Staring from afar is fine,in fact,try to catch her eye...Its kind of hard to finish this advice without knowing what you usually do in class,though...But considering nervousnes (God,thats probably not a word) when talking to her,think of her as a friend,and really open up...I guess,I haven't done this thing in class,though.

 

 

 

SMS for ever...Only in Chinese lessons,kids.

 

 

 

Blackdawn's somewhat right too.Considering 7 months in a sec 3 class you should know her somewhat well,too.

 

 

 

This is our sitting arrangement:

 

Her *Space* Someone Else

 

Someone Else *Space* Me

 

 

 

In class, I'll usually normally pay attention while look at her every few mins (Her back, cuz her face is facing the front). And I dont really know her that well as I've never really talked to her irl, everytime shes nearby I'll usually just walk without saying anything.

 

 

 

So.. any ideas on how I could get her phone number? Sms-ing sounds like a great idea.

Basic young Teenager problem - I like this girl in my class, how do I get to know her more and ask her out and hopefully become her boyfriend?

 

 

 

First of all, if you are only going to talk to her with the intention of going out with her. Then don't [bleep]ing bother. It'll just make rejection alot worse.

 

 

 

Anyway, just go up and talk to her. Once you get to know her, you'll know wheter you actually love her or not. I'm just guessing that your basing it more on looks here.

 

 

 

If you do get to know her, then watch how she acts and speaks. Bit of personal experience here, but you should be able to spot it. Oh, and find out if she has a boyfriend already or not, if she does, then still, become friends, just don't [bleep]ing jump on her when and if it finishes, if anything, she'll hate you for that as it makes it seems you wanted it to be over for your own selfish reasons, so yeah, be there for her.

 

 

 

And if she does have a boyfriend, don't let it affect you, its not the end of the world. (Though it can be a little hard letting go, just don't show that around her)

 

 

 

Better you get to know her before getting her number. She'll think you are a creep. Get to know her, start a conversation or such on MSN or whatever, remain friends and wait for the right moment to ask for her number, so it doesn't look weird.

Get them from the other people in the group.It seems more natural,and if anyone asks,say you're trying to be more sociable.Unless you're already sociable,but then you should already have her number...

 

 

 

[hide=]I remember a bunch of my friends and I were SMSing the same girl lol.We made it clear to each other and had a little competition(I won,as usual :lol: )[/hide]

ugh, i feel dumb asking this but what is SMSing?

Text message.Ing.

ugh, i feel dumb asking this but what is SMSing?

 

 

 

Texting.

 

 

 

And Dragoon, I would not suggest getting her number behind her back.

 

 

 

She'll hate him, adn her friends for not respecting her privacy.

ugh, i feel dumb asking this but what is SMSing?

 

 

 

Texting.

 

 

 

And Dragoon, I would not suggest getting her number behind her back.

 

 

 

She'll hate him, adn her friends for not respecting her privacy.

 

I meant asking for their RESPECTIVE numbers lol.That makes it seem like he's being more sociable,no?

Yeah, it does make him seem more social.

 

 

 

Sorry about the misunderstanding.

 

 

 

However, I still suggest getting to know them first, instead of just going up to people you barely know and asking for their numbers.

ugh, i feel dumb asking this but what is SMSing?

 

 

 

Texting.

 

 

 

And Dragoon, I would not suggest getting her number behind her back.

 

 

 

She'll hate him, adn her friends for not respecting her privacy.

 

 

 

ty, and i agree.

Yeah, it does make him seem more social.

 

 

 

Sorry about the misunderstanding.

 

 

 

However, I still suggest getting to know them first, instead of just going up to people you barely know and asking for their numbers.

 

 

 

I did have to get a bandage on my face for that at one point.Trust me,not very easy to tie...But,considering he sits behind her,it should be pretty okay,I mean those people (in Singapore) usually get picked for group project together...

 

 

 

Usually,I've been paired with a guy from frikking China.I have nothing against them,don't get me wrong,but he was talking to me in Chinese :wall:

Well, I'm going on the fact he just stares at her from afar, which means that he hasn't made any attempt at social contact.

 

 

 

As for the whole group project thing...

 

 

 

He's only gave two rows. Theres a chance they've never been in a group project.

First find out if she's a skank who will cheat on you if you plan on being her boyfriend. Sorry, mixing my problems with yours...

 

Get one of her friends to be like, "Hey I heard [Name] likes you." Best I got.

 

 

 

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Dragoonson, got anything for Zeplo? Me and Shade are going to wait for you to catch up.

Thanks so far for the advise everyone, I really appreciate them.

 

So basically I'll have to get to know her more before asking for her number, and no she does not have a boyfriend.

 

 

 

Thanks everyone I'll try starting tomorrow, as for now Im off to watch wrestling cya all.

