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Never said i wanted anyone to 'try' to do anything about it, but I guess i would tell ya's of my epic failism.

 

Epic failism? Dude, the moment you just described is when you're supposed to capitalize :thumbup: .

 

 

 

Word. Afterward you should have gone over and apologized to her for your friends' obnoxious behavior and struck up a conversation. :D

 

 

 

Hey, I may be able to think fast to get myself and friends out of a bad position, but I cant think of how to talk to a girl that I like for crap.

 

I think of it, I go for it, then im like.

 

 

 

"Gah, I'm not ready.. Redo in a minute.." until I reach the.. "This wont work anyway. No use trying" thing.

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Word. Afterward you should have gone over and apologized to her for your friends' obnoxious behavior and struck up a conversation. :D

 

 

 

Hey, I may be able to think fast to get myself and friends out of a bad position, but I cant think of how to talk to a girl that I like for crap.

 

I think of it, I go for it, then im like.

 

 

 

"Gah, I'm not ready.. Redo in a minute.." until I reach the.. "This wont work anyway. No use trying" thing.

 

 

 

Ohh, she's one of those "admire from afar" crushes?

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No, he's being one of those "wimps".

 

 

 

GO GET HER DAMMIT. TAKE YOUR CAVE MAN CLUB AND BASH HER IF YOU HAVE TO.

 

 

 

No, wait, don't do that. That's rape. Ask her if you can take her to dinner. And then maybe she'll want the head-bashery.

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No, he's being one of those "wimps".

 

 

 

GO GET HER DAMMIT. TAKE YOUR CAVE MAN CLUB AND BASH HER IF YOU HAVE TO.

 

 

 

No, wait, don't do that. That's rape. Ask her if you can take her to dinner. And then maybe she'll want the head-bashery.

 

 

 

1. Yes, exactly.

 

 

 

2. She's 'dating' someone already >.>

 

 

 

3. I'm 14. O_o

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Just because she's dating someone doesn't mean you can't get closer to her.

 

Just don't break them apart whatever you do.

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I think it's cool when girls say they like you. Although it'd probably be more sneaky and woman-like to have one of your friends tell him. I vote do that.

 

 

 

Or, put on an all-leather outfit, and practically force yourself onto him. 100% of the time it works every time.

 

 

 

...Well, on me.

 

Hahaha, I have a story about something like that. Short version? I like my friend and she said she likes me (and her friends clarified this) but says no everytime I ask. :lol:

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need to know when to kiss a girl...

 

still need info on that... -.-

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need to know when to kiss a girl...

 

still need info on that... -.-

 

 

 

Look all we can [bleep] tell you is when the moment feels right!

 

 

 

What can you [bleep] expect?

 

 

 

Very true Sword. But Ax, ill let you in on a secret ;)

 

 

 

Just relax, and let your instincts do everything. I'v done that, and even though my girlfriend broke up with me a while ago (though I can say that I'v found someone much much better <3: ) she still goes around claiming that Im a wonderful kisser, its odd.

 

 

 

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need to know when to kiss a girl...

 

still need info on that... -.-

 

 

 

Look all we can [bleep] tell you is when the moment feels right!

 

 

 

What can you [bleep] expect?

 

 

 

Very true Sword. But Ax, ill let you in on a secret ;)

 

 

 

Just relax, and let your instincts do everything. I'v done that, and even though my girlfriend broke up with me a while ago (though I can say that I'v found someone much much better <3: ) she still goes around claiming that Im a wonderful kisser, its odd.

 

 

 

if it works, it works. If it fails, learn from experience.

 

 

 

And make sure, she doesn't have a tasty drink in her hand, people who have seen the adverts where they are about to kiss, and the female turns her head at the last minute, to sip her drink. ah man that add makes me piss myself.

 

 

 

but yeah, when the moment is right, or outside her house.

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need to know when to kiss a girl...

 

still need info on that... -.-

 

Jesus [bleep]ing Christ.

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need to know when to kiss a girl...

 

still need info on that... -.-

 

 

 

At 8 O'clock. When the sun don't shine and the moon don't glow.

 

 

 

What advice do you need? When you feel right. And if you are really worried, ask if you can kiss her. Then if she says no, you can pull that line, "I'm glad I asked, I would hate it if I made you feel uncomfortable".

