Guest Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 My entire dad's side is boring and depressing. Don't even get me started on my dad, just think of all the bad, dishonest, disloyal things a father and husband can do, he's done them all and worse and more. Rape? Murder? Necrophilia? In that order? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kiriyama Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 Why not? Weird how that was the order that came to mind though, I never thought it over. Denizen of Darkness| PSN= sworddude198 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quoi_Tu Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 I wouldn't have gone to the birthday party. Nobody can force you! And War Junky, I personally don't make excuses. I tell them exactly why I don't want to go. I'm not a person who will make excuses or lie. If I get in trouble for it, so what? At least I'm not a liar. You'd rather hurt someone's feelings than tell an insignificant white lie? A lie is a lie. A crime is a crime. However, a triple homicide is not robbery. In the end, I'm talking about politeness and not telling your aunt you didn't go to your cousins birthday because, "you don't feel like it." Instead, you say, "I'm sorry I can't make it, but I'm really busy." Or, "I'm sorry, I made a prior committment." You would think people on the internet had some manners. Oh wait. Beer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
purfishx Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Just because you don't feel the connection, you have to remember that family is family. Sigs by: Soa | Gold_Tiger10 | Harrinator1 | Guthix121 | robo | Elmo | Thru | Yaff2 Avatars by: Lit0ua | Unoalexi | Gold Tiger . Hello friend, Senajitkaushik was epic, Good luck bro. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giordano Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 A girl asks you "Does this make me look fat?" What do you say If she's a [bleep], I'll say it does. :lol: Just because you don't feel the connection, you have to remember that family is family. Why? "The cry of the poor is not always just, but if you never hear it you'll never know what justice is." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angryjoe Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 A girl asks you "Does this make me look fat?" What do you say No it's all that food that you shove down your neck that does that? Anyway, does it not strike you that your family might want to see how you are and stuff like that? It's good to catch up with family and if you don't like it then you can just stay for an hour or so and then at least you have shown your face. Cant believe you are 26 and lack this kind of awareness tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IGoddessI Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 I do think it's pretty lame of you to miss his birthday party. Who cares if you don't like him, it's an important event to him and your family and regardless of your opinion of him, it makes you look like a complete douche bag by not attending. Surely you're modest enough to put differences aside and be there on his special day by making an appearance. You might have ruined his entire day. Which if you did, you'd probably be happy about which is pathetic. Even if it's to say Happy Birthday, eat some cake, say hello and then make a sudden exit because "something came up". The aunty coming over to lecture you is a huge waste of time. Yeah I do think you need a smack in the head and taught to have a little respect for other people but it's not going to help you. Neither is what I wrote but it could be a lesson to others. It's something you have to get off your own [wagon] and discover. I'm also with Joe on this one. You're 26 and this is your life's enlightenment? By the way what's with never coming here unless it's to whinge about something that's happened to you? There's a section called relationship and advice forum, start posting there. What makes you think others want to listen to you complain all the time when you don't even have the audacity to listen to them or consider how they feel? You didn't care how your cousin felt on his big day and now others don't care for your whinging. Ohh...deja vu?? ;) The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da_Latios Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 A girl asks you "Does this make me look fat?" What do you say Yes, wear something else. I'd suggest the white dress you've got there. IRC Nick: Hiroki | 99 Agility | Max Quest Points | 138 CombatBandos drops: 20 Hilt | 22 Chestplate | 21 Tassets | 14 Boots Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IGoddessI Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Oh and he's just 9 years old??? You really are an [wagon] teargod. You probably made the poor kid cry. You're 26 for crying out loud and ruined a 9 year olds birthday party. You are nothing more than an [wagon]. The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riku3220 Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 I don't think that, if teargod is the [wagon] you say he is, the kid is going to care very much. Just get him some crap $10 game for the Wii or something to get your aunt off of your back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evil_mumm_ra Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 i honestly doubt a 9 year old is going to care that he wasn't