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I've made some mistakes in my life. I presume Muggiw's advice is; quit being an idiot and start doing more positive things. I just want to hear it from you guys.


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As long as you're still alive you can always strive to make less mistakes and start making positive changes in your life.


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As long as you're still alive you can always strive to make less mistakes and start making positive changes in your life.

Yes, being dead sucks.


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I've made some mistakes in my life. I presume Muggiw's advice is; quit being an idiot and start doing more positive things. I just want to hear it from you guys.

This is the relationship thread. You forgot polyamory.
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Apparently scheduled a date for next Wednesday.


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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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That was seriously unexpected, as I was just making small talk and I am drunk as [bleep] right now.


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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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Long story short, I had a crush on this girl, took my chances and asked her out. she actually said yes. However, we don't live exactly close to each other (~4 hours by train) and well, she's my first girlfriend. Basically, any advice and how do I tell my parents (i'm 16 btw)?

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Long story short, I had a crush on this girl, took my chances and asked her out. she actually said yes. However, we don't live exactly close to each other (~4 hours by train) and well, she's my first girlfriend. Basically, any advice and how do I tell my parents (i'm 16 btw)?

Well what'd you tell your parents when you went to see her the first time?

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I haven't yet, that's just it. 


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Say this:
 

Long story short, I had a crush on this girl, took my chances and asked her out. she actually said yes. However, we don't live exactly close to each other (~4 hours by train).

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^^^ Pretty much.


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Well time to post my story - I just feel like sharing, I'm not looking for a solution to my non-existent problem.

 

My Ex broke up with me about 3 months ago, we had started to drift apart over the exam period and she doesn't well with stress hugely well and I am not too bothered by it, but I let her have her space. All in all her reasoning for breaking up with me was that she wanted to be alone for awhile and figure herself out (something along those lines). I accepted the reason because I am a mature, rational adult. And we parted ways, and we have exchanged brief/passing comments through social media since then. 

 

But now since we are returning to University and we are on the same course but we only share a couple of modules so I won't see her that much. I am not particularly wanting to re-engage a relationship or even begin a casual/[bleep]buddy relationship with said Ex despite being a lovely person (who let me touch her with my naughty bits); had a range of bad habits and is very much one of those girls who drinks way too much (I do not drink at all). With that being said I am interested in engaging in a new relationship but I am about as romantic as a fish and denser than Osmium. The more sensible thing to do would be to avoid dating altogether and focus on my degree as I am entering a very important year for that. 

 

TL;DR

Boris was sad, now not that sad. Is unsure how to feel about the next coming months - but is interested in pursuing a new relationship and not rekindling the old one.

 

Also how does one do online dating - that seems like a more convenient way to speak to females without having to talk to girls. I don't think I would want to try Tinder though :P


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Like I said before, the better sites are regionally based. Tinder is meh in my area, but good in vegas. Okcupid blows in my area, but its awesome 20 miles north. As for how it works? Basically just sell yourself like a product and close deals as quick as possible. You may have luck you may not, just as in offline dating. I however advise you to not turn to online dating but instead further your studies and maybe work on that romance thing.


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Long story short, I had a crush on this girl, took my chances and asked her out. she actually said yes. However, we don't live exactly close to each other (~4 hours by train) and well, she's my first girlfriend. Basically, any advice and how do I tell my parents (i'm 16 btw)?

 

Well first things first, kudos to you for having the balls to ask out a girl you had a crush on. That alone puts you waaaaaaay ahead of most guys. If you don't believe me, go look at how many guys post in this thread about their fears of asking girls out :P

 

 

With that said... :twisted:

 

Long distance relationships are generally a bad idea. If both of you have very low sex drives and are unattractive/bad at dating, then long distance relationships aren't as bad (though I still would never recommend one to anyone). Otherwise, expect cheating and/or tension.

 

You're young though. Since I imagine you're going to ignore my advice, just learn as much as you can about sex, relationships, and women from this girl while you can :P

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Well time to post my story - I just feel like sharing, I'm not looking for a solution to my non-existent problem.