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So.. There`s this guy I like.. But I don`t know whether or not I should tell him that.. So I would kind of like some advice as to whether I should or shouldn`t tell him.. If I should tell him, then what exactly should I be saying, and if I shouldn`t tell him, then what should I do?.. There's a bit of a story behind it all so I'll try and keep it short.. (haha.. I tried to keep it short and ended up with like 1000 words >.>.. so it's a bit of read if you want to try and offer your opinion, sorry! ^^;)

 

 

 

[hide=Story]There's this guy in a different class at the college I go to (we'll call him Darryl for this..).. I was friends with him and the rest of the class for a while and we'd always joke around together about doing it in the bathroom or something silly like that.. Then one day my friend wanted to ask out some guy she knew to her son's hockey game but couldn't get up the courage, so I said 'If I ask Darryl will you just go ask that guy?' and so she agreed.. So I found Darryl and asked him what he was doing that night and he said he was taking his snowmobile out that night and asked why I wanted to know.. So I told him I wanted him to come with me to a hockey game.. He basically told me that hockey was lame and for farmers lol :P.. But he said to give him my number anyways and that he couldn't give me his because he didn't want his old lady to get mad at him (the way he said it i figured he was joking about being in a relationship already..)

 

 

 

So later that night I get a phone call and he tells me to come meet him at a bar.. So I agreed.. That led to one of the greatest times I've ever had.. In short we basically went on one awesome adventure, involving crazy snowmobiling, going to the bar and a casino, and going on a roadtrip to a completely different city and getting a hotel room and skipping school the next day.. The reason we went to the other city though was he wanted me to hang out with him all for the next day and not go to school because he and his gf (actually his fiance I later found out) were having a fight.. She called while we were hanging out that night and was with a bunch of guys who were making fun of and insulting Darryl so that he could hear them in the background.. He was pretty upset by that and that's why he asked me to keep him company for the rest of the night and the next day.. When we returned the next night he was locked out of his house and so he had to go stay at his brothers.. Now before that adventure with him I wasn't really sure I actually liked him, I knew I liked him enough that it'd be a cool to hang out with him outside of school.. But after spending that time with him I learned soo much more about him and I was basically hooked ^^'.. However he had a fiance so I just tried to hide my feelings and told myself to just be happy that we could be friends.. Then the other weekend he came by my house for a party my roommate was throwing.. We ended up on another crazy adventure which resulted in us basically hijacking my roommates truck and not coming back until after noon the next day.. Then a couple days after that he stopped by the house asking if I knew where his wallet and what not was.. I told him I didn't and then he told me that his fiance was done with him and that she had done all she could to end it, even giving their month's notice on the house they were living in and so now he was living at his moms..

 

 

 

So for the next while I started to get my hopes up about this, since he was available now, I figured I'd casually ask him to come watch a movie or what not with me and see what happened after that.. However just the other day I phoned his moms house and apparently he wasn't living there.. And then yesterday he stopped by to see me at school.. And before he left he said "well I gotta get going, my old lady's waiting".. So after getting my hopes up and allowing myself to think about how much I liked him, he's back with his gf/fiance.. So now I don't know what to do.. He's told me enough stories that I really do wonder if they'll be able to work things out well enough between them to get married and be happy (although most of what he told me he told me while drunk so it could've sounded worse than it was).. So that's my predicament.. He came by yesterday and I was thinking about telling him I liked him.. But I figured I'd try and go back to the friend thing and just see if I could handle knowing how much I liked him without letting him at least know that.. He left and I felt horrible.. So I think I really want to let him know how I feel.. But if he's really happy with his current woman then I want us to still be friends like we are because I do want him to just be happy because he's still my friend no matter what..[/hide]

 

 

 

So yea.. there it is.. All I know is I really like him, and that I think it really could be something amazing.. But because of his current situation I really am at a loss for what I should do.. So if anyone has anything they want to say about this then please do.. I'll take anything I can get =s

 

 

 

Jesus. That's quite a situation. Honestly I don't see their relationship as being very stable. Ethically, just be close friends with him. or you can be the maniulative [bleep] that tears them apart for a stab at "true" happiness. If you like drama, tell him how you feel and let it play out. Atleast that way you can say you tried. Is his relationship issue his fault or his "old ladies"? (personally I wouoldn't even want to involve my self with this guy judging by his actions)

 

 

 

need to know when to kiss a girl...