there. when i was 9 i didn't care which of my family showed up. i doubt the kid cried. sure, teargod's an [wagon], but it doesn't matter. the kid isn't going to care, at his age it won't matter to him at all. whereas at teargod's age, he's fully allowed to hate his family, there's plenty of my family i don't like and if i don't want to go somewhere, i probably won't. there are times i'll go places just cause i haven't been in a while, i just avoid family members while i'm there. also as for ruining the kid's birthday party, you're being overdramatic. seriously. i will agree that sometimes teargod should just suck it up and see his family, if only to avoid future confrontations like this. [hide=WOO TEXT! updated Jan 19, 2009 (last quote)] And Evil you mad bastard. You are definately bringing TET back up to it's glory. No doubt about it. Keep it going champ.24,485th to 99 defence on 7-23-08I always forget you're 20 too. I always think you're 25 or something. o.oYa think that I'm insane, Its not sane... its not saneobligitory devart link: http://evil-mumm-ra.deviantart.com/Pogonophobia is the fear of beards.She isn't naked so it's legal.I'm a porn star.[/hide] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madmanpur3 Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Oh and he's just 9 years old??? You really are an [wagon] teargod. You probably made the poor kid cry. You're 26 for crying out loud and ruined a 9 year olds birthday party. You are nothing more than an [wagon]. If the TC is in fact 26 and hates his mom's side of the family, chances are he doesn't hang around the kiddies much and isn't involved with the fun at the gatherings. This then leads me to believe that said 9 year old cousin probably didn't even care that he wasn't there, and that kid's mom (the aunt) is a [bleep] for the fact that she thinks the world revolves around her son. If the kid did cry tho, it's probably because his mom raised him to believe the world did in fact revolve around him. May the presents of our lord and savior, Santa, be with you this holiday season!First annual Clausmas - 2009 December 25 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saru Inc Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 I hate everyone in my family. Dad - Always worried about me ruining his career, and my friends aren't aren't good enough, because they cuss. ( disregarding their 3.9+ gpas) Mom - Extremely forgetful, doesn't pay attention, then accuses me of lying. Sister (big) -holy roller, nuff said. Brother (big) he's not that bad, but pretty thoughtless. Brother (younger) - Anti social and hates hanging out with me, except for when its time for me to drive him to GameStop for his new *must have* game. Sister (younger) -spoiled, trashes my room, breaks things, typical little sister stuff. And my extended family all live in either Cali, Mich., or Arizona. I live in VA. :thumbdown: I have all the 99s, and have been playing since 2001. Comped 4/30/15 My Araxxi Kills: 459::Araxxi Drops(KC):Araxxi Hilts: 4x Eye (14/126/149/459), Web - (100) Fang (193) Araxxi Legs Completed: 5 ---Top (69/206/234/292/361), Middle (163/176/278/343/395), Bottom (135/256/350/359/397)Boss Pets: Supreme - 848 KCIf you play Xbox One - Add me! GT: Urtehnoes - Currently on a Destiny binge Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IGoddessI Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Who gives a crap if the kid didn't care. A 26 year old should know better. Unless there was a very good reason for not going for example his little cousin bites him, kicks him, spits on him etc As for the mother, none of you are parents so don't even go there. I agree she's not helping by going over there but I also completely understand that she's acting out of anger and you would NOT know what that's like until you have kids. And I'm pretty sure you're aware that just because you didn't care when you were 9, doesn't mean for even a second, that this kid shouldn't. The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saru Inc Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Who gives a crap if the kid didn't care. A 26 year old should know better. Unless there was a very good reason for not going for example his little cousin bites him, kicks him, spits on him etc As for the mother, none of you are parents so don't even go there. Thats very true, I go to my neighbor's 4 year old b day parties, even though it bores me to death, I pretend to have fun; cause the kids like seeing me. It is pretty selfish to not give up one afternoon. To a 9 year old, his birthday is EVERYTHING. To a 26 year old, one afternoon is nothing. I have all the 99s, and have been playing since 2001. Comped 4/30/15 My Araxxi Kills: 459::Araxxi Drops(KC):Araxxi Hilts: 4x Eye (14/126/149/459), Web - (100) Fang (193) Araxxi Legs Completed: 5 ---Top (69/206/234/292/361), Middle (163/176/278/343/395), Bottom (135/256/350/359/397)Boss Pets: Supreme - 848 KCIf you play Xbox One - Add me! GT: Urtehnoes - Currently on a Destiny binge Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doomy Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Its your cousin, i've never been to one of my cousins birthdays, it no big deal to be honest. Actually now that I think about it most of my cousins live in Australia and the others live on a different island so... Oh and we're not allowed to visit one because my Aunty is weird and has mental issues. Sometimes I hate my parents, my mum