wow looks like the creator of plenty of fish is a massive homophobe if horny men want to talk to horny men while pretending to be horny women why is that any of his business. this is just another example of the government interfering in the lives of hard working americans.

 

us horny men of the world should start a class action lawsuit against this "markyus" person

Exactly! I'm glad someone understands :D

On another note, was reading CS Lewis' The Four Loves and saw an interestif/good quote: "Love, having become a god, becomes a demon."

Just realized: I can't message cougars and [bleep] over age 37 anymore.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YKss2uYpih8

Clearly Markus has never heard of (X/2)+7

Some people are better businessmen than whatever they're "supposed" to do.

 

Like George Lucas. No self-respecting creative genius would create the prequels and CGI the thing like he did, but as a businessman...

Some people are better businessmen than whatever they're "supposed" to do.

 

Like George Lucas. No self-respecting creative genius would create the prequels and CGI the thing like he did, but as a businessman...

 

The Sith in me claws at your comment in disdain and disgust at the ignorance displayed.

 

The me in me is just kinda high again.

Randy. I am the liquor.

So, you're saying you're inside of him?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lich59xsjik

 

0:38

what is even happening in this thread

Go do something crazy (and most likely stupid) with some girl and this thread will come back to life.

 

On a side note, I'm unofficially with my ex again.

Why did you split up in the first place, and what made you change your mind to go back with each other again?

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nasty double post:

 

 

Well..story time I guess? Just as a warning, I am kind of brain dumping here so it may or may not be coherent throughout. And most likely will be a tl;dr, but whatever.

 

Just as a precursor, I am younger than most of you (17), turning 18 this June; I do not think I am even close to "wise" or smart or whatever, I can be stupid, ignorant, selfish, fill-in-the-blank, on many occasions and you will see it often in my "tale", so just a warning. Haha. Oh, also I am home schooled (or was, since I graduate this coming 18th of May), so some of what I explain may sound weird or whatever, feel free to ask about that as well, if you want.

 

"Relationships" have kind of been an on/off thing for me my entire highschool years. However, in the first two years they were just utter lies (e.g. boy likes girl, girl likes boy, to young/stupid to know what to do and thus doesn't do anything about, thus wasting time and attention, blah blah etc etc). Anyways. I guess, relationship-wise, the complete story begins in..December 2011. Damn, it really was a long time ago, or at least it feels like it.

 

So, throughout 2011, I had been "interested" in this girl, let's call her Lynn, at the local co-op (homeschool-ese for a place were I took classes once a week, similar style to college, but easier). However, around June 2011, she told me that she couldn't "like" me anymore because she was dedicating her heart too much, etc. etc. - was a real [wagon]. So, we stopped talking for like a month-ish. On the 22nd, she suprises me with a few of my close friends and we go do something for my birthday. Was dull and the entire time we were trying to not be interested in each other, it just was a complete cluster[bleep]. But life moved on, I still liked her on-and-off for like 5 months, while she quickly moved on to 2 or 3 other guys.

Ok, fast-froward to December. We get in a big argument, and I entirely stop talking to her (finally grew a pair, or so I thought - in the long run this was a brilliant decision).

 

Meanwhile, one of my best friends, call him Andrew, asks me and one of my close-ish friends, call her Erin, (one of those friends who you don't see often but when you do talk/see each other you consider them a brother/sister, can tell them anything, you know) if we can help him pick out a Christmas gift for his girlfriend (conveniently Erin's bestfriend). So, we go to the mall, all is great and all blah blah, but Erin is acting all cuddly and just generally giving off indicators of interest.

 

My first thought is to be careful, seeing as I had just gotten out of a "relationship" (though it definitely wasn't a relationship, but I had an open position for a close female friend, if that makes sense), and to not rebound. So I essentially ignored it.

 

Over the next few months, because of that one shopping trip, Erin and I begin to talk more/hangout more. However, I was essentially oblivious to anything, and kept telling myself she could/wouldn't ever be interested in me and that I was in her friendzone (which I was for a time), overall just have a victimizing complex about it all, being stupid and [kitty]-like.

 

So it's now April, 2012. I have decided in my mind, regardless of if I'm in Erin's friendzone or not, I may as well try for it.

 

We are almost exclusively hanging out with Andrew and his girlfriend, the four of us (this should have raised my first warning flag), and one night when we're all hanging out and Andrew's girlfriend says something along the lines of "you guys need to just get it out and stop hiding it, I know you and Erin like each other" blah blah. Essentially stealing my thunder. To my surprise (and at the time happiness), I discovered she actually was interested in me. Anyways, so I had prom at the end of the month with a different girl besides Erin (she didn't have time/want to go, so I asked someone else), and thought it'd be weird to ask Erin out before that "date". So May 2nd after a prom, I asked Erin out (she said yes of course).

 

All is dandy. We're honeymooning quite hard (lots of time together, entirely "selfless" about what we both want, trying to please the other, you know the whole 9 yards). But within 2 months of us dating, the like outwardness of her "interest" in me was already beginning to dwindle (if that makes sense, like general enjoying being in my presence, seeing if I want to go places with her and her friends) - this was just an observation, personally I don't know if this was good or bad. Anyways, so it's the end of July now, and we are both invited to go on this one week camping trip with about 15 other kids around our age. We say what the hell, and go for it.

