Girl help needed

[chesterisgod]

I'm 15, and yet no GF. So i'm trying to think of a way to get 1. I'm way too shy to ask any one, and I don't know many very well. GIVE ME ADVICE PLEASE! I'M DESPERATE!

[hockEynfish]

Any girls you especially like? Start small talk with her and before you know it, it's a conversation. Not much advice there, but hey worked for me.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Oh, btw- girls love compliments :wink:

[Astralinre]

Don't worry about getting a girlfriend; you're fifteen. Just focus on being friends with girls, and if something more develops from a friendship, then good. If not, then good, you've still got a good friend.

[chesterisgod]

Most of the ones are out of my league :( But I could probably do so with some of the more quiet girls. Only problem is I hope they don't look at me and think "nerd" straight out.

[chesterisgod]

True. Geez I just wish I was more good looking. *slaps myself*

[Astralinre]

Most of the ones are out of my league :( But I could probably do so with some of the more quiet girls. Only problem is I hope they don't look at me and think "nerd" straight out.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You're approaching the situation from the wrong angle. Don't think, "These girls would never be interested in me." Just think of them as people who are no different than anyone else you know. Approach then as potential friends, not potential dates.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Also, some girls, including my girlfriend, find nerds attractive. ;)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

True. Geez I just wish I was more good looking. *slaps myself*

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

As a general rule, girls don't care about looks as much as guys do. They tend to be more emotional than visual. Sure, they like a strong guy with a good face, but many of them like a sweet guy who can make them smile even more.

[Shadd]

One thing a girl or any female at that hates are guys with no confidence and low self-esteem. Most Girls aren't going to come up to you and say "hey, wanna go out with me?" They expect the male to make the first move the majority of the time.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Advice from me, be yourself.

[AniseCookies]

15 is way too young.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Be yeh self 8)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Does anyone remember that 20 page long topic that Legolover wrote on GF's? :?:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

lol... :lol:

[Peter]

First of all, if you know your weakness (in this case, you're shy) then you are the only one who can change that. If you really want a girlfriend, then you really need to change your mannerism and not be so shy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Next, tell me how many times you see a gorgeous girl with an unattractive guy (not that you should be judging other guys, but you can generally tell the good ones from the bad ones). You should know that they don't care about looks as much as personality.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Confidence is key. Never put yourself down, either in your head or outloud. You almost have to be cocky to survive. I guess it depends on the girl you're going for though. Oh and it sounds if you're desperate. Women have a sixth sense for detecting desperation, so don't make it sound like you need them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Since you're shy you probably won't do this at all but it's key to just be able to start a conversation with anyone. It's not so hard to talk to guys is it? Why should girls be any different than guys to talk to?

[Lionheart_0]

LMAO I remember the one about Legolover...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anyways, ya peter has just about everything you need.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But dont go asking a girl out just cause you think you need a girl friend to look cool. Do it cause you want to date someone.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

BTW, 15 is an excelent age to date, just not be commitide. gain the dating exp :wink:

[KnightLite]

first day of school, find the biggest lookin guy you can find and just rail him in front of a huge group of girls. Should work......

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Worked on all the guys that beat me up, jk lol :lol:

[Barihawk]

Don't worry about getting a girlfriend; you're fifteen. Just focus on being friends with girls, and if something more develops from a friendship, then good. If not, then good, you've still got a good friend.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This one is wise.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mutual attraction is the way to go. Build a bond with a few girls, act naturally. Don't try to alter your personality or appearance, stay within your character. Eventually, friendship will turn into deep friendship, and eventually a relationship.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Also, once you have a girlfriend...When she asks you what you want to do, never say "I dont know" or "Why dont you pick". As a guy, you should be ready to decide.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I am not being sexist.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

God did not make woman out of the skull of Adam to dominate over him, nor did he take her out of his foot to be walked over by him. Instead, he took her from under his arm to comfort her, out of his ribs to protect her, and close to his heart for him to love her.

[AniseCookies]

*bows to bari teh 1337 poet*

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

=P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Never panic :wink:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

OT: Nice quote in yeh siggy bari :P

[Blipo]

 

 

 

God did not make woman out of the skull of Adam to dominate over him, nor did he take her out of his foot to be walked over by him. Instead, he took her from under his arm to comfort her, out of his ribs to protect her, and close to his heart for him to love her.

 

 

 

oo that's deep

[Multani]

Honestly, I'd say don't sweat it.