sometimes tries to find an excuse to be angry at us and my dad never changes his views on anything, even if he's the only one who didnt want it. Wer have to move just because my dad didn't like candians getting hired from overseas in jobs ahead of him that he can do, so he quits and goes and buys a farm which nobody else wanted... :wall: Doomy edit: I like sheep Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happysniff Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Who gives a crap if the kid didn't care. A 26 year old should know better. Unless there was a very good reason for not going for example his little cousin bites him, kicks him, spits on him etc As for the mother, none of you are parents so don't even go there. I agree she's not helping by going over there but I also completely understand that she's acting out of anger and you would NOT know what that's like until you have kids. And I'm pretty sure you're aware that just because you didn't care when you were 9, doesn't mean for even a second, that this kid shouldn't. Wtf maet, he has a choice wether or not he wants to go, he doesn't have to if he doesn't want to. Stop forcing your godamn opinions down people's throats. If someone close to you doesn't turn up to your kid's birthday party, you can go berate them all you want, but Jesus Christ, calm the [bleep] down, this isn't even your affair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riku3220 Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Who gives a crap if the kid didn't care. A 26 year old should know better. Unless there was a very good reason for not going for example his little cousin bites him, kicks him, spits on him etc As for the mother, none of you are parents so don't even go there. I agree she's not helping by going over there but I also completely understand that she's acting out of anger and you would NOT know what that's like until you have kids. And I'm pretty sure you're aware that just because you didn't care when you were 9, doesn't mean for even a second, that this kid shouldn't. A 9 year old doesn't care who shows up to his birthday. All a 9 year old cares about is what kind of loot he gets. I can understand why the mom would be angry but the kid doesn't care as long as he's getting free stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aquariusman Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Quite honestly, I still would have gone. Just bring an mp3 player, find a couch, sit, and stare at a wall. Even if you don't like them, they're still your family and your parents' family. If that doesn't work, try to convince a friend to come. Also, you say that you don't hate your cousin. I haven't seen anyone in my moms family aside from my grandmother & cousin & his parents for about 12 years now and I really don't plan on changing that any time soon. Am I the only one that read this part? You haven't seen these people in 12 years, and yet you are convinced that you hate them. To be frank, that is one of the most idiotic things I have ever heard. Holding a grudge for 12 years is just being plain stubborn. Go to one family get together that involves this family you haven't seen in 12 years, and then come back and say you hate your family. Oh and he's just 9 years old??? You really are an [wagon] teargod. You probably made the poor kid cry. You're 26 for crying out loud and ruined a 9 year olds birthday party. You are nothing more than an [wagon]. Unless his cousin idolizes him, his cousin won't notice. Especially if he hasn't seen his mother's family in 12 years. Honestly, I'd consider it pretty rude and selfish to do what you did. It's only a few hours of boredom and unhappiness, but it can mean a lot to certain people.I can be rude and selfish but in this case I'm not. I haven't seen my family in 12 years cause as I said I don't feel close to them and I don't feel there's a family like bond with them. Ever thought that they might feel a family bond? As for the mother, none of you are parents so don't even go there. I agree she's not helping by going over there but I also completely understand that she's acting out of anger and you would NOT know what that's like until you have kids. And I'm pretty sure you're aware that just because you didn't care when you were 9, doesn't mean for even a second, that this kid shouldn't. Saying "I don't feel like going to your kids birthday party," probably will get any parent mad. Yet we don't know whether it is the mother being offended, or the kid was disappointed that he didn't show up. The latter I will agree is justified. Also, anger isn't some emotion you suddenly start to feel when you become a parent. She has every right to be angry, but she should still be in control of herself, especially if she is supposed to be a parent. There's no such thing as regret. A regret means you are unhappy with the person you are now,and if you're unhappy with the person you are, you change yourself. Thatregret will no longer be a regret, because it will help to form the new,better you. So really, a regret isn't a regret. It's experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_burritos Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Who gives a crap if the kid didn't care. A 26 year old should know better. Unless there was a very good reason for not going for example his little cousin bites him, kicks him, spits on him etc As for the mother, none of you are parents so don't even go there. I