 

still need info on that... -.-

 

 

 

Don't beg for advice we can't give you. If you have a girl in mind, keep meeting her in person. Eventually a moment will come. Yes you can force it, but it's better if it just...happens. I've found that you can corner people into situations wear you can kiss them, but I can tell you from personal experience they are far less pleasant.

 

 

 

OK, so, I was talking to my friend, saying one of his friends (also my friend) was going out with some girl, and for some weird reason, god knows what goes on in his head, he shouted out to the girl i like (not knowing i do) hey, he (me) likes you!

 

 

 

I was like

 

[bleep].

 

 

 

Now's your chance! Strike while the target is confused. Shock and Awe, Shock and Awe!

 

In a more serious manner, she now knows you like her. Act now or never, you'd be surprised how well an open heart works. Be forewarned it could blowup in your face though. I hope this girl atleast knows you. If not, play it off like your friend was just being an [wagon]. That can work too. (But I'd take advantage of the opurtunity if I were you, as trying to admit you like her much later than this situation could lead to higher chances of disappointment). All depends on the girl I suppose. Good luck.

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Okay, I have a typical problem for a 16 year old guy, but it's getting out of hand. I'm afraid it's making me partially insane, and that I won't be able to start a relationship with any woman until this is resolved.

 

 

 

[hide=Long, emotionally disturbed story]There's this girl that goes to my school, I never really noticed her or who she was until the beginning of this year. First semester I had 1 class with her, this semester I only see her in the halls. She's extraordinarily beautiful, and I didn't think much of it during the first semester. Second semester, I don't know how or why, I just kept thinking about her, the more I saw her the more beautiful she was. This is unlike any beauty I've seen in any other woman, she's literally breathtaking. Unbelievable. So beautiful, It makes me completely uninterested in any other woman, even the others that I've found attractive before. Time passes, and it starts crawling through my head, eating me away. Before I know it, she's on my mind almost all the time. Recently, she's even appeared in some of my dreams. Doesn't play a big role in the dreams, but enough to keep my mind focused on this situation. My mind is a swirling pool of all these thoughts, hopes, and distractions, spinning faster and faster. All this is creating the strongest feeling of what I may or may not be love, that I've ever experienced in all my life. My brain is swarming with these thoughts so much, that at certain times I'm momentarily convinced that we are in a relationship. In my head, we're so happy, so perfect for eachother, but in reality, I fear for my mental health...

 

 

 

You might ask, "why don't you just talk to her or ask her out, you yutz?" Well first off, I'm 16, a sophomore, and she's 18, a senior. Second, We hardly even know eachother. I know a little about her, like her name, her brother, and I think I've talked to her dad before. I think she knows my name, and probably knows my sister (although she's in college now), but that's it. We hang out with entirely different groups of people, and there's not even a time of day where I could talk to her, if I decided to for any reason. Even more so, I'm a rather quiet, calm, mellow guy; this would be something that nobody, not even my family, would expect out of me.

 

 

 

I try to forget about her, but the more I try to forget, the more I think. And the more I think, the more she becomes a part of my mind. I wouldn't be comfortable revealing this to any of my real life friends, because they, knowing me, her, and her/my friends, would find the whole thing ridiculous and laughable. I find it ridiculous myself, and desperately want to forget about the whole thing, knowing there's not a snowball's chance in hell I'll end up with her. I try to stop thinking about it; I try to think about other women, life as it is without relationships, anything, but it's really startling and depressing to see how much of an impact she's left on my mind. Whatever I think about, whatever normal scenario I create in my mind, she's there. It's like I've bottled up my emotions so much that she's permanently left an imprint on the walls of my mind. Sometimes at home I just sit and think, in complete dismay, blowing off the depression through long, deep sighs.

 

 

 

I want her to somehow know, but I don't want to tell her personally. And I don't want her to know the severity of the situation. I just want her to know how I feel, regardless of how much younger I am, or how little she knows me. I really just want anybody to know. I'd be uncomfortable telling this to my parents or siblings, and am really only comfortable telling it to you guys, or other friends I don't know in person. I want to know how I can get all this off my mind.

 

 

 

In the back of my head there's always the burning desire, the longing to be with her, I just want to hold her in my arms, look into her face... But I just want to forget it all. I fear that I'll require professional psychological help. Are feelings this strong in a boy my age abnormal for a woman I hardly even know? I know that it's normal to a degree, but the fact that it's completely flushing my mind at times, I'm starting to feel like a creep... Is this creepy at all? This is her last year at the high school, and I fear that during the last day, I'll be an internal emotional wreck, distracting me from my semester tests, and possibly damaging me further.

