Length and intensity are two separate concepts. I was with her for less than a week, but cared about her more than all of the girls i've talked to combined since my ex.

 

You're totally right Omar, but I dno't think I want to accept it's over already. Most exciting thing that's happened in forever.

 

Alternately, it's inspiring to do crazy shit like this more often.

Alternately, it's inspiring to do crazy shit like this more often.

 

At the risk of attributing malicious intent to this girl, she lied to you. At the very least, she said something very meaningful and only mulled it over for a week. That is how careful she is about your relationship.

Again. Pick yourself up.

[Edit] But anyway, this isn't "inspiring". You're not even deciding what you're doing. Start doing crazy shit when you've got your normal shit sorted.

I don't want to sound like "that guy" when I tell you that getting involved with a girl who sounds like she is a hard-core drug user is not a good idea in the first place (since I know you are fine with it). But, hear me out on this one. Why would you begin to trust someone who isn't even in their right mind half of the time? Better yet, why would you want to be with someone who is doing their body a lot of harm through habitual drug abuse? If you are just in it for the sex, I sort of understand. Outside of that, I just find it slightly foolish that you'd really want to invest time and effort into a train wreck like that. Certainly I can't be the only one who has this opinion... right?

I don't want to sound like "that guy" when I tell you that getting involved with a girl who sounds like she is a hard-core drug user is not a good idea in the first place (since I know you are fine with it). But, hear me out on this one. Why would you begin to trust someone who isn't even in their right mind half of the time? Better yet, why would you want to be with someone who is doing their body a lot of harm through habitual drug abuse? If you are just in it for the sex, I sort of understand. Outside of that, I just find it slightly foolish that you'd really want to invest time and effort into a train wreck like that. Certainly I can't be the only one who has this opinion... right?

What sort of person are you? Some kind of oppressitarian???

Was literally about to post that I had chilled out, calmed down and had a beer to mull it over. Had decided to just call her tomorrow and tell her whats what. But as soon as I started typing she called me, and said she was lonely, I told her I was sorry for overreacting at her (which I did) and now things seem to be pretty chill. So...yay

 

 

I don't want to sound like "that guy" when I tell you that getting involved with a girl who sounds like she is a hard-core drug user is not a good idea in the first place (since I know you are fine with it). But, hear me out on this one. Why would you begin to trust someone who isn't even in their right mind half of the time? Better yet, why would you want to be with someone who is doing their body a lot of harm through habitual drug abuse? If you are just in it for the sex, I sort of understand. Outside of that, I just find it slightly foolish that you'd really want to invest time and effort into a train wreck like that. Certainly I can't be the only one who has this opinion... right?

 

You have a sound point. I want to be the one to steer her away from the drugs, but I want to do it in a way where I'm not forcing her to give it up unwillingly. Plus I go gaga over girls with devious eyes and the devil's smile.

You can't go into a relationship expecting or trying to make people to change. It just won't work. Both sides will get frustrated with each other.

She's been trying to clean up her life for a while, I think she just had a bad week when I happened to be there. I mean, yeah thats exactly what anyone would tell me regardless, but I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt because I like making poor life decisions.

She's been trying to clean up her life for a while, I think she just had a bad week when I happened to be there. I mean, yeah thats exactly what anyone would tell me regardless, but I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt because I like making poor life decisions.

 

 

Fix your own poor decisions before fixing someone else's.

Tread carefully. I'm pretty sure you're getting played.

When most people see an emotional trainwreck of drama and conflict, they run.

When RPG sees one he jumps into the middle while juggling vials of nitroglycerin.

Tread carefully. I'm pretty sure you're getting played.

 

See I think so too, to an extent. But if I can keep my head on straight, I can minimize the personal damage. I lost ~$350 in 4 days to her. She's an expensive habit. Plus I drove her left side of everywhere. And yet, I feel she wouldn't cheat on me. Just using me. But that's just a theory. Trying to screw my head on straight, not merc it with paranoia.

When most people see an emotional trainwreck of drama and conflict, they run.

When RPG sees one he jumps into the middle while juggling vials of nitroglycerin.

This.

 

Don't expect any advice from us RPG. Our advice is to get out of that situation. You want to stay in.

When most people see an emotional trainwreck of drama and conflict, they run.

When RPG sees one he jumps into the middle while juggling vials of nitroglycerin.

 

Yes, because it's obvious by now he's an emotional trainwreck himself.

When most people see an emotional trainwreck of drama and conflict, they run.

When RPG sees one he jumps into the middle while juggling vials of nitroglycerin.

 

Yes, because it's obvious by now he's an emotional trainwreck himself.

 

It's very hard to prevent being stabbed when the knife is already in your stomach.

In other news, I think I might be on the road to getting to know someone without the aid of a club.

 

On Friday our Macro class was cancelled ten minutes before it started, so half the class still showed up. The TA basically walked in and said "Sorry there's no class today go home", leaving us all with a mixture of frustration at having our time wasted, and relief that we wouldn't have to listen to our terrible professor for an hour.

 

Anyways, so the girl in the row in front of me is acting pretty frustrated about this, but she keeps glancing in my direction. I'm pretty thick headed, but after the third glance even I can tell a person probably wants to talk. So I struck up a conversation and we ended up talking on and off until we had to split up. That was when I realized I didn't get her name.

 

But this morning (I have four courses with this person so running into them is pretty common even if we haven't spoken before) we happened to be leaving at the same time so I mentioned I'd never gotten her name, and yeah we're now at least on a name basis.

 

 

It's not exactly a massive success, but hey it's a start. I didn't even put my foot in my mouth.

Good job, TT. :thumbup: Getting your foot in the door is always better than getting it in your mouth. :P

 

It's very hard to prevent being stabbed when the knife is already in your stomach.

 

True, but that doesn't mean you have to bleed to death from it.

But what about <further knife words to extend this tortured metaphor>

But what about <further knife words to extend this tortured metaphor>

 

I c wat u did thar. budum ts.

I called my spirit guide friend and he chilled me out again. I need to get my head on straight. I'm calling her tonight, talking like normal flirty people do, than I'm putting the ball in her court. Cold stop. If she comes to me, I'll keep my cool and flow with it. If not, I have other things I need to focus on (mainly school). I just need to get my head in the game.

I called my spirit guide friend and he chilled me out again. I need to get my head on straight. I'm calling her tonight, talking like normal flirty people do, than I'm putting the ball in her court. Cold stop. If she comes to me, I'll keep my cool and flow with it. If not, I have other things I need to focus on (mainly school). I just need to get my head in the game.

 

Not sure if just desperately trying to get another high of his new "drug" or just stupid.

 

But seriously, bro, give her up, you don't need that kind of mind-weight.

I feel like every time I talk about her on here she talks to me. As soon as I checked your response I get an "I miss you" text.

i am your sexy rave girl RPG

 

april fools

She's manipulating you and treating you poorly because you tolerate it. I'd even go as far as to say that you encourage it.

She's manipulating you and treating you poorly because you tolerate it. I'd even go as far as to say that you encourage it.

 

<insert deep drug metaphor>