May 18, 201016 yr Don't worry lads, I have it sorted ;) <waits on facebook til she comes online> <Waits 15 mins or so before talking to her> <She says she has go, gives me her number so I can text her if I "get bored"> Aaaand BAM, I get her number without even trying. 8-) You're such a pimp. :thumbup:
May 18, 201016 yr How would you feel if your new girlfriend did this to you?If my new girlfriend (more on that below) was not all that into me and realized how unsatisfied with her current situation she was when she started flirting with all the guys she met at a party, I wouldn't blame her. I'd be bummed out, but it wouldn't be anyone's fault. But I'm not even necessarily going to go out with Ana, she just sort of made me wear my real eyes. I'm not a heartless psychopath, I realize I hurt my ex, but the only blame to be pinned on anyone is for my staying with her, and leaving was the only way I could correct it at least a little. You could say that this same thing happened to me about a month and a half ago. I realized that the girl I was dating, I just didn't have feelings for her anymore, so I decided that the best thing to do was break up with her. I now have another girlfriend. Just a general question, how long do you think you need to wait before dating someone else if you initiate the break-up, assuming you want to respect your ex's feelings? There's no such thing as regret. A regret means you are unhappy with the person you are now,and if you're unhappy with the person you are, you change yourself. Thatregret will no longer be a regret, because it will help to form the new,better you. So really, a regret isn't a regret. It's experience.
May 18, 201016 yr How would you feel if your new girlfriend did this to you?It was the right thing to do. It's worse to continue being with her when you don't want to be. Then you're just lying to her about your feelings. - 99 fletching | 99 thieving | 99 construction | 99 herblore | 99 smithing | 99 woodcutting - - 99 runecrafting - 99 prayer - 125 combat - 95 farming - - Blog - DeviantART - Book Reviews & Blog
May 19, 201016 yr JeffWilson is P-I-M-P Why the hell didn't you take her initial offer I must wonder? What's so bad about beign seen by a bunch of people? Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
May 19, 201016 yr JeffWilson is P-I-M-P Why the hell didn't you take her initial offer I must wonder? What's so bad about beign seen by a bunch of people?She may see it as a sign as he's willing to wait. Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming!
May 19, 201016 yr JeffWilson is P-I-M-P Why the hell didn't you take her initial offer I must wonder? What's so bad about beign seen by a bunch of people? Awkwardness I guess. Cos I knew most of the people there, of which there were only like 40 at the time. Also being rather sober, which affects by decision making process lol. I was kinda sarcastic about being "smooth", getting her number really shouldn't be a problem after she wanted to get with me.
May 19, 201016 yr How would you feel if your new girlfriend did this to you?It was the right thing to do. It's worse to continue being with her when you don't want to be. Then you're just lying to her about your feelings.Just the way he said it made him seem shallow, the whole "she's hotter thing". But yes, I agree that it is good to be honest at least. "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti
May 19, 201016 yr ^ I said it's both personality and physique. Jeff, I see that as caring a bit too much about what other people think. Matt: You want that eh? You want everything good for you. You want everything that's--falls off garbage can Camera guy: Whoa, haha, are you okay dude? Matt: You want anything funny that happens, don't you? Camera guy: still laughing Matt: You want the funny shit that happens here and there, you think it comes out of your [bleep]ing [wagon] pushes garbage can down, don't you? You think it's funny? It comes out of here! running towards Camera guy Camera guy: runs away still laughing Matt: You think the funny comes out of your mother[bleep]ing creativity? Comes out of Satan, mother[bleep]er! nn--ngh! pushes Camera guy down Camera guy: Hoooholy [bleep]! Matt: FUNNY ISN'T REAL! FUNNY ISN'T REAL!
May 19, 201016 yr How would you feel if your new girlfriend did this to you?It was the right thing to do. It's worse to continue being with her when you don't want to be. Then you're just lying to her about your feelings.Just the way he said it made him seem shallow, the whole "she's hotter thing". But yes, I agree that it is good to be honest at least.Yeah the way he said it here made him seem shallow. I guess we can only hope that's not how he said it to his (ex) girlfriend :P - 99 fletching | 99 thieving | 99 construction | 99 herblore | 99 smithing | 99 woodcutting - - 99 runecrafting - 99 prayer - 125 combat - 95 farming - - Blog - DeviantART - Book Reviews & Blog
May 19, 201016 yr Yeah, i guess I do care a bit, but I did weigh up the situation, and it was one of the parties where people are stading around talking, not getting really drunk and doing stupid things. It was my friend's girlfriend's birthday, so yeah. Did I mention some of her family were in the room at the time? Yeah...
May 21, 201016 yr Did I mention some of her family were in the room at the time? Yeah...Ohh :blink: . Good thing you broke it before things gotten serious.
May 21, 201016 yr I meant my friend's parents, cos it was her 18th. Not the chick I'm talking about...
May 21, 201016 yr I meant my friend's parents, cos it was her 18th. Not the chick I'm talking about...Do they know you well? Or at least enough to pay attention to you? Roses are red,Violets are blue.This line doesn't rhyme,And neither does this one.
