Cool a goatee!Oh if she's willing to take you back and change,how would that make you feel?I'm serious here it might help dispense advice.

 

 

 

Like if she's willing to change for you,would you take her back and be patient for that change?Or do you think she's going to be the same as before?There's another one you want to consider...

 

what do mean by change?

 

i liked her fine before, and i'm mature enough to admit i have feelings for her still, i just don't know what the hell i'm supposed to do in this situation, what she's doing means, or whether or not i'm just waisting my energy. :roll:

 

truthfully it'd be better for me if we got back together, i noticed after we got together i stopped being so incredibly nihilistic, which has started to come back since we broke up, if thats of any relevance.

 

 

 

edit: yeah, i want to get back together with her, thing is, i'm a very proud/stubborn person, and unless she's open with me, i'm not going to make a move.

By change I meant is she willing to change her attitude for you.

 

 

 

But from where you are I suggest you talk to her.Try to coax words from her,but don't push it.Like Windex said its mostly up to you know."Mostly" because her response may affect your decision too.I'm not judging,I would do it too I'm sure.

 

 

 

Windex:You have a big task in Zeplo.Funny thing is Lichef can't bring back old Lumeng cause he's probably dead.Stupid humans :lol: .

bleh... this means i have to have one of those discussions doesn't it?

If you really want her,yes.If not you can move on with your life.Think well,do take your time.Because your soul will be mine the day you die.Kamelot forever noobs!

well. im going to a friends 18th party tomorrow night so she's happy i decided to come, now i thought what would be some good advice to not pick up but meet a girl without any of my issues dare getting in the way. i'll be 100% sober as i have to drive 2 peeps home afterwards (and i dont drink anyway : ) how should i go about approaching them? last thing i want is a friend of mine getting laid like no tomorrow being the [bleep] he is. :

 

 

 

Well meet and pick up girls basically follows the same model, just the ending is different. First of all you mentin staying sober. That's good, not only girls prefer to talk to someone sober but it won't affect your concentration. Although generally I'll recommend one glass just to get over any inhibitions, no glasses is fine as well.

 

 

 

You approach them saying "Hi" (and don't forget to mention how glad you are to be at this party : ). If these are girls you know then it should be easier. You should also find it easier to approach at parties than at the mall since it's very acceptable to meet people at parties and also if there are more familiar faces. Overall I'd say don't focus on the outcome when you're talking. Don't worry about what happens afterwards or where the conversation leads, just enjoy the conversation. That goes for the whole "party mood" too. If you try and plan out what you're going to do, you don't have fun but if you just have fun in the moment, you'll have fun. Don't worry about what you're talking about, don't worry about what happens next, don't worry about anything (and if your intentions arn't to "pick up" then this should be easier). Just focus on meeting as many people a possible.

 

 

 

Oh and don't worry about whatever your friend does.

Cool a goatee!Oh if she's willing to take you back and change,how would that make you feel?I'm serious here it might help dispense advice.

 

 

 

Like if she's willing to change for you,would you take her back and be patient for that change?Or do you think she's going to be the same as before?There's another one you want to consider...

 

what do mean by change?

 

i liked her fine before, and i'm mature enough to admit i have feelings for her still, i just don't know what the hell i'm supposed to do in this situation, what she's doing means, or whether or not i'm just waisting my energy. :roll:

 

truthfully it'd be better for me if we got back together, i noticed after we got together i stopped being so incredibly nihilistic, which has started to come back since we broke up, if thats of any relevance.

 

 

 

edit: yeah, i want to get back together with her, thing is, i'm a very proud/stubborn person, and unless she's open with me, i'm not going to make a move.

 

 

 

similar enough situation to me, except i'm not asking for advice lol. you're gonna just have to talk to her about it. if you like her and find out she still has feelings for you, go for it. i'm actually flying to texas to stay at a hotel and hang out with my ex. like i said, it's a similar situation. having a serious discussion with her is the best way to go about it. next time she's talking to you and gets all flirty or is talking about her ex boyfriend, ask her what her intentions are, and take it from there. otherwise you'll just be wondering for a while.

 

 

 

edit: oh yeah, at least someone else knows how awesome goatee's are

So, there was this girl I saw in my summer school Health class. I added her on Myspace and stuff, and she added me and stuff.

 

 

 

Since she didn't come to school Thursday (and we have Fridays off) I decided to talk to her tonight. I continued being really nice, then she accused me of being too nice, and said it was getting to her. Then we just started talking, and we had an enjoyful coversation.

 

 

 

I have never been this freaking ecstatic for a long time. I really wanna talk to her Monday and just get to know her a lot better and stuff. THEN I will ask her.

 

 

 

So, you're welcome to give me any advice, but I may not need it.

 

 

 

If you want, also, I can tell you what happened over the course of the day, because this is just a super shortened version and I'm waay tired to type it all down.

good luck :

 

 

 

the only thing i would do though is be careful about talking to here

 

don't smother her... or be stalkerish lol

 

 

 

other than that good luck

Actually, we talked about that. It was quite funny, to be honest. She asked if I could get any nicer, and I told her that if i did I'd seem like a stalker. So, yeah, I'll try not to seem WAY too nice.

So, there was this girl I saw in my summer school Health class. I added her on Myspace and stuff, and she added me and stuff.

 

 

 

Since she didn't come to school Thursday (and we have Fridays off) I decided to talk to her tonight. I continued being really nice, then she accused me of being too nice, and said it was getting to her. Then we just started talking, and we had an enjoyful coversation.