 

 

 

Bottom line, this woman who hardly knows me is controlling my mind, distracting me from my normal everyday life, and although I desire to be with her, I just want to forget it all. I want these feelings to disappear. Do you guys have any kind of advice, suggestions, or concerns?[/hide]

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Okay, I have a typical problem for a 16 year old guy, but it's getting out of hand. I'm afraid it's making me partially insane, and that I won't be able to start a relationship with any woman until this is resolved.

 

 

 

 

Alright, it's not uncommon. From what I know, at least, you'll probably just forget about it after a while. ( a while might be a year or more) But, you have two main options, in my opinion.

 

1: Make an excuse to talk to her. Get to know her a bit. Talk to her on IM/MSN. Whatever. see how it goes from there.

 

2: Find her flaws. Everyone has them. Think about them, exaggerate them, try to look at different girls, and eventually it should pass.

 

I'm not a guy, but that's from some experiences i've had, and what other people have talked to me about. Someone else will probably have better advice than me, though.

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no offense, but it won't workout because she is much older than you. The best way i see it happening is if you tell her. There is that chance she will say yes and if she doesn't then you move on with your life. Yes you will be heartbroken, but you will eventually move on.

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no offense, but it won't workout because she is much older than you. The best way i see it happening is if you tell her. There is that chance she will say yes and if she doesn't then you move on with your life. Yes you will be heartbroken, but you will eventually move on.

 

EDIT: Noticed the age differences, and what his grade was. still, not the biggest difference. As for telling her, no, no no. No.

 

If some random guy walked up to me and said he loved me, I would be really creeped out, and that kid would probably get a bad reputation in the school. Not a good idea.

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I don't have any way to contact or talk to her, really. I only ever see her in the halls, where I wouldn't have enough time or room to say any more than a couple words to her. I don't know her MSN/AIM (which I don't even use anymore), and I don't have Facebook or anything. Although I'll probably get it in the near future, my mom's pressuring me into it, lol. Finding the flaws sounds like a really good idea, and I've tried to do that, without much success, although I know a couple. I'll keep trying that, along with whatever anyone else throws at me. I know that I'll move on, but I just want to find a way to end this quickly, so I can thoroughly enjoy the rest of my school year.

 

 

 

Thanks both of you.

 

 

 

Perhaps it'll help if I stop listening to Linkin Park, that seems to escalate the drama..

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Well, again, the best thing to do: Find something you two have in common, or make some excuse to start a conversation. Like a real conversation, not just a few words. Get to know her better, get her IM/msn, and talk to her. And if it doesn't work out, you will move on eventually.

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It'd be rough to actually date her. You'd get a few months and she's off to college. Lucky most of my upperclassmen are nasty. Except for the sophomores. Those girls are top-notch.

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If you can't think of any flaws, or want to find more, try asking a friend who you can trust to point out a few things. It's worked for me with seemingly perfect guys in the past.

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My 4-month girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. She said that she got bored and that she started taking interest in another person (who, for those who remember, was the same guy which I posted about). ;_;

 

 

 

Does anyone know how I should approach trying to date her again? Obviously I won't try for a bit. I still really like her, but she said that I liked her way too much when she barely liked me enough to date me.

 

 

 

I'm not too worried about the person that she's interested in, however. He's .. "funny", but they're completely different personalities. I don't see it lasting long if they do date.

 

 

 

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My 4-month girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. She said that she got bored and that she started taking interest in another person (who, for those who remember, was the same guy which I posted about). ;_;

 

 

 

Does anyone know how I should approach trying to date her again? Obviously I won't try for a bit. I still really like her, but she said that I liked her way too much when she barely liked me enough to date me.

 

 

 

I'm not too worried about the person that she's interested in, however. He's .. "funny", but they're completely different personalities. I don't see it lasting long if they do date.

 

 

 

Thanks.

 

If she's just going to get bored with you and then chase after someone else then she isn't going to be worth your time.

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Agreeing with riku here, she's obviously not worth it if she gets "bored" of you after 4 months.

 

 

 

In other news, a close friend (who just so happens to be a girl) from years ago randomly popped up on Facebook recently and has added me.

 

She left my school in 4th grade so I'm hoping we can meet up for coffee and possibly a film with a little bit of catch-up, and see where that leads.

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