May 21, 201016 yr Yeah lol, I'd sure I'd been talking to her mum for about 30 mins earlier lol. Anyways...that was last weekned, next topic plz? :mrgreen:
May 22, 201016 yr Friday night...anyone got any updates?I've gotten nowhere, and it's taken me 7 days to do it :/I need to get my head on straight and focus Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
May 22, 201016 yr Friday night...anyone got any updates?I've gotten nowhere, and it's taken me 7 days to do it :/I need to get my head on straight and focusOr the exact opposite. Don't focus at all.. just go for it. 99 Hunter - November 1st, 200899 Cooking -July 22nd, 200999 Firemaking - July 29th, 201099 Fletching - December 30th, 2010
May 22, 201016 yr A worthy opinion, but if i don't focus I'm gonna end up chiilling at my house watching TV and surfing the internet. Which, while fun...is highly unsocial. I gotta get back into the socializing game. Working weekends makes it harder than it should be :/ I'm about ready to give up on this "new" chick anyway. I hate starting every text converastion. not only because i don't have the texting plan to pay for it all, but it makes me feel creepy being the one to start everything. Shame, but there's plenty of chicks out there. Bound to be another, more willing one around here somewhere. Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
May 22, 201016 yr On a positive note, I think I may have found someone who I would actually consider for a relationship. Plus it's harder to emotionally detach myself like I usually do, making escalating with a thought out game plan harder, making it more of a challenge, and making me more into her. I'm getting the all too familiar "omgtellherhowyoufeelandinviteheroverandthrowheronthebed" feelings from years ago. Kinda makes it more fun actually. I think I may have gotten ljbf :( She's naturally flirty, but then throws out IODs She wanted to have sex one night, but we were both drunk and I was hoping for a relationship so I didn't do it. No idea if that's what screwed it up, or that I mistook her flirting as something more serious. Or maybe she's attracted, but still pissed at me from the other night... Except I can't ask her because it would be needy..... It's the perfect situation to caveman but I'm good friends with her so I can't. fml :wall:
May 22, 201016 yr Since I didn't want to put it with the others on the Today... thread... My girlfriend and I are officially broken up. She says she just wants a break from dating for now, and says that there might be a possibility of us getting back together later. I really hope we do. I could barely sleep last night, and puked this morning when I got up because I was (and still kind of am) so scared we would never be together again... and crying really sucks when it's over something serious... Oh well, can only hope... Unfinished netherrack symbol of Khorne. Never forget. ~creeper face w/single tear~ DO YOU HEAR THE VOICES TOO?!?!
May 23, 201016 yr Since I didn't want to put it with the others on the Today... thread... My girlfriend and I are officially broken up. She says she just wants a break from dating for now, and says that there might be a possibility of us getting back together later. I really hope we do. I could barely sleep last night, and puked this morning when I got up because I was (and still kind of am) so scared we would never be together again... and crying really sucks when it's over something serious... Oh well, can only hope... bolded part worries me a bit. If you trust her, and know her, you know if you will get back together or not. If you do, great. If you don't...I really hope you've gotten all the negative feelings out of your system by then. Throwing up when a girl breaks up with you? Sheesh, that's pretty rough. But hey. Enjoy your new found singularity. Think of something taht she would never let you do. Then do it. a million times. just to spite her. Seriously...it feels good. @IamDan I think you might be over analyzing the situation a little bit. She wanted to have sex with you, and now your being friend zoned? That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Maybe it was a one-time drunk offer? Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
May 23, 201016 yr @IamDan I think you might be over analyzing the situation a little bit. She wanted to have sex with you, and now your being friend zoned? That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Maybe it was a one-time drunk offer? That's what I meant by ljbf. We had a little thing going years ago and she friend zoned me, I didn't talk to her for like a year and came back. Yeah not much I can do except see what happens.
May 23, 201016 yr bolded part worries me a bit. If you trust her, and know her, you know if you will get back together or not. If you do, great. If you don't...I really hope you've gotten all the negative feelings out of your system by then. Throwing up when a girl breaks up with you? Sheesh, that's pretty rough. But hey. Enjoy your new found singularity. Think of something taht she would never let you do. Then do it. a million times. just to spite her. Seriously...it feels good. The thing is.... she was my first girlfriend. And any other girls I would consider going out with either A: Don't even talk to me ever, and B: Have a boyfriend already. I had a bonfire with some friends tonight, so I'm feeling better. And I only threw up because when I was brushing my teeth this morning a sudden gag-reflex occured, and yea... I didn't eat much today lol. And no, I could never do anything like that. I love her too much, and would never do anything to hurt her in any way. Yes I am sad we broke up, but I'm not angry at her or anything. Whenever I see her upset or crying... god I just feel awful and want to try everything to make her feel better... Ah well. Just wanted to say that lol. (Why am I even on here right now? It's like... midnight lol) Unfinished netherrack symbol of Khorne. Never forget. ~creeper face w/single tear~ DO YOU HEAR THE VOICES TOO?!?!
May 23, 201016 yr bolded part worries me a bit. If you trust her, and know her, you know if you will get back together or not. If you do, great. If you don't...I really hope you've gotten all the negative feelings out of your system by then. Throwing up when a girl breaks up with you? Sheesh, that's pretty rough. But hey. Enjoy your new found singularity. Think of something taht she would never let you do. Then do it. a million times. just to spite her. Seriously...it feels good. The thing is.... she was my first girlfriend. And any other girls I would consider going out with either A: Don't even talk to me ever, and B: Have a boyfriend already. I had a bonfire with some friends tonight, so I'm feeling better. And I only threw up because when I was brushing my teeth this morning a sudden gag-reflex occured, and yea... I didn't eat much today lol. And no, I could never do anything like that. I love her too much, and would never do anything to hurt her in any way. Yes I am sad we broke up, but I'm not angry at her or anything. Whenever I see her upset or crying... god I just feel awful and want to try everything to make her feel better... Ah well. Just wanted to say that lol. (Why am I even on here right now? It's like... midnight lol) It's your first girlfriend, you didn't love her, you just think you did. Three months banishment to 9gag is something i would never wish upon anybody, not even my worst enemy.
May 23, 201016 yr The thing is.... she was my first girlfriend. That's why then...I guess you're always going to feel something for your first serious girlfriend, but the chances are your first will not be your last.
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