 

My Ex broke up with me about 3 months ago, we had started to drift apart over the exam period and she doesn't well with stress hugely well and I am not too bothered by it, but I let her have her space. All in all her reasoning for breaking up with me was that she wanted to be alone for awhile and figure herself out (something along those lines). I accepted the reason because I am a mature, rational adult. And we parted ways, and we have exchanged brief/passing comments through social media since then. 

 

But now since we are returning to University and we are on the same course but we only share a couple of modules so I won't see her that much. I am not particularly wanting to re-engage a relationship or even begin a casual/[bleep]buddy relationship with said Ex despite being a lovely person (who let me touch her with my naughty bits); had a range of bad habits and is very much one of those girls who drinks way too much (I do not drink at all). With that being said I am interested in engaging in a new relationship but I am about as romantic as a fish and denser than Osmium. The more sensible thing to do would be to avoid dating altogether and focus on my degree as I am entering a very important year for that. 

 

TL;DR

Boris was sad, now not that sad. Is unsure how to feel about the next coming months - but is interested in pursuing a new relationship and not rekindling the old one.

 

Also how does one do online dating - that seems like a more convenient way to speak to females without having to talk to girls. I don't think I would want to try Tinder though :P

 

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/01/07/getting-started-from-scratch-your-first-12-steps-to-get-good-with-women/


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Well time to post my story - I just feel like sharing, I'm not looking for a solution to my non-existent problem.

 

My Ex broke up with me about 3 months ago, we had started to drift apart over the exam period and she doesn't well with stress hugely well and I am not too bothered by it, but I let her have her space. All in all her reasoning for breaking up with me was that she wanted to be alone for awhile and figure herself out (something along those lines). I accepted the reason because I am a mature, rational adult. And we parted ways, and we have exchanged brief/passing comments through social media since then. 

 

But now since we are returning to University and we are on the same course but we only share a couple of modules so I won't see her that much. I am not particularly wanting to re-engage a relationship or even begin a casual/[bleep]buddy relationship with said Ex despite being a lovely person (who let me touch her with my naughty bits); had a range of bad habits and is very much one of those girls who drinks way too much (I do not drink at all). With that being said I am interested in engaging in a new relationship but I am about as romantic as a fish and denser than Osmium. The more sensible thing to do would be to avoid dating altogether and focus on my degree as I am entering a very important year for that. 

 

TL;DR

Boris was sad, now not that sad. Is unsure how to feel about the next coming months - but is interested in pursuing a new relationship and not rekindling the old one.

 

Also how does one do online dating - that seems like a more convenient way to speak to females without having to talk to girls. I don't think I would want to try Tinder though :P

 

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/01/07/getting-started-from-scratch-your-first-12-steps-to-get-good-with-women/

 

Muggi are you the Blackdragon?

 

Also, if that advice only for people who are clueless? I don't take a lot of those sorts of things too seriously, and I still get laid pretty easily. And have standards hah. 

 

I guess what I'm saying it that entire system seems a bit excessive at time. Like send 350 women openers? 


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Well time to post my story - I just feel like sharing, I'm not looking for a solution to my non-existent problem.

 

My Ex broke up with me about 3 months ago, we had started to drift apart over the exam period and she doesn't well with stress hugely well and I am not too bothered by it, but I let her have her space. All in all her reasoning for breaking up with me was that she wanted to be alone for awhile and figure herself out (something along those lines). I accepted the reason because I am a mature, rational adult. And we parted ways, and we have exchanged brief/passing comments through social media since then. 

 

But now since we are returning to University and we are on the same course but we only share a couple of modules so I won't see her that much. I am not particularly wanting to re-engage a relationship or even begin a casual/[bleep]buddy relationship with said Ex despite being a lovely person (who let me touch her with my naughty bits); had a range of bad habits and is very much one of those girls who drinks way too much (I do not drink at all). With that being said I am interested in engaging in a new relationship but I am about as romantic as a fish and denser than Osmium. The more sensible thing to do would be to avoid dating altogether and focus on my degree as I am entering a very important year for that. 