agree she's not helping by going over there but I also completely understand that she's acting out of anger and you would NOT know what that's like until you have kids. And I'm pretty sure you're aware that just because you didn't care when you were 9, doesn't mean for even a second, that this kid shouldn't. Wtf maet, he has a choice wether or not he wants to go, he doesn't have to if he doesn't want to. Stop forcing your godamn opinions down people's throats. If someone close to you doesn't turn up to your kid's birthday party, you can go berate them all you want, but Jesus Christ, calm the [bleep] down, this isn't even your affair. Typical. I agree, not going to your cousins birthday party was, I don't know - illfounded. But you could have alteast taken 5 minutes to explain your situation and wish him and his family the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happysniff Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Who gives a crap if the kid didn't care. A 26 year old should know better. Unless there was a very good reason for not going for example his little cousin bites him, kicks him, spits on him etc As for the mother, none of you are parents so don't even go there. I agree she's not helping by going over there but I also completely understand that she's acting out of anger and you would NOT know what that's like until you have kids. And I'm pretty sure you're aware that just because you didn't care when you were 9, doesn't mean for even a second, that this kid shouldn't. Wtf maet, he has a choice wether or not he wants to go, he doesn't have to if he doesn't want to. Stop forcing your godamn opinions down people's throats. If someone close to you doesn't turn up to your kid's birthday party, you can go berate them all you want, but Jesus Christ, calm the [bleep] down, this isn't even your affair. Typical. I agree, not going to your cousins birthday party was, I don't know - illfounded. But you could have alteast taken 5 minutes to explain your situation and wish him and his family the best. May I ask that you please stop stalking me. Its getting creepy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_burritos Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 May I ask that you please stop stalking me. Its getting creepy. No. [Cue bwan-buh-bunna Guitar] Every breath you take Every move you make Every bond you break Every step you take Ill be watching you Every single day Every word you say Every game you play Every night you stay Ill be watching you Oh, cant you see [sappy Stuff] With every step you take Every move you make Every vow you break Every smile you fake Every claim you stake Ill be watching you [sappy Part] [More Sappy Parts] Every move you make Every vow you break Every smile you fake Every claim you stake Ill be watching you Every move you make Every step you take Ill be watching you Ill be watching you Ill be watching you Ill be watching you Ill be watching you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Pirates Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Who gives a crap if the kid didn't care. A 26 year old should know better. Unless there was a very good reason for not going for example his little cousin bites him, kicks him, spits on him etc As for the mother, none of you are parents so don't even go there. I agree she's not helping by going over there but I also completely understand that she's acting out of anger and you would NOT know what that's like until you have kids. And I'm pretty sure you're aware that just because you didn't care when you were 9, doesn't mean for even a second, that this kid shouldn't. Wtf maet, he has a choice wether or not he wants to go, he doesn't have to if he doesn't want to. Stop forcing your godamn opinions down people's throats. If someone close to you doesn't turn up to your kid's birthday party, you can go berate them all you want, but Jesus Christ, calm the [bleep] down, this isn't even your affair. I sense you're just here to piss Goddess off :wall: BR BR BR? HUEHUEHEUEHUE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riku3220 Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 Who gives a crap if the kid didn't care. A 26 year old should know better. Unless there was a very good reason for not going for example his little cousin bites him, kicks him, spits on him etc As for the mother, none of you are parents so don't even go there. I agree she's not helping by going over there but I also completely understand that she's acting out of anger and you would NOT know what that's like until you have kids. And I'm pretty sure you're aware that just because you didn't care when you were 9, doesn't mean for even a second, that this kid shouldn't. Wtf maet, he has a choice wether or not he wants to go, he doesn't have to if he doesn't want to. Stop forcing your godamn opinions down people's throats. If someone close to you doesn't turn up to your kid's birthday party, you can go berate them all you want, but Jesus Christ, calm the [bleep] down, this isn't even your affair. I sense you're just here to piss Goddess off :wall: Yeah he walked into the lion's den on that one. #-o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 12 years, and the kid is 9. So you don't even know the kid? Yup, the Aunt it just convinced that the world revolves around her [and her son]. My take, anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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