/her how to do it right.

This girl I was friends with (until very recently) thinks I'm stalking her.

 

But I'm not doing it intentionally. She lives near me, so I'll just be coincidentally taking a walk past her house and then she pulls up in the car. I think that's why she thinks I'm a stalker. She tries to avoid me, I'll come to the park and she'll go home or something. Maybe this doesn't have to do with relationships, but I just want to be friends again.

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On a positive note, I think I may have found someone who I would actually consider for a relationship. Plus it's harder to emotionally detach myself like I usually do, making escalating with a thought out game plan harder, making it more of a challenge, and making me more into her.

 

I'm getting the all too familiar "omgtellherhowyoufeelandinviteheroverandthrowheronthebed" feelings from years ago. Kinda makes it more fun actually.

 

I think I may have gotten ljbf

 

She's naturally flirty, but then throws out IODs

 

She wanted to have sex one night, but we were both drunk and I was hoping for a relationship so I didn't do it. No idea if that's what screwed it up, or that I mistook her flirting as something more serious.

 

Or maybe she's attracted, but still pissed at me from the other night... Except I can't ask her because it would be needy.....

 

It's the perfect situation to caveman but I'm good friends with her so I can't.

 

fml

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I think I know how I screwed up now. Her wanting to hook up was a bait when she was semi interested. If I went through with it, it would have just been a 1 night thing which wasn't what I wanted. I said I would (which is where I lost) even though I decided not to.

 

Ah well, learned a lesson. gftog before it turns into oneitis.

 

I'm slightly concerened with your obsession on the labeled dynamics of your relationship building. But yes...gftog. it'll get your mind off things if nothing else.

 

 

and feux-hawk?

 

NO :lol:

This girl I was friends with (until very recently) thinks I'm stalking her.

 

But I'm not doing it intentionally. She lives near me, so I'll just be coincidentally taking a walk past her house and then she pulls up in the car. I think that's why she thinks I'm a stalker. She tries to avoid me, I'll come to the park and she'll go home or something. Maybe this doesn't have to do with relationships, but I just want to be friends again.

Call her on her [cabbage]. It sounds like a cry for attention to me. Not necessarily rudely, but tell her to grow up and that people aren't as obsessed with her as she thinks.

 

It's a lot easier to be mean (well, push the limits) to girls than women. Because most women will fight right back. Like hellcats. Mreow.

This girl I was friends with (until very recently) thinks I'm stalking her.

 

But I'm not doing it intentionally. She lives near me, so I'll just be coincidentally taking a walk past her house and then she pulls up in the car. I think that's why she thinks I'm a stalker. She tries to avoid me, I'll come to the park and she'll go home or something. Maybe this doesn't have to do with relationships, but I just want to be friends again.

Call her on her [cabbage]. It sounds like a cry for attention to me. Not necessarily rudely, but tell her to grow up and that people aren't as obsessed with her as she thinks.

 

It's a lot easier to be mean (well, push the limits) to girls than women. Because most women will fight right back. Like hellcats. Mreow.

Well, it was my friend who told me that this girl thinks I'm stalking her.

Call her on her [cabbage]. It sounds like a cry for attention to me. Not necessarily rudely, but tell her to grow up and that people aren't as obsessed with her as she thinks.

 

Yeah do that.

 

I'm slightly concerened with your obsession on the labeled dynamics of your relationship building. But yes...gftog. it'll get your mind off things if nothing else.

 

mmm. When I screw up I have a habit of always needing to know why. I'm in damage control, but no longer care what happens. gtfog in the meantime..

 

I'm slightly concerened with your obsession on the labeled dynamics of your relationship building. But yes...gftog. it'll get your mind off things if nothing else.

 

mmm. When I screw up I have a habit of always needing to know why. I'm in damage control, but no longer care what happens. gtfog in the meantime..