 

 

 

Edit: IeatWindex, I dont think she's that kind of person but I'll keep that in mind. Also, nice idea I may try that, but Im afraid that it will spread to the whole class and people will start making fun of us and she will hate me instead of like me.

First find out if she's a skank who will cheat on you if you plan on being her boyfriend. Sorry, mixing my problems with yours...

 

Get one of her friends to be like, "Hey I heard [Name] likes you." Best I got.

 

 

 

Seriously, just because someone did that to you, doesn't mean everyone does.

 

 

 

And anyway, getting someone else to say that for you shows you have no balls.

Its the best I have. Im not good at giving advice.

 

 

 

And I put what I said lighter. Make sure she is a person you can trust. That is what I meant.

First find out if she's a skank who will cheat on you if you plan on being her boyfriend. Sorry, mixing my problems with yours...

 

Get one of her friends to be like, "Hey I heard [Name] likes you." Best I got.

 

 

 

Off-Topic

 

Dragoonson, got anything for Zeplo? Me and Shade are going to wait for you to catch up.

 

 

 

Nope,nothing.I give you full permission to use Bystrn if you have anything.

 

 

 

And Swordy,I'm Singaporean,I know group projects usually happen that way.Well,they used to in schools I went to...

@IeatWindex

 

 

 

Never know who you can trust until you give them a chance.

 

 

 

Only reason I see for cheating that can be justified, is a drunken 1 night stand.

 

 

 

Yeah, I know Dragoon, however, what I was saying that if it works that way, it doesn't really mean they have been paired together. There are other rows to think about.

Aw cmon, I can hardly think of things for Vain =D

 

 

 

Hope you can get a group project with her. HOPE.

Returned3, the mere fact that you're obsessing over this one girl is already putting you at a huge dissadvantage. Oh and the whole "I'm-afraid-to-approach-her-because-the-result-might-be-embarrassing" is exactly what makes it hard to approach her.

 

 

 

As I've explained many times before, you're better off finding some other girl, but if you insist on getting this girl's number then go up and talk to her and see how it goes from there. At some point when the conversation is going well, ask for her number. If she rejects you then you move on because the sooner you get over this obsession, the better off you will be.

 

 

 

Oh yeah and sworddude is right, don't do the whole telling a friend to tell her. It shows no no balls it's a miracle it even worked for IeatWindex.

Yea Solidus, it worked so well for me. Until 3 days ago. Read back a page or 2.

 

 

 

And no, I didn't do that. I was straight forward with her. THAT's my best advice. Talk to her and be friendly. Then after a week or 2 say something like, "[Name], would you like to go out sometime?"

 

 

 

If she rejects you, try to not look like your crushed.

 

 

 

P.S. When you become good friends, sit with her at lunch.

 

 

 

I feel like Im getting better at this stuff.

Yea Solidus, it worked so well for me. Until 3 days ago. Read back a page or 2.

 

 

 

And no, I didn't do that. I was straight forward with her. THAT's my best advice. Talk to her and be friendly. Then after a week or 2 say something like, "[Name], would you like to go out sometime?"

 

 

 

If she rejects you, try to not look like your crushed.

 

 

 

P.S. When you become good friends, sit with her at lunch.

 

 

 

I feel like Im getting better at this stuff.

 

 

 

I see, looks like you do know the right way to do it. Basically that's exactly it, just talk to her and eventually ask her out. Although one tip, I found that "I'm going to do xyz, wanna come along" has a better rate of success than "do you wanna go out sometime?". That way you're being more specific, and you're not going out of your way to do her a favor.

 

 

 

Hey I'm sorry for what happened a few days ago (I read about it but didn't want to mention it here) but you're really taking the right attitude with this stuff. Positive thinking, hoping to improve. That's perfect and I'm sure you'll get an even better girlfriend next time. If you need any help just ask; approach and talking to girls is my specialty :

Alright, my teacher gave our class an A maths project regarding Trigonometry. Unfortunately, shes not in my group but shes in the one right after.

 

 

 

Oh and one of her good friends are in my group, we're (my group) planning to stay back tomorrow afternoon to do a little bit of research/learning.

Wah seh clever man.A maths.(Me too,lol)

 

 

 

Suggestion:Nothing to suggest,I haven't been in this situation before,though I would probably get in good terms with her friend.That always helps.

Okay, what if your girlfriend tells you she loves you, and you know you don't love her back? And that she probably doesn't actually love you? No idea what to do here. Scrubs doesn't help :(

 

 

 

Mind you, dealing with 15-year old moody teenaged womens, here.

Okay, what if your girlfriend tells you she loves you, and you know you don't love her back? And that she probably doesn't actually love you? No idea what to do here. Scrubs doesn't help :(

 

 

 

Mind you, dealing with 15-year old moody teenaged womens, here.

 

I presume you used to love her. What's changed about her?