 

Here's were I realized how much she'd moved away. By the end of the week I literally wasn't even sure if she thought we were dating anymore (not breaking up with her afterwards = probably my biggest mistake). So, we get back from this trip and I immediately tell her we need to talk (because communication is good, right?). So we talk, blah blah, she says she was being a real [bleep] and didn't know how to act in all the different situations, I told her she wasn't being a [bleep] and general kissed ass, we made up and kept dating. Note to future me from past me: DO NOT DO THIS AGAIN.

 

So, this escalated quickly from here. Within the next month, I had alot of firsts (first boob touch, etc.). Blah blah, alot of physical testing (not knowing where our boundaries are with each other, etc etc). Our good friends, Andrew and his girlfriend break up, 2 weeks later Erin tells me she wants to spend the next few days not talking so she can think (lol few days). Like 20 hours later she texts me and tells me to come over the next day.

Next day, she breaks up with me.

 

Initially was expecting it, and didn't really care. Felt freeing.

 

A month later, the families we are connect with all have a big reunion/get away at a hotel in PA (it's November now) and I spend a weekend hangout with her and all of our interconnected friends. This is when things begin to hit, you know, the general time when you would be mad at your Ex and get a rebound. Well anyways, so the tension is quite high, and in it's now December, we are talking on a pretty frequent basis (probably texting every other day), and it's Christmas eve.

 

She, another friend of ours, and myself go to watch a movie at our friends house and she is all touchy-feely. Like way more than ever. She asks if I can drive her home, and I didn't want to be a dick, and so I did. She pretty much just breaks down as I'm dropping her off, and becomes a crying mess. I work it out with her and she leaves.

 

A week later it happens again, minus the crying mess part. A week after that she stops talking to me. No reason or explanation, just essentially ignored my existence. This continued until about February of this year.

In February I talked to her again and asked her if she'd go out with me, since I was tired of the bull shit emotional rollercoaster and wanted something that I knew was at least somewhat steady (since with us not dating I didn't know what was to far for me to do, etc). She says no.

 

Middle of March. I decide (thanks to some of the things you guys said in here actually) that I need to just stop talking to her entirely/be cold in conversations, etc. and essentially since then Erin and I have barely talked. On occasion, but not much.

 

Not really sure what to say now. But yeah.

 

tl; dr

shit ton of drama

insanely bipolar girl

boy puts up with a lot

boy is very selfish at times

boy and girl on/off like each other

girl on/off uses boy for emotional fulfillment

boy decides to ditch the bullshit

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Guessing he's referring to this, which answers the first part of your question if not the second.

We both were immature and still have loads to learn. Also we cannot be in a fully fledged relationship because we are both leaving for school in the fall and long distance sucks so we are building our friendship and just letting what happen, happen.

 

Have a date with a girl friday. She is much different than I guess what you'd call my "type." Still haven't determined if that is a good or bad thing lol. Will post the results.

Honestly, don't limit yourself to your "type" (ironic because it's really hard for me to be interested in girls who aren't my type), it's a good experience to test around, per se.

And back to the drains I go..

 

I really need to get some good and close guy friends.

And back to the drains I go..

 

I really need to get some good and close guy friends.

 

I'd be there for you with a cig and a brew.

 

 

I went to get my shirt and shit back from my ex's. Ended up smoking with her, and she told me it's "somewhere in the house" and would find it later. I know she has it. I know she knows where it is. She just knows if I get it back it's totally done. But it's my favorite shirt. And I can't ever let go of anything. So basically it's coming down to her or the shirt.

 

And right now I'm kinda feeling buying a new shirt.

Was on a date with a girl tonight and asked her the usual, "have you been dating much recently?" She talked about how she was recently ganged up on by three guys and started crying. Made me really sad. :(

constrictor: Lol, I was going to say "sorry to hear that" when you first posted you got back together. I guess I should've.

@Muggi: that's awful. Are you still in touch with her? Like with the guy who posted here a while ago saying his FB confided that she had been raped, I realize it's not your duty to help her (if there's anything you can do), but you know, she could really use the support.

Was on a date with a girl tonight and asked her the usual, "have you been dating much recently?" She talked about how she was recently ganged up on by three guys and started crying. Made me really sad.

Is it bad my first reaction was "attention [bleep]"?

Was on a date with a girl tonight and asked her the usual, "have you been dating much recently?" She talked about how she was recently ganged up on by three guys and started crying. Made me really sad.

Is it bad my first reaction was "attention [bleep]"?

Yes.

Was on a date with a girl tonight and asked her the usual, "have you been dating much recently?" She talked about how she was recently ganged up on by three guys and started crying. Made me really sad.

Is it bad my first reaction was "attention [bleep]"?

 

Yes...

 

constrictor: Lol, I was going to say "sorry to hear that" when you first posted you got back together. I guess I should've.

@Muggi: that's awful. Are you still in touch with her? Like with the guy who posted here a while ago saying his FB confided that she had been raped, I realize it's not your duty to help her (if there's anything you can do), but you know, she could really use the support.

 

It's one of those situations I hate being in where I'm torn between listening to my rational mind and my compassionate mind since they're both in disagreement. It was only a first date, as opposed to a girl that I "know." So I'll just see how things turn out with her. Gonna try hanging out with her again in a couple of days. It's not the kind of issue I want to bring up or discuss; not at this point, at least. If she was already a close friend of mine and/or she was ganged up on recently things would be a little different though.

@RPG a smoke would be nice.

 

Chin up - can't wait for college this fall. Will be nice change of pace.