 

TL;DR

Boris was sad, now not that sad. Is unsure how to feel about the next coming months - but is interested in pursuing a new relationship and not rekindling the old one.

 

Also how does one do online dating - that seems like a more convenient way to speak to females without having to talk to girls. I don't think I would want to try Tinder though :P

 

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/01/07/getting-started-from-scratch-your-first-12-steps-to-get-good-with-women/

 

Muggi are you the Blackdragon?

 

Also, if that advice only for people who are clueless? I don't take a lot of those sorts of things too seriously, and I still get laid pretty easily. And have standards hah. 

 

I guess what I'm saying it that entire system seems a bit excessive at time. Like send 350 women openers? 

 

 

It's mostly for people who are clueless, yeah. However the online dating part applies to everyone.

 

I started doing online dating in August 2012 and on the first Sunday evening of every month, I'd copy and paste my opener to every girl on OKC and POF who looked hot. I ended up sending like 200 openers between August and October and only got 1 date out of it. So I had to change my pictures, rewrite my profile, and change how I pitched the date. In December 2012, I scheduled 7 dates in one week... and they all flaked on me because I didn't know how to prevent them from flaking yet, so that was another thing I had to learn.

 

In other words, online dating has kind of a steep learning curve, but once you get it figured out, it's amazing. I can meet hot girls any time I want to without having to stay up late at the noisy bars now because of the time I invested into learning it. Sending out openers doesn't take any time at all either. I used to sit down on Sunday evenings (when there's the most traffic on those sites) and just spend about an hour sending out dozens/hundreds of openers. But these days I just copy and paste my openers via the dating sites' mobile apps on my iphone when I'm pooping or in bed (or BOTH!).

 

If I was still in college living across the street from all the bars and I was more extroverted, though, I would have tried to master bar game or day game instead. Online just suits my personality much better


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Aw yeah. My bar game is pretty flukey to be honest. Before I started travelling I used tinder for three weeks and got with three girls, I got so many matches I didn't bother talking to most of them. In the end I got with one of those girls several times cos she was the best in bed. And the most chilled out. 

 

Oh Tinder also worked in India with an Irish girl hah. Otherwise it's hard when travelling because I usually don't stay in one place very long. 


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You're young though. Since I imagine you're going to ignore my advice, just learn as much as you can about sex, relationships, and women from this girl while you can :P

 

 

Pretty much why you don't see me asking for advice on this thread.

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my difinition of noob is i dont like u, either u are better then me or u are worst them me

Buying spins make you a bad person...don't do it. It's like buying nukes for North Korea.

Well if it bothers you that the game is more fun now, then you can go cry in a corner. :shame:

your article was the equivalent of a circumcized porcupine

The only thing wrong with it is the lack of a percentage for when you need to stroke it.

 


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I suppose we've become a little less diverse in our advice, but thats not necessarily a bad thing


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That, and last time I wanted dating advice, I was smart enough to know what the smart advice was (end the relationship with the frigid girl who has trouble making time for me) whilst simultaneously being too dumb and hormone-stricken to follow that advice. (Maybe I'm just illogical because I like tacos?)

 

Cue muggi giving a lecture on oneitis.


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my difinition of noob is i dont like u, either u are better then me or u are worst them me

Buying spins make you a bad person...don't do it. It's like buying nukes for North Korea.

Well if it bothers you that the game is more fun now, then you can go cry in a corner. :shame:

your article was the equivalent of a circumcized porcupine

The only thing wrong with it is the lack of a percentage for when you need to stroke it.

 


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Much downer, very negativity.


Squab unleashes Megiddo! Completed all quests and hard diaries. 75+ Skiller. (At one point.) 2000+ total. 99 Magic.
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my difinition of noob is i dont like u, either u are better then me or u are worst them me

Buying spins make you a bad person...don't do it. It's like buying nukes for North Korea.

Well if it bothers you that the game is more fun now, then you can go cry in a corner. :shame:

your article was the equivalent of a circumcized porcupine

The only thing wrong with it is the lack of a percentage for when you need to stroke it.

 


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