I think it's somewhat a choice. Those that have those beliefs should be quiet about it. Yeah, It's a choice. (A lesbian in my marching band is holding a sleepover for GIRLS ONLY???) and she tore down yes on 8 signs. I don't mind civil unions, but I don't think it's marriage. Prop 8 has many horrible misconceptions, like it gets rid of unions, which it doesn't. The extremely liberal 9th circuit court will probably kill it :/