"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice

[RayOxide]

Ok, lol 11 is a bit much, but if I really think of it, an actual 'crush' thing would be 4?

 

And I'm pretty sure the older guys just wanna take advantage of something ;)

[Da_Latios]

4 is still too many. 1 is normal. I'd say 2 in extreme cases (they're very alike, etc).

 

Honestly, you can't go around trying to get with 4 girls.

[Tim]

That sounds like a dare. :

 

 

 

[Goes Clubbing]

[RayOxide]

4 is still too many. 1 is normal. I'd say 2 in extreme cases (they're very alike, etc).

 

Honestly, you can't go around trying to get with 4 girls.

 

 

 

I can. 8-)

 

 

 

Seriously though, the way I read -

 

 

 

"2. i agree with the "11 crushes doesn't constitute crush anymore" theory. You may find 11 girls attractive but if you honestly have a true crush on all of them and can see yourself being with all of them...you may want to rethink the way you see relationships. It's good to keep your options open...but not that open. Being too available can only cause problems (especially in a tight-knit social network like highschool)"

 

 

 

Was like, if you can see yourself in a decent relationship, then it's a realistic crush.

 

 

 

Anyway, I'm not really that kind of guy who thinks that I can score any girl I want if i tried, I know for a fact it would be a challenge (;p).

 

If this sounds womanizing in any way, scrap it, but if one way doesnt work, why not another?

[Lenticular_J]

Why would you not want to be attracted to more than one girl. I can name about 20 I'd date at the drop of the hat, were I to ask and they say yes and I drop my hat.

[legoman674]

here's a tip: when you two break up. don't be creepy about it.

 

 

 

my ex still goes on one of my gmail accounts regularly. mad stalkerish :lol: she doesn't realize gmail has an IP log feature.

 

Wanna scare the crap out of her? Tell her every single time she's been on your account since your breakup. :lol:

[Ax600]

need to know when to kiss a girl...

[Kiriyama]

When the moment feels right.

 

 

 

Really, we can't say when. Though if you want a time... Next Tuesday at 7pm. Do it.

[Wongtong]

When the moment feels right.

 

 

 

Really, we can't say when. Though if you want a time... Next Tuesday at 7pm. Do it.

 

Yeah, you can't really set a time or anything; but what do I know.

 

 

 

I reckon it's right to do it when you get into one of those lovey dovey heart to hearts where you end up staring at the other person lovingly like this: and they're looking right back at you. ;D

[Faux]

here's a tip: when you two break up. don't be creepy about it.

 

 

 

my ex still goes on one of my gmail accounts regularly. mad stalkerish :lol: she doesn't realize gmail has an IP log feature.

 

Wanna scare the crap out of her? Tell her every single time she's been on your account since your breakup. :lol:

 

 

 

lol nah, i've been ignoring her for several weeks now. took her out of facebook, msn and i turned off my phone for a while just so she'd stop calling

[Da_Latios]

need to know when to kiss a girl...

 

Right after the rooster crows three times.

[brunokiller]

here's a tip: when you two break up. don't be creepy about it.

 

 

 

my ex still goes on one of my gmail accounts regularly. mad stalkerish :lol: she doesn't realize gmail has an IP log feature.

 

Wanna scare the crap out of her? Tell her every single time she's been on your account since your breakup. :lol:

 

 

 

lol nah, i've been ignoring her for several weeks now. took her out of facebook, msn and i turned off my phone for a while just so she'd stop calling

 

 

 

Next time she calls you just accept the phonecall, put it somewhere where you won't hear it, and entertain yourself thinking about her telephone bill.

 

 

 

Goddess ftw. :

[Nekyia]

So.. There`s this guy I like.. But I don`t know whether or not I should tell him that.. So I would kind of like some advice as to whether I should or shouldn`t tell him.. If I should tell him, then what exactly should I be saying, and if I shouldn`t tell him, then what should I do?.. There's a bit of a story behind it all so I'll try and keep it short.. (haha.. I tried to keep it short and ended up with like 1000 words >.>.. so it's a bit of read if you want to try and offer your opinion, sorry! ^^;)

 

 

 

[hide=Story]There's this guy in a different class at the college I go to (we'll call him Darryl for this..).. I was friends with him and the rest of the class for a while and we'd always joke around together about doing it in the bathroom or something silly like that.. Then one day my friend wanted to ask out some guy she knew to her son's hockey game but couldn't get up the courage, so I said 'If I ask Darryl will you just go ask that guy?' and so she agreed.. So I found Darryl and asked him what he was doing that night and he said he was taking his snowmobile out that night and asked why I wanted to know.. So I told him I wanted him to come with me to a hockey game.. He basically told me that hockey was lame and for farmers lol :P.. But he said to give him my number anyways and that he couldn't give me his because he didn't want his old lady to get mad at him (the way he said it i figured he was joking about being in a relationship already..)