 

 

 

In any case, yes, some girls like nerds. My girlfriend is a wonderful example. I start ranting about a gadget or some stupid network problem, and she just thinks its the cutest thing ever.

 

 

 

She nerds out over comics and movies.. I nerd out over gadgets and computers.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anyhow, enough about me.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

There's nothing to "try." There are no "secret methods."

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Calm down, don't put too much stock in things, enjoy everything as it happens. Honesty is always ALWAYS the best policy. Get it out there, talk about it. Make friends. See how things work out. Every person I've ever dated, I've been close friends with before hand. If you think they like you, and you like them, ask them. Again, though, don't put too much stock in your what you think is happening. If you ask, and they say no, don't lose it. Don't mope. They don't hate you. Really.

[Make7upu101]

I hear you man

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

16 and no real "girlfriend" either.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Was close to this girl for a little while but missed my chance on that and now every time I see her my heart cringes because she has another boyfriend now. If you get a chance take it but at the same time peter was right don't sound desperate

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I actually don't care much about getting girlfriends to much. If you just be yourself and start talking to as many people as you can I'm sure you'll find one eventually. I go thought the day with a "i dont really care if you like me or not attitude". Don't get this confused with the "F- you" attitude just be casual and get yourself out there.

[bloodkilla87]

I dont really care about dating at my age either (14). Theres this one girl in my drama class who is making me mad, i wish i could just knock her out :twisted:

[SAGE]

Well I used to be a bit shy until I realised that noone can really tease you if your being yourself because those people are mostly posers. I kept building my confidence and then I felt alot more open around girls, they don't care that I like to play the odd online game once in a while. Atleast I can be honest about it and then if they know your an honest person they will be more outgoing towards you aswell. Confidence is the key. Then again, My mum thinks I am kool so I must be anyway.

[AThousandLies]

Don't try rush into things man. If the oppurtunity comes along, take it. But don't go 'looking' or 'seeking' a girlfriend. It doesn't always work that way. I had the same attitude and the four 'relationships' I've had lasted a maximum of four weeks. It's not worth it at this stage. There's this girl who likes me and I'm semi-interested, but I'm not going to do anything about it at this stage because, although it may not seem like it at this age, there are things more important than relationships and physical contact. Just enjoy yourself.

[S_C_Stunner]

I'm 15, and yet no GF. So i'm trying to think of a way to get 1. I'm way too shy to ask any one, and I don't know many very well. GIVE ME ADVICE PLEASE! I'M DESPERATE!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

gf is a waste of study time at ur age

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

finish ur studies and then u can date all u want

[Chris]

 

I'm 15, and yet no GF. So i'm trying to think of a way to get 1. I'm way too shy to ask any one, and I don't know many very well. GIVE ME ADVICE PLEASE! I'M DESPERATE!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

gf is a waste of study time at ur age

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

finish ur studies and then u can date all u want

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Heh, it's good practice... I never studied because of games. Now I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend either. :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Quit RS, build up some courage and ask a girl out. That's the best thing to do at your age. It's not like you're going to be... well you know. At your age anyway. :)

[4got_My_Pass]

Learn guitar ;)

[How2PK]

I'm 19 and I haven't got a decent relationship for 2 years, don't worrie, lol. It will get to you eventually. :P

[Triplets_KGB]

BTW, 15 is an excelent age to date, just not be commitide. gain the dating exp :wink:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I only have 10dating xp.... 73xp to next level :(

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*sigh* must disconnect my hand from the mouse.. *looks at it lovingly*

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Be Yourself!

[Death_By_Pod]

I'm 15, and yet no GF. So i'm trying to think of a way to get 1. I'm way too shy to ask any one, and I don't know many very well. GIVE ME ADVICE PLEASE! I'M DESPERATE!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Why are you desperate might I ask? Things arenÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t going to be magically perfect for you once a girl is willing to go out on a date with you. Your 15 and any relationship you form is not likely to go anywhere as you both of you are immature, change and grow a brain quite quickly.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My advice for you would not to get a girlfriend but to create friendships with girls, the experience talking and acting around female friends will help for when you want a more personal relationship when you get a bit older (like 17 or so).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you just want intercourse well itÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s not going to happen. Females can smell a desperate person a mile away, sorry. At your age there is nothing to gain from a girlfriend that you canÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t get from just being friends with girls and your hand.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(P.S. With spelling and grammar like that I canÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t see how anyone could take you seriously. It only takes two extra keystrokes to turn 1 into one, at the very least donÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t abbreviate words)