Does anyone know a forum or someplace that would answer these questions? Or if any of you know the answer to them, please answer. But I'm unaware of what to search for for questions such as those.

umm at dinner? just tell them. either they'll get mad or get dissapointed no point in keeping it a secret

So you say we should tell them right away. Ok thanks for the advice.

just wait, maybe they wont notice.

Lol, until she starts to show. We were planning on waiting until then.

abortion?

Out of the question.

Adoption.

or get married and raise the kid.

Out of the question.

 

 

 

Why is it out of the question? Fine if it is, I am just curious.

 

 

 

But yeah, probably tell the parents as soon as possible. When you tell her parents (I think you should be there too), just make sure there is an open door or something for you to run out if her parents go a little postal.

 

 

 

Kind of joking, but yeah, kind of serious too. Parents can be crazy.

8:31pm... Kidding.

 

 

 

There is no right, or perfect time to tell your parents. The only thing you can do is tell them you have something to tell them and sit down somewhere quiet.

 

 

 

You will never know how they will react - So don't try to guess.

 

 

 

Deal with the situation now and then ask the other 2 questions later.

 

 

 

Once your parents have settled down, if they were decent parents they would help you.

or get married and raise the kid.

 

 

 

That's the idea, I'm definatly going to help in raising my kid.

 

 

 

Out of the question.

 

 

 

Why is it out of the question? Fine if it is, I am just curious.

 

 

 

But yeah, probably tell the parents as soon as possible. When you tell her parents (I think you should be there too), just make sure there is an open door or something for you to run out if her parents go a little postal.

 

 

 

Kind of joking, but yeah, kind of serious too. Parents can be crazy.

 

 

 

It's out of the question because I think every child should have the option to live. If the parents don't want the kid, there's always adoption.

 

 

 

And of course I'm going to be with her when we tell her parents. I can't leave her to fend for herself, I'm going to be there for her 100% of the way.

 

 

 

8:31pm... Kidding.

 

 

 

There is no right, or perfect time to tell your parents. The only thing you can do is tell them you have something to tell them and sit down somewhere quiet.

 

 

 

You will never know how they will react - So don't try to guess.

 

 

 

Deal with the situation now and then ask the other 2 questions later.

 

 

 

Once your parents have settled down, if they were decent parents they would help you.

 

 

 

Good point. I know my aunt (who I live with) and mom (who lives 45 miles away) would help support, because they aren't the kind of parents that would leave me to fend for my own. Her parents on the other hand...lol you know what I'm saying? But when we do tell them, I'll make sure I take the brunt of the punishment since I'm the one who got her pregnant...even though the protection broke...

I'm the one who got her pregnant

 

 

 

It takes two to tango :

I'm the one who got her pregnant

 

 

 

It takes two to tango :

 

 

 

True, but it takes something only a guy can do to get a girl pregnant, if you get what I'm saying.

abortion?

 

 

 

I don't agree with that. I think that's killing a child, but if I had a daughter that got pregnant and was under the age of eighteen, I'd tell her it's her choice. She won't need to go through all of the pain before she even finishes high school.

True, but it takes something only a guy can do to get a girl pregnant, if you get what I'm saying.

 

 

 

Of course I know what you're saying :D It does only take a girl to open her legs in the first place though, if you get what I'm saying.

abortion?

 

 

 

I don't agree with that. I think that's killing a child, but if I had a daughter that got pregnant and was under the age of eighteen, I'd tell her it's her choice. She won't need to go through all of the pain before she even finishes high school.

 

 

 

I'd give my daughter that option to, and I'd give her the option to, but she's along with me on the no abortion thing.

Well as most people have said already...

 

The parents are going to find out eventually...It's better you tell them then they find out on their own, except that's the biggest problem.

 

 

 

You know you have to tell them sometime but you don't want to and that's totally understandable which is why you made this thread, to look for another way out of it...But really there isn't. They're going to find out one way or another.

Also, if the protection broke she should have taken the 'morning after pill'.

 

 

 

So there really are no excuses or reasons to play the blame game.

 

 

 

I do wish you luck though and if you ever need any advice you can PM me. I'm not someone who only tells you what you want to hear.

 

 

 

I'm super happy for your girlfriend, I was told a few weeks back that I'm probably infertile... So at least you don't have that problem?

Bullet Proof Vest?

 

 

 

But seriously, if abortion is out of the question, then there is nothing you can do.

Well, I don't know where you're living so I can't be specific, but most countries do have some sort of information centre for teens dealing with under aged pregnancies. They usually have some sort of telephone service. If you can't find it on your own, your best bet would be to ask your doctor, since (s)he's sworn to secrecy.

Since anything that I would've said has already been posted(goddess :P)

 

 

 

I'm just going to say good luck. I really hope your parents will help you out, of course they are going to be mad....but pray that they'll help :) :pray:

Chop it up and make chunky baby soup.

The replies in this thread are so sad :(

 

So see a doctor or youth worker and talk to them about it.

Chop it up and make chunky baby soup.

 

Seriously, that wasn't even funny.

 

 

 

 

 

I'd say jsut like everyone else. Tell them in a good place and time.