 

 

 

So later that night I get a phone call and he tells me to come meet him at a bar.. So I agreed.. That led to one of the greatest times I've ever had.. In short we basically went on one awesome adventure, involving crazy snowmobiling, going to the bar and a casino, and going on a roadtrip to a completely different city and getting a hotel room and skipping school the next day.. The reason we went to the other city though was he wanted me to hang out with him all for the next day and not go to school because he and his gf (actually his fiance I later found out) were having a fight.. She called while we were hanging out that night and was with a bunch of guys who were making fun of and insulting Darryl so that he could hear them in the background.. He was pretty upset by that and that's why he asked me to keep him company for the rest of the night and the next day.. When we returned the next night he was locked out of his house and so he had to go stay at his brothers.. Now before that adventure with him I wasn't really sure I actually liked him, I knew I liked him enough that it'd be a cool to hang out with him outside of school.. But after spending that time with him I learned soo much more about him and I was basically hooked ^^'.. However he had a fiance so I just tried to hide my feelings and told myself to just be happy that we could be friends.. Then the other weekend he came by my house for a party my roommate was throwing.. We ended up on another crazy adventure which resulted in us basically hijacking my roommates truck and not coming back until after noon the next day.. Then a couple days after that he stopped by the house asking if I knew where his wallet and what not was.. I told him I didn't and then he told me that his fiance was done with him and that she had done all she could to end it, even giving their month's notice on the house they were living in and so now he was living at his moms..

 

 

 

So for the next while I started to get my hopes up about this, since he was available now, I figured I'd casually ask him to come watch a movie or what not with me and see what happened after that.. However just the other day I phoned his moms house and apparently he wasn't living there.. And then yesterday he stopped by to see me at school.. And before he left he said "well I gotta get going, my old lady's waiting".. So after getting my hopes up and allowing myself to think about how much I liked him, he's back with his gf/fiance.. So now I don't know what to do.. He's told me enough stories that I really do wonder if they'll be able to work things out well enough between them to get married and be happy (although most of what he told me he told me while drunk so it could've sounded worse than it was).. So that's my predicament.. He came by yesterday and I was thinking about telling him I liked him.. But I figured I'd try and go back to the friend thing and just see if I could handle knowing how much I liked him without letting him at least know that.. He left and I felt horrible.. So I think I really want to let him know how I feel.. But if he's really happy with his current woman then I want us to still be friends like we are because I do want him to just be happy because he's still my friend no matter what..[/hide]

 

 

 

So yea.. there it is.. All I know is I really like him, and that I think it really could be something amazing.. But because of his current situation I really am at a loss for what I should do.. So if anyone has anything they want to say about this then please do.. I'll take anything I can get =s

[Lenticular_J]

I think it's cool when girls say they like you. Although it'd probably be more sneaky and woman-like to have one of your friends tell him. I vote do that.

 

 

 

Or, put on an all-leather outfit, and practically force yourself onto him. 100% of the time it works every time.

 

 

 

...Well, on me.

[Kiriyama]

Honestly, I think you've got the right idea on remaining friends with him

[Faux]

Next time she calls you just accept the phonecall, put it somewhere where you won't hear it, and entertain yourself thinking about her telephone bill.

 

 

 

Goddess ftw. :

 

 

 

wait what she did that? that's pretty rude. when i pick up the phone i usually just give an excuse "im waiting for a call" or "my battery's dying"

[MotherBrainII]

 

Socially, it's for the same reason. Boys can't match the mental maturity of girls their own age.

 

 

 

Mind standing still while I excoriate you for that?]

 

 

 

EDIT: Though I admit it's true in some cases.

[RayOxide]

OK, so, I was talking to my friend, saying one of his friends (also my friend) was going out with some girl, and for some weird reason, god knows what goes on in his head, he shouted out to the girl i like (not knowing i do) hey, he (me) likes you!

 

 

 

I was like

 

[bleep][bleep][bleep][bleep][bleep].

[Tim]

Best response, Shrug it off. If se knows your intimidated by that move she knows your very shy.

 

 

 

Nekyia, Jesus freaking crist! Where the hell do I go for these rough nights with various woman?? :lol:

 

 

 

It might be best to remain a loyal friend to him, someone he knows he can trust (which seems like he cant realy trust his err..fiance') and if the moment comes were you two spark (emotional, not sexual... ) Then home in on him opening his heart out to you.

[Ouchy]

OK, so, I was talking to my friend, saying one of his friends (also my friend) was going out with some girl, and for some weird reason, god knows what goes on in his head, he shouted out to the girl i like (not knowing i do) hey, he (me) likes you!

 

 

 

I was like

 

[bleep].

 

 

 

And what can we do about it? It happens. Mates do that kind of stuff. At least he got you a step further then what you already were at.

[RayOxide]

And what can we do about it? It happens. Mates do that kind of stuff. At least he got you a step further then what you already were at.

 

 

 

Never said i wanted anyone to 'try' to do anything about it, but I guess i would tell ya's of my epic failism.

[brunokiller]

Next time she calls you just accept the phonecall, put it somewhere where you won't hear it, and entertain yourself thinking about her telephone bill.

 

 

 

Goddess ftw. :

 

 

 

wait what she did that? that's pretty rude. when i pick up the phone i usually just give an excuse "im waiting for a call" or "my battery's dying"

 

 

 

I was under the impression you were talking about a stalking ex there, but oh well.

[Rebdragon]

Never said i wanted anyone to 'try' to do anything about it, but I guess i would tell ya's of my epic failism.

 

Epic failism? Dude, the moment you just described is when you're supposed to capitalize :thumbup: .

[RayOxide]

Never said i wanted anyone to 'try' to do anything about it, but I guess i would tell ya's of my epic failism.

 

Epic failism? Dude, the moment you just described is when you're supposed to capitalize :thumbup: .

 

 

 

Exactly. :?

[Faitality]

Never said i wanted anyone to 'try' to do anything about it, but I guess i would tell ya's of my epic failism.

 

Epic failism? Dude, the moment you just described is when you're supposed to capitalize :thumbup: .

 

 

 

Word. Afterward you should have gone over and apologized to her for your friends' obnoxious behavior and struck up a conversation. :D