 

 

Yeah i do the same thing when it comes to girls. And lately, I've been throwing a lot of common "PUA" terms around in these self-tyraids of rambling and border-madness. Everything from "kino" to "attraction building" to "friend-zone". I've ocme to realize that I've developed an unnatural fear of the friendzone, and then I over exert my emphasis on sex and seduction. Almost like breaking the fourth wall. I show my hand, and explain why, all the while making casual conversation. [and here I go, ranting about the random BS that doesn't matter because I had a bad day, the result of which is me rambling about random PUA philosophy and eventually leading of my thinking myself a complete tool]. I want a girlfriend. I've come to the conclusion. It's taken a few weeks, but the whole seduction game just sickens me. It looks fun, but I just don't have the stomache for it like I wish I did. It was a desperate attempt to get my head out of a worse spot [and the way I opporate in this mood, my mind could be completely flipped by tommorow, so take this post with a grain of salt] but ended up just making me disapointed, and overall alone. I want a girlfriend. A partner. Someone to connect with emotionally, and physically. Someone to support me. Someone I can support. Someone I can be cute with. Someone I can take anywhere. Someone that gets me. And someone that can stabalize the [cabbage] that seems to come with my assosciation [which theoretically should be cleared up by graduation, just to be replaced with a whole new set of confusing and bizzarre issues]. I want a damn girlfriend. I want to be loved. I want to be cared for. I want to return those feelings. I want that spark. I miss that feeling. So much...

Man I've said over and over, this stuff doesn't mean you only have a fling. You turn it into whatever you want. Approaching lots of girls just means you're much more likely to connect with someone if you let it happen. You can get a girlfriend if you approach a random girl on the street and proceed to own the world, or if you play nice guy and get [bleep]ed around until you bumble into a relationship.

 

I don't like the term pua, but it makes getting a point across easier. Just like the word 'kino' brings a novel's worth of information into 1 word.

 

It doesn't mean you have to associate yourself with the cheesy guys who wear cowboy hats to clubs and use canned lines they read from the game. THAT'S what would make you a tool. And wallowing in pity and wishing desperately for a girlfriend would do the same thing. (not saying that you're doing that)

 

Girls don't feel bad because they use the things that guys are attracted to, to their advantage. Do you think they wear high heels because it's comfortable? Does wearing heels and a low cut shirt automatically mean they're fake and a [bleep]?

 

If you want to play the game you don't have be promiscuous just because others do. You also don't need a girlfriend or anybody else.

 

Just have fun.

Man I've said over and over, this stuff doesn't mean you only have a fling. You turn it into whatever you want. Approaching lots of girls just means you're much more likely to connect with someone if you let it happen. You can get a girlfriend if you approach a random girl on the street and proceed to own the world, or if you play nice guy and get [bleep]ed around until you bumble into a relationship.

 

I don't like the term pua, but it makes getting a point across easier. Just like the word 'kino' brings a novel's worth of information into 1 word.

 

It doesn't mean you have to associate yourself with the cheesy guys who wear cowboy hats to clubs and use canned lines they read from the game. THAT'S what would make you a tool. And wallowing in pity and wishing desperately for a girlfriend would do the same thing. (not saying that you're doing that)

 

Girls don't feel bad because they use the things that guys are attracted to, to their advantage. Do you think they wear high heels because it's comfortable? Does wearing heels and a low cut shirt automatically mean they're fake and a [bleep]?

 

If you want to play the game you don't have be promiscuous just because others do. You also don't need a girlfriend or anybody else.

 

Just have fun.

 

I know you're right. Generally, that's my opinion, too. Just days like these...makes me resent the game[the actions, not the book] a lot. I guess I don't like playing by it's rules. And I'll admit. I'm wallowing a little. Passing thing. I just want to explode on something/somebody. This thread gets to see me do that alot, because my life right now doesn't allow me to do it on my friends very often. But thank you for reminding me of the better parts of the spectrum I'm ratehr angry at right now. it puts me back at the indecisive stage...but it's better than freaking out. How 'bout this: i'll meet a ton of chicks. Attempt to hook up with them. If I really like one of them, I'll drop the others and start a relationship. Sounds like a good plan to me. The problem is sticking to it. And not having days like this >.>

How 'bout this: i'll meet a ton of chicks. Attempt to hook up with them. If I really like one of them, I'll drop the others and start a relationship.

 

It's what I've always done and I'm pretty happy with it.

If I were to offer my phone number to this thread...would anyone contact me for instant mutual support? I'm toying with the idea. I like you people.

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Sorry man... :o

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Sorry man...

 

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I realize what the rules imply romy. I'm not about to post my number on a forum. I like you guys, but the forum isn't just this thread. I do realize that :lol:. Priavet messages for the win. I just wanted to ask the people of the thread before randomly PMing a bunch of frequenters.

Okay. I read it as "I'll post it in this thread". ;)

 

If I were to offer my phone number to this thread...would anyone contact me for instant mutual support? I'm toying with the idea. I like you people.

My apologies for the lapse in articulation and elaboration m'lady.