 

 

 

I have never been this freaking ecstatic for a long time. I really wanna talk to her Monday and just get to know her a lot better and stuff. THEN I will ask her.

 

 

 

So, you're welcome to give me any advice, but I may not need it.

 

 

 

If you want, also, I can tell you what happened over the course of the day, because this is just a super shortened version and I'm waay tired to type it all down.

 

 

 

just ask here about her,

 

 

 

how are you?

 

how was your day?

 

Does this smell like Chloroform to you?

So, there was this girl I saw in my summer school Health class. I added her on Myspace and stuff, and she added me and stuff.

 

 

 

Since she didn't come to school Thursday (and we have Fridays off) I decided to talk to her tonight. I continued being really nice, then she accused me of being too nice, and said it was getting to her. Then we just started talking, and we had an enjoyful coversation.

 

 

 

I have never been this freaking ecstatic for a long time. I really wanna talk to her Monday and just get to know her a lot better and stuff. THEN I will ask her.

 

 

 

So, you're welcome to give me any advice, but I may not need it.

 

 

 

If you want, also, I can tell you what happened over the course of the day, because this is just a super shortened version and I'm waay tired to type it all down.

 

 

 

just ask here about her,

 

 

 

how are you?

 

how was your day?

 

Does this smell like Chloroform to you?

 

 

 

Lawlz.

 

 

 

It's Health, not Science.

Right, I have just turned 17, and I have become excellent friends with a girl a few years below me at school (she is 15 in Novemeber). I know her because she's on my mate's school bus, but we have never spoken in real life, as most of our chat is done over the internet or by texting. We have become attached to each other over the 6 or 7 weeks, which we have known each other for, and she actually dumped her boyfriend after just 4 days after starting a relationship with him. We are very confident in talking to each other, and both keep saying about how we love every conversation we have. At the moment all I ever want is to talk to her, and she tells me she'd rather talk to me than anyone else. But nothing yet has happened. I've told her I'd like to talk in real life at school, but we are both worried that that would be frowned upon. If that is frowned upon, then being in a relationship would be even worse, even though deep down inside we probably both want that. Anyone got any ideas or advice please?

Firstly, you should never care what others think. I know how hard that is, but caring what others think never turns out well. If you both want to be with eachother, go ahead and do it.

 

 

 

Continue talking to her, but don't try to do it ALL the time. Be nice, but agian, not TOO nice. You both have to realize that if you like eachother that much, nothing can stop the bond you feel you guys have.

cheers for the help ieatwindex.

 

but its not only what others think. my mates would follow us around the whole time and keep on making jokes when we're together. its not necessarily cos shes younger, but they'd do it for anyone, and i sort of want to know how to stop that. i know its best to ignore it, but with them, they would never stop :S also, we both have very busy lifestyles, and i dont think it would work out properly, which is why i havent had a girlfriend for so long. the only difference here is that this girl is exceptional.

I know that feeling man.But if you feel that "likeness" for her go for it.The fact that you know it will take up your time means you manage time pretty well,so go for it.The jokes...well if they do it for everybody they shouldn't bother you all that much,I mean unless words develop nuclear powers they will never hurt you.

 

 

 

Oh and Windex...Zeplo away man.

oh cheers man, when i said they'd make jokes for anyone, i meant whoever i was in love with. not other people though, as im sort of the guy who everybody knows in our whole school, if that makes any sense

For being shy or...?

I will post after this Drag.

 

 

 

Tell your friends to [bleep] off if they bother you.

i dont really know how to say it modestly, but for being really sporty if thats any help

Isn't that good?Flatters her for noticing her and makes her popular among her year.I would think that's incentive enough for her to date you.I'm no athelete,but I do know flattery without you saying a damn word helps.I think if she has a good enough attitude to ignore the jokes you should be fine.If she breaks up with you because of the joke you're better off without her hmm?

I don't see how I could be better off without her. We understand each other more than we understand anyone else. I guess you're right that flattering her without making that happen would make her want to stay with me. Also, I think I could easily warn her about the jokes, as one of my mates has already texted her a bit and made her slightly uncomfortable, but she tells me she manages to ignore him. I think I've had enough help now, before I go too far away from what my original concern was. Thanks everyone who contributed.

I don't see how I could be better off without her. We understand each other more than we understand anyone else. I guess you're right that flattering her without making that happen would make her want to stay with me. Also, I think I could easily warn her about the jokes, as one of my mates has already texted her a bit and made her slightly uncomfortable, but she tells me she manages to ignore him. I think I've had enough help now, before I go too far away from what my original concern was. Thanks everyone who contributed.

 

 

 

 

 

I meant if the jokes bothered her to that extent and she doesn't "love" you enough to stay with you regardless of that.Probably means she just doesn't love you enough =S

earlier i was talking to a girl on msn, and i'm slightly interested but not willing to admit it to her incase i get horribly rejected. But antway, towards the ened of the conversation, she asked something along the lines of "if you had to choose someone in our class to go out with, who would it be?" so as i stated earlier, i didnt say her, for the reason above.

 

However, i'm just wondering if this is a sign whether she was interested or not? :?

Well, asking that could of been a sign or not. Now if I was put in the same situation I would of said, "...you...=/"

 

 

 

Were all afraid of rejection, but if you like her, don't let that stop you. Give me more details of your intentions and I can further help you.

same situation as with me and the girl i was on about, so that was some useful advice for more than one person